Chapter Saint Gregorios of Parumala
Chapter Saint Gregorios of Parumala
Respect to Teachers
Whenever Mar Gregorios visited his native village(after becoming a church
dignitary)he would send for his ‘Guru’(teacher) and offer gifts to him. He used to respect
his guru to the extend that he would not even sit in the presence of the teacher!
Rev.Fr.Geevarghese Malpan of the Chathuruthy family was Geevarghese’s
uncle (father’s brother). The Malpan was an authority in Syriac language, and as
he recognized the outstanding and divine qualities of Kochaipora, decided to teach
the boy the Syriac language. Since the boy could sing very well , it was an
advantage in learning Syriac .Geevarghese Malpan saw in the young Kochaipora,
his successor(as a Malpan). So he started teaching the boy the Syriac language ,
and Kochipora very soon picked up the language and its music scheme.
2. Ordination
Kochaipora who grew up under the care of Geevarghese Malpan could attract
everybody towards him by his exemplary qualities. His interest in spiritual matters,
sincere devotion, great humility unquestioning obedience, and above all his ability
to sing Syriac devotional songs sweetly were greatly appreciated by Geevarghese
Malpan; and it was his desire to raise his illustrious disciple to priesthood. He
revealed this desire to Mathews Mar Athanasius of Palakkunnathu, the Malankara
Metropolitan of that time. He also ensured the willingness of the family members
of Kochaipora, for this purpose. Accordingly the boy Geevarghese was initiated
into priesthood, being ordained as “Korooyo” at Karingachira church on the 14th
of September 1858.
Student of Theology
In those days theological education was not organized as it is now. Students
used to stay with Malpans and undergo theological training. Deacon Geevarghese
following this tradition stayed with Geevarghese Malpan, along with other
students and continued his education. Printed books were few, and students used
to copy from books and learn. Deacon Geevarghese was in the forefront in
learning and devotion .As a disciple of the Malpan, the young deacon completed
his priestly education. But this exemplary teacher-disciple relationship was
destined to be short lived.
Small-pox was spreading at different parts of the country at that time
.Geevarghese Malpan also contracted the dreaded disease in 1865.When the
disease was confirmed, all the students were sent home, except Deacon
Geevarghese, who decided to stay on and nurse his teacher. All treatments failed
and the Malpan soon breathed his last.
Within a few days Deacon Geevarghese, who nursed the Malpan, also contracted
the epidemic. And it is said that the small pox which he contracted was a rare and
dangerous variety called “Kanakakalloori”. Having learnt about the deacon’s disease,
his mother’s sister, Mariam, came to nurse him; and it was a great relief to him.
However the deacon was praying all the time. When he was very ill and extremely
weak, he had a vision of St.Mary. He saw her standing near him .She assured him that
he would soon be well, and advised him to dedicate his life for God. Surprisingly
enough, the deacon become well very soon and did as St.Mary directed him to do.
4. Consecration as Metropolitan
Parumala Church
A thatched shed owned by Arikupuram family was being used, as a Chapel. This
shed was near ‘Azhipura,’ where Parumala Thirumeni was staying. Thirumeni
decided to construct a church and a Seminary at Parumala. The Arikupuram family
agreed to give enough land to parumala Thirumeni for this purpose. Thirumeni got the
land registered not in his name, but in the name of the Malankara Metropolitan.
Money was collected from the people and Thirumeni constructed a beautiful church
and seminary building using more than 20,000 rupees which he collected for this
purpose. On St. Mary’s Festival in 1895, Mar Gregorios consecrated the new church
in the presence of Joseph Mar Dionysius of Pulikkottil, and celebrated the Holy
Qurbana. The Church is dedicated in the name of St. Peter and St. Paul. The church
had two more Altars one dedicated to St. Mary and the other to St. Thomas the
Apostle. It was by his unyielding faith and total dependence on God that Mar
Gregorios could successfully accomplish these projects.
Parumala Church was built by the will and pleasure of Parumala Thirumeni upto
that time worship was conducted in a small shed near Azhippura. Along with the
church, he constructed this seminary building also. Consecration of the church was
conducted under the leadership of Pulikkottil Mar Dionysius Vth. Parish church was
dedicated in the name of St. Peter and St. Paul. However the northern and southern
alters were dedicated to St. Mary and St. Thomas respectively. Thirumeni is presence
and worship in newly consecrated parish church was attracted by several people.
