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Transform Your Appearance (great title)

1. Introduction
2. How importance is appearance?
3. Accept the reality
4. Get the body of your dreams
5. Get a great clothing style
6. Hygiene and grooming
7. Your blind spots
8. Pro tips
9. FAQ's
10. Chapter Summary
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1. Introduction

Welcome to the section of your outer game, your

outer appearance.

This is too contentious a topic in our current social

climate and is where we discuss topics like how
important appearance is in dating, how we can
improve our physical appearance in terms of our body
and clothing style and other central issues around our
outer game.

The aim of this chapter is ultimately to shine a light on

my researched perspectives on the importance of
your outer appearance, help you understand the
significance and nuances of this topic, and then help
you, if you so wish to, engage in some
proven to work activities to help improve your game.

So without further ado, let's get to it.

2. How important is appearance?

How important is our appearance when it comes to

attraction and trying to find our dream partner?

Some say your height, weight, body shape, face,

clothing style, and overall appearance is significantly
important, and others disagree, arguing that an
emotional, perso attraction is what is most significant.

here’s my answer: appearances do matter, very likely

know how you would think.

The main points of discussion here are subjectivity,

and personaliedpersonality-based attraction.

From a purely objective basis, intuition points towards

looks in a sense, mattering.

Love at first sight is a phenomenon which researchers

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summarized as a strong physical initial attraction.

Plus, advertising, films, online, it is wrapped with

people of a certain appearance style which is typically
more quiet to very attractive.

Some of the components of physical attractiveness

include, a symmetrical face, good hygiene and a well-
kept appearance, a fit-looking body shape, and a
stylish appropriate clothing style.

Research states that men seem to value physical

appearance slightly more in terms of importance,
when compared to women, who value personality
higher up, however almost always not without the
presence of physical attraction.

and sure, you want to improve your appearance

where possible, continuously work on the above
things, and that logically is argued to be a very sound
approach.

Some important extra things to consider however are

the importance of subjective attraction.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, that’s the

common term, and I think there’s a lot of truth in this.

I’ve been rejected from women who I do not like at

all, only later on in that week to get a much more
positive response from another equally if not more
objectively attractive woman.

Whether it’s conscious or not, there appears to be a

faster rate of things contributing to the attraction that
makes it a highly unique, subjective situation.

What’s your type? That is another common phrase.

Many people find themselves attracted to certain

features, and that can vary from person to person.

Things like environments, anprevious experiences, are

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both central and controlling someone's subjective

opinion, as well as geography gives testament to this.

Opinions on collective beauty are considerably

different in Asia, where they bleach their skin white, in
the hope to look like they do jot work I The fields and
this have money and lower, compared to in the west,
when we try and tan our skin, in the hope to be
healthy and happy.

Personally, being white, anslightly ginger, I find I have

reasonably high levels of attraction. Women that are
the opposite of me, maybe they have darker brown
hair, or maybe they have darker skin. Interestingly,
that’s typically slightly less mutual attraction from
blonblonde-haireden. Having this information in my
dating artillery is very helpful. Reflect on your own
opposite and look at your own previous history of
dating for clues on your type.

To get a testament to this, I’m sure you discussed with

your girlfriends how certain celebrities, or people, are
attractive, and then you disagreed.

My best friend, we have such different taste in women

it is hilarious. He., coming from Eastern Europe, Is a
sucker for Eastern European, Russian-looking women,
and anything in this ballpark. For me personally, that’s
not my cup of tea, and on the occasion when we are
out and about, after we’ve engaged with some
women or whatever, sometimes we shower opinions,
and I don’t think once we’ve agreed, maybe once, but
or notis a sucker for Eastern European, Russian
looking women, and anything in this ballpark. For me
personally, that’s not my cup of tea, and on the
occasion when we are out and about, or after we’ve
engaged with some women or whatever, sometimes
we shower opinions, and I don’t think once we’ve
agreed, maybe once, but not more.

Love is blind, it’s another saying. Often there’s a

myriad of components that come together to result in
the person feeling deep emotions for that other
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person, but they’re not being able to explain it, I just

feel it.

Love is blind is a testament to more of a perso

attraction type, in my opinion. And there’s a great
Segway into personality bass attraction.

