Mate Selection Theories
Mate Selection Theories
Summarize the main points of each mate-selection theory by referring to pages 201-209 of
the textbook.
Conflict/
Feminist
Theory
(pp. 208-209)
Life-course
approach (p.
211)
Market
Experience
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text)
People are attracted to people with similar characteristics, socioeconomic status, and
ethnicity. The theory from the perspective of sociology differs from the concept of
homogamy in biology.
Have been best friends over the years and we know that Proximity is a major factor
more attracted to people who live closer than you.
They quite literally live together and have vey close and similar social circles
Highest correlation were found for age, race, ethnic background, and
even features.
Their sense of humor with one and other
There is a sense of safety that comes from familiarity and this is through their years of long and rich
history as friends
Examples of homogamy are people who choose their partners with who they share
similar life experiences, interests, or beliefs. People looking for someone with a similar
socioeconomic status or traditional and cultural customs is also a demonstration of
behaviors fostering homogamy.
Always wanted children
Supportive Dynamic: Monica and Chandler support each other in areas where they excel and
compensate for each other's weaknesses. For example, Monica's culinary skills complement
Chandler's lack of cooking expertise, as she takes charge in the kitchen while Chandler provides
emotional support and encouragement. Similarly, Chandler's ability to lighten the mood and make
Monica laugh complements her tendency to become stressed or anxious, creating a balanced and
supportive dynamic.
Mutual Respect: Monica and Chandler appreciate and respect each other's strengths and
differences. They recognize the value that each person brings to the relationship and embrace their
complementary qualities. This mutual respect fosters a sense of equality and harmony in their
partnership, as they work together to overcome challenges and achieve their goals.
Shared Goals and Values: Despite their differences, Monica and Chandler share common goals and
values that align with their complementary dynamic. They both prioritize family, loyalty, and
commitment, which serve as the foundation of their relationship. Their shared values create a sense
of unity and purpose, driving them to support each other and build a life together.