Crowd was growing day by day to worship there as well as to seek blessings from
Thirumeni directly. This old Church had been renewed and the new one was
consecrated on 28th July 2000. His Holiness The Catholicos Baselius Mathews II
gave leadership to the consecration. The old church building was later erected at the
present Parumala Seminary hospital premise.
Church expansion
Though this church was very ancient it remained as a small community in the
south west corner of India. Its boundaries had been expanded at Thirumeni’s time.
It was unlikely that other people coming to our church. But at the reign of
Thirumeni, thousands of people from the strong Catholic Church and its leaders
joined to the Orthodox Church. It was merely because of their attraction towards
Orthodox faith and worship. Chief among them who joined to the Orthodox
Church was bishop Alwarees Mar Yulios Metropolitan. He was a priest when he
joined to the church along with his thousands of followers. His name was Fr.
Alwaris. Thirumeni made him a Ramban. In July 29th 1889, Thirumeni
consecrated him as bishop at Pazhaya (Old) Seminary and installed as the first
Metropolitan of outside Kerala Diocese. Today’s Brahmavar mission and diocese
is the continuation of the work of saintly Alwarees Mar Yulios Metropolitan.
Missionary Zeal
Thirumeni came back from Jerusalem after tremendous change in vision and
mission. He had got great insight in mission and social service. Listen to his words
again, “shall we think about what Christian can do for the society. There are so
many people in this land commit lot of sin due to illiteracy and poverty. There are
socially untouchables who were discriminated in many ways even they were
forbidden to travel through the public roads. Christians have to work for their
upliftment. We have to eradicate their poverty and hardships. They should be
allowed to join in our church and if needed separate parishes shall be constructed
for them in the beginning. When there status is changed they shall be given full
membership within the church without any discrimination. We have many more
things to do for them. We have to preach Gospel among them.”
(From the sermon given at Parumala after his journey to Oorslem, Bhakta
Vachanam)
Internment (Burial)
The Burial services started on Monday itself. Mar Ivanios Metropolitan led
the service, which was completed on Tuesday. Pulikkottil Thirumeni, could not
lead the services, since he could not bear the sight of the motionless body of the
Saint. The funeral procession (Nagari Kanikkal) followed in the presence of a
large multitude of people. Everywhere it was people wailing and crying, sighing
and beating their breasts. Before the entombment, it took about three hours for the
people to kiss the hand of Kochu Thirumeni. The location of the tomb was earlier
pointed out by the saint himself, on divine inspiration. The body was lowered into
the tomb and was filled up to the head with frankincense, which was offered by
the faithful. New clothes were distributed to the poor who attended the funeral.
The 30th day of demise was observed on a grand scale, with the co-operation of
the parishes in Malankara. 600 bushels of rice and 1300 rupees were spent for the
feast on that day.
On that same day the representatives of parish churches met at Parumala, with
Mar Dionysius in the chair. The assembly elected Kochuparampil paulose
Ramban and Vattasserril Geevargheese Kathanar to be Bishops. Another meeting
within a few days decided to name the new school at Thiruvalla as “Mar
Gregorios Memmorial High School” (M.G.M.)
The Metropolitan of Jerusalem sent a condolence message on the passing
away of Mar Gregorios which said, “really the lamp of our church is out.” Yes,
this great saintly person was the light house and Morning Star of the Church! As
the book of Daniel reads (12:3): “The wise leaders will shine with all the
brightness of the sky, and those who have taught many people to do what is right
will shine like the stars for ever.”
Canonization
On the 45th Anniversary of his demise; ie on 2 nd November 1947, Mar
Gregorios of Paruamala was officially canonized as a saint by the Holy Episcopal
Synod of the Malankara Church, Presided over by His Holiness Baselios
Geevarghees II, Catholicos of the East. From then on many Churches and altars
have been dedicated in the name of Parumala Mar Gregorios.
5. Social Reformer
Holy people will not go always in seclusion. After discerning the will of God,
they try to reform the society in better ways. In the caste-ridden society, the
backward people like Pulaya, Paraya and several other delits had lot of hardships
at that time due to social discrimination. Thirumeni had got compassionate
affection towards them. He wrote, “The low caste people had no access to the
public roads and they are deprived of human relationships. It is our duty to give
them education, to eradicate their hardships and to deepen their faith in God so
that they may also lead a better life.” He believed that God is always with the poor
people and therefore those who love God should also love the poor people.
