Developing Christian Character PDF
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Developing
Christian Character
R.C. Sproul
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Introduction
One of the greatest struggles every Christian faces is the struggle for spiritual growth.
Many men and women become Christians expecting growth to be automatic and easy,
and when they discover that it is not, they become disillusioned. Some fall back into
old sinful habits. Others adopt different methods of dealing with the problem. Some
adopt an antinomian theology that relieves them of their guilt for a time. Others fall
into various forms of legalistic activities and rituals that substitute man-made fruit
for the fruit of the Spirit.
The Apostle Paul described our struggle for spiritual growth as a war, and Martin
Luther described our three main enemies as the world, the flesh, and the devil. In
order to grow spiritually, we must not only know our enemies. We must know what
we have been given in order that we may defeat those enemies. We must put on the
whole armor of God and walk in the Spirit. We must diligently use all the means of
grace that God has provided for us. Paul warned the Galatian church many years ago
that having begun in the Spirit, they were not to think that they could be made per-
fect by the flesh. We too must be reminded of these things if we are to press on to the
goal.
May this series enable you to understand what is necessary for true spiritual growth
and to begin to bear the fruit of the Spirit in abundance.
Sincerely,
R.C. Sproul
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MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
The Christian life is not easy. It engages us in a spiritual battle of cosmic proportions.
In this study, Dr. Sproul examines our three chief foes in this battle: the world, the
flesh, and the devil. This will help us understand why Christian growth is not easy,
but is a complex, lifelong process.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
3. To understand that the principal obstacles to Christian growth are the fallen world,
fallen man, and the power of Satan.
QUOTATIONS
All the danger is when the world gets into the heart. The water is useful for the sailing of
the ship; all the danger is when the water gets into the ship; so the fear is when the world
gets into the heart.
— Thomas Watson
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LECTURE OUTLINE
2. Who said that the three chief obstacles to Christian growth are the world, the flesh,
and the devil?
a. John Calvin
b. Augustine
c. Martin Luther
d. John Knox
7. The phrase “deliver us from evil” in the Lord’s Prayer means “deliver us from _______
_______________________.”
a. Pain
b. The world
c. Ourselves
d. The evil one
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BIBLE STUDY
2. Read the following texts of Scripture. What does each contribute to understanding
of “the world”?
a. Romans 8:18–23
b. 1 John 2:15–17
c. James 4:1–6
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Dr. Sproul said that God wills our struggle with the fallen world for our own good.
How is this struggle good for us?
2. How does Satan hinder spiritual growth? Do Christians tend to blame some things
on Satan that are really the result of our own sinful nature?
3. Many believers begin their Christian life assuming that growth will be easy. Did you
assume the same thing? What expectations did you have as a new believer? How
has the experience of the Christian life challenged those assumptions?
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MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
The amount of effort we put into our Christian growth will be wasted unless we are
working toward clear goals. In this lesson, Dr. Sproul will examine the ultimate pur-
pose of the Christian life—to be holy as God is holy. Having this as a clear goal directs
and focuses our spiritual growth.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
3. To understand the significance of our final destiny and the beatific vision as an
impetus for moving toward our goal.
QUOTATIONS
Everything betters a saint. Not only ordinances, words, sacraments, holy society, but
even sinners and their very sinning. Even these draw forth their graces into exercise,
and put them upon godly, brokenhearted mourning. A saint sails with every wind.
As the wicked are hurt by the best things, so the godly are bettered by the worst.
— William Jenkyn
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LECTURE OUTLINE
A. Nothing happens to our dreams unless they are translated into goals.
B. What is the goal or purpose of the Christian life?
1. We see holiness as the goal of creation (Gen. 1:26–27).
a. The pinnacle of creation is reached on the seventh day (Gen. 2:1–3;
Ex. 20:8–11).
b. The goal and end for which man is created is holiness.
2. What does it mean that man is created in the image of God?
3. Two extreme interpretations regarding what it means to be created in the
image of God lead to serious error.
a. Idolatry—making God in man’s image.
b. Thinking of God as “wholly other.”
