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2022 and 2023

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Chemo successful!

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Looks like I'll be around for quite some time still. Chemo held the cancer back and my Oncologist is very pleased. He says I look very well and that the cancers are still very small. So I'll have some time off and then back on chemo. Blood tests every 2 months to check. His guess was that my prognosis is the same as last year, another 18 months is quite possible. Who knows, if things go well, maybe more. In any case I'll see 82, Christmas, and the inauguration of the next American president - two pleasant things at least! Doug Weller talk 16:43, 7 March 2024 (UTC)Reply

@Sirfurboy You remembered! Nah, we still have a lot. Doug Weller talk 17:44, 7 March 2024 (UTC)Reply
@Sweetpool50: Ha. Three things I'll see, only 2 pleasant. I shudder to think of what could happen with the presidency. Doug Weller talk 17:43, 7 March 2024 (UTC)Reply
So good to hear! Make the best of life. -- Valjean (talk) (PING me) 06:58, 8 March 2024 (UTC)Reply
  • That's the only news that has brought a glow to my heart today. Forget about setting your sights on catching the outcome of the McDonald vs Bidet rope-the-dope battle on Nov 4, 24, far too shortsighted. Think of the long term, and do us all a favour by hanging in here at least till Nov.4 2028. Best Nishidani (talk) 08:00, 8 March 2024 (UTC)Reply
Wonderful! Dronebogus (talk) 16:56, 8 March 2024 (UTC)Reply
Congratulations!! Fionaussie (talk) 01:35, 9 March 2024 (UTC)Reply
Awwww Doug, just read this about you and want you to know that it is very moving and I wish you all the best. There is a touching poem called Chemotherapy by Julia Darling that you might find a comfort to read, if you don't know it already. Take care x It is nice you have entranced into my life :-) The Nookster (talk) 07:51, 5 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
Liked the poem, hadn't seen it before. Doug Weller talk 10:24, 5 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
  • Wonderful news, Doug. Please do keep us updated. – Joe (talk) 08:22, 5 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
    @Joe Roe and The Nookster: Thanks but it didn't help as much as hoped, see below. Starting a different chemo, one I had between my 2 ops in 2022. Nasty stuff, weakens me a lot, hurts fingers', no cold drinks or food, pills dangerous to touch, takes quite a while to recover after the 3 months. Luckily I've got my diary from that time. Should have started last week but had to postpone as I need dental work which I can't have during chemo so getting it on the 4th of July, hopefully a good omen for this American! Still, I'll work through it even if I can't get back to where i am now. I hope to be around for at least another year. Doug Weller talk 09:47, 5 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
    Ah so sorry, I should read timestamps more carefully. I don't know if I've ever mentioned but I helped look after my dad through his (terminal) cancer and I can well remember how maddeningly up and down it was. I hope you have more good news to hear yet. – Joe (talk) 09:58, 5 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
    Hi Doug, thanks for the correction and update about where you are at. hopefully the 4th of July here in Britain with be a special day too! I will now being thinking of us getting a change of government and, more importantly you and your teeth :-) Take care. Hope the poems helps x The Nookster (talk) 10:12, 5 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
    Hey Doug, not sure where you're at in your journey these days, but I wanted to let you know (again maybe?) how much I've appreciated your contributions and comments here on the project. Just a smol gratitude while there's time. Folly Mox (talk) 17:57, 2 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
    @Folly Mox Many thanks. Update tomorrow when I see my oncologist. Still weak from chemo and my taste buds are a mess. Doug Weller talk 18:00, 2 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
  • Hi Doug. I noticed you hadn't updated us so I'm checking in to see how you're doing. I hope you were able to have something warm and comforting for the nausea, like hot cuppas or homemade chicken soup (there's a Thai ginger rice chicken soup I fall back on when I'm not feeling well). Have you recovered OK from the treatment? I do hope your prognosis is good. Best wishes, (Fionaussie (talk)) 19:03, 29 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
    User:Fionaussie Thanks. I'm feeling pretty well right now, much stronger physically and my wife says much stronger mentally. I see my oncologist first week of January and hopefully will get a prognosis. But it will be months, not years, I'm sure. But as I've said before, better the cancer than slowly and miserably dying of Parkinson's and being a heavy burden on my wife. Doug Weller talk 09:09, 30 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
    Doug, you are inspiring and that makes really happy. Stay tough ! Rsk6400 (talk) 13:35, 30 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
    Sorry Doug, it seems I got confused with the dates in this thread. So I'm striking part of my previous comment. But stay tough ! Rsk6400 (talk) 13:39, 30 November 2024 (UTC)Reply

Cancer update - being offered palliative care (chemo), incurable

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I'll see an oncologist in a couple of weeks to discuss chemo and to ask about my prognosis. Exercising as much as I can but mainly on my treadmill, 3 times a day for a mile so each time, only about 2mph. Calf muscles are the main problem, doing exercises prescribed by a physiotherapist. But not walking outside as the painful calf and thigh muscles don't go away and as I've twice had to stop and call for a pickup, safer to stay inside, especially with my Parkinson's. I'll soldier on! Doug Weller talk 16:05, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply

