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The
ORGASMIC
Mind
Most sex advice books focus entirely on the physical aspects of
pleasure. Your typical pick-up artist material takes some really sexist
science and uses manipulation to engage in meaningless, sometimes
even abusive sexual encounters. This is neither of those things.
Though this is not a book about BDSM, many of the concepts we talk
about fit in within that realm better than any other.

In this final installment of our course, we are going to be talking

about the different ways that power influences relationships,
specifically how it relates to arousal, along with the ways you can
consensually and temporarily alter power dynamics in order to
create shifts in consciousness, elevated desire, deeper intimacy and
the sex of your dreams.

This topic can get a bit more complicated than some of the physical
techniques I've been teaching you. We're going to go over a lot of
psychological concepts, talk about the ways that the body and brain
are connected and how you can use this to your advantage. We will
explore power in all its varieties, discuss the responsibilities you have
as someone wielding power, and then get right into the specifics of
how to move, use, and improve the way that power works in your
sex life.

Remember that playing with power requires a great deal of trust. Go

slowly through the techniques and exercises in this book. Be honest
with your lover, but just as importantly, be honest with yourself.
Power can be a hot topic. We often develop serious shadows,
debilitating fears, bad habits, negative reactions, and congested
stuckness around experiences of power. This book is all about using
your power for good, so make sure you are tuned into your best
intentions when you do this work.
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The Many Kinds
OF POWER
It's time to get into the specifics of what power is and
what it can do for you in your relationships. We often
have a heavy bias in our understanding of what power
is, or what it means to be powerful. I want you to
loosen your grip on some of those ideas while we work
through this chapter. We will explore the different
kinds of power that might seem to exist outside your
understanding of how the world works. Open your
mind a bit while we try to understand how power can
be used for good.

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What is Power?
When I talk about power, especially sexual or erotic
power, what do I mean?

Truth is, you can ask dozens of people what "power"

means in the context of their relationship and get
dozens of different answers. But to put it simply,
power is the potential to create or manifest some kind
of action in the world. Power is potential. The potential
for what?

In this case, we are talking about the power to give,

take, or deny experiences of pleasure.

In the wider world, power is usually portrayed as the

ability to apply force to someone else, either to stop
them from doing something you don't like, or to make
them do something you do like. This is a narrow view
of power, though it does describe one specific kind
that we'll talk about in a bit. Working with the other
three kinds of power described below may require
some effort on your part and by your lover.

Finding our own personal power, discovering what that

power can do, and joining that power with others are
also part of the process, parts that really aren't taught
to us in our culture. Even our concept of teamwork is
based more in the us-versus-them ideal than the hope
of what can be done together.

In order to really make the most of the power play

you can explore in your relationship, you need to
understand all four of the following kinds of power and
be able to use them effectively both as individuals and
as a couple.

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 1. Power Within
The first kind of power is the one we are
born with, the innate power of existence.
This is the power of self-worth, self-love,
self-consciousness, and self-exploration.
This is the power where dreams begin,
in our beliefs that we are deserving of
pleasure in the first place. Power-within is
the strength to have hope and to keep on
going when things are tough.

Power-within is the drive that says you

should keep learning, keep getting better
at giving and receiving pleasure, keep
changing and growing and working
towards a healthier, stronger relationship.
Working to boost this power helps you
and your lover both feel more worthy
and deserving of each other's love and
affection.

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 2. Power To
This is where power-within meets the real
world. Power-to is the ability to act in the
world, to make change, to be someone
of consequence. It is the power we have
to manage our own lives. This is personal
ugency, our ability to claim our personal
power, make decisions about our desires.
The power to experience pleasure
requires that we speak about our desires,
examine what we enjoy, think about the
effects from our own actions and the
actions of others in the world.

In sex, power-to is our belief in our

own ability to give or receive pleasure,
the confidence we have in our skills
rather than our worth. It is the ways we
allow ourselves to perform sex, to talk
about sex, to play sexual roles in our
relationships. For both women and men,
the roles we are supposed to play in sex,
and the roles we are traditionally allowed
to play are quite narrow. Having strong
power-to means learning to expand these
boundaries, to explore their edges in
meaningful ways.