I said previously, fornaltedthat y-basi anything over a

substance, longevity, emotional attraction, also known
as personality based attraction, is central.

Things like loyalty, kindness, fun, sense of humor,

laughter, joy, compassion, the real stuff, this has very
little bearing on outer beauty.

zero? Zero bearing? Not quite.

I feel that they are mostly separate but not mutually
exclusive, meaning they both do play a part in the
overall picture, and without one the other is very
likely not to exist, and vice versa.

Beauty gets you to the door, personality opens it, as

another saying goes.

The in attraction, I would argue, one would be a fool

to ignore. However, emotional attraction is incredibly
important as well.

ForitIn a long run, meaningful relationship, personal

qualities of humility, kindness, mutual joy, that’s why
the real lovelies.

And it’s researched that being in love with someone,

and spending more time around him, makes him feel
considerably more attractive.

All in all, what can we take away from this?

I feel it’s clear, work diligently, daily, and a good

routine, to get to become the best version of yourself
you can become, on a physical, and emotional, level.

I think there’s nothing wrong with accepting some

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truth in the importance of physical appearance. I

wouldn’t disrespect a man for finding these things
attractive, just like women might enjoy Brad Pitt or
George Clooney to Lookout, or Elon Musk’s bank
account.

Beauty gets you to the door, and personality opens it.

I would like to, as your mentor, go through the various
components of what is considered to be out to be
eating with you, and get you to plan to help insinuate
these areas.

What parts of your face can you improve, what parts

of your body shape can you improve, what parts of
your clothing style can you improve, hygiene and skin
can you improve, your hair and accessories… All of
these come together in a weird mixture of concoction,
to help a person assign value.

What’s wrong with engaging in a fitness program to

look fit, what’s wrong with benefiting from our
fashion catalog, top you develop your style. What’s
wrong with copying attractive women’s hair, make-up,
accessories, to help you?

I feel all these things, in combination with getting your

inner, social skills, and bf game on point, to help turn
you into a meeting, clean, dream man finding
machine.

Accept the reality (delete, or make it

better?)

A good strategy is to accept reality. Except the reality

that we’re in, that you are in.

You’ve been dealt the hand you’ve been dealt with,

and this is the point from which we can work with.
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Sure, winning the genetic lottery and being Victoria’s

Secret model could be argued to be a good life,
however having known some of those women on that
beauty level, I can safely say they have their fair share
of problems.

It might not seem like it, but external beauty,

excessive amounts, large amounts of money, fame, all
these things that are highly desirable on a day-to-day
basis by many, what can you imagine how quickly the
novelty wears off?

Jim Carrey famously said how he wished everyone

could be rich and famous, so they could realize that
they didn’t need this in their lives.

The insecurity level and thus negativity of a lot of

attractive women are crippling.

It’s easier said than done, but accept the reality,

cultivate self-awareness of that reality, and try to
prosper in that reality.

4. Get the body of your dreams

The benefits of eating a healthy, active lifestyle,

plentiful.

Regular sport, and good nutrition, can help with your

mood, confidence, physical health, mental health,
spiritual health.

People who engage in sports and good food habits live

longer, live better, and live happier lives.

Being in great shape also bodes well for finding your

dream partner.

So much so, that you’re talking to a very serious

athlete who is very focused on improving this area of
his and others lives.
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Not only have I done over 10,000 hours of sport,

easily, categorized me as a master of some kind. I’m
also a certified personal trainer, qualified nutritionist,
qualified women’s fitness specialist, and a certified
glute specialist.

Without blowing my trumpet too hard, in terms of

qualifications I’m pretty much an Oprah of the chat
show host world.

I went on this journey because not oisy as one of my

loves sports, but one of my loves is also helping
people. Another one of my loves is learning about this
fruity topic of love, romance, and dating. Between the
three, I would say I have spent a good portion of my
entire life.

Over $10,000 experience in sports, A master's in

education and over 5000 teaching hours, and then
being an utter geek Jedi tent down on dating, makes
me very well positioned to lead an appearance
transformation program.

And as such, I’d like to propose the following to you:

let your outfit's appearance transform in full swing,
and get you engaged with leading a fit and healthy
life, of good nutrition, good exercise, and all the
benefits that you get from it.