  • Sorry to hear that. Feel really bad that you are in this situation. Thinking of you. Andre de Guerin, aka "Conundrum" — Preceding unsigned comment added by 78.111.195.1 (talk) 08:22, 22 November 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Well, that sucks. I'm sorry to hear that. --Yamla (talk) 16:09, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Keep soldiering on, and know that lots of us here are rooting for you! --Tryptofish (talk) 17:02, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Very sorry to hear this - all best wishes. Johnbod (talk) 17:10, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Oh Doug. I dont have the words. Roxy the dog 17:11, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • God bless Doug, hope you know how many people are blessed to at least call you an internet friend, and Im sure many more offline. nableezy - 17:19, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, my best wishes in this journey. I'm not good at dealing with this shit. How I can identify with "the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak." We older dudes feel the pull of destiny, and it ain't pretty. Just make life comfortable. Don't overdo anything, even the exercise (and I'm a PT). Moderation in all things. You don't have to drink the whole bottle of OZV Zinfandel in one sitting, but do enjoy the finer things in life. Good wine, truffles, chocolate, books, movies, whatever. Now is the time to aim for quality, not quantity/longevity. Hang in there brother. Feel free to email me.
    When dealing with my own cancer ordeal, I often resorted to gallows humor. The staff in ICU and ER were especially understanding. I'd say: "I'm going to get "CC & DNR" tattooed on my chest." -- Valjean (talk) (PING me) 17:48, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • You will defeat this, Doug. Keeping you in my thoughts. GoodDay (talk) 17:51, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • And from another PT, now long retired; bless you Doug, and Valjean is right. Enjoy what life brings. Haploidavey (talk) 17:56, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Stay strong and hang in there, man. Sending you all the good vibes I can muster (hey, WP:FRINGE or not, it can't hurt, lol). Heiro 17:59, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Thanks for sharing this, Doug. Sorry to hear that. You're in my thoughts. ButlerBlog (talk) 18:13, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Sorry DW. Hoping for the best possible news at your next oncologist visit. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 18:17, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • I think it is most important at some point to just enjoy the moment as much as you can and to enjoy life in general as it goes on, without trying to determine how long it will go on for, since that determination is really out of our hands, no? In other words, the life we live, I believe, has to be good and enjoyable for a long as it goes on. That is the most important, in my view. Hoping this may help a bit somehow, I wish you also much strength and courage in the jouney ahead. warshy (¥¥) 18:33, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • What Tryp said. I was down in your ^former neck of the woods just recently for the first time as an adult. Got to see a wild alligator for the first time, along with some other fauna. Miami-Dade is one of the best places in the country for birds - I imagine you can see quite a lot out your window, compared to here in NY? At least here there's a zoo across the street. The only animal it has is a dog, though. It's a pretty shih-tzu. — Rhododendrites talk \\ 19:11, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
    Thanks. But I live in Derbyshire now, having gone to England in 1970 and not returning (except of course for vacations, family visits, etc. When I was a young boy there was a sub-tropical jungle behind the houses across the road, complete with possums, snakes, banyan trees, and of course alligators down by the Miami river. Played there a lot with a boy named John Christmas (whose mother was named Mary). Doug Weller talk 08:32, 27 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
    Was John any relation to Randy Christmas (probably too young to be John's father)? I remember that Randy Christmas had a daughter named Merrie. Donald Albury 15:56, 27 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
    I don't think so - I've done a search and there's no indication that he was. Doug Weller talk 16:48, 27 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
    Ah, sorry, I think I knew that but was thrown off by a userbox. Fewer gators in Derbyshire, I reckon. The banyan trees were incredible. The first one I saw was in Palm Beach, where they are ubiquitous and strangler figs make for ripe metaphor. :) As for Christmas, I know it was pretty uncommon then for women to keep their name when getting married, but Mary Christmas?? Hard no. Lots of names you can't have with that surname: Mary, Wyatt, Eve, Nicholas/Claus, Carol... There's a name I hear on Fox News every December, over and over. Must be a seasonal anchor or something: Theresa Warren-Christmas. — Rhododendrites talk \\ 21:14, 27 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I've so appreciated you sharing this part of your life with us. You've been in my thoughts and I'm sad to hear you're talking about palliative care. Whatever decisions you make in the days and weeks ahead, I know they will be ones that have been deeply thought through and which will reflect the way you've lived your life. I'm just glad that we continue to have your presence here onwiki. Best, Barkeep49 (talk) 19:22, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
    Barkeep49 has put it very well. Moneytrees below is also absolutely correct - amongst the very best of us. Girth Summit (blether) 11:52, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers Doug. I appreciate the gift of sharing that yiou are giving each one of us. MarnetteD|Talk 19:28, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Hi Doug Weller! Not much one can say in these situations that hasn't already been said and that hasn't already occurred to you (several Big Bad Words spring readily to mind...). Hopefully it'll be kinda nice to reflect on how many people are thinking of you and that in some way you've made a difference to all the people who know you personally, as well as to the Wikipedia project and to the rest of us who are used to seeing your edits while we're sorta amiably faffing around this neck of the woods. Big Virtual Hug, --Technopat (talk) 19:45, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • I cannot think of any better way to express my support than to second what Barkeep49 said. Whether your philosophy on cancer is to fight it, treat it like a chronic degenerative condition, or just embrace not-give-a-fuckism, please know that I and all the others commenting here support you and wish for the best possible outcomes. EvergreenFir (talk) 20:15, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, thank you for all the work that you have done for Wikipedia. Thank you for being willing to make tough decisions. Thank you for keeping us informed about your illness. Thanks for being you. Cullen328 (talk) 20:23, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • I can't find the words to express how the wonderful support from you all and others now and in the past has meant to me. It will help me sleep well tonight. Ironically the thought of cancer itself rarely affects my sleep, it's only the effect on others and right now wondering how I will be able to die with dignity - at a time I choose and where I choose that costs me sleep at times. In the UK you aren't allowed to die with dignity. So if I can't die at home with my wife I'm thinking that when the time comes - and I am going to try to make that a few years from now - I may be able to take one last holiday with my wife somewhere that I can die with dignity. Doug Weller talk 21:25, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I'm always glad to see your signature on a talk page or to find your name in a contribution history, however old, and that will carry on as long as I'm editing. Now you're giving us even more reasons to be grateful. I hope you take every holiday you want! Thank you. NebY (talk) 22:50, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • My best wishes. Keep up the good fight. Donald Albury 21:55, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I'm sorry to read this news. I hope you are able to have your wishes. I was always taught to get it in writing and to get a second opinion. I've also heard a lot of interesting things about the new treatments nowadays like CAR-T cells and immunotherapy, IANAD, but it's a shame and saddening to read this even without a lot of details. Anyway, we don't know each other well but I just wanted to say it's always been a pleasure to interact with you on here and I wish you the best, and will fondly remember your work on Wikipedia. Andre🚐 23:29, 26 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
Doug, I'm so sorry to hear about this. I'm hoping for the best, and I'm keeping you in my prayers. — Red-tailed hawk (nest) 01:03, 4 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
Doug, I'm also very sorry to hear this! Springee (talk) 16:08, 4 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
I don't know ya, but I'm very sorry to hear of this. If you do die, tell Stan Lee we miss him, aight? I like Astatine (Talk to me) 21:06, 14 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
I'm jealous of all the messages wishing you well. I hope one day I have such a big network of well-meaning people! My best wishes, Thinker78 (talk) 04:47, 25 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
So sorry to hear of this Doug. You were one of the first admins to help me out and guide me when I started taking an interest in contributing. In fact you might have been the first admin that I would refer others to if we disagreed or I was unsure what to do. I wish you all the best and keep fighting! GiggsIsLegend (talk) 16:40, 24 July 2023 (UTC)Reply
Hey there Doug, I just wanted to say I hope you have a good weekend - you helped me a lot this week, thank you again ^_^ Dyxtan (talk) 22:25, 29 September 2023 (UTC)Reply
@Dyxtan no problem, always glad to be of assistance when I can. Doug Weller talk 06:30, 30 September 2023 (UTC)Reply
Doug, please research and pick up a copy of the Book, titled "The China Study" I'm sure it'll help you learn more and get a better understanding about our relationship to food and diseases we suffer from. 174.81.53.148 (talk) 15:41, 11 January 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thanks, but sadly too late. Just got back from chemo, 2 more sessions and I'll find out if it helped. Doug Weller talk 15:50, 11 January 2024 (UTC)Reply
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  • The day you get an entry added to the "List of deceased Wikipedians" will be one of the saddest days this website will have seen in a long time. I hope whatever time you have left is free of pain, and that you are able to die with the dignity that you deserve. Thanks for everything you've contributed to Wikipedia over the years. Hemiauchenia (talk) 19:40, 27 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
This is really all I wanted to say to Doug too, but it is expressed by you here in much better form and style. Thank you! warshy (¥¥) 20:18, 27 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I see that you have about 70 subpages in your userspace, including a number of drafts in various stages. Is there anything in particular you'd like help getting finished and moved to mainspace? BD2412 T 22:55, 27 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Hi Doug. Like everyone else, I am very sorry to hear that. Wikipedia will be a poorer place when you have to go. Dudley Miles (talk) 23:23, 27 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, you're one of the editors I most respect, and seeing how your handling this makes my respect even greater. As has been said above, I hope you enjoy your life without pain and go on your own terms with dignity. ScottishFinnishRadish (talk) 01:01, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, devastating to read this, and I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said so well by other above. I've always found you to be a rock here on Wikipedia, and your tireless and immensely helpful efforts are very much appreciated. Jeppiz (talk) 01:35, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I wish you the best, and hope that you will experience as little pain as possible. starship.paint (exalt) 08:06, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I will never forget all the times you gave me support and advices in my previous iteration. Thank you for this and for making WP a better place. I can only wish you all the best. K. Lone-078 (talk) 09:41, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Run through a comprehensive list of expletives, dear Doug, and that will sum up my feelings on seeing this bitter news. I am deeply moved by your references to your wife. As many of us will know from experience, it is what we manage to say to each other, brightly under strain, in reviewing a shared past, that tasks our minds in such terrible situations. I am assured that in planning for what future remains (the months and years will be, ineludibly, seamed with an elegiac tone of finality), you will work to ensure that your spouse will have many more memories to add to those of your rich life together as you also find time, with your characteristic donative generosity, to patch with further quilts of tender recall the hard ledges of survival for the other victim here who will, prospectively, grasp for them if or when they find themselves forced to endure the icy rockface of widowhood.
Before posting this, I took a Persian nap (Herodotus), worried it might sound intolerably pompous, intrusive and rhetorical, rather than spontaneous. Two dreams, in one of which you figure as a lone archaeologist probing a dark desert for spoors of a lost past, and the other where you emerge as a Virgilian cicerone as I stumbled along native bushland. On waking, I thought ‘what the fuck’. Hang in there, whatever. As others have noted, remarkable things can crop up in science. There’s always hope.Nishidani (talk) 17:31, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
I'm not sure what a Persian nap is, but one thing I really want to give to Wikipedia is a new article (I have written only a handful at most) and have started a draft at User:Doug Weller/Racism in pseudoarchaeology. I'm getting tremendous help from some knowledgeable folks at the Facebook group Fraudulent Archaeology Wall of Shame. I've been putting this off for a long time but all the wonderful people above have made me feel I must get it done. Doug Weller talk 17:48, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
