English Handout 1 G11 06.7.21
English Handout 1 G11 06.7.21
Addressing someone
When discussing this topic in a training course, a German trainee and a British
trainee got into a hot debate about whether it was appropriate for someone
with a doctorate to use the corresponding title on their business card. The
British trainee maintained that anyone who wasn't a medical doctor expecting
to be addressed as 'Dr' was disgustingly pompous and full of themselves. The
German trainee, however, argued that the hard work and years of education
put into earning that PhD should give them full rights to expect to be
addressed as 'Dr'.
This stark difference in opinion over something that could be conceived as
minor and thus easily overlooked goes to show that we often attach meaning
to even the most mundane practices. When things that we are used to are
done differently, it could spark the strongest reactions in us. While many
Continental Europeans and Latin Americans prefer to be addressed with a title,
for example Mr or Ms and their surname when meeting someone in a business
context for the first time, Americans, and increasingly the British, now tend to
prefer using their first names. The best thing to do is to listen and observe
how your conversation partner addresses you and, if you are still unsure, do
not be afraid to ask them how they would like to be addressed.
Smiling
A famous Russian proverb states that 'a smile without reason is a sign of
idiocy' and a so-called 'smile of respect' is seen as insincere and often
regarded with suspicion in Russia. Yet in countries like the United States,
Australia and Britain, smiling is often interpreted as a sign of openness,
friendship and respect, and is frequently used to break the ice.
In a piece of research done on smiles across cultures, the researchers found
that smiling individuals were considered more intelligent than non-smiling
people in countries such as Germany, Switzerland, China and Malaysia.
However, in countries like Russia, Japan, South Korea and Iran, pictures of
smiling faces were rated as less intelligent than the non-smiling ones.
Meanwhile, in countries like India, Argentina and the Maldives, smiling was
associated with dishonesty.
Eye contact
An American or British person might be looking their client in the eye to show
that they are paying full attention to what is being said, but if that client is
from Japan or Korea, they might find the direct eye contact awkward or even
disrespectful. In parts of South America and Africa, prolonged eye contact
could also be seen as challenging authority. In the Middle East, eye contact
across genders is considered inappropriate, although eye contact within a
gender could signify honesty and truthfulness.
Having an increased awareness of the possible differences in expectations and
behaviour can help us avoid cases of miscommunication, but it is vital that we
also remember that cultural stereotypes can be detrimental to building good
business relationships. Although national cultures could play a part in shaping
the way we behave and think, we are also largely influenced by the region we
come from, the communities we associate with, our age and gender, our
corporate culture and our individual experiences of the world. The knowledge
of the potential differences should therefore be something we keep at the back
of our minds, rather than something that we use to pigeonhole the individuals
of an entire nation.
1 The British trainee felt that the people who want to be addressed
as 'Dr' must be …
A hard-working.
B conceited and self-important.
C doing a medical degree.
D from Germany.
2 If you are not sure how to address someone, you should …
A use the title you see on their business card.
B make your decision based on cultural stereotypes about their country.
B address them the way you'd like to be addressed.
D ask them what they would like you to call them.
3 There might be a misunderstanding if an American smiles at a
Russian business associate because the Russian might think that the
American is ...
A being fake.
B challenging their authority.
C trying to break the ice.
D Disrespectful
4 The Japanese, South Koreans and Iranians might interpret a
smiling face as being …
A friendlier.
B less open.
C not as intelligent.
D dishonest.
5 The last paragraph warns the reader not to
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a) We are going on holiday next month so the children are staying with my
cousin. Said
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b) I believe that the robbers have escaped on a motorbike. Said the police.
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c) Yesterday, the children spent the whole day playing with dolls. Explained
the babysitter.
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d) Open your English books and do the exercises on page 10. Ordered the
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