My advice is, if you get in great physical shape, it will

not only do wonders for these previously mentioned
things like your mood, your energy, your physical and
mental well-being, but I also significantly help improve
your chances of finding your dream man.

I’m talking about a fitness, nutrition, and mentoring

program, enables you to fully transform your artificial
appearance.

I’m talking, shedding 10 to 20 KGs. I'm getting in great

shape.
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I’m talking about engaging in a slow, progressively

increasing fitness routine, when you learn to tone and
shape body parts to your liking.

Some of the discussed things that are optional are,

losing a ton of weight to get your body shape to your
liking, getting a flat stomach, getting booty perfection,
getting slim legs, and getting good posture.

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kino body)

Being a qualified nutritionist, I’m legally allowed to

give you nutrition plans, and provided you have no
previous medical history that might be judgemental,
we can get you on the first track to do art appearance
goals.

This combination of fitness, meal plan, and mentoring

keeps you accountable and focused, and is arguably
one of our best USPS at my boyfriend mentoring.

Is something we’re incredibly proud of, for the

following reasons.

Many fitness Currys championed the importance of

looking great, she looks great, do you have an amazing
lifestyle, you have the life of your dreams, etc. etc.

But when it comes to love, they’re missing a massive

component, the components of incompetence, social
skills, and being a good partner and learning what that
is about.

On the other hand, love carries the champion

importance of knowledge, being super clear on The
boyfriend formula, and cultivating a deep, clear
emotional intelligence. And although there are clear
positives of those things, without a doubt, I feel it’s
leaving an Assateague opponent, that is making you
as a product as best as you can be.
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Put it this way, all things being equal, would you like
your man to be in maybe not bodybuilding perfect
shape, but at least looking respectively fit, and like he
can handle himself and to you, and keep you safe?

Well on the flipside, don’t you think your mom would

appreciate you being maybe not a Victoria’s Secret
model, but have a reasonable baseline of fitness, and
body shape?

I don’t mean to smuggle in a weird hidden motive of

outer beauty being the best thing here, I just wish to
be a responsible mentor for you and your movement
forward by providing advice and direction that can
help you as quickly as possible, attain your dream
partner.

As with anything, it will take work and effort.

Howev,er the way I see it, the benefits significantly
outweigh the disadvantages, not to mention when
you bring factors like endorphins, improved sleep, and
a better outlook on life into the mix.

Does this sound appealing to you?

Isn’t it about time?

Well kindly see the entire book, consisting of

mentoring, fitness, and nutrition sections. This is the
Bible of getting fit, and creating the outer appearance
that your dream man can enjoy.

5. Get a great clothing style

Going further on the topic of our parents, fashion is an

important topic.

The reason for its importance is that it is a moderately

large component that makes up the first impression
one gets from a view.

Again, like with outer appearance, the level of

importance depends on person-to-person. Some
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people just aren’t that fashionable.

My best friend, for example, can be fashionable at

times, and other times it looks like he’s purposely
trying to get the fashion police!

[More on making fun of your best night, and the

importance of teasing, whether it be the best mate or
romantic partner, later.]

Similar to being fit, it reas depend on the person, their

preferences, how they are themselves, as to how
much weight I put on fashion sense.

The above is a testament to subjectivity.

And again, just like I mentioned in the outer

appearance chapter earlier, The further one gets into
the relationship, post initial dating and into the
honeymoon and relationship., The more important
emotional personality based attraction appears to be.

Just like a couple she’s been married for 20 years for

example.

However, that’s not to say that fashion and clothing

ever becom null and void.

It’s up to you to reflect on your ofashion style. I think

about how important it is to you, and how important
it would be to your dream partner, that’s how much
effort you put in.

You need to take responsibility for your fashion, as

well as your body shape and appearance, as well as
actually every component of yourself because it’s only
you that's gonna change and get you that
transformation.

Part of taking responsibility might be asking best

friends, family members, or loved ones, only the box
that you trust and respect, to honestly evaluate your
fashion. Maybe you don’t want to do this, and an
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alternative approach would be to compare your

fashion to our fashion lab.

When it comes to fashion, geography is a massive

factor.