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 3. Power With
Power-with is the primary force of great
sex. This is what we get when power-
within and power-to meet between two or
more people to create an amplified force
for change in the world. You experience
this as the exponential difference in
pleasure potential between masturbation
and sex with a lover. The two can hardly
be compared!

When we allow power-with to be in

control, we can continuously ramp up
our experiences of pleasure, building off
one another. Instead of one person being
in charge and consistently controlling
the actions of the other, both partners
have the chance to play with possessing
power. If you've ever had a wrestling
match with a lover that ended in amazing
sex, especially if you were physically
challenged during the experience, you
know what I'm talking about here.

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 4. Power Over
This is the kind of power most people are
comfortable and experienced with, which
can be a problem during sex for a few
reasons. In general, women are taught
that men should be in charge of going
after sex, while they are required to resist
or protect or otherwise "gatekeep" the
experience. In this case, it's expected that
the man will use his power-over to take
sex, even if we aren't being overt about it.

Of course, consensually and with

conscious attention, this kind of scenario
can be really hot! The trick in using power-
over to have great sex is in the processes
and rituals used to move power around.
I assume that in your ideal relationship,
most of the time power is shared between
you and your partner equally. You may
each have different experiences, different
roles and expectations, but generally
speaking, you consider each other
equals and you would never consciously
manipulate, coerce, or force your partner
to do something she doesn't want to do.

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Therefore it is critical that when you plan to change the
balance of power for the purposes of great sex, you
ritualize the experience. She agrees to give up some
power while you agree to take this power on.

I know that this sounds a bit scary and confusing

and maybe even like a totally creepy BDSM romance
novel, but it's not nearly as complicated as it sounds.
In the next couple of chapters, I'll walk you through
all the ways that power can be transferred and used
to enhance your sex like and your relationship,
without the need for any weird contracts or expensive
dungeons. Keep reading!

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The
RESPONSIBILITIES
of Power

Before we get to the meat of this lesson - the chapter

addressing specific techniques for using power to
increase arousal in your lover - I want to talk a bit
about that saying, "With great power comes great
responsibility."

You see, when we make decisions to use our power

to make something happen in the world, it's really
important to be conscious of the consequences of
those actions. Especially when we are talking about
using power within your relationship, you have
responsibilities that are part of your partnership that
you should try to be aware of as you work through the
rest of this lesson.

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To Love
This is the first and most important point you need to
remember. You are here because, presumably, you are
in a committed relationship with someone you care
about deeply and with whom you want to have super
awesome mind-blowing sex.

In order to make the most of your time together, it's

important to remember the reason for all the work
you're doing. You love your partner and you want her
to enjoy as much pleasure as possible. It might be a
challenge for you to let go of some of the more selfish
reasons we take on these challenges, but there is no
reason it has to be one way or the other - your desires
or hers. You can have what you both want most, if you
make love the motivation and the goal.

To Honor
Part of sharing, transferring and manipulating power
is the recognition that power is important. Not only
must you look at your own power and hers square on,
you must acknowledge that it exists. Only then will you
have the opportunity to work with it tangibly, move it
around, shape it the way you want.

Honoring the power that is innate in you and your

lover is the most basic exercise for increasing power-
within and power-to. When you create rituals around
honoring each other, expressing shared intimacy and
desire, and boosting your own inner power, you create

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bonds which improve your ability to manifest together
power within action.

Honoring means bringing something sacred to the

exchange of power. It means seeing something special
in the sex you are having. This isn't just about feeling
good physically. It encompasses all aspects of the
self. Another very important aspect of using power
is understanding the function of boundaries. The
time and space in which you plan to explore power
manipulation needs to be set aside from regular life.
Honoring the moment, recognizing that you are doing
something that requires your conscious intention and
attention, is the first step.

To Obey
You might think that this is something about
dominance and submission, taking orders and obeying
them, but it's not. No, this is much more fundamental
than that. The play you engage in that involves
someone giving commands and another following
them is just that - play.

When I talk about obeying the rules, I am talking about

consent.