Herodotus 1:133. I can't give you a Perseus link because my main computer crashed weeks ago, and accessing anything from this minor one, antiquated but minimally functional, is nigh impossible. I'll bookmark that project and recommend to others here that they also do so and help where possible.Nishidani (talk) 18:01, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
Writing new articles is the most fun part of this project (and one that I don't spend enough time doing). This isn't in my area of subject-matter expertise, but let me be the first to volunteer if you want a second pair of eyes for copyediting, formatting and the like - just let me know. Girth Summit (blether) 18:27, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • So sorry to hear this. Best wishes, and keeping you in my thoughts. Thanks for all you have done and continue to do. DanCherek (talk) 20:56, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • I'm sorry Doug. Cancer sucks. ❤️ Sro23 (talk) 21:18, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, what a terrible thing to hear. I'm so sorry. It's said that a man never truly dies until his name is forgotten; yours will live on here in the memory of everyone on this project. With love, ♠PMC♠ (talk) 23:29, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I send you my best wishes, confident that you will find the strength, courage and capacity for clear thinking that you will surely need to deal with this, just as you already have in your invaluable contributions here. Best regards, Justlettersandnumbers (talk) 23:45, 28 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Nothing I could say feels adequate. But you will be greatly missed, and I hope you are able to find some measure of happiness in the time you have left. And if there's anything Wikipedia-related that I can help with, don't hesitate to ask. A. Parrot (talk) 18:45, 29 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • I've only just heard this news, Doug, and I am deeply sorry. 'Keep buggering on', as Churchill used to say when things were bad. Cheers - SchroCat (talk) 19:43, 29 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Jeez! All any of us can do is praise the work you've done here and (I suspect) elsewhere; and let you know how much it's been appreciated. --Orange Mike | Talk 19:49, 29 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • You will be in my thoughts and prayers, Doug. I remember that you were one of the first administrators I ever encountered. Scorpions13256 (talk) 22:10, 29 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Only just heard of this. A terrible situation but I know you'll face it with strength. Please take some strength from the rest of us. Reach out to the community if you need anything even if it's just moral support. Canterbury Tail talk 12:19, 30 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I felt the need the last few days to jump on here and get an update from you but the weather had not allowed for this. It has not diminished my thoughts towards you and as I was able to get on I came here to see this. My heart is heavy with the fact you are still suffering so much through pain in your body but I am inspired by your journey at the same time. Your courage, your strength, your tenacity are all indescribable. Your Song is such a beautiful melody and I believe there are lyrics yet to be written that will have such a lasting legacy and be inspirational to so many. That may be a Wikipedia article or perhaps your wisdom passed on to listening ears desiring to grasp on to the depth of knowledge you have accumulated throughout your life. One thing is certain. You have made a lasting impact and you continue to do so with every breath taken. My hope, my morning songs are for many more days of impact here with us. You are incredible as an editor and an amazing human being. You are an integral part of my daily thoughts. I am beyond honored to know you in even this limited capacity. I count it such a blessing to have even the smallest interaction with you. May my words be an encouragement to you like so many others mentioned here and may you find strength to continue "soldiering on" as you put it. I call it the Color Green, surviving, yes, but finding a way to thrive despite the circumstances. Take that and let it feed life into your Song. May the Color Green fill and flood you, my friend. --ARoseWolf 15:53, 30 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I have some experience of what you are going through. I have no words, except to say you are in my thoughts and I do hope things go better for you. As ever, David, David J Johnson (talk) 20:32, 30 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Love, peace, and comfort to you, Doug. - CorbieVreccan ☊ ☼ 20:53, 30 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Sorry to hear this Doug. Best luck anyway, things could be uncurable but still stay for very long. Just do whatever you find comfortable.--Ymblanter (talk) 11:49, 31 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Just saw this, and wanted to add my name to those who will be thinking of you, and hoping for the best. You're most definitely one of the best admins here, and I appreciate your keeping your hand in as much as possible. Beyond My Ken (talk) 14:04, 31 January 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I'm sorry to hear this. Stay strong, and I hope things go better for you. Tails Wx 21:31, 1 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • I'm so sorry to hear this, Doug. Sending my thoughts and best wishes as ever. ser! (chat to me - see my edits) 04:21, 3 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • So sorry to hear this news, Doug. I have no words, but wishing you peace and comfort, and know that you will be in my thoughts. Sirfurboy🏄 (talk) 16:25, 4 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Hi, I realize we've interacted under questionable circumstances, since I don't quite fit in to the culture here. But, you seem alright, and I wish you the best of luck that your circumstance permits (whether that's more years of life, or a painless, dignified end, whatever the fates decree). I should know what it's like to deal with a rare, deadly medical condition -- at least in my case, I've got a cocktail of meds to commute my would-be death sentence. Godspeed! Xcalibur (talk) 04:55, 10 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
    Thanks. May as much as 1 or 2 years if I am very lucky. Doug Weller talk 12:20, 11 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
    Very sad to hear all these! Am only praying to God for some sort of miracle! Take care. Ekdalian (talk) 07:34, 15 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Hang in there, Doug, and more than ever, do what gives you pleasure. I hope some part of that includes your contributions here–pretty sure it is–but take care of number one, regardless. I have benefited enormously from your thoughts and interventions in the past, and selfishly, I hope to do so still, for as long as is feasible. We all have a limited time left, we just don't feel it quite as keenly. Times like this make me think about it, though. You're much in my thoughts. Mathglot (talk) 02:07, 16 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • I admire your bravery in your battle against this horrific disease, Mr. Weller. Dronebogus (talk) 06:57, 16 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
    Mathglot, although I feel that agreeing is often a bit boring: I want to agree with you that we all have limited time left (if you can accept that, you are close to wisdom), and that I, too, have benefitted enormously from Doug's thoughts, interventions and example. Doug, in Cuba people often encourage each other saying "Ánimo !", meaning "Courage !". Rsk6400 (talk) 08:51, 16 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Dear Doug: I am saddened, of course, to hear the news that the cancer has proved incurable. I was hoping you would beat it, but illnesses are not privy to the hopes and wishes of humans from either near or afar. To carry on with equanimity and honesty in the face of life's exigencies is all we can hope for. That you seem to be doing not just with those qualities, but also creatively. All too often an off-handed mention of "real life," and usually just "RL," constitutes the sum total of our humanity we allow others to peek into on Wikipedia. All too often editors whose edits have given us a convincing, even inspiring, picture of the living breathing and feeling individuals they are, disappear anonymously from our presence. So, you have already bucked the trend. As an all too mortal human myself, I will look forward to reading whatever aspects of your journey you choose to share with us. As you must know, I have looked forward to your timely interventions on various archaeology or history-related pages on Wikipedia. You may not know that I have silently noted the pithy, no frills, language that has accompanied your interventions. For both, I offer my thanks and my admiration. Fowler&fowler«Talk» 15:54, 16 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Hello Doug, I am very sorry to hear this news. You have done much for this community and site, for which numerous people have shown how important you are to them. I hope that you and your family are doing well in such trying times. I hope things can change and get better. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. 3Kingdoms (talk) 05:02, 18 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Thank you for sharing this, and really sad to hear about it. Wish you a lot of love to share with your loved ones, and faith and peace of mind. May springtime be nice and wonderfull! Joshua Jonathan -Let's talk! 03:11, 19 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Came here to see if there were any updates, so sad when I realised what it was. Hoping for the best in whatever time remains and that whatever you decide to do comes true. My thoughts are with you and your family. Nil Einne (talk) 18:28, 19 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • :( ~~ AirshipJungleman29 (talk) 19:00, 19 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I waited way too long to finish writing this. You were one of the first admins I ever ran into on here, and an absolute paragon of what an admin should be. How much you care about this site and the time you've spent on it, has been an absolute blessing. And nothing can ever take that away from you. I am so honored to have been able to see you do that work, and hope many of us around here are able to take it forward. When I see a page that you were "watching over" (e.g. the only person (or one of few) responding to POV edit requests, keeping the article in good condition, etc.) I've been adding it to my watchlist. I hope others will do the same. I'm also so blown away by the poise and grace you're showing here, and in this announcement. Nothing about this is easy, I cannot even imagine how hard it is to think about or to write. And I just hope I can even approach that level of peace or grace if I get this sort of news. Thank you for everything you do around here, and thank you for continuing to be just an all around good guy. — Shibbolethink (♔ ♕) 15:46, 21 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I am so saddened to read this. I do hope that whatever may come, you have a strong support network of family and friends to guide you. You and yours are in my thoughts. RickinBaltimore (talk) 15:49, 21 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Sorry to hear what was inflicted you Doug, I hope you spend the rest of your time easy. Noorullah (talk) 08:59, 24 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • God bless, Doug. Praying for you. Thank you for being one of the bright lights on Wikipedia. If there is anything we or I can do, let us or me know. Love ya. Softlavender (talk) 02:12, 28 February 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, every single time I've seen your name it has been good. Thank you for your gracious and wise work for Wikipedia. Holding you in the Light, Clayoquot (talk | contribs) 18:07, 1 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, I stand in awe at all the work you've done. Above all, know that we all here care deeply for your wellbeing, and couldn't be any more grateful to have shared this space with you. A big hug to you and your wife as you go through this, and I dearly hope that your departure will be on your own terms, with dignity. But in the meantime, as Mathglot said, please put yourself first. You more than deserve it. DFlhb (talk) 20:10, 1 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Glad to see you are still editing! Appreciate all the work you have done here. Hoping for the best. utcursch | talk 19:51, 8 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Hello Doug. I am so sorry to hear that. Wish you all the bests. Sincerely, Hamid Hassani (talk) 17:18, 2 April 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Know that you are truly one of the great and good editors here; I have immensely appreciated your contributions. Wish the very best to you and your family, Huldra (talk) 23:48, 2 April 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Oh, Doug. You have given me the gift of knowing that this project really is a worthwhile endeavor, since it is clearly in the hands of some of the most incredible people, that I have never actually met in person (that I would have liked to, if at all possible). If it has to be about goodbye, well, then let it be among the very longest, and most painless, goodbyes that have ever occurred to anyone. Your admiring fan, StonyBrook babble 21:49, 28 April 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • I've only read this a few days ago along with all the excellent comments. Doug, I too noticed your excellent work on WP long before I finally created my account. Traces of your contributions seemed to be everywhere. At a moment when I had more time to dedicate to WP and finally heeded the recommendation of another editor to create an account, I think that you were the first administrator I visited to announce it. I'm less active here these days, but will never forget the joy of participating a bit with you on this project. Several comments above express better whatever more I could say. I'll still emphasise a point several of them make, about the importance of quality living, and the thanks for all that you've done here. I'm also glad that you allowed us the opportunity to share this: unfortunately there are editors I only could thank after they were gone. You're also one of those I sometimes check for recent activity and it's always a "yay" moment to see recent contributions. —PaleoNeonate – 13:03, 24 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Just learned, incredibly sorry to hear this. I appreciate you. Bruxton (talk) 16:48, 8 June 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Stay strong. We are all lucky to have you around, and we're all better for it, too. JoJo Anthrax (talk) 16:37, 11 January 2024 (UTC)Reply

