Case Studypresent
Case Studypresent
Submitted to :
Mrs. Dorothy Paneda
I. Introduction
The Author,
Ruffa Mae B. Montallana
2. Teachers
Its also important for the teachers. Its for them to know
what are the problems of their students. If the teachers know
about the problem of their students, I think they will be helping the
students including me. Even though some teachers doesnt trust
the other students that are deserving, I think most of us are
treating them with full respect, and of course we should trust
them. The teachers may know the problem of their students by
reading this book. They can help us by simply showing us that
they appreciate our existence in the class, even though the others
doesnt want to cooperate with the discussion. I know the feeling
of the others that doesnt cooperate by reciting their own
thoughts, the others that really doesnt care about the certain
topic, and the others that are really shy to talk in front of the class.
I include myself to those who doesnt want to talk in front of the
whole class, but trying hard to cooperate by listening.
3. School
4. Everybody
It's important for the person who has the same problem.
Everyone needs to communicate to others in personal. Let say for
example that you haven't eaten and doesn't have much money to
buy, and there's a good samaritan who asked you join him/her to
eat and you just ignore him. Then it became that the victim is you.
So, as we were talking about why is it important for everybody, it's
important because most of everybody can help the victims of the
problem. They can help by guiding and supporting the victim, they
can always talk to them, for the victim to get rid of the feeling of
having a real conversation with others. Here's a quote You've got
to stand up and do your own battles. My daddy taught me that a
long time ago, that you fight your own battles. The only way to
shut everybody up is to win. from Terry Bradshaw
Problem Behaviors
"Problem behavior is behavior that is socially defined as a problem, as a source of
concern, or as undesirable by the social and/or legal norms of conventional society
and its institutions of authority; it is behavior that usually elicits some form of social
control response, whether minimal, such as a statement of disapproval, or extreme,
such as incarceration." Richard Jessor
http://www.colorado.edu/cspv/problembehaviors.html
What Is Shyness?
Shyness is an emotion that affects how a person feels and behaves around others.
Shyness can mean feeling uncomfortable, self-conscious, nervous, bashful, timid, or
insecure. People who feel shy sometimes notice physical sensations like blushing or
feeling speechless, shaky, or breathless.
Shyness is the opposite of being at ease with yourself around others. When people
feel shy, they might hesitate to say or do something because they're feeling unsure
of themselves and they're not ready to be noticed.
C. Definition of Terms
Psychology - is the study of mind and behavior. It is an academic discipline and an
applied science which seeks to understand individuals and groups by establishing
general principles and researching specific cases.
Behavior - the way in wA term introduced by the psychologist Carl Jung to describe
a person whose motives and actions are directed inward. Introverts tend to be
preoccupied with their own thoughts and feelings and minimize their contact with
other peoplehich one acts or conducts oneself, especially toward others.
Unconscious mind - consists of the processes in the mind that occur automatically
and are not available to introspection, and include thought processes, memory,
affect, and motivation.
Neuroticism - is a fundamental personality trait in the study of psychology
characterized by anxiety, fear, moodiness, worry, envy, frustration, jealousy, and
loneliness.
Self-consciousness - is an acute sense of self-awareness. It is a preoccupation with
oneself, as opposed to the philosophical state of self-awareness, which is the
awareness that one exists as an individual being; although some writers use both
terms interchangeably or synonymously.
Incarceration - the state of being confined in prison; imprisonment.
Phenomenon - A phenomenon, is any thing which manifests itself. Phenomena are
often, but not always, understood as "things that appear" or "experiences" for a
sentient being, or in principle may be so.
Extrovert - Psychology. a person characterized by extroversion; a person
concerned primarily with the physical and social environment (opposed to introvert).
Psychology. to direct (the mind, one's interest, etc.) outward or to things outside the
self.
Awareness - is the ability to perceive, to feel, or to be conscious of events, objects,
thoughts, emotions, or sensory patterns.
Introvert - A term introduced by the psychologist Carl Jung to describe a person
whose motives and actions are directed inward. Introverts tend to be preoccupied
with their own thoughts and feelings and minimize their contact with other people
Back to the old days of mine, I'm living quietly opposite as today. When I was
in my grade school years, I'm a very talkative child most of my batch mates know
me because I am very friendly back then. All of my teachers know me, some of them
are giving me some task to help them, like to remit the money to the canteen, check
the test papers,teach and guide my classmate who doesn't understand the lesson,
and list all the noisy in the classroom. Maybe the teachers know me because I
always recite to their subjects. Since grade 1 until grade 6, I am always at the top 10
list on our class.
Well, back then I describe myself as a little bossy(erase the little) I always
command my classmates somethings like I'm a boss, I know they can't resist me
because I'm the teacher's favorite. I studied on a public elementary school where
there are many bad students. When I was in grade Iv, I met Rujane, she's one of my
closest friend now. Back then, I really hate her because she's always making fun of
me everytime the teachers not around. Bully physically like slapping my arms,
pinching me, she always doing that because we're having a fight through word,
though she's hurting me physically. And because of that we became good buddies,
we did bullying our classmates. I initiate her bullying skills, though I know that it's
not good. I did bully one of my friend like pushing her, causing her to fell down on
the fence. My conscience is killing me but there's Rujane comforting me by saying
Hey, it's okay its not your fault. . We became good friends till some teachers
separated us from each other when we come to the sixth grade.
Well that's my past childhood, I'm looking to it like it was an adventure movie
of mine of course I'm the protagonist.