Power exchange and manipulation is most effective

within specific boundaries. In order to obey the rules,
you need to set them. You need to get a clear idea of
boundaries and edges. What is going too far and what
is just far enough? Do you need to play with a safe
word? Or are you just going to play it by ear and let her
tell you when something isn't working? Crossing

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boundaries is a major violation of trust, so you better
make sure you know where those boundaries are
before you start playing around the edges!

To Serve
Another one that sounds a lot like the "submissive"
behaviour, right? But let's go back to my very first point
about love. What are you doing this for? Who, or what,
are you serving?

Before you start to play with power, it's vitally

important that you fully comprehend what it is you
aim to get out of it. If you are here to improve your
relationship, give your partner more pleasure, get your
own rocks off harder, or just help you through the
boredom of a sex life in a rut, you need to be able to
pinpoint this motivator and determine how it might get
in the way of acting from a place of trust and love.

So what goal do you serve?

There is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of in saying,

"My own pleasure." I've been writing a lot about giving
more pleasure, but you shouldn't ever feel ashamed
about wanting to receive more pleasure, either. But...
if you are going to be playing with power, you need to
have your priorities safe. You lover's trust, happiness,
and personal safety - emotional and physical - need to
come above your desire to feel more sexy stuff.

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To Protect
And that's where our final responsibility comes in.
When you are in any position of using your own power,
especially in any situation where you have more power
than someone else (even if only by conscious choice
on their part), you have an important responsibility to
use your power wisely! Not only that, but you must be
extra careful that what you do with that power does
not cause harm.

This means doing a lot of research on the things you

find sexy, the techniques you want to implement, the
toys you want to use. It means digging deep into your
history and your lover's old stories, digging down to
the bottom of your sexual fantasies, figuring out where
your ideas about pleasure come from, making sure
you aren't going to bump up against any old, nasty,
scary bits of past trauma while you are exploring. And
then making sure you have a back up plan anyway, just
in case you hit a rough spot you didn't know existed.

I'll talk more in the next two chapters about safety

precautions, important conversations, and other
techniques you can use when playing with power to
keep things safe and real.

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The Powerful Man:
AN ASSERTIVE,
Dominant Leader

Traditional masculinity is a bit of a vice. And honestly,

I'm all for challenging the kinds of stereotypes
about "real men" that tell us we aren't allowed to be
emotional, all we want is sex, and that the best way for
us to get what we want is by being aggressive.

So before we go any further, I'm going to stop you

here and make it clear that this isn't what we're talking
about here. This chapter is all about ways that you can
use assertiveness, dominance, and leading techniques
to boost sexual arousal. These are aspects of your
personality which may be very underdeveloped,
but they can be incorporated into a healthy modern
masculinity.

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Displays Of Power
In line with the whole aggressive ≠ assertive thing,
what a lot of guys consider to be displays of "power"
actually end up being something else entirely. It's a
display alright, but one of anger, fear, arrogance and
force. Nothing about that is sexy, no matter what bad
porn might tell you.

Displaying power is about self-control, self-awareness,

and self-esteem. Without these three supporting
forces behind you, any display you attempt is going to
come off as desperate, crude, or just plain abusive.

If you struggle with confidence in any of these three

areas - and trust me, we all do at one time or another
- stop focusing on trying to look tough and start trying
to look like a guy who knows what he's doing. Because
that is the real key to power, having it all together.
Or at least having your shit together enough that you
seem like a trustworthy guy.

Having and using power in a sexual relationship

requires so much trust. And if it seems like any time
you try to appear "powerful", you really are just flying
off the handle with wild aggression. And you are
obviously not the kind of guy a woman can trust to
take her to her deepest, most vulnerably pleasurable
places.

When you know what real power looks like, when you
believe in your ability to possess and share power,
you can begin the work of perfecting the three aspects
of the powerful masculine sex god: assertiveness,
dominance, and leading.

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Assertiveness
Assertiveness is about knowing what you want and
going for it with gusto. It isn't about forcing someone
to do something against their will, or intimidating
them, or otherwise imposing your will onto others.

Being the assertive type starts with self-awareness.

