Core Belief Clusters
Core Belief Clusters
NEGATIVE ADAPTIVE
SURVIVAL
I am abandoned. I can survive / exist / get my needs met.
I am alone. I can survive / exist / get my needs met.
It’s not safe to feel. I can begin to learn when and how to…
I am unimportant. I have value regardless.
I am invisible. I can get my needs met.
RESPONSIBILITY
Control
I am powerless / helpless / trapped. I can control what I can in ...
I have to be in control. I can safely let go of some control.
I am responsible. I can recognize appropriate responsibility.
I should have done something. I did what I could.
Shame
I am... (core sense of self)
I am unlovable / undeserving. I am okay as I am.
I am worthless / defective. I am okay as I am.
I am bad / selfish. I can accept myself.
I am not good enough. I am good enough.
I am inadequate. I can accept myself.
I am responsible. I can recognize appropriate responsibility.
Guilt
I did... (self-evaluation of behaviors)
I am bad. I can learn from my mistakes.
I am a failure. I did the best I could.
I am responsible. I can recognize appropriate responsibility.
I have to be in control. I can recognize what I can and cannot
control.
I am powerless / helpless / trapped. I can control what I can.
I should have done something. I did what I could.
VULNERABILITY
I am vulnerable. I can protect myself.
I am powerless. I can control what I can.
I am helpless. I can control what I can.
I am trapped. I can control what I can.
JUDGMENT
I can’t trust my judgment. I can learn how to trust my judgment.