4. Man has been created with a unique capacity to reflect the character of God.
5. Jesus fulfilled the purpose for which man was created (Rom. 5:19; 1 Cor. 5:22).
C. The highest goal and greatest hope of the Christian is the “beatific vision”—to see
God’s face (Exod. 33:18–34:35).
1. God dwelt among His fallen people with one prohibition: “My face shall not
be seen.”
2. John says that the hope of God’s people is to see God as He is
(1 John 3:1–3; Matt. 5:8).
3. We were made for holiness, and when it escapes us, we suffer deprivation,
lostness, and restlessness (1 Peter 1:14–16).
Study Questions
1. The way to turn our dreams into reality is to translate them into
______________________________.
a. Written form
b. Ideas
c. Goals
d. Propositions
3. Because man is created in God’s image, he has a unique capacity to reflect God’s
______________________________.
a. Character
b. Divinity
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c. Infinity
d. Omnipotence
4. The highest goal and greatest hope of the Christian is the “beatific vision,” to see
______________________________.
a. Infinity
b. God’s physical nature
c. God’s face
d. Love
5. Scripture warns that only the ______________________________ in heart will see God.
a. Innocent
b. Pure
c. Perfect
d. Repentant
6. The fact that God rested on the seventh day of creation shows what?
a. His work in creating the universe had tired Him.
b. He had already reached the pinnacle of creation on the sixth day.
c. The goal of creation is Sabbath rest.
d. None of the above
7. After the Fall, the image of God was marred but not ______________________________.
a. Distorted
b. To the degree that it affected every part of human nature
c. Renewed
d. Obliterated
8. 1 John says that when Christ returns, we will see Him as He is and that we will be
______________________________ Him.
a. Known to
b. Like
c. One person with
d. None of the above
BIBLE STUDY
2. Read the following passages of Scripture. What does each say about the Christian’s
purpose?
a. Ephesians 1:3–14
b. Ephesians 4:17–5:2
c. 1 John 4:7–12
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Do you see evidence today that man tries to “create” God in his own image? Explain.
2. Reread 2 Corinthians 3:18. This verse says that as we behold the glory of the Lord,
we are being transformed into the same image. What does it mean to behold the
glory of the Lord (see John 1:14)? How do we behold His glory?
3. Reread Exodus 34:29–35. How did fellowship with God change Moses? How does
your fellowship with God change you?
4. The chief purposes for which you were created are to pursue a life of holiness, to
reflect God’s character, and to glorify God. Discuss what each of these means in
practical terms. How do they relate to each other? Are they different facets of the
same “gem of truth”?
APPLICATION
1. From what you understand to be your goal as a Christian, list three short-term goals
you can pursue in the next several months.
2. This week, set apart at least 10 minutes to spend alone. Meditate on what it will be
like to meet God face to face. What will it be like to see Him as He is? What long-
ings or emotions does this stir in you? Does it move you to “purify yourself as He is
pure”? Translate that motivation into two specific goals, and put them into practice
this week.
MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
As Christians, we must take care that our lives speak well of Him whose name we
bear. In this lesson, Dr. Sproul explores our responsibilities as representatives of
Jesus Christ. The number-one priority of our lives is to “seek first the kingdom of
God and His righteousness.” As a result of this lesson, we should be better prepared
to glorify God in the practice of righteousness.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
2. To explore what it means to imitate Christ and to live for the glory of God.
3. To be motivated to live a life that pleases God and proclaims His glory.
QUOTATIONS
More than anything else, righteousness involves right relationships between ourselves
and God, between ourselves and others, and in the world at large. . . . It is born out of
a sense of personal need, and expands because of our sense of the world’s need. The
longing for righteousness issues from a broken heart.
— Sinclair Ferguson
To sum up, man cannot without sacrilege claim for himself even a crumb of righteousness,
for just so much is plucked and taken away from the glory of God’s righteousness. We
must hold this as a universal principle: Whoever glories in himself glories against God.
— John Calvin
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LECTURE OUTLINE
2. What did Luther mean by the statement: ‘Every Christian is called to be Christ to
his neighbor’?
a. We are to tell others how to be saved.
b. Figuratively, every member of Christ’s body is Christ.