8. Good Shepherd
He began in Niranam Diocese as the good shepherd which later expanded to
Thumpamon and Kollam Dioceses. He travelled a lot to meet the sheep erp the
lost one. His pastoral interest was to make all believers to become closer to Christ
as well as to inculcate the value of the kingdom of God in them. He tried to solve
the problems in parishes not by authority but through love and fellowship. In all
these aspects he did not depend on his own abilities but on the grace of God. At
the same time he was not reluctant to scold whenever it is needed. He did not
expect any flattery from the people. But on the other hand always sought the will
of God. He laboured all day and night to lead the flock into more divinity.
Deification was his ultimate aim in his pastoral ministry.
Appendix
SAYINGS FROM PARUMALA THIRUMENI
1. Prayer is the inspiration of childhood, the refuge of youth and peace during old age.
2. Prayer helps education to cultivate truth, morality, faith, devotion and mutual
respect among people.
3. He who prays to God everyday would never be without truth, morality, faith
and devotion, and would never turn against his master or society.
4. When we pray with a heart full of devotion, God accepts it and we receive
blessings in return.
5. If man does not raise his hands in prayer for himself and for the sake of his
people, even after knowing God, how can we say man is better than animals
which are not wise and cannot think about their future?
6. Prayer is, in many ways, the golden chain that binds this world to the feet of
God.
7. Pray earnestly to God during day and night. Such prayer is the best way to
remove the darkness and fatigue in us; and also the means to attain salvation
and the Kingdom of Heaven. Put your faith in God and pray to him.
8. God is on the side of the poor. Remember God in whatever you do; then
everything will turn out for good.
9. Whatever is due to the Church must be given forthwith. If your mind is pure
in that matter, your house will also be pure. If in such thing you think of any
gain or revenue, then you will lose that ten-fold. Therefore all of you be pure
in depending on God, in brotherly love and in loving your neighbours.
10. Don’t try to be smart, nor be foolish. Never love body more than spirit and
money more than God.
11. Forgiveness is strength. It gives a person good name. It is the distinguishing
feature of righteous people.
12. Love your enemies. Never make enemies of friends.
13. Consult God in everything; consult your father too. If your father abandons
you, God will also abandon you. Don’t be adamant in silly things, which will
bring in dislike-of both God and men.
14. Never be proud. Let God save you from every grave danger. Hold on to God
in everything. He will bless you abundantly.
15. Avoid arrogance, quarrel, and pride while dealing in Church matters; instead,
let your humility shine before others. Those who place their trust in God, and
satisfy the people are blessed. May God bless them?
16. Remember God in everything. Let no one grieve because of you. Never let go
an opportunity to do something good. Only those things will remain with you
till the end.
17. As far as possible never do evil to anyone; or it will ruin you, your children
and your house. Hold on steadfastly to prayer, fasting and works of charity.
Do them with faith and devotion.
18. If you are lazy, your learning cannot progress. Hold on to God tight. Humility
should be the best ornament for you.
19. Death is at everybody’s door. Keep that in mind.
20. You must regularly read the Holy Bible. You must obey your spiritual fathers
and increase their good name and honour before God and men by your
exemplary life.
21. Those who disobey their parents and join their enemies, are liable to be cursed
by them. They will not inherit the legacy of their parents and will be
disqualified for this world as well as the other.
22. Never be proud. Pride is followed by fall. Humility is followed by greatness.
23. If there is quarrel in the family, keep away from it. A quarrelsome house is the
haven of the devil; and God is no where near it.
24. Be rich in the love of man and love of God. Brothers should never cheat each
other. When you move away from unity you are sure to move away from God.
25. It is not spiritual wisdom to try to conquer the enemy with evil than with
virtue. If you depend on the God of Truth and go out with a truthful heart,
God will accomplish things for you.
26. Loss and difficulties come when God moves away. On such occasions, never
look for one reason or the other. Instead, know that God has kept away
because of your sins; then cling to God, he will show mercy upon you.
27. Be obedient in all your dealings. Identify the good and love it, throw away
laziness; be enthusiastic to do good things, day and night. St. Vattasseril Mar
Dionysius H. H. Baselios Geevarghese II Catholicos, Paulose Mar Athanasius
(Alwaye) are some of his great disciples.