Narcissism in Romantic Relationships PDF
Narcissism in Romantic Relationships PDF
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SARAI BLINCOE
Longwood University
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METHOD
PARTICIPANTS
PROCEDURE
This study was conducted with the approval of the institution’s in-
ternal review board (IRB) and informed consent was obtained. Cou-
ples attended a laboratory session during the afternoon. Both part-
ners came to the session, but completed questionnaires separately.
One-week later, a subset of participants (N = 74 couples) completed a
competitive reaction time task (Taylor, 1967) ostensibly against their
partner. This task is a well-established, reliable, and valid measure
of aggression (e.g., Giancola & Zeichner, 1995). Participants were
told that they and their romantic partners would have to press a
button as fast as possible on each of 25 trials, and that whoever was
slower would receive a blast of white noise through a pair of head-
phones. At the beginning of each trial, participants set the loudness
of the noise their partners would receive if the partners lost the trial,
from 60 dB (level 1) to 105 dB (level 10; about the same volume as
a smoke alarm). Participants were also able to select 0 dB (level 0).
The duration of the white noise was also set by the participants pre-
trial. Of the 25 trials, the participants won a randomly determined
subset of 12 trials. Over the course of the task, participants experi-
enced increasing levels of aggression from their partner after losing
trials. A computer recorded all events in the task. Participants were
debriefed at the end of the laboratory session.
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MEASURES
DATA ANALYSES
RESULTS
HYPOTHESIS 1: INDIVIDUAL NARCISSISM WILL BE
ASSOCIATED WITH PARTNER NARCISSISM
See Figure 1 for an example model. See Table 2 for model coeffi-
cients. Female NPI score was positively associated with female use
of Cooperation, B = .023, p < .01, Stonewalling, B = .02, p < .05, Ver-
bal Aggression, .004, p < .05, Unprovoked Aggression, B = .079, p <
.001, Provoked Aggression, B = .452, p < .01, Extreme Aggression,
B = .275, p < .05, and Total Aggression, B = .094, p < .05. Male NPI
score was only marginally related to male use of Verbal Aggression,
B = .015, p < .10. Statistical comparisons of actor effects are shown
in Table 3. Two comparisons were statistically significant and one
was marginally significant. In all cases, the female actor effect was
stronger than the male actor effect, indicating that female narcis-
sism is more strongly linked to female relationship behavior than
male narcissism is related to male relationship behavior.
Female Grandiose/Exhibitionism was related to female use of
greater Cooperation, B = .030, p < .05, Unprovoked Aggression, B
= .120, p < .01, and marginally related to female Extreme Aggres-
sion, B = .462, p < .06. Male Grandiose/Exhibitionism was related to
male Stonewalling, B = .034, p < .05, Verbal Aggression, B = .040, p
< .05, and Provoked Aggression, B = 1.253, p < .01. One comparison
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DISCUSSION
FIGURE 2. continued
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