What is it you actually want from life and why do you
want it? What are your sexual desires and why do
those specific things really get you off? If you want
to exhibit inner power with regards to sexuality, you
need to be able to talk openly and honestly about your
sexual desires with the understanding that while no
one is obligated to fulfill those desires for you, you are
committed to having your desires met and doing what
it takes to find a way to make that happen in a safe,
sane and consensual way.

You can practice being assertive in all aspects of your

life - at work, at home, at play, when you're out to eat
or on the subway. Know what you need and say it,
without pushing your expectations on others. Simple
statements like, "I really want to _______," will always be
better than starting your sentence with, "We could..."
or "Would you maybe like to..." especially when it
comes to sex.

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Dominance
Pop culture, especially porn, tends to portray
dominance as abusive. (I don't care how much your
woman loves 50 Shades of Grey, that shit isn't cool.)
I'm not going to teach you how to be a stalker, or a
creeper, or to pressure your partner into having the
kind of sex she really doesn't want to have just so she
doesn't have to be afraid of displeasing you. That isn't
dominance. That's domestic violence.

So what is dominance then?

It comes down to a bit of confusion about the

differences between power and control. A sexually
dominant partner who truly loves the woman he's
with knows that being dominant may involved a lot of
displays of power, but that the partner on the receiving
end of that power has just as much control over what
happens (or doesn't happen) as the person who is "in
charge" of the sex scene.

In other words, a dominant man takes the physical,

emotional and psychological well-being into his own
hands, using what he knows about his own desires and
the desires of his partner to orchestrate an intensely
pleasurable or cathartic experience.

You might be barking orders or even inflicting a little

bit of pain, but neither of these things are required
for you to take a dominant position. Dominance is the
action you take based on your assertive declaration of
your own desires, with full knowledge, understanding,
or at the very least a deep respect for the desires of
your lover.

This is why safe words become so important in power

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play - the dynamics of power can make it challenging
for a timid, receptive, or submissive partner to
articulate what it is that they want, to say no when they
mean it. Safe words can be less tricky, have less stigma
associated with it. For all too many women, saying
"RED" is just infinitely easier than having to say "No.
Stop. Don't."

And beyond safe words, a man who is skilled at

dominant techniques knows how to watch his lover,
to tell when something is not quite right, to check in
and make sure she's okay. Dominance should never be
used as an excuse to be selfish, uncaring or negligent.

Leading
Where dominance is the role you play when you take
assertiveness in sex into power play, leading is the act
of orchestrating itself.

You aren't a drill sergeant or a kidnapper or an

interrogator (unless that's the kind of role play she's
into, of course) - you are the leader of the pack and
she wants to follow you.

So you better know where you're going.

This is the skill of leading, a set of techniques which I

will cover in depth in the next chapter. All about having
a goal in mind of where you and your lover want to go
with your erotic exploration, then using your assertive
nature, projecting dominance, leading is the act of
taking her where she wants to go.

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Being a leader in the bedroom takes insight, focus,
self-control, and imagination. These are things that you
will probably need to develop over time. I think that
most of us have such awful role models when it comes
to being dominant, in the bedroom or out of it, that we
shy away from it altogether, fearing so much that we'll
turn into the abusive asshole we see all too often, that
we end up being totally passive instead.

Your lover deserves better than that. She deserves a

man who is ready and willing to take the lead, happy to
stand up and give her exactly what she wants.

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Taking
CONTROL
to Increase Arousal

This is it, your big chance to jump in and take control.

We've discussed the aspects of control and the ways
you can exhibit power. But control is going to look a
little bit different on everyone. So what does control
look like in your relationship?

In this chapter, I'll cover everything you need to know

to understand what power does to the body and mind,
how it moves from one person to another, how to talk
about and communicate power in other ways, and
what to do with power when you have it.

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Power On
Three Levels
The dynamics of power play take place on three levels
- conscious, subconscious and unconscious. Each of
these levels needs to be address individually when you
get to the work of taking control.

On each level there are different techniques you can

use to solidify power, but first let's talk about how
power works in each of these realms.

