Resolving Conflicts in Workplace
Resolving Conflicts in Workplace
1. INACTION AS ACTION
Systems often reward inaction, which helps maintain the status quo. Keeping conflict
hidden might be the easiest path, but it leaves the organization to identify and respond
to the potential losses that accompany change, not to mention the new learning that can
be produced by orchestrating well the conflicting perspectives.
2. APPEAL TO AUTHORITY
Amidst conflict, we look to those with formal authority to resolve order, but such actions
to reestablish calm can hinder the organization's ability to adapt.
3. FIGHT OR FLIGHT
Like the acute stress response of the human body, parties within a system can respond
to conflict by going on the offensive (such as blaming others) or by going out of their
way to avoid it.
By failing to work with conflict, and the potential losses represented, we fail to
engage all parties and perspectives and lose creative tension.
The following strategies outline a process for orchestrating conflict. Although
they are presented as a linear process, the adoption of any of the steps can
help you begin the process of using conflict as a resource.
For more context, consider the example of a medical injury, such as a broken
arm. Disequilibrium spikes when the accident happens, but, after seeking
medical care, it decreases rapidly as diagnosis and care are received.
It's worth noting that technical work can 1) generate lots of disequilibrium and
2) be slow to decrease, depending on the complexity or severity of the
problem.
SURFACE CONFLICTS
Resist the temptation to conceal or minimize disagreement. Surfacing different
perspectives is an essential part of understanding the distribution of work
around the different stakeholders -- the different adjustments and new ways of
thinking or behaving that each party may need to do.
If you think your group has exceeded the limit of tolerance, you might employ
one or more of the following strategies.