Esaimen Abah
Esaimen Abah
I love you so
much. Jangan nak kwaja tunang esok. Lempang karang. Btw I miss my tucen
techik :(
Gadgets have become the first thing we touch in the morning and the last
thing we stroke at night. Are they taking over our lives and causing us to lose
human contact with each other? Gadgets provide easy access to satisfying your
needs. They help you feel connected to the world at large, they feed you
information assuring perceived growth, they provide variety, allow you to contribute
and to receive acknowledgements from others. And the best part you participate
on your terms: whenever you like, wherever you like, as much as you want.
However, I agree that technology can be huge relationship killers. Technology might
be just as addictive as alcohol and drugs and could also wreak havoc with personal
and work relationships. Often a small tiff may turn into an ugly fight leading to
break-ups simply because the conversation between couples is not verbal but
through text messages. An extra exclamation mark may be misinterpreted as anger,
sarcasm or a sign of disrespect.
Why dont we try to learn how to learn from our mistakes? Come up with
some ways to learn how to learn from your mistakes. They do not have to be ground
breaking solutions but one that will help us from our mistakes. One way we can do
this is by making sure to think about what we did wrong the first time and changing
it to a way we believe will help make us succeed and reach our full potential. We
can also ask others in our life who witnessed our mistake and ask them how they
believe we can change what we did the first time. A great example of learning from
mistakes is on a situation where a child was trying to grab a hot iron - no matter
how many times you stop the child from grabbing it the child will continue until you
let him burn his hand; and he is a child at age 5. Learning by failure taught he many
things in that situation such as red metal is hot and will hurt him but more
importantly that his mother was trying to protect him from hurting himself.
Although we all make errors, no one ever intentionally sets out to produce
such an error (to do so would be to be successful). This detection and correction of
the gaps between what we intend and what we produce is a form of problem
solving. One set of criteria for judging the success of our problem solving efforts is
the extent to which the problem is solved, it stays solved, and the relationships
among those involved are not harmed. Any behavior which limits our effectiveness
as problem solvers, which limits our ability to detect and correct these gaps, can be
interpreted as incompetence. We are incompetent when we behave in ways which
limits our learning about our effectiveness, when we behave in ways which shut
down inquiry. We are competent when we keep the inquiry going.
In conclusion, mistakes help us learn the existing theory of life between good
and bad. Sometimes, a mistake may seem too good to approach it or it may be too
dreadful to even dream about in your wildest dreams. The theory above is
exclusively mine, which I learned from a big mistake that was related to the field of
education. This is the only phase in human life, where we fall to the pressures and
rise above them learning what is the best for us. Hence, I believe in learning from
our mistakes. Many things cannot be taught conventionally or are better learned by
messing up the first time. If you dont make mistakes, youre not working on hard
enough problems. And thats a big mistake. - F. Wilczek
Today our workplace and neighborhoods are composed of people of
diverse backgrounds. For this reason it is important for people to find
ways to get along with each other. Write an essay explaining how people
in diverse background can get along better.
Studies show that the lack of cohesion between races, sexes and cultures is
due to mistrust, stereotyping, and more within-culture conversation and language
problems. When these problems are not paid attention to it may lead to an inability
to endorse ideas, the inability to gain agreement on decisions, and inability to take
united action. In the educational system it is very important that there is a wide
array of diverse groups in the classroom. It is important to have a diverse student
body, not only to create a realistic setting but also to encourage people to grow
outside their boundaries and learn something new about a culture they may not be
familiar with. By accomplishing this in the classroom you can avoid child
unawareness and actually enlighten them about other things that go on around
them with people they may be friends with or know.
Hence, for all the reasons we identify, and countless others, the potential for
conflict is always present when two or more humans live close enough to permit
interaction. Thus, there are two choices; to find a civilized way to peacefully coexist
and constantly work towards this goal, or to fight at every opportunity with each
other. The former is a constant struggle with imperfect results and success is
determined by trust rather than might. There have been many wars where a choice
was made to opt for destruction rather than work for peaceful coexistence.