1. Conscious
On this primary level, power has effects
on the conscious mind in the most
obvious ways. Within the realm of her
own awareness, your lover may want
to please you, or to play with being
sexually submissive. She may want to
explore certain kinds of sensation or
simply to enjoy the pleasure of letting
someone else make the decisions for a
while.

2. Subconscious
This level is where the desire for
sexual submission (or dominance
for that matter) usually begins. The
subconscious is where all our darkest
desires begin. In this realm, we respond
to physical cues, tone of voice, turns of
phrase. These are the things you can do
that make her wet even if she isn't even
sure why.

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 3. Unconscious
Unconscious cues for power play are
typically not there to begin with. Unlike
conscious and subconscious cues, which
are generally based on personal history
and cultural conditioning, unconscious
desire is like Pavlovian conditioning.

Use the right rituals leading up to your play. Perform

the right set of actions, wear the right clothes, use the
right cologne. Any kind of sensual stimulus that you
can begin to associate with power play and sexual
pleasure will eventually turn into unconscious cues
with visible physical effects.

Transferring Power
So we've talked a bit about how in an equal
relationship, there needs to be some kind of shift in
power to play with dominance in your sex lives.

Lucky for you, the same techniques you can use to

stimulate unconscious desire and willingness to give
up control are exactly what you can do to transfer
power. When doing so, it is most effective to address
all three levels of attention that we talked about in the
previous section.

On the conscious level, rituals which create clear

boundaries between "regular" time and "power play
sexy" time is very important.

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This solidifies in both of your minds when your
dominance and her submissiveness begins. And when
it ends.

To address the subconscious level of desire, you

should implement in your rituals sensual cues which
already put her in an aroused and submissive state.
What scents, what sounds, what sights get her going?
What physical sensations put her in the right head
space - your hand on the small of her back, on her
throat, around her wrists?

The process of transferring power begins as a purely

symbolic ritual. Of course you aren't actually going to
be all of a sudden in complete control of your lover's
body or mind. People don't actually work that way. And
chances are incredibly high that she doesn't want that,
even if it is a sexy fantasy.

This isn't a book about how to hypnotize someone

into being your sex slave, because both of us know
that isn't what you really want. You want a highly
responsive, totally into you, wild, lusty, fully in her own
body and mind woman, who just so happens to want
you to take the lead and give her the kind of hot, rough
sex she craves.

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Communicating
Power
So, you have the power. You've been given this
incredible gift by the woman you love, an offering of
herself over to your control.

What are you going to do with it?

First and foremost, you need some way to

communicate not just that you accept the power
she's offered you, but that you know what you're
doing with it, that it is in some way useful or beneficial
or enjoyable for you to have her in that vulnerable
position.

So, what are the ways you can best send that
message?

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 1. The power behind your
eyes.
A good, long stare can do amazing
things. Making eye contact in a way that
shows you are focused and intent on her
pleasure is only the beginning. You need
to perfect your gaze. I am not kidding
when I suggest practicing in the mirror.
You want to make the kind of eyes at her
that feel like you are looking right through
her skin, inside her mind, deep in her
heart and soul.

Your eyes are perhaps your most

expressive facial feature, so make good
use of them. Look at her like she's the
only woman in the world and everything
you desire is locked up tight inside of her,
just waiting for you.

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2. The power in your voice.
When I talk to women about the biggest
mistakes guys make in bed, they almost
unanimously say that it's his voice. Too
many guys think that the best way to
sound sexy in the bedroom is to sound
like they're in a porno, inuenndo dripping
off ever syllable.

Pro tip: Don't do that!

Instead, pick up a microphone and

practice recording yourself talking dirty.
You're going to need to get good at it
if you want to master dominance and
leading, so don't be shy. If you aren't sure
what to say, start off by reading some
erotica. Ultimately, practice fantasizing
about your power play and saying things
you would like to say to your lover.

Now listen to what you've recorded.

How do you sound? It's pretty much a
guarantee that at first try, you're going
to sound totally ridiculous. That's okay,
it's perfectly normal. Few people get a lot
of practice with this! Just keep practicing,
trying to make your voice sound as deep,
even, and otherwise normal as possible.