Each continent, each country with image constant,

what is people that is, and even each part of the
country, often has unique nuances to their clothing.

Furthermore, within these areas, different societal

groups, ages, and genders all have their flavor so to
speak, again giving the testament to subjectivity and
how there is no one-size-fits-all.

Taking that into consideration, in our fashion lab, a

mixture of Photos and videos, wife reset far and wide
as you watch refills is considered to be good taste in
clothing stores.

Organize a fashion expert to

A) research styles for different

to include: colors, materials, patterns, shapes, which

all go together in some way...

on a date, were a nice mixture between your best

stuff, and appropriate sstaff No holes, rips, stains,
too old clothes etc, UNLESS you live on a beach and
that's the vibe / you are highly fashionable and you
know your shit.

So learn what nice shoes are and how to keep

them nice. Figure out how colors and clothing go
together and what is cool. It’s worth it.

I wasn’t ‘cool’ when I started, but now

I’ve learned how to become more so. Huge difference.
(Am I saying that you can’t attract women if you wear
Nike and have messed-up hair? No. But remember
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the old saying: “A blind pig can find an occasional

truffle…”) Of course, don’t overdo it. I’ve tried
the whole dressing well bit in the past to the point
of looking like I’m trying too hard. Now I dress
more ‘casual nice’. I wear a lot of Calvin Klein T-
Shirts with black jeans and nice black shoes, etc.
This look with a nice leather coat works well in
almost any situation. This is a look that you can put
together for a couple or a few hundred bucks (for
several sets). Here’s my mindset: Keep improving all
the time, even if it’s the SMALLEST DETAIL.

6. Hygiene & grooming

When it comes to hygiene and grooming, traditionally

women seem to be on top of the ball air, and it’s us
men that need help.

However, nonetheless, it’s important to raise

awareness on this topic, just to make sure you have all
the boxes ticked.

Having a basic hygiene routine is central. What does a

basic hygiene routine look like a colon?

- shower once or twice daily, deodorant

- fresh breath with a tongue scraper, brush your teeth
twice or three times a day [In other words after each
meal]’s and use mouthwash, drink enough water,
mints (not too strong, not too weak).
- makeup, nails, all the ‘eextracurricularactivities’,
depending on you and the lifestyle you live.

Men love the way women smell, fact. A brilliant little

trip but not many people know of, is to spray your
perfume under your armpits. Obviously still use the
deodorant of your choice, but we typically sweat and
release smell from our armpits, and spraying perfume
there, it gives off this magical aroma of perfume and
woman smell combo. Try it, and thank me later. The
same goes for the downstairs region, if you have a
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date, it’s always nice to be smelling of Gucci instead of

sweat down there lol.

Actually this is the important point, but we’ll address

it in the date section. When things are getting hot and
heavy, definitely go to the bathroom before to make
sure you’re fresh downstairs. I don’t wanna put things
in your head, but it’s much nicer if everything is fresh.

Depending on y’all personal style, shaving often could

be good. Again, more on that in the date section.

All the stuff might seem kind of obvious, but if you’re

interested in attracting men, it would be fruitful to
realize that these basic things are a necessity.

My recommendation is threefold, firstly just treat

these things as a routine, so that you get
unconsciously competent in them, in other w,ords you
just do them automatically. Secondly, if you’re not
sure about your hygiene ask a close person to you and
you trust, this is always a good reference point if
you’re unsure. And lastly, on one side you want to
become unconsciously competent in these things, on
the other side you don’t want to let these things were
your life, and you want to cultivate a healthy approach
to things like looking after yourself, treat it as self-love,
treat it as a nice ritual you do to treat yourself well.

Get a good cologne. Try Dolce and Gabbana, Cerruti

Image, or Gaultier for men. And don’t OVER-do it! No
cologne is better than a lot of cologne. One or two
squirts, applied an hour before you’re going to be
meeting women, is best.

7. Blind spots

Blindspot is an interesting concept, one that probably

we have a Blindspot around ironically.

The thing is, we don’t know what we don’t know, and

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how would you know that you don’t know it?

So how do we address such a thing?

Well, there’s a few ways in which you can approach

this.