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4. The Bible uses the term ______________________________ to describe what God does.
a. Glory
b. Truth
c. Righteousness
d. Infinity
BIBLE STUDY
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Read Paul’s indictment of the Jews in Romans 2:17–24. When Christians misrepre-
sent Christ to the world, what problems arise? How does this affect your personal
sense of responsibility as one who bears the name of Christ?
4. Restate the Ten Commandments, not as negative prohibitions, but as positive admo-
nitions. What do they say about everyday priorities and behavior patterns?
APPLICATION
1. Reflect on one of the ways you decided you could “be Christ” to others, and put it
into practice this week.
2. Suppose you had one day in which your only priority was to “seek first God’s king-
dom and His righteousness.” List those things you would do in those 24 hours in
order of importance. Try to set aside a day in which to do as many of these things as
you can, and also begin incorporating these things into your everyday life.
MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
Many people blindly assume that they are at peace with God. How can one who thinks
he is saved be sure that he is, in fact, saved? In this lesson and the next, Dr. Sproul
will examine this vital foundation for spiritual growth—assurance of salvation. The
purpose of these lessons is to enable us to distinguish between genuine assurance
and false assurance and to help us deal with doubts about our salvation.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
QUOTATIONS
Assurance is not of the essence of a Christian. It is required to the bene esse (the well-
being), to the comfortable and joyful being of a Christian; but it is not required to the
esse, to the being of a Christian. A man may be a true believer and yet would give all the
world, were it in his power, to know that he is a believer. To have grace, and to be sure
that we have grace, is glory upon the throne, it is heaven on this side of heaven.
— Thomas Brooks
None have assurance at all times. As in a walk that is shaded with trees and chequered
with light and shadow, some tracks and paths in it are dark and others are sunshine.
Such is usually the life of the most assured Christian.
— Ezekiel Hopkins
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LECTURE OUTLINE
5. Which of the following were mentioned in the lecture as sources of false assurance
of salvation?
a. The belief that everyone goes to heaven
b. A faulty understanding of the terms of salvation
c. An exaggerated sense of one’s own righteousness
d. All of the above
BIBLE STUDY
1. Read Romans chapters 2–5. What is the basic outline of Paul’s teaching on justifica-
tion in these chapters?
3. What do the following texts of Scripture teach about true and false
repentance?
a. James 4:1–10
b. Hebrews 6:4–12
c. Hebrews 12:16–17
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Dr. Sproul said that his first step in seeking assurance of his salvation was
to check his performance. Have you found this an effective route to assurance? Why
or why not?
2. Dr. Sproul names two sources of false assurance: misunderstanding the terms of sal-
vation and faulty self-evaluation. Have you heard people argue from either of these
assumptions that they are going to heaven? Give examples of typical arguments you
have heard or that you yourself may have used. How would you answer these argu-
ments, using Scripture?
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3. In your own words, explain the difference between the Roman Catholic and the
Protestant views of justification and sanctification. Under which of these systems of
belief is one more likely to gain assurance of salvation?
5. How do you respond to the common assumption that all you have to do to go to
heaven is to die?
APPLICATION
1. Discuss with a friend your understanding of the terms of salvation and the problem
of gaining assurance of your salvation. Help each other overcome any doubts you
may have.
2. For one week keep a record of what motivates your repentance. Identify any
motives that do not reveal genuine sorrow for sin, and reconsider what your motive
for repentance should be in that case.
MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
3. To be able to distinguish the difference between the role of Satan as accuser and the
role of the Holy Spirit as convictor of sin.
QUOTATIONS
When God calls a man, He does not repent of it. God does not, as many friends do, love one
day, and hate another; or as princes, who make their subjects favourites, and afterwards
throw them into prison. This is the blessedness of a saint; his condition admits of no
alteration. God’s call is founded upon His decree, and His decree is immutable. Acts of
grace cannot be reversed. God blots out His people’s sins, but not their names.
— Thomas Watson
Though Christians be not kept altogether from falling, yet they are kept from falling
altogether.