I’m lucky, the 30% chance chemo would work includes me!

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As straight continuous chemo would impact my quality of life, I’m having a two month break, will be reassessed then. I want to keep up my 5 km a day on the treadmill! And going out occasionally with my wife on dog walks. Doug Weller talk 17:56, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply

And I might see who wins the next US presidential election! If I'm lucky. Doug Weller talk 18:11, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Best wishes DW!! I hope the chemo goes well and I hope you revel in the walks - even the ones on the treadmill :-) MarnetteD|Talk 18:19, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Doctors have to play safe and give the worst case scenario. If you really want to see who the next president is, you probably will (though the shock might send you into regression!) My wife has leukaemia and found the chemo was so interfering with her quality of life that she gave it up. That was four years ago and she hasn't regretted it, despite the inevitable restriction of her life-style. Enjoy everything you can with gratitude. Sweetpool50 (talk) 18:58, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
I am hoping for continued successes, Doug. You are an amazingly strong person and I appreciate you more every day. You inspire others which is an incredible gift. Keep walking the treadmill and going out with the wife and dog. Keep exploring life and paying attention to all the details around you. That has helped me through many, many difficult days. You are truly a Rainbow of vibrant colors and you leave everyone in awe at the beauty of your LifeSong. Bless you, my friend. --ARoseWolf 19:07, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Best of luck Doug. It's great to see that you are keeping strong. Dudley Miles (talk) 19:29, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
5k a day on the treadmill! What an inspiration! My wife complains that I spend far too much time on the couch reading, but really snoozing with the cat. This is the kick in the pants I need. Thank you Fowler&fowler«Talk» 20:30, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Someone has to beat the odds! Otherwise, there wouldn't be any. - Donald Albury 20:32, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Per Donald Albury. That news has made my day, no, my cold rainy Italian spring suddenly lighten with joy. Hang in there, Doug.Nishidani (talk) 20:41, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Great news! Keep going, but don't strain yourself is my advice. All the best, Johnbod (talk) 21:24, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Yes, that's wonderful news! And if I'm lucky, the upcoming election won't send me into fits. --Tryptofish (talk) 21:47, 25 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Great to hear. 5 km a day on the treadmill is impressive, that will is what keeps you going.;-) All the best, Carlstak (talk) 01:34, 26 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
This is mad inspiration for how to persevere through whatever life throws our way. StonyBrook babble 02:59, 30 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Your daily 5K is an inspiration! I feel positively lazy in comparison. All good wishes, Softlavender (talk) 03:25, 26 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
good karma Andre🚐 04:02, 26 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Great to hear this, bonne santé Ymblanter (talk) 20:48, 26 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Checking my watching after a couple of days and this section makes it all worthwhile; an oasis amidst the muck and bramble. Keep up whatever you are doing, Doug! Abecedare (talk) 21:01, 26 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Strength and power to you, Doug! Generalrelative (talk) 21:06, 26 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
A clover for you 🍀 – CactiStaccingCrane (talk) 06:14, 27 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
I too enjoy my 6/10,000 steps a day. Always thinking of you. Best regards, David, David J Johnson (talk) 16:21, 28 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
I hope there is a repeat of this, you were once incurable too! For what it's worth, there's not much confidence in the accuracy of the oncologist's prognosis. I hope that whatever the outcome, you will not think yourself as a burden, from each according to their ability, to each according to their needs! If this in some way influenced your decisions, it is good to reconsider. Sir Kenneth Kho (talk) 21:05, 5 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
If there is still hope for prognosis, I support balancing quality of life and prognosis, by planning the breaks and chemos. Cancer is a journey, there is no straight path. Sir Kenneth Kho (talk) 22:02, 5 November 2024 (UTC)Reply

Best wishes! Volunteer Marek 18:18, 28 May 2023 (UTC)Reply

Great news indeed! Best wishes, Doug Weller. You will definitely see who wins the next US presidential election! You are an inspiration; in fact, 5km a day inspired me as well! Ekdalian (talk) 06:05, 29 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
 Over the Moon for you..―Buster7 ☎ 05:10, 30 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
May songs
 
my story 30 May
Doug, you are an inspiration, and perhaps you - and your wife - like the music of our 6 May concert, Misatango and Te Deum, that we found inspiring. I received the link to the YouTube video last night - too tired to share then. I put it there and on my talk page.--Gerda Arendt (talk) 06:41, 31 May 2023 (UTC)Reply
Doug, assuming that the next US president will be elected in 2028, I really hope that you will see it. Your walking and your editing are an inspiration. Rsk6400 (talk) 10:07, 1 June 2023 (UTC)Reply
@Rsk6400 You might like this YouTube video: [1] - lyrics below the video. Doug Weller talk 17:28, 8 June 2023 (UTC)Reply
user:Rsk6400 not sure why the above didn't work. Doug Weller talk 17:30, 8 June 2023 (UTC)Reply
Another instance of keyboard ruining (see JMF's comment below) ! How did you know that "American Pie" is a favourite of mine ?   Rsk6400 (talk) 06:07, 9 June 2023 (UTC)Reply
@Rsk6400: The odds seem pretty good, but I didn't know it was. I see from the article on it that McLean finally explained the song, debunking some popular ideas. Doug Weller talk 07:41, 9 June 2023 (UTC)Reply
I am constantly amazed at what medicine can acheive. But even more amazed by what individuals like you who will fight to bring about the best possible outcomes can do. This is wonderful news, and I wish you the absolute best. - Bilby (talk) 10:24, 1 June 2023 (UTC)Reply
Just hearing about this now. Strength and healing go with you - keep kicking cancer's butt. Much love to you - Alison talk 18:20, 14 July 2023 (UTC)Reply
That's awesome! I hope you are doing as well as can be! EvergreenFir (talk) 18:23, 14 July 2023 (UTC)Reply
Thanks all. Still ok, doing 5k a day on my treadmill. Went out to eat with my daughter to a Vietnamese restaurant in Nottingham, lovely soft shelled crab. I’m guessing I’ll be starting chemo again next month. Doug Weller talk 19:38, 14 July 2023 (UTC)Reply
Good to hear, Doug! --Kansas Bear (talk) 20:03, 14 July 2023 (UTC)Reply
Good news. Stay positive and strong. --Mann Mann (talk) 03:20, 17 July 2023 (UTC)Reply
Hi Doug, this is good news. I've always respected your work as an admin and an editor, and your ability to inject good humour to cool down hot discussions. Best wishes. Mr Serjeant Buzfuz (talk) 22:49, 4 August 2023 (UTC)Reply
Best wishes, Doug! Sincerely, sam z. — Preceding unsigned comment added by 2607:FB91:1C78:896C:D14:E4BD:6832:BFD4 (talk) 03:08, 21 September 2023 (UTC)Reply
Even tho we haven't had many interactions, your contributions, compassion and commitment have truly served as one of the guiding beacons in helping me become a better editor. :) By the looks of the above signatures, I'm seeing this quiet late but I hope things have gotten better since then! Sending my thoughts and prayers to you and yours and thanks for being a wiki-role model! Best, Dan the Animator 06:14, 27 November 2023 (UTC)Reply
User:Dantheanimator that’s very kind. I feel stronger than I have for a long time but the cancer of course continues to grow, so three months of chemo soon. My experience wiyh it last time was good, no problems except hair loss. Doug Weller talk 18:54, 27 November 2023 (UTC)Reply
@Doug Weller I've not been around for a few years and I've come back and am really sad to hear this. You're a good person and I'm devastated that this is what you're dealing with. Wishing you peace and light. Babakathy (talk) 19:54, 25 December 2023 (UTC)Reply
@Babakathythanks very much. I feel ok, just started another round of chemo. Nice to hear from you. Doug Weller talk 21:43, 25 December 2023 (UTC)Reply
@Doug WellerStay strong !Try alternative medicine system like ayurveda. Rajeshfadnavis (talk) 06:00, 6 April 2024 (UTC)Reply
  • Doug, it's been almost a year since this update (apart from the small updates in your answers above); how are you doing now? Joshua Jonathan - Let's talk! 15:45, 9 April 2024 (UTC)Reply
    Agh,it's been archived. Another round of chemo ended about 6 weeks ago, stopping the growth. Which of course has started again, so more chemo in a few months. I don't know if the side effects will get worse, butmy prognosis a couple of months ago was 18 months. I feel ok, week but then I'm old!5 k a day on treadmill. Doug Weller talk 16:41, 9 April 2024 (UTC)Reply
    You are ever in my thoughts. Keep moving. Keep stepping. Keep walking. You are the miracle here Doug and I am thankful to see you on the project every day. Stay strong. Singing a song over you. --ARoseWolf 16:51, 9 April 2024 (UTC)Reply

    I don't even remember how I got to your talk page, but I just want to say I wish you all the best.

    If I may ask a somewhat morbid question: how do you want Wikipedians to deal with grief when you are no longer with us? HouseBlaster (talk · he/him) 17:12, 9 April 2024 (UTC)Reply

    People have mentioned this comment to me in an unrelated discussion, and I want to come by and say: I am deeply sorry for asking such an inappropriate question. It is a question my family often asks close family members, but I should have recognized that there is a significant difference between asking those you know well and random internet strangers on Wikipedia. It was not my intention to make you feel uncomfortable. There is not a whole lot I can say, so I will leave it at this: my sincere apologies. Best, HouseBlaster (talk · he/they) 18:42, 22 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
    ... And I am back one more time. The "unrelated discussion" was my RfA, and I want to leave a note saying I discussed this at User:HouseBlaster/RfA debrief (see User:HouseBlaster/RfA debrief#The Doug Weller diff). I did not say anything negative about you, but as I mentioned you I wanted to leave you a courtesy note. And again: I am deeply sorry for the question. Best, HouseBlaster (talk · he/they) 01:16, 16 July 2024 (UTC)Reply
    @Doug Weller - Keep fighting no matter what! Eat as clean as possible. Hoping and praying for the best! --Obenritter (talk) 22:12, 14 April 2024 (UTC)Reply
    @HouseBlaster I'd completely forgotten about this. I'm not sure why I didn't respond to your earlier response. It's an excellent question. I don't have an answer. I do know that if I had a lot of friends living near me, I would want to have a party before I died. I remember seeing a movie where a Shakespearean actress who was dying did this and I thought it was a great idea. But I don't know how to transfer it to Wikipedia. Do you have any suggestions? Doug Weller talk 08:35, 16 July 2024 (UTC)Reply

    I can tell you why you didn't respond – you are a busy guy :)

    What if you create a red link article and as a community we try to get it to FA, sort of like a potluck? Different editors can work on different sections of the article, sort of like a barn raising, bringing their own talents. Or perhaps your (talk page stalker)s have ideas? Best, HouseBlaster (talk · he/they) 03:47, 17 July 2024 (UTC)Reply
    @HouseBlaster: Nice idea, although I can't think of anything I'd want to create. In fact, a bit like your barn raising bit, that's the way Pinxton Castle was created. And it looks as though I, or rather we, found virtually all the sources, I can't even get it to GA, let alone FA. Doug Weller talk 08:55, 17 July 2024 (UTC)Reply

Editor of the Week

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  Editor of the Week
Your ongoing efforts to improve the encyclopedia have not gone unnoticed: You have been selected as Editor of the Week in recognition of your career of great contributions! (courtesy of the Wikipedia Editor Retention Project)

Editor of the Week members have submitted the following nomination for Editor of the Week:

It is with great appreciation that the members of the Editor Retention Project bestow the Editor of the Week award to Doug Weller, a scholar, a gentleman and the sort of Wikipedian we all wish we could one day become. One of the truly bright lights and inspirational editors in the WP community, Doug has faced his recent health diagnosis with his usual thoughtfulness and reason. He has made massive contributions over the years, especially as an administrator, helping to make Wikipedia a more trustworthy source by rooting out misinformation and vandalism. We will never be able to measure the strife he has saved us from, because one never notices the strife which never occurs. A perfect example of his commitment to WP is his welcoming of a new editor just a few days ago. Godspeed to you, good sir. A trusted, productive and helpful editor whose talk page is filled with thanks and well wishes from fellow editors. Thank you for the example, the kindness, and the things that we will miss.