Inner reflection. Where do you feel you are coming

short, I’m not getting the results you want? Is it the
initial phase of the dating process, and otherwise
you’re not getting enough dates, and there’s not
enough quality men approaching you?

Alternatively, are you going on dates and finding that

for whatever reason moving to the next stage isn’t
working so well?

Alternatively, defines getting after the first few days to

be no problem, but making something stick for a long
time for a relationship seems to be a painful process
of the men not committing?

Try and identify where it is that you’re struggling in.

In response to the above questions, if you’re not

getting enough guys to approach you, are you going
out enough to places where the single people are?
Are you practicing daily an active, healthy routine to
make sure you look as physically attractive as you can?
Do you have your fashion on lock and appropriate?
Are you being outgoing, talkative, flirty, and leaving
the signs for a man to come and approach you?

If for example you’re getting enough dates, but they

never go past one or two rounds, maybe we need to
work on your dating game, your inner game, and just
social skills. Or maybe you just need to get the hell off
of Tinder and go out and meet people the traditional
way, which is much more effective for getting a real
Connection that lasts longer.

Well maybe your partner selection skills need to be

improved, or your boyfriend's game, In order to find a
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man who wants to come out, and then be high

enough value for him, fine to find a man who wants to
come out, and then be high enough value for him to
do so.

Reflecting on these things, maybe with diary writing,

is useful.

However maybe your blind spot or spots require some

external input, this is totally fine and quite normal in
fact for any person in any field wanting to improve
themselves.

If it’s for your inner game, we have professional

therapists to really dig deep and help you here. That's
all part of the service, and a weekly private therapy
session, if that's interesting for you. If you have some
lots of questions, we have a group mentoring session
that we encourage you to be part of. And as always,
ask your mentor, Best friend, or even old partners or
ex-lovers.

It might be quite an uncomfortable thing to do,

however you need to seek discomfort sometimes to
grow. I should actually have a chapter title called seek
discomfort, or get comfortable with being
uncomfortable. But an old partner, or ex-lover,
providing you and it on moderately OK terms, and that
they are mature and kind, truly can be the best source
of feedback. i’m just gonna repeat that line, guess you
missed it: an old partner or ex-lover, providing you
ended on moderately OK times, and that they are
mature and kind, truly can be the best source of
feedback.

Does your breath smell very bad in the morning? Are

you passive aggressive from working too hard? Have
you got issues with your dad that you just really need
to get a hold of but that you’re not aware of?

Only an ex-lover or ex partner can truly keep accurate

feedback on their opinion, and it’s up to you,
assuming you take this leap and ask them, to identify
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how much truth is in this and if you need to work on

it.

I hate to say it, but if you’re single and struggling, the

section on Blindspot is something you need to take
seriously, because for whatever reason, the world is
not quite paying attention to it yet, and it’s your
responsibility to fix it.

On the other side of fixing it, it’s a magical world, a

magical world where you have intimacy, and
companionship, and I encourage you to be brave to
pursue that beautiful place with as much will as you
can muster.

8. Pro tips

There are a ton of things in reality that we could do to

improve our art appearance and thus attractiveness.

One of the top tips I would recommend ito s, look at

women who have the type of man you’d like, and see
how they do their body, they’re close, they’re outer
style.

Look at the type of man that you’d like to get to know

better, I think appearance wise, could they possibly
like in terms of the outer appearance of a woman.

In other words, the part-time social psychologist gets

accustomed to people watching, we all know a
woman loves a good person to watch :).

Make it a habit of noticing attractive people, or high

status people, or the type of man you like, or the type
of woman you think your mom would like. What’s
going on there, what can I learn, how can I adapt, how
can I evolve into becoming a high value woman.

Also, get an attractive woman who has a dream man

already, and befriend her. Get 3 new GF's in your
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arsenal, one of the type of person you want to be,

maybe a super fit friend who you workout with, one
who is super emotionally clever and who you pick her
brains with when it comes to all things emotional, and
one super awesome girl who has a great man and who
can teach you here perspective on being a great gf
and keeping your man happy.

Here are some random tips that come to mind but I

think any respectable mentor would advise you when
it comes to outer appearance, categorized in outer,
and inner things that you can do, to make yourself
appear more attractive.