— William Secker
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LECTURE OUTLINE
Study Questions
1. The rich young ruler (Mark 10) is an example of what type of person?
a. Those who understand what God’s law requires and believe they have
obeyed it
b. Those who do not understand what God’s law requires
c. Those who do not care what God’s law requires
d. Those who are completely ignorant of what God’s law requires
2. Once we understand what God’s law requires, what is our proper response?
a. Guilt
b. Doubt
c. Peace
d. Hate
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4. Anyone who thinks he has attained the holiness that God requires has
______________________________ himself.
a. Underestimated
b. Proven
c. Deluded
d. None of the above
6. To gain assurance of our salvation, we must not ask if we love Christ perfectly but if
we love Him ______________________________.
a. All the time
b. At all
c. As He loves us
d. Both a and c
BIBLE STUDY
1. Read the following two passages of Scripture and outline what they teach about the
demands of God’s law.
a. Matthew 5:17–48
b. Romans 2
2. What do the following texts teach about man’s inability to obey God’s law?
a. Romans 3:9–20
b. Galatians 3:1–25
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Dr. Sproul poses a question about the “mystery of iniquity”: How can redeemed
people prefer to sin rather than obey the One who died for them? How do you
explain this?
2. No one loves Christ perfectly. But if we love Him at all, how will it show?
3. Read Romans 8:5–17. What are the basic differences between the Christian and the
non-Christian, according to these verses?
4. Name some right and wrong motives for attending church. Why do you attend
church?
APPLICATION
1. Write out at least one of the Ten Commandments (Ex. 20:1–17). Below it, write three
practical implications of the commandment. What would it mean to perfectly obey
this commandment in thought, word, and deed? What does this tell you about God’s
law and man’s inability to keep it?
2. Suppose you were the rich young man (or woman) to whom Christ spoke in Mark
10. On what point of God’s law might He test you? Read Mark 10:24–27 and summa-
rize in a sentence how this passage gives you hope in spite of your inability to pass
the test.
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MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
In 1 Corinthians 13:1, Paul writes, “Though I speak with the tongues of men and of
angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.” He
goes on to describe the characteristics of agape—the Christlike love that indwells
every believer. In this lesson, Dr. Sproul begins a study of the fruit of the Spirit with
an examination of love—the foundation on which all the other fruit rests.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
1. To understand the biblical priority of the fruit of the Spirit as our primary guideline
for sanctification.
3. To appreciate the relationship between the fruit of the Spirit and the gifts of the
Spirit.
QUOTATIONS
“We love Him because He first loved us.” Love is like an echo, it returneth what it
receiveth.
— Thomas Manton
The saints are the walking pictures of God. If God be our Father, we shall love to see His
pictures of holiness in believers; shall pity them for their infirmities, but love them for
their graces. . . . It may justly be suspected that God is not the Father of those who love
not His children. Though they retain the communion of saints in their creed, they banish
the communion of saints out of their company.
— Thomas Watson
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Love of man necessarily arises out of the love of God. The love of the creature is but the
corollary to the love of the Creator. This is what the Christian finds, as a matter of fact.
His heart is overcharged with love to God. It finds its way out in love to man. His direct
service of God cannot, in the nature of things, go very far. He worships God publicly in
His house. He glorifies Him secretly in the constant outpourings of his heart. He gives of
his substance to the maintenance of every cause which is God’s cause. But here it ends.
God is so mighty, so self-contained, that with all our puny efforts, much cannot be done
to serve Him. So the Christian looks about to see how he is to show his love for God. He
soon finds the way. Clearly, it must be by love for his fellow-men.
— John Hooper
LECTURE OUTLINE
Study Questions
4. Our culture views love as something that happens to you, but the Bible speaks of
love in ______________________________ terms.
a. Ambiguous
b. Active
c. Definite
d. Passive
7. Which of the following was not said to be a sign of the presence of indwelling
agape love?
a. Love inclines the heart to honor God.
b. Love gives credit to God’s Word.
c. Love makes us more generous in our compliments.
d. Love acknowledges God’s right to govern me.
