Success Is Inevitable - Action Guide
Success Is Inevitable - Action Guide
Action Guide
Thanks again for purchasing my book. I really want you to succeed and to get
as much as you can from it. Please make sure you use this action guide
alongside the book. In the end, your commitment is what will determine how
much you get out of this book. I encourage you to print out this workbook to
make it easier to refer to it as you are reading the book. Also, writing down your
answers using a pen is more powerful than just typing on your computer.
Defining success
What does success really mean to you? Write down your personal definition of
success below:
Building self-discipline
To build self-discipline consistency is key. Write down one thing you could start
doing consistently every day for the next thirty day (meditating, practicing gratitude,
setting goals etc.)
Career/mission: do you wake up excited? Dod you feel like you’re making a
difference in your own unique way?
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Finance: do you make the kind of money you want to make or do you struggle to
make ends meet?
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Health (Physical and emotional): Do you have a healthy body? How about your
emotional well being?
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Personal growth: do you feel like you’re growing into the person you want to
become?
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Relationship: Is your relationship with your partner the best it could be?
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For each area, take a few minutes to visualize in details what your ideal vision looks
like. See yourself as being already at a 10 in each area and answer the question
below:
• Career: What contribution are you making to society and the world in general?
What does your day at work look like?
• Family: How are you interacting with your family on a day-to-day basis and how
does that make you feel?
• Finance: How much money are you earning each month? What are you doing with
this money?
• Health: How do you feel every day? What does your diet look like?
• Personal growth: What three words best describe you? What do people say about
you when you’re not there? What message are you spreading to the world?
• Relationship: What emotions are you experiencing daily? How do you treat your
partner? And how does him or her feel as a result of that? How does your partner
treat you?
• Spirituality: How do you serve God or the universe? What spiritual qualities do
you embody?
Your vision for your life
Write a short statement for each area of your life describing your ideal vision. For
now, make sure you write at least one statement.
Career:
Family:
Finance:
Health:
Personal growth:
Relationship:
Spirituality:
The importance of self-awareness
Rate yourself for each statement below, 1 being false, 10 being true.
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I understand my core beliefs and how they affect my behaviors and actions
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I control my emotions
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I listen to my intuition
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Now, look at your score for each statement and ask yourself, “What are the two
things that, if I were to work on would make the biggest difference in my life?”.
Resolve to work on these two things using the exercises mentioned in the book.
• Specific: What exactly do you want? What are you trying to achieve?
• Measurable: Can you assess the progress towards your goal easily? How will you
know whether you’ve achieved it?
• Achievable: Is it achievable? Is the timeframe realistic? Can you put in the effort
required despite other responsibilities?
• Relevant: Is it in line with your values? Is it exciting you?
• Time-bound: Do you have a clear deadline for your goals?
For more on how to set goals, you can also check out my book Goal Setting: The
Ultimate Guide to Achieving Goals that Truly Excite You.
2. Who do you envy? What are the people you envy doing?
3. If all your family members, friends and people you know were no longer around
and you were all alone, what would you start doing from today?
4. If you had all the time and money in the world, what would you do?
5. If you had complete confidence and were already your absolute best self, what
would you be doing with your life?
6. How do you want to express yourself to the world? Do you want to entertain,
educate, inspire, heal, teach, or create? What emotions do you want people to feel as
a result of the work you’re doing?
For more on how to find your passion refer to The Passion Manifesto: Escape the Rat
Race, Uncover Your Passion, and Design a Career and Life You Love
2. Strengthening your whys
Write down all the reasons why you must achieve your goal. To help you do so, you
can use the four motivators: pain, pleasure, ego and love (You can write them in
brackets after each of your reasons)
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PART II. Activating the Power of Commitment
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What could you do to further commit to your goal? Write down at least one thing that
could help you strengthen your commitment:
Remember, believing in yourself (power of belief), knowing what you want (power
of clarity) and having a strong why (power of passion) will make it easier for you to
commit. If you struggle to commit, look how well you fair for each of them.
Part III. Mastering the Laws of Success
Write at least one reason pride could stand in your way. Answering the following
questions might help you: How could pride prevent you from achieving the results
you want in life? Do you refuse to ask for help? Are you unwilling to change things
that don’t work?
Your answer:
II. The Law of Mastery
If you apply anything you learn and go as deep as you can, you will
inevitably get resu lts long-term.
Developing a mastery mentality
On a scale of 1 to 10, 1 being false 10 being true, evaluate yourself on the following
points:
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When I learn something new I keep practicing until I reach a high level of mastery.
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Look at one area of your life in which you aren’t satisfied. How much of what you
know have you actually put into practice? Have you mastered the fundamentals in
this area?
1. Focusing on one thing at a time
Look at all the projects and goals you’re working on right now. Now, select the one
you’re the most excited about and write it down. Turn it into a SMART goal and
spend most your effort on it in the next few weeks or months until you get the results
you want.
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Monomaniacal focus on the most important area of your life right now
will yield great results while positively impacting most of the other areas
of your life.
Write down below what you could do to identify the strategic moves you need to
adopt to achieve your goal. (Examples: find a role model, interview someone who has
already achieved your goals etc.)
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Brainstorm strategic move ideas.
Come up with at least 20 things you could do to achieve your goal:
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Apply the 80/20 rule
Use the 80/20 rule in one or several of the areas below:
Relationships: What are the few people who bring you most of your joy? How could
you spend more time with them?