Outer pro tips

Start a fitness plan so that you look in shape

Get clothes that you love, that you feel great in, and
wear them regularly.
grow your hair, nails, anything that signals fertility,
men love long hair.
Makeup
High heels?
Good posture, go to uprights.com, check out that
poster device, I have this and wear it daily, it’s a game
changer.
Read the above point on posture again, and if that
applies to you, read it a third time.
Engage in self-love and pampering appearance
activities, but get your nails done, regularly.
Teeth whitening, straightening?
Blindspot management is taken seriously
Perfume
Stylish accessories, sunglasses, jewelry, the good shit,
does not thave o be expensive just cool
Sleep enough

Inner pro tips

Endorphins from sports

Take the self-love chapter on page X very seriously
Flirt
Caffeine
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Cut out toxic people

Remember the things you love to do, hobbies,
Dancing? Painting? What things do you love and do
those things?
Improve yourself and enjoy hitting those mini goals
Hi King
Time with best friends and favorite people take
seriously
Have someone adore you
Flirt
Have sex, and then have a little bit more ;)
Party, be careful of the alcohol
(Sidenote, I party a lot, and most of the time I don’t
consume anything, just socializing makes me feel
great, try it? wake up without a hangover, with more
money in your pocket, I’m feeling great from
connecting)
More sex
Try to manage the downside, and get rid of unrealistic
expectations and other inner toxic brain patterns
Travel
Maintain a good sense of humor and laugh when you
can
Don’t take life too seriously
Get ample sleep
Sex
Fake it until you make it, combined with actually
improving
Get a cat? Get a cleaner for my living situation? Get a
sugar daddy so you can work one or two less days a
week?
More flirting and sex?

What I’m getting at is that ultimately, there’s a ton of

stuff that you can do to radiate good energy from the
inside, as well as radiate an attractive appearance on
the outside.

I feel this isn’t some voodoo fruity life coach stuff, this
is genuine, tangible, things that you can do to option
your game and make you more attractive.

Sidenote, a real professional spends time looking after

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their parents, whilst also cultivating self-love and

trying not to obsess over this aspect of their lives. On
one hand, mirrors, beauty magazines, and following
beautiful people on Instagram can be great in
motivating you, on the other hand, they can be a little
bit toxic, and subconsciously bad for you, and it’s your
responsibility to understand where you’re at, when
you need that stuff when you don’t.

I like to play the no mirror game (check mirror

minimum amount of times per day), no beauty
magazines, no Instagram gods or goddesses,
combined with work on my socks off at having a great
body, having some awesome clothes, and ensuring my
inner self is as close to full capacity as possible. I feel
this two-pr attack is optimal.

9. FAQ's

Definitely leverage the mentoring sessions if you want

to really get all your questions answered.

Here are some commonly asked questions and

answers to help you along the way

I struggle to get in shape, I’ve struggled all my life,

what’s your opinion on this?

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I don’t like the emphasis you put on outer

appearance, I find it not ok to push this school of
thought on women as it just adds to the already toxic
expectations that our society holds.

I’m sorry to hear that, and this is actually a sensitive

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topic for me, personally struggling with my

appearance considerably. Above being liked, above
possibly offending people, I made a decision to do
everything in my power to help people find real love.
I'll be fulfilled in this area of their life. If it means
offending people, or being falsely labeled toxic, when
I’m just trying to shine a light on as close to the truth
as I can muster, so be it. I’m sorry you feel that way.

I’ve never been fit, I have never been in social groups

that look after their physical appearance, how are you
gonna help me?

I’m sorry to hear that, I know what it’s like to be an

outsider, trust me. I advise to you would be,
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I don’t like this society. I wish there was less emphasis

on appearance. Surely there’s some men who don’t
care at all about appearance and just want me for
me?

