The Milton Model
The Milton Model
The trainer was talking about his work with Milton Erickson, who is considered by
many to be the grandfather of hypnosis. He had the ability to look into your eyes and
communicate with a deep part of you, almost as though he was speaking directly with
your soul.
“There is a part of you that has been taking care of you, for many years. It is the part
of you that keeps your heart beating, that digests your food, that blinks your eyes, and
it knows much more about you than I ever will. And your unconscious knows exactly,
now that I am speaking to it and it can respond in the most appropriate way for you.”
And with that comment he closed his eyes and felt the most incredible deep sense of
being understood and acknowledged at a very deep level, and as that feeling welled
up and a tear formed in his eye, he realized that this experience would make changes
that ripple out into the future.
“Because I want that part of you to know, that I know, just how hard it has worked for
you, and I want to thank that part of you directly, because I know that for you to
change, your unconscious is going to help you out quite a bit.”
And after that, my friend said that an hour had passed by the time he had opened his
eyes again, and although he didn’t’ remember much of what was said, he had the
distinct feeling that allowed him to know, for the first time in a long time, that things
will be changing for the better.
He said to me, “The feeling is like hope, yet it goes beyond that. It is a kind of deep,
inner knowing, and even if you don’t understand it fully at the time, that other-than-
conscious part of you knows how and when it is being communicated with and can
powerfully assist you. Now I don’t know about you, but that sounds pretty good to me,
doesn’t it?”
I could tell that my friend had indeed learnt a lot and made some real progress at that
training, and was glad to have recommended it.
This is the Milton Model' which uses artfully vague language patterns.
The language employed allows the listener to insert his/her own meaning as it relates
to the situation they're facing, in order to give the communication concrete meaning.
Often a person will do a Trans-Derivational Search (TDS) so they can give a meaning
to this artfully vague language. TDS is a specialised trance state that the mind enters
in order to search through its memories for a certain experience or set of experiences
or to resolve an unusual situation.
The ease with which TDS is initiated and deepened in order to affect a person's
internal representations, makes the Milton model a very sophisticated method for
changework, influence or persuasion.
The following model can be used equally for "waking" (uptime) and "sleeping"
(downtime) hypnotic trances:
Cause - Effect "because..."; "makes..."; "if.. then" "as... then" The implication or
direct statement that one thing caused another: "because you are listening carefully,
you can enjoy ever deepening comfort and relaxation"
Complex Equivalence "that means..." Two things, or their meaning, are equated as
being synonymous: "you're relaxing now, that means that you are going deeper and
deeper into trance"
Mind Reading "I know that you're..." Claiming to know what a person is thinking,
feeling or experiencing without any external evidence: "I know that you're learning
things now"
Lost Performative "its a good thing..." Value judgements which delete the person
whose judgement is being given: "and it's a good thing you're learning things now'
Unspecified Verbs - A process that has been incompletely described: "you can learn"
Lack of Referential Index - "one can..." A phrase that has deleted the subject of a
verb: "one can learn"
Tag Questions - "...can't you"; "...haven't you"; "... isn't it" A question added to the
end of a phrase: "and you've learned many things in the past, haven't you?"
Pacing Current Experience - The process feeding back to the listener truisms about
his/her on-going sensory experience: "as you sit there, listening to the sound of my
voice..."
Conversational Postulate - A question that grammatically demands a "yes/no"
response but is requesting an action: "Could you look up for a minute?"
Double Binds A statement or question offering an illusion of choice: "Do you want
to go into a deep trance now, or would you prefer to go into the right level of trance in
your own time?"
• Punctuations! - a run on sentence: "use your head... right into trance novel'
Where the last word of one sentence is the same as the first word of the next.
• Scope - the scope of the context is unclear: "Speaking to you as someone fascinated
by hypnosis..." "I want you to draw a picture of yourself in the nude" "Speaking to
you as a child"
For example if the command were to "Consider why you want to do this." If said as a
direct command it would create a great deal of resistance, but you could say "I'm not
entirely sure how well you can consider why you want to do this." Thus working the
command into a sentence which does not offer the listener a chance to reject it.
Truisms about Sensations - "Most people experience one hand to be warmer than
the other." "Most people enjoy the warmth of a summer's day." "Many people feel
good, as they recognise certain facts about themselves."
Truisms utilising Time - "Sooner or later, your eyes will close." 'As soon as you're
ready you can go into trance now...."
Not Knowing, Not Doing - 'And there's no need to talk or move or make any effort."
"You don't even have to think about that now."
Open-ended Suggestions - "We all have potential we are unaware of, and we usually
don't know how it will be expressed." "He doesn't know what he is learning, but he is
learning. And it isn't right for me to tell him, 'You learn this or you learn that!' let him
learn whatever he wishes, in what ever order he wishes."
Covering all Possibilities of Responses - "Soon you will find yourself really
understanding this. Perhaps that will happen quickly, or perhaps it will take longer
and perhaps you will not think you understand anything at all. Let that be your sign
that you're learning at the deepest unconscious level!"
Compound Suggestions - Yes Set "The sun is shining, its warm, it is such a beautiful
day, let's go swimming." Associations "With each breath you take you can become
more aware of the natural rhythms of your body and feelings of comfort that
develop." Opposites "As the door closes feel yourself going even deeper into trance
now."
Negative - Tag Questions - "And you can, can you not?'; "You can't stop it, can you?"
"Why not let that happen?"
Negative - Until - "You don't have to sign the contract until you are ready." "You
won't do it until you've seen how easy it is."
Shock, Surprise - "Your sex life... (Pause) just what you need to know and
understand about it... (Pause) Secretly what you want... (Pause) is more important to
you."
Implication and Implied Directive - If you sit down then you will learn this more
easily." "If... then" statements
Binds and Double Binds - Approach - Avoidance "Would you like to sign the
contract now or later?" Conscious - unconscious "Your unconscious is the storehouse
of all your memories, skills and resources, so your unconscious mind knows more
than your conscious mind does, and if your unconscious mind knows more than your
conscious mind does, then you really know more than you think you do."