8. Indwelling agape is what theologians call ______________________________.
a. Habitus
b. Concupiscence
c. Homoousios
d. Iustitia spiritualis
BIBLE STUDY
1. Read the following Scripture passages. What does each contribute to what we know
about the Holy Spirit?
a. John 14:15–27
b. John 16:5–16
c. Acts 2:1–4
d. Romans 8:5–17
e. 1 Corinthians 2:6–16
2. Briefly outline the basic teaching on the subject of spiritual gifts in each of the fol-
lowing passages.
a. Romans 12:3–8
b. 1 Corinthians 12–14
3. What do the following texts of Scripture teach us about the fruit of the Spirit?
a. Galatians 5:19–25
b. Romans 12:9–21
c. 2 Peter 1:2–11
4. Read the following texts of Scripture, which speak of love. What is the basic point of
each passage?
a. Romans 13:8–10
b. 1 Corinthians 13
c. John 13:34–35
d. 1 John 3:11–18
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Read 1 Corinthians 13:1–3. Why is the exercise of spiritual gifts apart from love
futile?
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3. The power of love that indwells the believer can be augmented or diminished. What
weakens the power of love in our lives? What strengthens it?
4. What is the proper relationship between the fruit of the Spirit and the use of the
gifts of the Spirit?
APPLICATION
1. Read the list of the fruit of the Spirit in Galatians 5:22–23. How can you manifest
these in your life? Translate each fruit into a goal for action and pursue at least one
of these goals each day this week.
2. Read a biography of someone you consider a hero of the faith. How did this person
manifest the fruit of the Spirit? Choose at least one way in which you would like to
follow that person’s example and set a specific goal for doing so.
MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
The financier J. P. Morgan once observed, “A man usually has two reasons for doing
something: one that sounds good and the real one.” This tendency to mistrust others’
motives is at the heart of our alienation from others. In this lesson, Dr. Sproul exam-
ines how we as Christians can counteract this tendency by practicing “the judgment
of charity.”
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
1. To be able to state in concrete terms what it means to be loved and what love does.
QUOTATIONS
Therefore if we rightly direct our love, we must first turn our eyes not to man, the sight
of whom would more often engender hate than love, but to God, who bids us extend to
all men the love we bear to Him that this may be an unchanging principle: whatever the
character of the man, we must yet love him because we love God.
— John Calvin
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LECTURE OUTLINE
Study Questions
4. A Christian can increase the power of indwelling love by practicing the judgment of
______________________________.
a. Charity
b. Discernment
c. Righteousness
d. All of the above
BIBLE STUDY
3. Read Hebrews 12:14–15. What does this text have to say about bitterness?
4. What does Paul tell us about “quenching the Spirit” in the following texts of
Scripture?
a. Ephesians 4:30–32
b. 1 Thessalonians 5:19
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Read Matthew 18:15. Jesus said that if someone sins against you, discuss it with him
first. Do most Christians follow this rule? Would following this rule solve many of
the problems that come from misjudging people’s motives?
2. Agape love inclines your heart to desire justice tempered with mercy toward others,
thus mirroring God’s love. How is God’s justice tempered with mercy in His deal-
ings with you?
3. Read Ephesians 4:25–5:2. When you love others, how does it affect the way you talk
to them and about them?
4. Read Proverbs 12:18 and 15:4. Have you found that words have the power to heal or
harm as these verses say?
APPLICATION
1. Has contentment escaped you because you frequently think of things you wish you
owned? This week, think of what you do have and thank the Lord for it.
2. This week, practice applying the judgment of charity to the one person you find
most difficult to get along with.
3. Make a conscious effort this week to avoid gossip. If you hear someone else gossip,
say something good about the person being talked about.
4. Would your attitudes about your job and your work habits change if Jesus Christ
were your supervisor? If so, make those changes this week as you work “as unto
the Lord.”
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MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
QUOTATIONS
Take a saint, and put him into any condition, and he knows how to rejoice in the Lord.
— Walter Cradock
I desire the dejected Christian to consider, that by his heavy and uncomfortable life,
he seemeth to the world to accuse God and His service, as if he openly called Him a
rigorous, hard, unacceptable Master, and His work a sad unpleasant thing. I know this
is not your thoughts: I know it is yourselves, and not God and His service that offendeth
you; and that you walk heavily not because you are holy, but because you fear you are
not holy, and because you are no more holy. . . . If you see a servant always sad, that
was wont to be merry while he served another master, will you not think that he hath a
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master that displeaseth him? . . . You are born and new born for God’s honour; and will
you thus dishonour Him before the world? What do you (in their eyes) but dispraise Him
by your very countenance and carriage?