My heart goes out to you, because I know exactly

what you mean. I sure wish there was less emphasis
on something that is luck orientated as our genetic
lottery. What I would say is, personality based
attraction is not only by the real Fruit lies, but it’s also
the key ingredient for a sustainable long-term
connection. Maybe you are not blessed when it comes
to your parents, but I would argue that what you lack
in the appearance department, you very much make
up for in personality. I’m not just saying that to blow
smoke up your skirt, it’s common knowledge that
attractive people as a result of being attractive I’ve not
had to work on their personality, and as such key
components like loyalty, communication,
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consideration, all things that they really lack. I would

argue that without even knowing you, just knowing
that you think you are or think you are less attractive,
as actually without you realizing it, gives you a huge
personality advantage, and that you’ve had to
cultivate a good personality to get attention in some
way. My argument to you would be, although it may
suck on one hand, your miles ahead of the
competition in the other department, and us just put
the work in and rounding yourself as a high value
woman from the stuff in this chapter, and pay
attention to the other areas of this book, and the rest
will fall into place.

How much work are we talking about here? What are

the expectations, and how long does it take, to get a
great body, and a great fashion sense?

How long is a piece of string? It all depends on the

subject of nature of your situation, what I would say
is, if you want to lose 20 KG, I’ll text around six
months, if you want to tone the shit out of your body
and get looking in great shape, this can be done
simultaneously as losing the weight, and so with
intense, diligent work and mentoring that we provide,
we can get your body in great condition and six
months. In regards to fashion, I would argue that you
could utterly pimp your wardrobe within a net time of
five hours and a few coffees. What does it take to
actually get good fashion sense and the wardrobe to
match, well first you spend the amount of time you
need to spend to get your body in great shape, and
then once you’ve reached out, your reward so to
speak, beat up your wardrobe. Going to the fashion
section, look at the brilliant library of examples at your
disposal, choose some or a style that you like in
particular, look at where you can buy that stuff, go
shopping with someone who has great fashion sense,
or order it online (polite notice, ordering online
requires that you order more sizes and fits, I’d
recommend probably in person and shops is better,
because even though it takes longer, you can get a
much better fit and the idea of what stuff looks like],
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and then bosh, Do thus shopping process A few times

and you are certainly in the top few percent of
fashionable people.

When it comes to the fitness and exercise plans, I

don’t like the idea of getting a meal plan and following
a strict nutrition diet, I’m quite fussy with my food.

Yeah, we get that, I’m really against having fixed

mealtimes, and I can’t State those in the slightest. My
best friend is incredibly fussy with food, and I used to
be quite fussy, so I get that as well. Part of the service
that we offer is understanding the food that we eat is
a massive part of our lifestyle, and that we need to
have an element of freedom and joy in it. With us
providing meal plans which consider this, specific diet
types like vegan, vegetarian, and other nuances are
flexibility’s that we offer as well.

I think you promote too much of an idea of self-

improvement, and I wanna be able to hold onto my
character and my uniqueness without fitting into your
mold of what you think a high-value woman is.

Sure, I think it’s incredibly important to maintain your

personality and the special Ness that makes you. I
don’t want to try and turn you into something that
you’re not, however, I do want to get you a partner. I
want so bad to get you your dream partner, and have
you live months and months and years and years with
the love of your life, decades. Because of that, and
because reading this you’re very likely not there yet, I
want to help get you to where you want to be. Don’t
lose track of who you are, what your values are, what
you like to be, and what you like to do, but you
consider working your socks off to become an
attractive partner, that’s what I would say.

I won’t ever be like those women with great bodies,

all those people with great fashion sense is, all those
high-status Classy women who have a great man?

Why the fuck not? Seriously, why can’t you get in

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great physical shape, why can’t you improve your

fashion, why can’t you benefit from our mentoring
services and work your socks off? Why can’t you get
comfortable with being uncomfortable, why can’t you
talk cut toxic people out of your life, why can’t you get
good at deciphering the difference between a fuck
boy and the man of your dreams? I think it’s time to
change these limiting beliefs, I think it’s time to make
this happen. What’s the alternative, imagine your life
in three, five, ten years if you don’t do this work.
Imagine being in your old age never having attained
true love, unfortunately, it is a reality that many
people men and women alike don’t find. Is my
purpose on this earth to help you find it. Period. up
your game. Raise your standards. Raise the bar, that’s
the only way in my opinion.

10. Chapter Summary

You’re outter game, your appearance has been the

subject of the section of the book, where we have
covered the important topics when it comes to
appearance.

First, we debated different opinions regarding the

importance of appearance, and we concluded that
appearances do matter, however not in the way that
we imagined them to be.