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Happiness: What are the few things you derive most of your happiness from? What
could you do to make them your main point of focus?
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Work: What are the few tasks that really move the needle? How could you make
them your priority?
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Thoughts: What are the few thoughts that generate the most of your joy and
excitement? What practice would allow you to consciously focus on these thoughts
more often?
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Worries: What are the few things you worry about that generate most of the stress
you experience in your life? How you could eliminate these worries from your life?
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V. The Law of Deliberate Practice
You’ll become far more competent at what you do if you design effective
practices aligned with your goals.
Apply deliberate practice to one of your goals by answering the questions below:
The more you think, feel and act like the person you wish to become, the
faster you’ll achieve your goals.
Write down below the side effects of having already achieved your goals:
1. What would be your core beliefs about yourself and about the world?
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Write down below what you will stop focusing on (for instance: lack of money, past
failures etc.). Then, cross out each element in your list.
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Write down below the things you want to spend most of your time focusing on (what
your grateful for, goals you want to achieve etc.). Underline each element in your list.
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X. The Law of Reset
1. Brainstorming exercise:
Write down everything you could do differently. Could you do something different
upon waking up? Adopt one new positive habit in your life? Contact someone you
haven’t contacted for a while? Start journaling?
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2. 7-Day Challenge:
For the next seven days, begin your day as though you have been born again, and feel
the field of possibilities ahead of you.
3. Visualization exercise:
Forget about everything—who you think you are, your past, your future etc.—and
reconnect with the present moment. You can close your eyes to do this exercise.
Now, spend a couple of minutes envisioning your future and what you want to create.
XI. The Law of Intent
The more purposeful you are during your day, the better results you will
achieve.
Think of your typical day. What is the one segment of your day that if you could
bring a specific intent to, would have the most positive impact? For the next seven
days, resolve to set your desired intent before moving to that specific segment of your
day.
Write down below the one segment of your day you want to change and how you
want to feel during that time of the day.
Getting better is inevitable if you keep acquiring new skills and learn from
failures. As you improve, long-term success becomes highly probable.
You can and will achieve far more than you can ever begin to imagine if
you keep persevering and refuse to give up prematurely.
Implement a Bullet-Proof Timeframe for your goal and commit to never giving up
until you reach the deadline you chose.
The more often you can face your fear and move beyond your comfort
zone, the more you’ll achieve in life.
What is one thing you’ve been wanted to do for a while, but put off because of fear?
Could you challenge yourself and do that thing this week? Write down below one
thing you could do to move beyond your comfort zone.
XV. The Law of Flexibility
The more you are willing to consider all the options available to achieve
your goal, the more likely you are to succeed.
How could you use the Law of Flexibility to increase the chances that you achieve
your long-term goals? Remember that you can identify additional ways to achieve
your goals, reframe your goals or give up on your goals.
How could you reframe your goal so that it opens the doors to new possibilities?
Does your goal still excite you or should you give up on it?
XVI. The Law of Patience
You must trust the process and remain consistent until you see the fruits of
your labor.
Remember a specific time in the past when you gave up prematurely on a goal.
Imagine how things could have been different if you had used the Law of Patience.
As you develop the habits of long-term thinking, you’ll become far more
successful in all areas of your life.
Is what you are doing today or this week, will allow you to achieve my long-term
goals?
What are you thinking about throughout your day? Make a list of some of the
recurrent thoughts that you entertain every day. Are they aligned with your long-term
vision?
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PART IV. Building Emotional Resilience
I prepare myself for the worst and have contingency plans for my goals.
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I cultivate gratitude every day.
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Go through the 4-step process below to strengthen your mental resilience
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IV. Overcoming challenging times
1. Remember a time you gave up on one of your goals. Visualize yourself
encountering a similar situation in the future. Now, see yourself acting with self-
compassion.
2. Whenever you experience negative emotions, give yourself some slack and wait
until you feel better before taking any important decisions.
Come up with new empowering thoughts (counter-arguments) and use them when
your negative thought pattern kicks in
Your empowering thoughts:
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Turn these new empowering thoughts into powerful beliefs through daily
conditioning.
Your powerful beliefs:
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V. Cultivating self-compassion
Write down a few things you are poor at and that makes you feel bad about yourself:
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• Let your mind wander and thank people who come to mind
• Create a gratitude journal.
• Write down three things you’re grateful for
• Look at an object, think of all the people involved in its creation and fully
appreciate how lucky you are to have such an object.
• Ask yourself what you’re grateful for and answer that question out loud. Try to
come up with as many things as you can, or you could
• Remember all the things that went well today before going to bed.
VII. Leverage the Power of Proximity
Write down what you will do to create a more empowering environment.
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Thibaut Meurisse
Founder of Whatispersonadevelopment.org
Other books by the author:
Goal Setting: The Ultimate Guide to Achieving Goals That Truly Excite You
Habits That Stick: The Ultimate Guide to Building Powerful Habits That Stick Once
And For All
The Greatness Manifesto: Overcome Fear and Go After What You Really Want
The One Goal: Master the Art of Goal Setting, Win Your Inner Battles, and Achieve
Exceptional Results
The Passion Manifesto: Escape the Rat Race, Uncover Your Passion and Design a
Career and Life You Love
The Thriving Introvert: Embrace the Gift of Introversion and Live the Life You Were
Meant to Live
Wake Up Call: How to Take Control of Your Morning and Transform Your Life
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