You can copy the following text to your user page to display a user box proclaiming your selection as Editor of the Week: 

{{User:UBX/EoTWBox}}

Thanks again for your efforts! ―Buster7 ☎ 21:07, 23 March 2023 (UTC)Reply

I’m humbled and literally in tears. This means a lot to me. Without all the support I’m getting from the community I would be struggling. Doug Weller talk 21:19, 23 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
Thank you for your dedicated service and many varied contributions in different roles to Wikipedia. Your work is greatly appreciated. isaacl (talk) 21:29, 23 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
Well deserved! Generalrelative (talk) 21:32, 23 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
What a good description of Doug. He's instantly recognisable in that nomination. And thank you Doug. DeCausa (talk) 21:33, 23 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
You're a great asset to the project, Doug. You always have been. Part of your legacy is here, and it's all good. Guy (help! - typo?) 21:50, 23 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
Doug, you will always have friends here. Never forget that. HJ Mitchell | Penny for your thoughts? 21:57, 23 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
Well deserved! Donald Albury 00:25, 24 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
Congratulations! Thinker78 (talk) 03:51, 24 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
We haven't interacted much, but I wanted to add my congratulations and sincere thanks for all the work you have done and continue to do here. Editor of the Years without a doubt. Best wishes, Eddie891 Talk Work 13:24, 26 March 2023 (UTC)Reply
March songs
 
my story today

thank you for what you do! - fresh flowers for you and your wife --Gerda Arendt (talk) 21:38, 31 March 2023 (UTC)Reply

  • Agreeing with Dudley Miles' "Wikipedia is a much better place because of your contribution" - you really make a difference! Rsk6400 (talk) 19:50, 2 April 2023 (UTC)Reply
  • Long overdue for a man who for so many of us has set the gold standard for wikipedia volunteers, and indeed for his fellow admins. And thanks to the editor of the week team for summarizing Doug's presence here so eloquently.Nishidani (talk) 08:55, 3 April 2023 (UTC)Reply

Update on cancer

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Called in for scan earlier than expected. Seems although the growth isn't much it's concerning. Offered choice between nothing for a few months to give me a better quality of life or chemo soon, the type I had first which causes neuropathy so no cold drinks, ice cream, handling all the frozen food that fills our freezers, etc. Also probably make me weary so I should spend less time on treadmill and last time the last treatment (there are 4, 1 every 3 weeks + steroid pills, knocked me out for a while. I've opted for chemo, bad as it is, just hoping it might add a few more months! Luckily I've got my diary from then which might help me. I'm feeling great right now, stronger than for a long time. But I decided doing the chemo is a good way to fight it. Doug Weller talk 12:24, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply

I'm sorry to hear that. I wish you all the best in this difficult time! FortunateSons (talk) 14:40, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Wow Doug, I am really sorry to read this. My best wishes to you! You’re in my thoughts. Zanahary (talk) 22:10, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thinking of you and wishing you good days ahead EvergreenFir (talk) 02:42, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Your productivity and attitude continues to inspire me, Doug. Never give up. Hypnôs (talk) 00:43, 29 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Sending thoughts of love and care your direction today, Doug. May peace and healing find you. May all the colors surround you like a warm blanket emanating life essence into you. I dance to your Song once again, my friend. --ARoseWolf 15:30, 30 July 2024 (UTC)Reply
 
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Best wishes for strength for you and your wife! --Gerda Arendt (talk) 15:15, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
I am sorry to hear that. Keep fighting, and get the most you can out of your life. Donald Albury 15:53, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
All best wishes with it! Johnbod (talk) 16:11, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
All the best, Doug. Carlstak (talk) 16:58, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Day by day, buddy. Best wishes as always Nishidani (talk) 17:12, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thanks for the update. I'm glad that you are keeping on fighting it, and I'm glad that you are feeling great. --Tryptofish (talk) 21:29, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
I am sorry you have to go back to chemo. I hope it works. Dudley Miles (talk) 22:33, 24 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Stay strong Doug! Thank you for the update. Please keep your hands out of the ice cream, let it melt first before feasting. The very best to you, Netherzone (talk) 00:00, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
@Netherzone Yes, I don't mind melted ice cream if it's good ice cream. I can just drink it or use as a sauce for cake! Doug Weller talk 13:00, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
I found a variety pack of astronaut ice cream a while back for someone who loved the stuff. I'll see if I can send one to you if you tell me where to ship it. :) — Rhododendrites talk \\ 14:59, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
@Rhododendrites:Thanks, but it's cheaper to get in the UK than the postage from the US! Doug Weller talk 15:57, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Wishing you the best as you continue your fight, Doug! If you're feeling strong now, that's good for going into it from a high point. ButlerBlog (talk) 01:09, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Best wishes Doug. Johnuniq (talk) 03:23, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
I'll say now, I appreciate your time on Wikipedia. Do you have any more unfinished pages or projects? —DIYeditor (talk) 03:53, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
@DIYeditor: There's User:Doug Weller/Pinxton Castle, if you don't already know about that one. --Tryptofish (talk) 22:12, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Best wishes, hope everything goes well. Ymblanter (talk) 12:34, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
My family to your family: we wish you well and the best of days ahead. Thanks for keeping us up on your physical struggle. We are not merely accounts here. BusterD (talk) 14:19, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
$@#% cancer. Stay strong, hoping for the best you. Ravensfire (talk) 15:22, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Sorry to hear this, I know how draining chemo can be. Hope for the best, stay strong. -- LCU ActivelyDisinterested «@» °∆t° 15:56, 25 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
I wish you the very best in the tough time, Doug. I hope you get well anytime soon. Vanderwaalforces (talk) 10:08, 27 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, always in my thoughts. Stay strong. I have my latest scan on 7 June - always a bit of a worry. As ever, David, David J Johnson (talk) 11:28, 27 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
I'm sending you good vibes. Mason (talk) 23:00, 27 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
@David J Johnson I wish you all the best David, Please let me know the outcome, by email if you prefer. Doug Weller talk 07:08, 28 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
My best wishes for you. Gråbergs Gråa Sång (talk) 06:40, 28 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, you have always personified for me everything that is good about this place. Your enthusiasm for life is addicting—an absolute inspiration. I wish you and yours all the joy in the world! You are The Wikipedian. StonyBrook babble 04:34, 29 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
You're a very strong person, Doug! I'm glad you made this choice but would have completely understood if you'd opted for the easier route. As always, you set a brilliant example for the community. Generalrelative (talk) 18:24, 30 May 2024 (UTC)Reply
Hey man, I hope you get better and beat cancer! GamerKiller2347 (talk) 08:00, 1 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
I didn’t read this until just now. Yeah, you are an absolute inspiration and a brilliant example for the community. Rsk6400 (talk) 18:41, 3 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
Wishing for a good health, Doug — DaxServer (t·m·e·c) 11:51, 10 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
Averaging 20 edits a day for the Month of June is a very good sign. Makes me smile. Buster Seven Talk (UTC) 04:01, 18 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
@Buster7 Thanks, you've made me smile! Doug Weller talk 06:51, 18 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
Best wishes Doug. Hawkeye7 (discuss) 00:00, 19 June 2024 (UTC)Reply
Cheers! InedibleHulk (talk) 05:00, 20 June 2024 (UTC)Reply

Sorry to hear about this. Jus noticed this thread. I have prostate cancer myself. I lived through radiation and chemo and steroids for 5 years with variable success until last fall when I was given 2 years of expected life, they suddenly found a miracle cure for me and now I am on great progress. So my advice is not to lose hope. Take care. --Altenmann >talk 16:42, 20 August 2024 (UTC)Reply

Sounds like a horrible experience. Really pleased they found a cure! I’ve got boring Stage 4 colorectal cancer. A major liver op left a bit behind and I’ve got some in my lung. Doug Weller talk 18:30, 20 August 2024 (UTC)Reply
Dear Doug, Many thanks for the update. As always, fingers and toes crossed for you. Stay strong. I have my next scan scheduled foe late Dec/early January. Susie sends her best, as ever; David David J Johnson (talk) 15:52, 14 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
User:David J Johnson Good luck. I'll have a scan about that time also! Doug Weller talk 16:14, 14 October 2024 (UTC)Reply

No prognosis today but chemo shrunk my liver cancer

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My consultant is off sick so I couldn't get a prognosis, only that the chemo has worked. I'm very glad for obvious reasons and hated it, 2 weeks after my last pills I'm still weak and just as bad my taste buds are affected so a lot of food is inedible. Hopefully a prognosis next Thursday. Doug Weller talk 16:59, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply

This is fantastic news Doug. I did think about asking for an update last week, but felt it might be too forward of me. Good luck for Thursday! Knitsey (talk) 17:06, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Congratulations that things are going the right direction. I feel your pain on taste. It was months after treatment until root beer tasted right for me.
I hope your strength returns soon, be careful with your balance.
RCSCott91 (talk) 17:07, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Months! I hope not for me. I’ve also got Parkinson’s but that is under control plus I did some balance work with a YouTube video from British Columbia Parkinson’s so I’m pretty good with balance. Doug Weller talk 17:37, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
It sucks, still remember losing my normal sense of taste. My spouse swears that seeing me staring with sad eyes at an open bottle of AW root beer was the point that the entire medical situation truly became real for me. I was working full time during part of my recovery after treatments, hopefully you are in a place where you get the rest that your body needs.
Once this is all behind you, that metallic tinge will disappear, your taste will return and so will your strength. It's just miserable but you're gonna get through. RCSCott91 (talk) 00:02, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I just ordered some Virgil's root beer to see how it tastes now! Doug Weller talk 10:29, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
['[User:RCSCott91]] It tastes delicious. Glad I bought it! Doug Weller talk 10:23, 9 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I know this is incredibly unpleasant but hang in there. The medical advances in oncology in recent years have been astonishing. Prayers... -Ad Orientem (talk) 17:11, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Yes, not sure if I’d accept more chemotherapy though, it’s a balance with quality of life. Doug Weller talk 17:39, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Glad to hear it, my friend. Good luck!. ScottishFinnishRadish (talk) 17:11, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Hooray! I hope the prognosis is good news. --Yamla (talk) 17:15, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Glad to hear partial good news, looking forward to more good news next week. Floquenbeam (talk) 17:16, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
So good to hear; hope you now gain a bit more strength, a lot more taste and a prognosis that confirms even more strongly that you made the right decision - unsurprisingly! NebY (talk) 17:49, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
That's good news! Joshua Jonathan - Let's talk! 18:10, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
That is good news. Hoping for good news in terms of prognosis and that the difficulties you endured are worth it. I hope you can regain your strength soon! ButlerBlog (talk) 19:02, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Hope this is the first of many good news. You are a very important member of our community of practice. Do you know about Bruckman's book? After explain your contributions and pointing this discussion to my wife she says: "Send hugs from Brazil to him!" Ixocactus (talk) 19:28, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
@Ixocactus No, never heard of her book. Why? Doug Weller talk 14:53, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Because generally you suggest a lot of interesting readings. This is an very interesting book about WP and I suppose that you knew it. I learn on it about our community of practice. About the successfull management of online communities she quotes (p.25): “... how to welcome your visitors, instruct your novices, reward your regulars, empower your leaders, and honor your elders”. Watching you over the years, I see that you have played all these roles. You are now a honored elder. Thank you for the good examples. Stay strong. Cheers! Ixocactus (talk) 23:16, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Great. It looks as if you will be helping us on Wikipedia for a long time yet. Dudley Miles (talk) 19:35, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Good news! Stay strong Doug! --Kansas Bear (talk) 19:52, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
That's made my day, and I hope augurs well for your next year. Best as always, pal. Nishidani (talk) 20:06, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, that's excellent news, and I'm happy for you. I think it's a credit to your superb strength of character that you are, after all of this, still doing those balance exercises. Please know that there are so many people here who are thinking of you! --Tryptofish (talk) 20:54, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
User:Tryptofish Mainly doing about 4 or 4.5 km on my treadmill at 2.7km per hour. Doug Weller talk 14:50, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Great news! cheers, Huldra (talk) 22:57, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Congrats, Doug! NoobThreePointOh (talk) 22:58, 3 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Hey, if the liver is working well, then quick, have too much wine while the conditions are right.   Mathglot (talk) 00:08, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug Weller strong! Carlstak (talk) 01:07, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Great to hear - stay strong! Ravensfire (talk) 04:42, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Good news, stay strong Doug. Denisarona (talk) 06:14, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Wonderful news Doug! Johnuniq (talk) 09:48, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Sorry to hear you're going through this, but grateful for the positive news. =) Currently trying to help my elderly mother navigate ovarian cancer and it's a daily challenge. Will keep you in my thoughts! —Locke Cole • t • c 14:55, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I'm really sorry you have to go through these painful moments, I was not aware of that. Hopefully, you will fully recover. Thinking of you. Good luck.---Wikaviani (talk) (contribs) 15:15, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Good news. Stay strong. Best wishes. --Mann Mann (talk) 23:38, 4 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I hope everything will work out fine.--Ymblanter (talk) 06:53, 5 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
oh hey BC Cancer. Glad to hear they have gotten you some time. Elinruby (talk) 17:39, 5 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Sending you warm wishes, Doug. You're an inspiration. Generalrelative (talk) 17:50, 5 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
That’s excellent Doug… you’re the GOAT 🐐 🐐🐐🐐!!! Best wishes going forward. Moneytrees🏝️(Talk) 20:58, 5 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Take courage ! Stay strong ! Rsk6400 (talk) 16:12, 9 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Well, not too bad news. Await further news and always in my thoughts. I have further round of scans scheduled for late Dec'24 or early January'25.

As ever, David, David J Johnson (talk) 15:57, 14 October 2024 (UTC)Reply

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I've been having chemotherapy which would have made this Christmas, which will be my last, really terrible. My oncologist has agreed that I should stop the chemo, which is a relief and hopefully I'll get stronger in the next few weeks. The bad news is that we are talking months, not years. I need to be clear that I am resigned to this. And I certainly don't want to be a long term burden to anyone. Doug Weller talk 14:41, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply

Hope your last months will be good to you. I will keep you in my prayers. GrayStorm(Complaints Dept.|My Contribs.) 14:49, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I no longer have access to my account, but I wish you a peaceful next few months. You were the first administrator I ever encountered. 2603:6013:5CF0:260:29B0:2F85:D69:2EE1 (talk) 14:52, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I'm sure you and your family will make the most of the next few months Doug. You've absolutely done the right thing for yourself and the family. I hope things ease up now you've stopped the chemo, and you can concentrate on the time you have. You've been an inspiration to this lowly, newish editor. Knitsey (talk) 16:07, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, you are model and mentor to many of us here. I truly hope you have a wonderful Christmas and New Year. May your remaining time be joyous and peaceful. EvergreenFir (talk) 16:19, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thank you for all the help you've given here over the years Doug. I know you've definitely made working here easier for me at times. Enjoy the time that you have. KoA (talk) 17:24, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
One gets these approximate warnings. My partner lasted another four years after stopping chemo, then a secondary cancer took them out. Naturally you'll be missed eventually, but the important thing is staying positive. Sweetpool50 (talk) 17:36, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I am very sorry to hear that and hope you last longer than you expect. You no doubt have many achievements, although the only one I know is your massive contribution to Wikipedia. Dudley Miles (talk) 18:37, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Enjoy your life and family as much as you can. To repeat the quote from Warren Zevon that appeared on the Main Page today, "enjoy every sandwich". Donald Albury 19:10, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
You have so much to be proud of, in your exemplary contributions to Wikipedia, and in your exemplary courage in real life. I'm happy that your quality of life will be better. --Tryptofish (talk) 20:07, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Sorry to hear this news, but I hope stopping chemo gives you some relief and quality time with the people you care most about. Thank you for all the generous contributions you've made and keep making to this project. Yuchitown (talk) 21:33, 30 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I don't know what to say, Doug, except thank you for all you've done for WP. It's a gift to the world. I'm sure you'll make the best of the time you have left, and all the best to you—you've made a difference. Carlstak (talk) 00:33, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Roses, smell, repeat. And thanks for making this joint a better place than it otherwise would be. JoJo Anthrax (talk) 02:18, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Echoing others here; I hope your remaining time can be more pleasant and that you have a good holiday season. Thank you for everything you have done. Elli (talk | contribs) 02:20, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Enjoy your last few months, Doug. You have been great on Wikipedia, especially with the suggestion to change my talk page notice discussed at the Teahouse. Thanks for everything. PEPSI697 (💬 • 📝) 02:39, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, I have so much admiration for you as a person, editor, administrator. You have worked hard to make this world a better place, and your work for the encyclopedia has been stellar. You have done this with kindness and generosity. Thank you for being such a great teacher to so many of us here. May you be comfortable and surrounded with beauty, and those you love. Netherzone (talk) 02:50, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
wishing you the best, and hoping when my turn comes I show 1/10th the class that you have. Floquenbeam (talk) 04:56, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
This site, and indeed this world, is richer for having known you. I hope the next few months are joyful for you. ser! (chat to me - see my edits) 11:14, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thank you for sharing this and thank you for all that I've learned from you. You were the first administrator I had any interaction with and I have learned so much along the way. Your work here is appreciated by so many members of the community. While I'm sure you have made the world a better place elsewhere, there are many of us here who only know that you've made Wikipedia a better place for your work here. Thank you for that. I wish you the best and hope that the holiday season is a fine one and that you regain your strength to enjoy and experience each and every day to the full. ButlerBlog (talk) 12:53, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I'm very sorry to hear that. Like I said the last time, I'll be keeping you in my thoughts. I hope you do get stronger and have a great Christmas. And New Year. ᛗᛁᛟᛚᚾᛁᚱPants Tell me all about it. 12:56, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
You are fortunate. Ok, nobody wants to get cancer. But, we all must die eventually. From a pragmatic stand point, you are quite fortunate. You've gotten to live a long, long life. Cancer absolutely sucks. The silver lining is you get a chance to say goodbye, and people who love you get a chance to say goodbye. Making a choice to go off chemo to achieve quality of life with what time is left is a hard choice to make, even if it makes logical sense. I hope the days you have left are good days! I can't say any of us will be remembered by name on this project 10 years after we leave it (and we all must leave eventually). I can say some of us have a positive impact that will be felt for a very, very long time. Yours is inarguably among those. --Hammersoft (talk) 14:34, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
User:Hammersoft That's very kind. There is an other silver lining. I've got Parkinson's. If I didn't die from cancer I would slowly deteriorate in mind and body and my loving wife would have her life taken over by caring for me, even when she was too old to do it. Doug Weller talk 14:54, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, in the last year, your model of behavior (your "witness" some might say) has made an enormous and positive influence on my life. As I suffer a minor indignity or a visit to MY doctor's office, I keep in mind how Doug chooses to take it on. You stayed with us and made yourself not only useful, but also a meaningful example to others. You didn't just "go away" as some of our fellows must needs do. You seized the day. We have never met, Doug Weller, but you have changed my life for the better, through your many continued and fine contributions to the pedia, especially these to your talk page in the last year. I love you, brother. I am better for knowing you. I will not forget you. BusterD (talk) 15:03, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Apologies for that, Doug. We really hope you can recover quickly. If not, we'll wish you well. We pray you won't ahem... die. I know, I didn't want to say it, since it is quite rude, but again, we're hoping for your recovery. No matter how many years pass, we won't forget the hard work you've done for us. Thank you for being a part of the community for years, Doug. NoobThreePointOh (talk) 15:04, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
God bless Doug, all of us, and basically every reader on Wikipedia, are in your debt and will remain so for as long as this website is around. I'm sure out in the real world your impact has been even greater, and the people who have gotten to know you and call you a friend are among the luckiest people in this world. nableezy - 15:38, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Fuck my enforced retirement for this. As you know, I'm pagan to the core. That didn't stop me, when my wife lay dying and had memory problems, from saying, with devotion, her prayers for her at her bedside. Pagans simply don't have an adequate vocabularly for this, so I can only say, heartfeltly, God bless, dear friend.Nishidani (talk) 16:48, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
Damn. Please recover well. Your a huge help to a lot of people. And remember to Enjoy every sandwich. Good luck with your cancer's future, Doug. Babysharkboss2!! (Hardwired!) 16:59, 31 October 2024 (UTC)Reply
I hope whatever time you have left is free of pain and that you are able to die with the dignity you absolutely deserve. Seriously, thanks for everything you've done over the years. Hemiauchenia (talk) 03:15, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I know we haven't interacted much, but thank you for everything. ❤HistoryTheorist❤ 03:18, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Achhhhh. Sorry to see this. So sorry to see this. Qwirkle (talk) 03:18, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Best wishes to you. Be strong, keep fighting! —tim ///// Carrite (talk) 03:33, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Belatedly joining others in expressing my deep respect for how you have faced and fought cancer while finding time to continue to work here, my great sadness that it's come to this, and my hope that your remaining days—however many—are joyful and peaceful. Yngvadottir (talk) 08:54, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I am happy to have volunteered and to continue to volunteer along side you at this project. I think Wikipedia's positioning as a bulwark against nonsense is due in no small part to your constancy in making sure we don't go beyond the best sources. jps (talk) 11:51, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
May your last months be full of peace and joy, and thanks for everything you have done for en-wp. Jip Orlando (talk) 13:13, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Goodness. Thanks for letting us know Doug, I hope that you are able to enjoy the time you have left, and draw some solace knowing your wife won't be left caring for you with your Parkinsons's. I also hope you know how much admiration so many of us around the world have for you. Girth Summit (blether) 13:18, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Respect, mate, so much respect. May the wind under your wings bear you where the sun sails and the moon walks. ~~ AirshipJungleman29 (talk) 13:24, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I'm really overwhelmed by these kind words - and literally in tears. Thank you all. It's fantastic to have a legacy. Doug Weller talk 13:52, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
May your edits be enduring. BusterD (talk) 13:56, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I don't interact much with other users here -- and I don't usually remember who I interact with -- but I recall some pleasant encounters with you. One of the things I've thought of advocating is a survey to see who is the oldest (in age) editor of Wikipedia. You'd be close. And so would I. Smallchief (talk) 14:59, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
@Smallchief: The oldest I know about, who is unfortunately no longer with us, was the aptly named BeenAroundAWhile, who was aged 90. Doug, I hope you can have a comfortable final innings; you deserve it. Graham87 (talk) 16:34, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thanks. Smallchief (talk) 00:05, 2 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, you'll be remembered as a fair admin and a good person. You will be missed by all. Please consider using this time to be with your loved ones as much as possible. Iggy pop goes the weasel (talk) 16:40, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I don't know you, and we never had any interaction with each other AFAIK. But I'm seeing some people here that I highly respect appreciate your presence among us and be saddened by what you're going through and I can only afford to feel the same — 🧀Cheesedealer !!!⚟ 19:19, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Not just a legacy but a legacy to be damn proud of. Glad you'll be able to enjoy some higher-quality time with loved ones (and sandwiches). All this talk of sandwiches makes me remember two great sandwiches I haven't had in years. I don't eat bacon anymore, but I remember loving this buffalo mozzarella, bacon, avocado, and lettuce on some kind of toasted freshly made bread. Had it at some fancy restaurant in Boston ages ago. Blew my mind. Then there was the "Tempeh Tantrum" at a vegetarian place in Raleigh -- marinated tempeh, pesto mayo, [fake] bacon, avocado, and lettuce on sourdough. Didn't even know what tempeh was the first time I ordered it. Both restaurants have long-since closed. Is it common to have strong sandwich-based memories? :) — Rhododendrites talk \\ 21:16, 1 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Absolutely. I remember a bocadillo de pulpo (octopus sandwich) I had at some no-name place in Malaga 38 years ago; octopus sautéd in olive oil with garlic on fresh bread. Oh man. If chopped barbecued goat with bones-in slapped between two pieces of white bread counts as a sandwich (the bread was only to hold the meat together and sop the sauce), then Ed's barbecue in Gainesville, Florida, served one of the most memorable sandwiches ever, especially if you ordered it with the "nuclear" sauce (pronounced "nukuler" in Southernese). We'd drive an hour and half to get some. Carlstak (talk) 02:53, 2 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thousands of people contribute to Wikipedia but very few will match Doug. Thanks for your many years of dedicated service. Johnuniq (talk) 02:43, 2 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, I'm so sorry to hear this. You've truly left a big impact on Wikipedia and I've admired you for years at this point...thank you for everything. ~ Tails Wx 05:19, 2 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thank you Doug. We'll light a candle for you. Andre🚐 15:02, 2 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I'm reminded, Doug, of a tribute I read to Bertrand Russell in the Journal of Philosophy. I was sitting in a library in the mid-1970s, when leafing through the journal, I happened upon it. I still remember the last paragraph, which was a quote from Russell's own, A Free Man's Worship of nearly 70 years before: "From that awful encounter of the soul with the outer world, enunciation, wisdom, and charity are born; and with their birth a new life begins. To take into the inmost shrine of the soul the irresistible forces whose puppets we seem to be--Death and change, the irrevocableness of the past, and the powerlessness of Man before the blind hurry of the universe from vanity to vanity--to feel these things and know them is to conquer them."
I thank you, Doug, for your fight, for your honesty, for your acceptance, and for showing us the way. Although I am some kind of neo-Darwinist myself, I like to think that we will all meet again from time to time, perhaps in the mists of the Rift valley where our human enterprise had begun a long time ago. I wish you all the best, and I thank you again. Fowler&fowler«Talk» 21:48, 3 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
We love you, Doug. You've attained a real legacy, as the history of this page shows. Moneytrees🏝️(Talk) 01:32, 4 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
This is hard news. May you be blessed and supported by the love of family and friends as you prepare to enter the next room. I will light a candle for you in church. -Ad Orientem (talk) 01:44, 4 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Dearest Doug, Not the best news. You are always in my thoughts and I'm still routing for you. Please keep us all in the frame. My next tests are next month - will keep you informed. As ever, David. David J Johnson (talk) 17:10, 4 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Sounds like the right choice - quality not quantity. All the very best, Johnbod (talk) 04:17, 5 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, I wish you a peaceful, graceful and happy exit. For all the good you have done, wishing you and your family all the best. starship.paint (talk / cont) 15:29, 5 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Thanks for sharing this with the community. You mean a lot to a lot of us. BTW: Hoping for good news from your home country on 11/6 (or some days later). Rsk6400 (talk) 19:33, 5 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
All good and all blessings to you, Doug. Gråbergs Gråa Sång (talk) 21:49, 5 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
we've had scant interactions but you've been ever-present as long as i've been editing. thank you for your contributions, and happy holidays <3 ... sawyer * he/they * talk 21:51, 5 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
+1 to everyone else. I hope you have a good last few months. QuicoleJR (talk) 16:51, 6 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
 
Sad to know you'll go... Joshua Jonathan - Let's talk! 20:29, 9 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Just noticed this now. Hope you're holding uo OK in the circumstances. This place wouldn't be the same without you. Simonm223 (talk) 11:48, 28 November 2024 (UTC)Reply

Really sad to hear those bad news, you are one of the best admins I ever interacted with here, on Wikipedia. I keep you in my thoughts, may God bless you.---Wikaviani (talk) (contribs) 22:31, 5 November 2024 (UTC)Reply