— Richard Baxter
LECTURE OUTLINE
A. There is an order to the fruit of the Spirit; love heads the list because all the others
flow out of it.
B. The Bible lists joy as the second fruit.
1. Calvin defined joy as the disposition of one’s personality toward
cheerfulness.
a. Joy is grounded in the Christian’s celebration of Christ’s victory
over the world (John 16:22–24, 33).
b. This joy is not superficial.
c. As we contemplate Christ’s victory over the world, it enables us to
be joyful even in the midst of dire circumstances.
2. Jesus told the disciples, “Rejoice because your names are written in heaven”
(Luke 10:17–20).
3. The mandate of Christ, “Be of good cheer, for I have overcome the world,” is
not superficial cheerfulness or irrational escapism but is grounded in cosmic
reality.
C. Peace follows after love and joy.
1. The concept of peace in the Bible is multifaceted.
a. It can mean an interlude of safety from the ravages of war.
b. Peace almost becomes a synonym for salvation (Col. 1:19–22; Matt.
5:9).
2. Peace, as a fruit of the Spirit, means that we have a new capacity to live at
peace with others and ourselves.
a. There is what Luther called a “carnal peace,” born not of love but of
cowardice (Jeremiah 8:11).
b. Paul enjoins us, “If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live
peaceably with all men,” recognizing that it is not always possible
(Romans 12:18).
3. The Christian, along with the love of Christ, possesses the peace of
Christ.
4. This peace was Christ’s legacy (John 14:27).
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Study Questions
4. Christians can have joy even in the midst of dire circumstances because
______________________________.
a. The circumstances are not real.
b. Joy is an escape from suffering.
c. In spite of the suffering, they share in Christ’s victory.
d. They know that other people are going through the same things.
6. Peace, as a fruit of the Spirit, means that once reconciled to God, we have a new
capacity to live at peace with ______________________________.
a. Ourselves
b. Others
c. Sin
d. Both a and b
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8. There is what Luther called a “carnal peace,” born not of love but of
______________________________.
a. God
b. Cowardice
c. Hope
d. Both a and c
BIBLE STUDY
1. Examine each of the following texts. What is taught about about true joy in these
passages?
a. John 15:9–12
b. John 16:17–22
c. 1 Peter 1:3–9
d. Hebrews 10:32–39
2. What do the following passages of Scripture teach about the character and source
of true peace?
a. John 14:27
b. John 16:33
c. Matthew 10:34–39
d. Ephesians 2:11–18
e. Philippians 4:6–9
f. Hebrews 12:14
g. 1 Peter 3:8–12
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. What is the inseparable relationship between peace and joy as fruit of the Spirit?
2. If a fellow Christian lost his sense of joy because of some tragedy, how could you
help him rediscover the deep, abiding joy of Christ?
3. Paul’s command to believers in Romans 12:18 concedes that it is not always possible
to live at peace with others. Why not?
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4. Should we seek peace with others at all costs? Why or why not?
5. Read John 14:27. How does the peace Christ gives differ from the peace the world
gives?
APPLICATION
1. Set aside time this week to meditate on Christ’s victory over the world and what it
means for you (John 16:33). Allow this to make you more aware of your joy in the
Lord.
2. When you are feeling especially pressured or tense this week, take a few minutes to
think about the gift of peace Christ has given you. Let the passages on peace exam-
ined above guide your meditation.
MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
Clara Barton, founder of the American Red Cross, was once reminded by a friend of
how someone had hurt her years before. “Don’t you remember the wrong done to
you?” the friend asked. “No,” Clara replied, “I distinctly remember forgetting that.”
