Relationship in The Filipino Family
Relationship in The Filipino Family
o Pains
Topic 6: The Value Of RELATIONSHIP
o Struggles
Learning Objectives o Difficulties
At the end of the lesson, the learner is expected to: Honesty in Relationship
Learn the importance of forgiveness in a relationship o Honesty is the important element of relationship
Analyze some pressing points in relationship; and and face people whom we are in conflict with
Live the life according to a true relationship with the others We cannot put away ourselves all the time
and God for we are living in one world or planet.
Topic 6: Value of Relationship Relationship in the Filipino Family
Relationship has different States/Conditions o Parents are the two most wonderful
Honesty in relationship Who first provide the child what to cherish
Relationship in the Filipino family and value, and how and when to act
The means to success in Human relationship accordingly.
Effective Communication enhanced relationship o The family has always been a fertile ground
Biblical Foundation To develop good and mature relationship
“Do not judge other, and God will not judge you; do not o Everyone needs to cooperate
condemn, and God will not condemn you, forgive others, ad In order to maintain the care and trust,
God will forgive you” their parents strive to instill on the,
- Lk. 6:37 o Family member need to be tolerant and
“Friendship spill over onto the other important relationship of understanding
his life” To another’s faults and imperfections
- Alan Loy Mcginnis o Student as the Family Member
For friendship is something like a bridge that hold between Needs to translate love into action in order
you and other people. Then, we have a fine friendship with to promote harmonious relationship all
others even we are student, professionals, a Christian or throughout
non-Christian. o Some student who had experienced broken family
Realities of Rekationshio relationship
Relationship has different states/conditions Will also aspire to take good care of their
o Joy relationship in the future.
o Happiness The means to success is human relationship
o As we grow old, we experiences success. In every “True forgiveness os showing of mercy even when the injury has
success one reaps, there are people behind it- been deliberated. By then, forgiveness heals both the offender and
people important to us and have influenced our the offended”
feelings, thinking and behavior. These people are - Devasia Puthiaparambil
close to us or people we hate, may be our friends, It is wise to create a climate acceptance. We have a saying that
parents, brother and sisters, or some who has been “we hate the sin but not the person”
the ideal or model. - Mike Murduck
Effective communication enhance relationship As a Filipino Christian, “if we are to obey God’s commandments
o Many things to remember in a relationship of loving our neighbor as ourselves, them, we can establish
o Be careful not to fall into a wrong notion of love harmony and smooth relationship.”
o Happiness is not exclusive in relationship if you can Good relationships don’t just happen, they take time patience, and
manage well two people who truly want to be together.
o Joy is present when you are hood manager and Assignments:
leader in a relationship 1. How did you spend your time with the family?
o Pain is always present when you go beyond the 2. What are your activities that you believe enhance your
atmosphere of joy and happiness relationship?
o You will experience pain when there is conflict,
misunderstanding, betrayal, dishonesty, and the
lack of affirmation within the realm of your
relationship.
Common advices given by experts
Simple things do really matter. The more we are filled with love,
the more we fill love other, especially those below us
- Father C. P. Varkey
Forgiveness
“We must be willing to bless and wish the good of the offender.
There is neither resentment no9r revenge, no more repetition of
the hurt caused, because such repetitions are not signs of
forgiveness. Forgiveness involves affirming the worth and goodness
of the offender and the readiness to help him/her when he/she is in
need”