B. Adolescent
During my adolescent life. Let's start on the first year of high school. It was a
semi private school, so a lot of students were expected. I'm a late enrollee so they
include me on the second section out of 17 sections. Even though I expected to be
on the first section cause I know it's based on grades, but I'm a late enrollee. The
first section had 30-40 students while the others have 60-70 students, there was a
lot of students from different elementary school. That's the start of the problem. I'm
asking myself how to be friendly, how to socialize with others, how may I going to
start a conversation. So many questions in my head that I can't answer each of it.
That's the day I decide to be shy to others, to be shy on my classmates, to my
friends. I barely recite, that's the reason why I got a 77 grade on one of my favorite
when I was in elementary, that was mathematics. That's the very first time I got a
grade like that in my whole life, so I feel down about it. So I barely talk and show my
feelings, I become shy and quiet.
On second year on high school, Rujane was one of my classmate. When I saw
her, I don't know what to say, I'm shy and I don't know why, so I ended up ignoring
her. Maybe she noticed it so she confront me first, and boom, were friends again. We
had a lot of friends unlike on my first year, we don't like we did before, I became a
good student One of my closest friend is Geraldine but I call her dindin.
Third year high school was fun than ever before. I became a fangirl of an
KPOP stars like SNSD. They are my favorite, they become my inspirations I guess.
Once again, I become friendly, a noisy one, a talkative one, in short a naughty one.
I'm always talking about KPO, the names of SNSD members were always coming out
of my mouth. Maybe I influent my seat mates , then they become my circle of
friends, a very close friends, we are nine actually, and they treat me as the leader,
which boost my confident again. Some of them are my best friends until now, they
are Karen and Jonalyn. I'm calling the Yuri(Karen) and Sica (Jonalyn), that's based on
their bias member in SNSD and they also called me TaeYeon (TeYon), the leader of
SNSD/Girls' Generation. I miss the, a lot , our crazy moves, the moment we were
singing korean songs, that everyone except us don't understand. In short our group
was the noisiest group in our class. Well as a leader I influenced them to study hard,
even though we;re hard headed, so 6 of us are on the top 10 in the class, I'm on the
third spot, the first two were not on my group but they're my friends. Until on the 4 th
year 5 of us passed the average limit to become a section one students.
Rujane and I became clasmates again, were seat mates actually. Then there
goes again shyness on my body, because of the thoughts that I'm going to socialize
on th every smart persons in our school. I barely talk again, I feel sorry about my
friends because they barely recite too, I think I influenced them again, hoping not to.
But that was my last year of my high school, so I cheer them up. We have a lot of
friends again but not so close as the third year. I had a lot of fun that year, we just
enjoy our last year that were together, and of course we studied hard.
C. Turning Point
As of now, with the fact that I'm from different place and city. I think I'm going
to have a hard time to socialize with others. I'm from Cavite, and we speak straight
in Filipino and Tagalog. But here in Pangasinan, they speak another language, which I
prefer to be hard to learn their accent. Some of my classmates were making fun of
me during the first week of school, they're asking me questions during language and
I can't talk back because I don't know how to, so they ended up laughing at me. Well,
I just ignore them, even though inside of me want to shout and slap each of them to
make them shut, but I didn't because I'm an educated person and I know how to
control my behavior. After that scene, I barely talk to them, I don't want them to be
my friends anymore. I'm going to treat anything about it as a past.
Right now, I have new friends. They treat me well as a good friend, we're
happy if we're always together. We share some stories about ourselves. That's it, we
share the good times, I mean we also don't forget to study hard when it comes to
examinations. And that's the kind of friends is what I am looking for.
Ostensively, I'm enjoying their hobnob and consort. I feel at ease with my
new friends because I know that we have the same perception in life, and that is to
study very hard , even though it's doggedly when it comes in studying. Although
most of the time, I'm in my self problem , not deciding whether I'm going to recite/
report in class because I'm really shy. I hope, I can gain my self-confidence again
when I'm with them.
A. Baseline Rate
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B. Intervention
What causes shyness
The causes of shyness have not been demonstrated adequately to justify any firm
statements on the issue. However, shyness experts identify as possible causes (a)
genes predisposing a person to shyness, (b) a less than firm attachment bond
between parent and child, (c) poor acquisition of social skills, or (d) parents, siblings,
or others harshly and frequently teasing or criticizing a child.
What's good about shyness
Shy children tend to engage in significantly less social misbehavior than other
children. This may occur because shy children care so much about what others think
of them.
What's bad about shyness
Shyness experts vary in their views about whether childhood shyness leads to
mental health problems later. However, the practical and emotional problems caused
by shyness are apparent. As a practical matter, shy children obtain less practice of
social skills and develop fewer friends. They tend to avoid activities, such as sports,
drama, and debate, that would put them in the limelight. Shy children tend to be
perceived as shy, unfriendly, and untalented, and they tend to feel lonely and have
low self-esteem and a higher than average level of gastrointestinal problems . Shy
children tend to become anxious teens . Shy adults tend to have smaller social
networks and to feel less satisfied than others with their social support networks .
Many shy individuals think of their shyness as a significant problem that hinders
them in myriad ways . Fortunately, some individuals act less shy as they become
older . However, even these individuals may regret their prior shyness, thinking
sadly of the social opportunities they missed.
V. Implication
Individual may have the possibility to be shy or to have an unconscious behavior.
But it can be prevented by taking the advice from the previous chapter. If you take
that advice you will overcome that problem and have another chance to live
peacefully without a doubt.
You will have a reason again to have a good time and be happy without having a
hard time thinking what to do as along as you have a true and good friends or
relatives that will stay with you even though you're not going to force them.
New Behavior