This ability to “forgive and forget” is rooted in the fruit of the Spirit discussed in this
lesson: patience and kindness. In this lesson, Dr. Sproul explains how these biblical
concepts are rooted in the character of God and how we can practice them in our
pursuit of spiritual growth.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
QUOTATIONS
They who are wicked, although they cannot see the goodness of other virtues, yet can see
the goodness of patience, and perceive when they see a patient man and an impatient
man both sick of one disease; yet both are not troubled alike, but that he who has most
patience has most ease, and he who is most impatient is most tormented, like a fish
which strives with the hook.
— Henry Smith
If God should have no more mercy on us than we have charity one to another, what
would become of us?
— Thomas Fuller
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LECTURE OUTLINE
Study Questions
4. What is revenge?
a. Paying back a wound
b. Being proved innocent after being falsely accused
c. A balance between sin and punishment
d. None of the above
5. What is vindication?
a. Paying back a wound
b. Being proved innocent after being falsely accused
c. A balance between sin and punishment
d. None of the above
6. What is justice?
a. Paying back a wound
b. Being proved innocent after being falsely accused
c. A balance between sin and punishment
d. None of the above
BIBLE STUDY
2. Read the following texts of Scripture. What do they say about revenge?
a. Leviticus 19:18
b. 1 Peter 3:8–9
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. You’ve probably heard the phrase “Don’t get mad, get even.” How is vengeance
exalted and legitimized in our culture?
2. Read Matthew 5:11. Why can you consider false accusations for the sake of Christ a
blessing?
3. Think of a kind act you have witnessed or heard about. What was it about the act,
the person who did it, or the way it was done that made it kind? How can we consis-
tently incorporate these qualities in what we do for others?
APPLICATION
1. You may find yourself waiting somewhere this week—in line at the store, in traffic,
or for an appointment. Instead of getting impatient, discover how you can redeem
the time in a manner pleasing to God.
2. Be aware of how you respond to others this week. Are you quick to find fault or cor-
rect petty mistakes? Check this impulse and respond with kindness instead.
Remember how patient God has been with you.
MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
QUOTATIONS
We must come to good works by faith and not to faith by good works.
— William Gurnall
It is the office of faith to believe what we do not see, and it shall be the reward of faith to
see what we do believe.
— Thomas Adams
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LECTURE OUTLINE
Study Questions
8. The fruit of faith causes us to become not only more trusting but also more
______________________________.
a. Trustworthy
b. Sinless
c. Apathetic
d. None of the above
BIBLE STUDY
1. Read the following passages of Scripture, and note how they deal with the subject of
goodness.
a. Psalm 145:2–9
b. Romans 3:9–18
c. 2 Peter 1:3–11
2. What do we learn about the nature of true good deeds from the following
Scriptures?
a. Matthew 5:14–16
b. Matthew 6:1–18
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c. 2 Corinthians 9:8
d. Ephesians 2:8–10
e. 2 Timothy 2:20–21; 3:16–17
f. Titus 2:11–14
3. What do the following passages say about the inability of sin to bring
happiness?
a. Matthew 16:26
b. Hebrews 11:24–26
c. Galatians 6:7–10
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. Dr. Sproul says, “One thing sadly lacking in the Christian community today is a deep
appreciation for aesthetics.” Do you agree? Why or why not?
2. Bach composed his music as an apologetic for the existence of God. Can excellence
in the arts or other occupations defend the truth of Christianity today? If so, how?
4. Dr. Sproul says that with the fruit of goodness comes a new appreciation for what is
good, true, and beautiful. Have you experienced this as a Christian? Give examples
in any or all three of these areas.
APPLICATION
1. Exercise your appreciation for the good, beautiful, and true by visiting an art
museum, reading a classic novel, listening to some of the classic works of music by
Bach and others, taking a walk to enjoy the beauty of nature, creating something
with your own hands, or attending worship in a beautiful environment.
2. Reflect on something you did in the last week that you considered to be a good deed.
Reconstruct the complex motives behind it. How “good” actually was it, in your
evaluation? How did others see it? How did God see it? How possible is it to achieve
pure motives?
MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
In this day of self-assertiveness and macho heroes, the word “meekness” conjures up
the image of weakness. But the Bible offers a vastly different concept of meekness. In
this lesson, Dr. Sproul examines how meekness, gentleness, strength, and self-control
operate hand in hand.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
1. To be able to distinguish between the popular concept of meekness and the biblical
concept of meekness.
