Life Lessons (From Regina Brett)
Life Lessons (From Regina Brett)
"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the ! lessons li"e ta#ght $e% It is the $ost&re'#ested col#$n I(ve ever written% )y *+ersonal, odo$eter rolled over to 90 in -#g#st, so here is the col#$n once $ore.
/% 1% 5% % !% 8% 9% :% 9% /0% //% /1% /5% / % /!% /8% /9% /:% /9% 10% 1/% 11% 15% 1 % 0i"e isn(t "air, b#t it(s still good% When in do#bt, 2#st ta3e the ne4t s$all ste+% 0i"e is too short to waste ti$e hating anyone%%% 6o#r 2ob won(t ta3e care o" yo# when yo# are sic3% 6 o#r "riends and +arents will% 7tay in to#ch Pay o"" yo#r credit cards every $onth% 6o# don(t have to win every arg#$ent% -gree to disagree% Cry with so$eone% It(s $ore healing than crying alone% It(s O; to get angry with <od% =e can ta3e it% 7ave "or retire$ent starting with yo#r "irst +aychec3% When it co$es to chocolate, resistance is "#tile% )a3e +eace with yo#r +ast so it won(t screw #+ the +resent% It(s O; to let yo#r children see yo# cry% Don(t co$+are yo#r li"e to others% 6o# have no idea what their 2o#rney is all abo#t% I" a relationshi+ has to be a secret, yo# sho#ldn(t be in it% >verything can change in the blin3 o" an eye% B#t don(t worry? <od never blin3s% Ta3e a dee+ breath% It cal$s the $ind% <et rid o" anything that isn(t #se"#l, bea#ti"#l or 2oy"#l% Whatever doesn(t 3ill yo# really does $a3e yo# stronger% It(s never too late to have a ha++y childhood% B#t the second one is #+ to yo# and no one else% When it co$es to going a"ter what yo# love in li"e, don(t ta3e no "or an answer% B#rn the candles, #se the nice sheets, wear the "ancy lingerie% Don(t save it "or a s+ecial occasion% Today is s+ecial% Over +re+are, then go with the "low% Be eccentric now% Don(t wait "or old age to wear +#r+le% The $ost i$+ortant se4 organ is the brain%
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@o one is in charge o" yo#r ha++iness b#t yo#% Ara$e every so&called disaster with these words (In "ive years, will this $atterB( -lways choose li"e% Aorgive everyone everything% What other +eo+le thin3 o" yo# is none o" yo#r b#siness% Ti$e heals al$ost everything% <ive ti$e ti$e% =owever good or bad a sit#ation is, it will change% Don(t ta3e yo#rsel" so serio#sly% @o one else does% Believe in $iracles% <od loves yo# beca#se o" who <od is, not beca#se o" anything yo# did or didn(t do% Don(t a#dit li"e% 7how #+ and $a3e the $ost o" it now% <rowing old beats the alternative && dying yo#ng% 6o#r children get only one childhood%% -ll that tr#ly $atters in the end is that yo# loved% <et o#tside every day% )iracles are waiting everywhere% I" we all threw o#r +roble$s in a +ile and saw everyone else(s, we(d grab o#rs bac3% >nvy is a waste o" ti$e% 6o# already have all yo# need% The best is yet to co$e% @o $atter how yo# "eel, get #+, dress #+ and show #+% 6ield% 0i"e isn(t tied with a bow, b#t it(s still a gi"t%"