Attachment Bartholomew
Attachment Bartholomew
CHILDHOOD 11 ADULTHOOD
Dismissing Dismissing
‘There are other lines of adult attachment work that I have not covered, notably the work of West & Sheldon (1987) and
Sperling & Berman (1991). Also, I have not included subsequently identified fourth patterns of infant attachment and a
fourth pattern identified in the Adult Attachment Interview (e.g. Crittenden, 1988; Main & Hesse, 1990).
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In both streams of research, there is evidence that secure individuals have positive
conceptions of both themselves and others. The ambivalent and preoccupied also seem to
have a positive Orientation to others, as evidenced by a valuing of love relationships, a
tendency to fall in love readily, a tendency to go to others for support, and a preoccupation
with close relationships. But in contrast to the secure, they describe themselves in quite
negative terms. Finally, self-described avoidant individuals report a negative orientation
to others, saying they are distrustful of others and not inclined to fall in love readily. The
dismissing also show a negative orientation to others, especially in downplaying the
importance of close relationships. However, individuals in the two avoidant groups differ
in their self-conceptions. The avoidants identified by Hazan & Shaver’s self-report
measure describe themselves in relatively negative terms, whereas the dismissing
identified by the Adult Attachment Interview show a relatively positive conception of
the self. For reviews of these findings, see Bartholomew (1990, 1993), Bartholomew &
Shaver (in press), Shaver & Hazan (1993) and Shaver & Clark (1994).
In summary, there have been two very different approaches to applying the childhood
attachment classification to adults. These approaches differ in method of assessment (self-
report vs. interview), focus on content versus structure, and content domain (love vs.
family relationships). Though these different approaches have resulted in somewhat
consistent findings, the two groups conceptually tied to the infant avoidant pattern
appear to be characterized by different self-models.
Positive
Model of Other
SECURE PREOCCUPIED
Positive Negative
Model of Model of
Self Self
DISMISSING FEARFUL
Negative
Model of Other
Figure 2. Four-category model of adult attachment
strategy of regulating felt security within close relationships (Bartholomew, Cobb &
Poole, 1997).
First, prototypically seczlre individuals are characterized by a positive image of the self
and positive images of others. Consistently responsive caretaking in childhood is
hypothesized to have facilitated the development of both an internalized sense of self-
worth and a trust that others will generally be available and supportive. The secure are
thus high on both autonomy and intimacy, and they are comfortable using others as a
source of support when needed.
Preocctlpied individuals are characterized by a negative self-model and a positive model
of others. Inconsistent parenting, particularly if accompanied by messages of parental
devotion, may lead children to conclude that they are to blame for any lack of love from
caretakers. Preoccupied individuals are preoccupied with their attachment needs and
actively seek to have those needs fulfilled in their close relationships. The result is an
overly dependent style in which personal validation is sought through gaining others’
acceptance and approval.
In contrast, individuals showing both of the avoidant patterns avoid close contact with
others, especially under conditions of stress. Presumably due to a history of rejecting or
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unresponsive attachment figures, they have learned not to turn to other people as a source
of security. But individuals in the two avoidant groups have come to very different
conclusions about their own self-worth. On the one hand, the fearful have concluded both
that others are uncaring and unavailable, and that they themselves are unlovable.
Although they desire acceptance by others and are aware of their attachment needs,
the fearful avoid becoming close out of a fear or expectation of being rejected. The
dismissing, in contrast, have managed to maintain a positive self-image by distancing
themselves from attachment figures and developing a model of the self as self-reliant and
invulnerable to the potential rejection of others.
Thus, the preoccupied and fearful are alike in their dependence on others’ acceptance,
in their attachment anxiety, but they differ in their willingness to approach others for
support. In contrast, the fearful and dismissing both avoid seeking support from others,
but differ in their emotional reliance on others’ acceptance.
Any model is invariably a simplification of reality, and this one is no exception.
Bowlby’s concept of positivity of self and other models is a convenient organizing
framework. In practice, the two dimensions interact, such that the attachment patterns
are better described in terms of self-in-relation-to-other-models (Griffin & Bartholomew,
19946). In contrast to research employing the Adult Attachment Interview, the four-
category model conceptualizes working models that are more or less consciously held
(though they tend to operate automatically). However, I presume that at some
unconscious level prototypical dismissing individuals do feel negatively about them-
selves, and their adoption of a detached stance toward others is a way of defending a
fragile sense of self from potential hurt by others (Bartholomew, 1990). Similarly, the
positive model of the preoccupied masks a less conscious negative model of others, with a
tendency to idealize others acting as a defense against acknowledging that significant
others are, at least at times, uncaring and unavailable. The disparate self and other models
of the dismissing and preoccupied can be understood in terms of Bowlby’s conception of
multiple models (1973).