Doug, I remember you said earlier that you wanted to see what ended up happening in the US elections. Oh well, sorry it wasn't better news. --Tryptofish (talk) 18:26, 6 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Terrible for America and the world. Doug Weller talk 18:38, 6 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Indeed. Just so. --Tryptofish (talk) 18:47, 6 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Since my Wikipedia hobby is writing biographies on obscure activists, I come across a lot of people who died in the darkest hour. It's a melancholy thing, to wonder what they thought about it. I suppose you don't have to wonder any more. But I can tell you what I wish I could tell all of them: the dawn really does come after all, here and in the next. -- asilvering (talk) 19:38, 9 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I haven't watched or read the news anywhere since 9pm-ish last Tuesday when a sinking feeling set in. (Eight years ago I had recklessly taken out a bottle of champagne ...)
Although I bought my first book from Amazon in June of 1994, when I thought it was a bunch of wild women selling books out of a garage in California, I cancelled my subscriptions to Amazon prime and Washington Post. And if I had had a Tesla, I would have driven it into Charles River. I'm seriously wondering if large swathes of the US have become preserves of misogyny. Across the pond the culture might have been luckier. Elizabeth I, Mary (of W&M), Victoria, Elizabeth II, might have tempered unbridled maleness and paved the way for female prime minsters. Fowler&fowler«Talk» 21:23, 12 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Sorry to hear this, but sometimes things come out better than predicted.--Ymblanter (talk) 09:55, 7 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I'm sad but not surprised to see this—it's remarkable that you've held out this long. I've said this before, but your support when I was starting out as a serious Wikipedian meant a great deal. I know we didn't interact all that much, and what interaction we did have was mostly businesslike, but whether or not I did enough for you to consider me a friend, you were a good friend to me. Your dedication to Wikipedia, and to combatting the relentless tide of misinformation in this world, should be an example to everyone. I know I will keep you in mind as long as I'm on Wikipedia, which I intend will be as long as I am able. I hope you have all the joy you can in the time you have left. A. Parrot (talk) 15:31, 8 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Just saw this, I had no idea - I know it's been a while, but your contributions and insight were always appreciated. You know you'll be missed! Opabinia regalis (talk) 07:35, 9 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
User:Opabinia regalis Thanks. As you say, it's been a while. It's great to hear from you. Doug Weller talk 17:47, 9 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Almost four miles—that's damn good, Doug. Carlstak (talk) 18:56, 14 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Great news, Doug. You made my day. --Tryptofish (talk) 22:21, 14 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Delighted to hear Doug, long may you reign as one of the most authoritative and widely respected editors on wiki. Ceoil (talk) 23:38, 14 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Congratulations Doug. Some of my friends would struggle to do that. Dudley Miles (talk) 13:32, 15 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
Doug, I've only just seen this and I don't really have the words, other than to express my admiration for how you've dealt with this situation over the past years. I hope that however long you have left with us is as fulfilling and comfortable a time as the circumstances allow. Thanks for everything - you really have set the standard in so many ways. Cordless Larry (talk) 20:06, 27 November 2024 (UTC)Reply
I just learned about this from another editor's talk page and am deeply saddened. We haven't interacted in years, and I doubt you remember me, but I do remember you from my early days when I did NPP and AV stuff, and am sorry to hear you probably won't be with us much longer. I'm guessing you aren't religious—few Wikipedians are—but hope it means something to you that I will be praying for you. —Compassionate727 (T·C) 19:32, 12 December 2024 (UTC)Reply
We all love you. Swiss romulus (talk) 15:10, 15 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

Very painful to hear what you are going through and what you have gone through. Life is so unfair. BTW, you are a hero and are loved.LukeEmily (talk) 14:39, 24 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

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could you perhaps look into what has gone on at the Enneagram of Personality page today, primarily in its History section? (Asking because in an earlier season, I was impressed by your work in various contexts.)

We believe that the initial and repeat carte blanche reversions were too easy of a response, and threw baby out with the bath. We have no opinion on larger matters at that article—we simply found gross misuse of sources, and rampant WP:OR. We are now accused of editorialising, and of OR ourselves, which simply staggers us.

We won't further egage the reverting editor, as we see no point. But the article is not better for having been returned to its earlier state.

[To start, look for the quoted word "remedies" in the appearing Wiltse citation (you will not find it—to aid in checking that, here is a URL for that, not in the article). And then look to see if the citation of the "Brandon Medina" source, a blog (actually by author = Medina, Brandon), does not in fact point to a source that states the opposite of what the reverted article now again suggests. From our perspective, the scholarly unraveling proceeds from there.]

It is our view that our original edit, which was subsequently accepted by a registered editor—as the article is protected—should have been allowed to stand for its having two votes (ours and the approving editor that moved it from Pending to appearing). At very least, apart from the deeper merits of the edit itself, we do not believe our edit should have been reverted by a single editor overriding those two approving votes. We suspect bias against us as non-registered editors.

Surely, some editing of our product should follow; we expect this. But a full reversion that returns the errors that existed before our edit—we suggest such a course was the poorest of options, for the sake of article quality. (Easy yes; justifiable and best, no.) Our edits were not vandalism, were not editorial, and were not WP:OR (contrary to the claim in the brief reverting edit summary). They were good faith edits to improve compliance with WP:VERIFY—and to call attention to already present, earlier appearing WP:OR.

There is no reason of substance that bold edits cannot be made by an IP editor, if the edits are fully explained and justified. Ours were. And there is no cause of editors in response, to take the easiest route, and discard all edits because not all are aggreeable. The encyclopedia is not the better for heavyhanded responses against capable, sincere IP editors, which we believe is what is on exhibit here. Cheers. 71.239.132.212 (talk) 05:26, 19 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

"We won't further egage the reverting editor, as we see no point." - That's actually where you need to be starting. Our dispute resolution policy expects you to discuss the difference of opinion with the reverting editor before next steps. Follow WP:BRD as a course of action before escalating a dispute. Discuss it via the article talk page. (Also, I'd recommend smaller initial edits. It's easier for discussion.)
There is no reason of substance that bold edits cannot be made by an IP editor - I don't see where MrOllie said they were reverting you because you were an IP editor. Don't be quick to presume that was the reason. Likewise, no one said your edits were not made in good faith. Just because someone thinks it is editorializing and/or OR does not assume bad faith. Just stick to the facts as they are. ButlerBlog (talk) 16:38, 19 December 2024 (UTC)Reply
@Butlerblog I assume COI as the IP says
“some editing of our product”. Doug Weller talk 16:55, 19 December 2024 (UTC)Reply
Ahhh... I totally overlooked that. That sounds very likely, indeed. (Truth be told, I was just trying to head this off lest you be bugged unnecessarily with such things during the holiday season.) ButlerBlog (talk) 17:27, 19 December 2024 (UTC)Reply
@Butlerblog. Appreciated Doug Weller talk 18:39, 19 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

Merry Christmas!

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~~~ Merry Christmas! ~~~
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Hello, Doug Weller! Thank you for your work to maintain and improve Wikipedia! Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
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SEASON'S GREETINGS EVERYONE!

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May your homes be warm with joy and your hearts be filled with happiness this holiday season whatever you celebrate and even if you don't. Sorry, it would take forever to post to everyone's talk page! Doug Weller talk 14:14, 22 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

Joyous Season

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I wish that you may have a very Happy Holiday!   Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Hogmanay, Festivus or your hemisphere's Solstice, this is a special time of year for almost everyone! May the New Year provide you joy and fulfillment! Thanks for everything you do here. Gråbergs Gråa Sång (talk) 16:31, 22 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

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Gråbergs Gråa Sång (talk) 16:31, 22 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

Special seasonal greetings :)

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  Merry Christmas and a Prosperous 2025!

Hello Doug Weller, may you be surrounded by peace, success and happiness on this seasonal occasion. Spread the WikiLove by wishing another user a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, whether it be someone you have had disagreements with in the past, a good friend, or just some random person. Sending you heartfelt and warm greetings for Christmas and New Year 2025.
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Season's Greetings

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  Season's Greetings

When he took up his hat to go, he gave one long look round the library. Then he turned ... (and Saxon took advantage of this to wag his way in and join the party), and said, "It's a rare privilege, the free entry of a book chamber like this. I'm hoping ... that you are not insensible of it."

(Text on page 17 illustrated in the frontispiece in Juliana Horatia Ewing's Mary's Meadow and Other Tales of Fields and Flowers, illustrated by Mary Wheelhouse, London: G. Bell and Sons, 1915.)

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Happy Holidays:

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Ekdalian (talk) is wishing you a Merry Christmas! This greeting (and season) promotes WikiLove and hopefully this note has made your day a little better. Spread the WikiLove by wishing another user a Merry Christmas, whether it be someone you have had disagreements with in the past, a good friend, or just some random person. Happy New Year!

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Merry Christmas from the Bishonen conglomerate!

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    Bishonen | tålk 13:40, 23 December 2024 (UTC).Reply

Joyous Season

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I wish that you may have a very Happy Holiday!   Whether you celebrate Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa, Hogmanay, Festivus or your hemisphere's Solstice, this is a special time of year for almost everyone! May the New Year provide you joy and fulfillment! Thanks for everything you do here. ~~~~

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Greetings of the season

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~ ~ ~ Greetings of the season ~ ~ ~
Hello Doug Weller: Enjoy the holiday season and winter solstice if it's occurring in your area of the world, and thanks for your work to maintain, improve and expand Wikipedia. Cheers, Spread the love; use {{subst:User:Dustfreeworld/Xmas3}} to send this message.
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Happy Holidays

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LukeEmily (talk) is wishing you Happy Holidays! This greeting (and season) promotes WikiLove and hopefully this note has made your day a little better. Spread the WikiLove by wishing another user Happy Holidays, whether it be someone you have had disagreements with in the past, a good friend, or just some random person. Happy New Year!

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LukeEmily (talk) 14:27, 24 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

Happy Holidays

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  Merry Christmas and a Prosperous 2025!

Hello Doug Weller, may you be surrounded by peace, success and happiness on this seasonal occasion. Spread the WikiLove by wishing another user a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, whether it be someone you have had disagreements with in the past, a good friend, or just some random person. Sending you heartfelt and warm greetings for Christmas and New Year 2025.
Happy editing,
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Abishe (talk) 21:47, 24 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

Happy Holidays

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Hello Doug Weller: Enjoy the holiday season and winter solstice if it's occurring in your area of the world, and thanks for your work to maintain, improve and expand Wikipedia. Cheers, Garuda Talk! 19:23, 25 December 2024 (UTC)Reply

 
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