QUOTATIONS
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Meekness and Self-Control 49
LECTURE OUTLINE
3. The more power and authority one has, the more one needs to combine them with
______________________________.
a. Ruthlessness
b. Gentleness
c. Autonomy
d. The trappings of success
50 Developing Christian Character
4. Since Christians possess the power of God, they must temper that power with
gentleness lest they ______________________________ others.
a. Intimidate
b. Corrupt
c. Ignore
d. Outshine
5. Self-control is a manifestation of the Spirit, who is not the author of confusion but
of ______________________________.
a. Scripture
b. Divinization
c. Order
d. Both b and c
6. The growing Christian develops the ability to bridle the wild impulses that lead to
______________________________.
a. Happiness
b. Glorification
c. Destruction
d. Both a and b
BIBLE STUDY
3. Read the following Scriptures, and explain what they have to say about using
authority with gentleness.
a. 2 Corinthians 10:1–6
b. 1 Thessalonians 2:7–9
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
1. What kind of person do you envision as meek? Does Jesus Christ fit your concep-
tion of a meek person? Explain.
2. Dr. Sproul mentions a popular book entitled Winning Through Intimidation. What
do those who live by this secular philosophy usually win? What do they lose?
3. The political philosopher Niccolo Machiavelli taught that a leader is better off mak-
ing his subjects fear him rather than gently trying to win their love. Do you agree?
Why or why not?
APPLICATION
1. Identify one area in which you need to develop self-control. Recognizing that the
Holy Spirit is the source of a Christian’s self-control, what practical steps can you
take to allow Him to develop this fruit in your life?
Growing to Maturity
MESSAGE INTRODUCTION
When James Garfield was president of Hiram College, a man asked him to shorten
the required curriculum for his son. “He wants to graduate quickly,” said the father.
“Can you arrange it?” “It depends on what you want to make of him,” Garfield
replied. “When God makes an oak, He takes centuries. But He only takes two
months to make a squash.” There are no shortcuts to maturity in education or in
spiritual growth. In this lesson, Dr. Sproul will examine what it is we all need to
reach maturity in Christ: commitment, perseverance, patience, and the diligent use
of the means of grace.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
QUOTATIONS
The Christian’s armour decays two ways: either by violent battery, when the Christian
is overcome by temptation to sin; or else by neglecting to furbish and scour it with the
use of those means which are as oil to keep it clean and bright.
— William Gurnall
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Growing to Maturity 53
LECTURE OUTLINE
Study Questions
4. To be childlike in our faith, we must have such confidence in God that we trust Him
______________________________.
a. Normally
b. Usually
c. Often
d. Implicitly
BIBLE STUDY
2. Examine the following texts of Scripture, which call believers to be childlike. What
does their context indicate about the meaning of this call?
a. Matthew 11:25
b. Matthew 18:1–5
c. Mark 10:15
d. Philippians 2:15
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
2. 1 Corinthians 14:20 says to be babes in regard to malice. What do you gain or lose by
being innocent of malice (or evil), by not seeking to be “worldly wise”?
3. Do you see Christians avoiding serious study of doctrine and theology in the Church
today? What excuses have you heard (or used yourself ) against serious study? How
would you now respond to those excuses?
4. Read 1 Peter 3:15–16. Have you ever had a discussion with a non-Christian in which
you felt ill-prepared to defend or explain your beliefs? How did it affect you?
5. Having completed this series on Developing Christian Character, what new areas of
understanding will you draw on to promote your long-term growth? How will you
move toward increasingly effective use of the tools God has provided to aid your
growth in grace?
APPLICATION
1. Assess your attitude toward the serious study of Scripture. Is your Bible study what
it should be in light of your call to be mature in Christ? In addition to Bible study,
what other in-depth study are you now pursuing? What measures can you begin to
implement immediately to promote more serious Bible study?
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2. Read a thoughtful book on the Christian life or one of the classics of Christian lit-
erature by a writer such as Augustine, Calvin, or Luther. Discover what contributed
most to the author’s maturity in Christ.
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