Subjectivity and the importance of personal

preference, geography, the era, social class, previous
experiences, You’re opposite, love is blind, your
environment, all give testament to how there is not a
one size fits all.

The fact that that is not a one size fits, fact that one
person can find you utterly adorable, and the other
person not, I feel, should help our inner game and
confidence.

The considerable length of this list, the fact that there

are so many components dictating what outer
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attraction is, really should help us cultivate a mature

boundary I’m thinking start around this topic: some
people are going to love me and adore me, some
people won’t, and that's OK.

Not only is that OK, but it also adds a very important

level of interest magic to the components of dating.
Imagine how boring it would be if things were
incredibly predictable and logical.

Sure, in one capacity, it would be quite nice just to

have things more predictable and is it navigate, but
we need to accept the reality, things are the way they
are, and we need to play the hand we are dealt with.

Putting in the work, taking the time and effort to build

an active, healthy life and thus get the body of your
dreams, together with improving your wardrobe and
making sure you’re fashionable and stylish, I think we
all agree, would be highly beneficial in your pursuit of
attaining a great boyfriend.

Combined this work with attaining unconscious

competence in the realms of hygiene, and grooming,
and you’ve officially leveled up, maybe several levels.

Blind spots are an interesting concept, how can you

know that you have a blind spot if you don’t even
know it’s there?

Do whatever is needed to do to become aware of your

blind spots, and then go to town with working out
how to improve them.

Reflect, ask, and discover. Sure that might mean

contacting an ex and getting outside your comfort
zone, sure it might mean finding out some things that
are a bit close to the bone, however, we need to put
long-term gratification in front of the short term in my
opinion.

We need to get to the bottom of why you’re single,

and then we need to be aggressive in figuring out how
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to either find someone who is OK with these

imperfections, or worker leveling up, changing these
things, or finding a way around them, there’s always a
way, it’s just about finding the optimal way to do it.
Cultivate this hungry attitude, this I can
attitude.

Finding a couple of women who you could befriend

and have them teach you the ropes on areas where
you are lacking, is one of the quickest ways for you to
improve your outer game.

Get a fit friend, get a clothe-stylish friend, and get a

friend he has a great boyfriend and relationship, And
hang out with them in their areas of expertise, and
the gym, clothes shopping, dinner.

Absorb what they do, how they do it, you become the
five people who spend the most amount of time with,
choose those people very carefully.

Choose people who are successful, who are more

advanced in those areas than you are, and help them
lift you.

Utilize the outer and inner pro tips that I provided, as

these will all help as well.

In closing, appearances get you to the door, and

personality opens it. work on both of those, and you
have a dangerous combination, a combination putting
you in the league of a high-value woman, the type of
woman that men go to incredible lengths to attain.

So what if it takes six months, what’s wrong with

disappearing for six months and working on yourself,
think of the reward that you would get if you put the
work in. In terms of investment reward ratio, isn’t that
one that has an insanely high positive yield?

Furthermore, imagine if you don’t put the work in,

and your life in one, three, five, or 10 years.
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Imagine reaching the end of your life and never

finding your true love, as mentioned, a reality that
faces is
many.

Up your standards, raise the bar, and I put forth to you

that, if you disappear for an extended period and
dedicate that to really being diligent and working to
yourself, the type of guys that you want and are
interested to get to know better, very likely start
making themselves available to you, and that’s where
the fun begins :).
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Copy this:

A perfect example of this is in this “Strawberry

Letter”—these are letters the Steve Harvey Morning
Show receives from its listeners— sent in by a woman
who was just starting to realize she was nothing more
than a plaything: I have been seeing this man for six
months and everything seemed cool until January of
this year. We’ve gone out and visited each other’s
homes, but all of a sudden, he’s stopped calling and
when I call him, he seems excited, but then he is very
short with me. He plans trips and cancels them. And
when I ask him if we should cut off all communication,
he says “no.” But he doesn’t act like he wants to be
bothered. I don’t know what happened, and I still like
him, but it just bothers me to know that something
could be on his mind that he is not sharing with me or
maybe he has found a woman and wants to keep me
in his back pocket

Need more examples of differences between sports

fish and keepers?