My first step in assessing the four-category model was to develop reliable measures of
the four attachment patterns proposed. The primary measure of the four-category model
is the Peer Attachment Interview (Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991), a semi-structured
interview exploring participants’ experiences in close friendships and romantic relation-
ships. Particular attention is given to those aspects of peer relationships most relevant to
attachment-such as use of others for emotional support. Based on these interviews,
trained coders assess each participant’s fit with the four attachment patterns. Although
my primary research interest is adult intimate relationships, this model is also applicable
to representations of family relationships (along the lines of the Adult Attachment
Interview). A Family Attachment Interview (Bartholomew & Horowitz, 199 1 ) assesses
the four attachment patterns in this domain. These two interviews have been used with a
range of samples, including college students (Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991), men and
women in violent spousal relationships (Saunders, 1992), adolescents diagnosed with
conduct disorder (Scharfe, 1996), and women undergoing treatment for breast cancer
(Bellg, 1995). I have also developed two paper-and-pencil attachment measures that can
be filled out by the target individual or knowledgeable informants such as close friends
and romantic partners (e.g. Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991; Griffin & Bartholomew,
1994a; Scharfe & Bartholomew, 1994a).
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Regardless of the assessment method, there are three ways that ratings based on the
four-category model can be treated. First, each method yields a continuous rating of each
of the four attachment prototypes, referred to as prototype ratings. These four ratings
provide an attachment profile for each individual. For example, an individual who is quite
secure, but with preoccupied and fearful tendencies, may receive a profile (on nine-point
scales ranging from no fit to perfect fit with prototype) of 7 on security, 3 on preoccupation,
2 on fearfulness, and 1 on dismissingness. Second, linear combinations of the four
prototype ratings can be used to derive ratings of the two underlying dimensions,
positivity of the self-model and positivity of the other-model (e.g. Griffin & Bartholomew,
19946;Scharfe & Bartholomew, 1994a). Scores on the two dimensions could then be used
to plot each individual in the two dimensional space shown in Fig. 2. Finally, the highest
of the four prototype ratings can be used to derive a best-fitting category membership. In
non-clinical samples we generally find that about 50 per cent of participants are
predominantly secure, with the rest distributed across the insecure patterns.
Much of my research over the past few years has been directed toward testing the
validity of this model. Various colleagues and I have demonstrated that the intercorre-
lations among ratings of the four patterns conform to the structure implied by the model,
that measures based on the model show adequate convergent and discriminant validity,
and that the two attachment dimensions are related to theoretically relevant outcome
variables (Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991; Bartholomew & Shaver, in press; Griffin &
Bartholomew, 1994a,b).
Although these analyses are important to validate the model, my primary goal in this
work is to understand the attachment-related problems that individuals experience in
their close relationships. I would expect the interaction of differing self and other models
to give rise to distinct interpersonal patterns and problems. I have used the circumplex
model of interpersonal behaviour (also referred to as the interpersonal circle) to look at
this question. From this perspective, interpersonal behaviours are seen as being jointly
defined by two dimensions: a vertical dimension of control (dominance to submission)
and a horizontal dimension of affiliation (warmth to coldness or distance) (e.g. Kiesler,
1983; Wiggins, 1982). Maladaptive interpersonal behaviour is characterized by a lack of
flexibility in moving around the circle in response to situational demands. The
instrument I have used to measure behaviour on the circumplex is the Inventory of
Interpersonal Problems (IIP; Horowitz, Rosenberg, Baer, Ureno & Villasenor, 1988). A
circumplex scoring procedure for the IIP yields eight problem subscales, one for each
octant of the interpersonal circle (Alden, Wiggins & Pincus, 1990). Profiles of
interpersonal problems for individuals or groups can then be constructed by looking at
mean levels across the eight subscales.
Figure 3 presents the interpersonal profiles for the four attachment groups from a
sample of 77 college students (see sample 1 , Bartholomew & Horowitz, 1991). The solid
line indicates self-reports and the dotted line indicates the reports of close same-sex
friends. The secure group’s profile of problems, though somewhat elevated on the warm
side of the interpersonal space, is not distinctive (i.e. no subscale scores were extreme). In
contrast, the dismissing group’s profile is centered on the cold side of the circumplex,
according to both self and peer reports. Typical items endorsed by the dismissing are ‘It is
hard for me to feel close to others’ and ‘A lot of people are not worth getting to know’.
Thus, the dismissing show interpersonal problems associated with distance from and
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coldness toward others. The fearful group’s profile shows elevations on introversion and
subassertiveness. Typical items assessing these forms of interpersonal problems are ‘I am
too afraid of other people’ and ‘It is hard for me to confront people with problems that
come up’. The preoccupied group shows a very different profile, characterized by
dominant warmth, consistent with these individuals’ active strategies to gain the support
of others. Typical items endorsed by this group are ‘It is hard for me to spend time alone’
and ‘I am overly disclosing’.
In summary, each attachment group demonstrates a distinct and theoretically
consistent profile of interpersonal problems. Of particular note are the different profiles
SECURE PREOCCUPIED
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Introverted
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Subassertive
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SubasSertlVe
DISMISSING FEARFUL
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Figure 3. Self-report and friend-report profiles of interpersonal problems across attachment groups.
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of the two avoidant groups (the fearful and dismissing), and of the two groups with
negative self-models (the fearful and preoccupied). These patterns have been replicated
across a number of samples, for self-reports and reports of romantic partners (e.g.
Bartholomew & Scharfe, 1 9 9 4 ~ ) .
Choice of complementary social partners may be one means through which attachment
patterns are perpetuated over time. We therefore looked at partner matching on
attachment ratings. As shown in Table 2 (this time using interview attachment ratings),
there were some reliable associations between partners’ ratings. Again consistent with
previous findings (e.g. Senchak & Leonard, 1992), the strongest association was between
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Table 2. Partner marching on interview attachment ratings
Male partner
~ ~ ~
the security ratings of the two partners. Consistent with the satisfaction findings, security
of women was negatively associated with the degree to which their male partners were
rated as dismissing, and security of males was negatively associated with preoccupation in
their female partners. However, it is important to be cautious in interpretation of these
cross-sectional findings. For example, the latter finding may indicate that secure women
tend not to select dismissing men as romantic partners (or dismissing men do not select
secure women), that secure women tend to select themselves out of relationships with
dismissing men over time (or dismissing men do not stay with secure women), that
secure females tend to help their partners to become less dismissing over time (or
dismissing men drive their partners to become less secure), or, most likely, some complex
combination of the above. Only long-term longitudinal work will be able to sort out
these alternate interpretations of the findings.
We also explored whether attachment security was associated with the degree to which
couples share similar views of each other’s interpersonal difficulties. An important aspect
of security is the ability to realistically evaluate our own interpersonal needs and
behaviours, as well as those of our relationship partners. We therefore expected that
security would predict agreement between partners on their interpersonal problems. In
fact, we did find that security of both partners predicted agreement, independently of
level of problems (Bartholomew & Scharfe, 1994a).
Finally, we looked at whether attachment patterns were predictive of break-ups in this
sample over a two-year period (Bartholomew, Scharfe & Henderson, 1996). We are still in
the process of looking at this data, but so far we have found no evidence that attachment
security is predictive of relationship maintenance. In fact, fearfulness of both partners
appears to be weakly predictive of relationship maintenance. From our experiences in
coding attachment interviews, it comes as no surprise that security does not necessarily
facilitate the maintenance of long-term romantic relationships. Secure individuals are
able to end unsatisfying relationships and even to feel comfortable without romantic
relationships for extended periods. Conversely, we tend to assume that insecurity will
undermine the ability of individuals to maintain long-term relationships. However,
insecure individuals are also at risk for getting involved in and being unable to extradite
themselves from problematic relationships-as dramatically shown in the samples of
abusive and abused spouses that we have worked with.
Theoretically, two individuals with the same primary attachment patterns will have
different interpersonal experiences if they have different secondary or even tertiary
strategies. For example, a secure individual who has a mix of secure and preoccupied
tendencies will look very different from a secure-dismissing individual. In research
practice, this means that even if we are faced with a special sample that does not include
the whole range of attachment groups, we can still expect the four prototype ratings to
yield meaningful results (e.g. Dutton et al., 1994). In terms of applying such a model to
individuals, for example as an aid to conceptualizing therapy clients’ interpersonal
difficulties, it would also be critical to consider attachment profiles rather than groupings.
Conclusions
In summary, this four-category models extends and integrates previous research in adult
attachment in a number of ways. First, it encompasses the different domains and methods
of measurement that previously have been studied in isolation. Second, it indicates that
there may be two distinct forms of avoidance and thereby helps explain inconsistent
findings from prior research. As well, in contrast to previous attachment work dealing
with groups with no clear relations to one another, this model proposes that there is an
underlying structure that specifies the relations between various attachment patterns. And
the model applies a prototype conception of attachment patterns that is more sensitive to
the complexity of individual differences than are traditional grouping approaches. There
are still many unresolved issues, both with this model of adult attachment and with this
approach to studying relationships in general. However, I hope that I have demonstrated
that the proposed model is a promising theoretical framework for understanding the
range of difficulties that all too often arises in close relationships.
Acknowledgement
This paper is based on a talk given at Attachment and Psychotherapy, the inaugural joint meeting between
The Psychotherapy Section of the British Psychological Society and The Psychotherapy Section of the Royal
College of Psychiatrists ar the Royal Society of Medicine, London, 10 November 1995.
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