Deep is good. Confidence is great. But

don't overdo it.

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 3. The power of your body
language.
Your most powerful asset is by far your
body language, the way you move, the
way you touch. How you use your body
to control her will really depend on the
kinds of things she's comfortable with -
something you should obviously discuss
at length beforehand. But some popular
choices involve pinning her down with
your hands or just the weight of your
body, covering her eyes or mouth, holding
her neck, pulling her hair, swatting her
ass, or even just holding her hips extra
tight while you take her from behind.

It can also mean simple things like

standing up tall, holding your shoulders
back and your chest open. It can mean
stimulating her directly and without
hesitation or tentative touches. When you
are using your voice, you learn to make
statements, not questions. Do the same
with your touch. Make each moment of
skin on skin contact a statement, rather
than a request.

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Managing Power
When you have a grasp on communicating with your
body and your voice that you accept power and
are ready to take control, you need to actually do
something with it besides your normal sexual routine.
Here are three quick ways to keep that arousal leveling
up just with the power of dominance.

1. Tell her what to do.

Just say it. "I want you to..." is a great
way to go for guys who can't just come
out and give an order. Telling her to
take off her clothes, to spread her legs,
to touch herself, to touch you, giving her
instructions on what to do when you're
away during the day, or how to prepare
for your return - these are all simple
ways to let her know that you are in
charge and that since she has agreed to
give this power to you, you expect her
to comply.

Obviously, she knows (and should be

reminded beforehand) that there is no
obligation here - this is for both of your
pleasure. That's what safe words are
for, if she isn't comfortable just saying,
"No."

2. Show her what to do.

Whether you're still feeling a little shy,
you're having such a great time that
words just won't come, or you happen
to have your mouth full, there are
plenty of ways to show instead of tell.

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 Use your hands to put her body into
the position you desire. Put your hand
on top of hers when she's stimulating
you, or rest your palms on the back
of her head while she goes down on
you. Pick her up and put her where
you want her. Using your body to show
her how to touch you, where to move,
or what to do next is a great way to
keep the energy high even when you're
breathless.

3. Just do it!
And finally, what do you do, when it
comes down to the most intense stuff,
when what you both really want is to
just get at each other fast and hard until
neither of you can take it anymore? Just
do it! Get in there, growl in her ear and
take her rough and hard.

And if you're really out of breath and need a bit of

extra oomph to get you over the edge? Get her to do
the talking! There are few things women love more in
the heat of passion than knowing they have the power
in their words to bring their lover over the edge. Deep
down, she wants to tell you how great it is. She just
might need a little coaxing.

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Practical
EXERCISES
The following two practical exercises are designed
specifically to help you first learn how to plan and
execute a hot and heavy evening with your lover,
then to have the same powerful effect on her without
needing to plan ahead of time.

Learning how to have hot sex on the fly can be tough.

Don't be afraid to continue planning for as long as you
need! Sure, try some spontaneous fun when you have
a chance, but don't think that planning makes you less
of a dominant man. Sometimes planning is the most
dominant thing you can do.

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Exercise: A Man
With A Plan
Don't just plan this in your head. Sit down with a piece
of paper and actually write out your entire plan. Get all
your details down and do it together.

Start with a kink checklist. There are dozens available

online, for example, "The Beautiful Kind's Ultimate
BDSM, Fetish, & Kink Checklist" which you can search
for and download for yourself. It's a long one, but it's
well worth it! Once you have the checklist filled out,
you can pick and choose things you know your lover
is happy to do in the bedroom and surprise her with
which ones you choose.

Your plan is simple. It starts with your ritual -

something that both opens and closes the time you
spend together. Then you can get into the heart of
the magic time. Plan based on a slow progression of
arousal, but don't worry too much if you don't get to
all the plans on your list. The plan is there to back you
up, so you know where you're going next. If something
doesn't work? Move on to the next sexy skill on the list!

When you have your plan all laid out, set a date with
your lover and give her a few hints to prepare herself.
Have her perform a task or three to get ready - like
being freshly showered, get dressed in your favourite
lingerie, or get on all fours on the bed at a specific
time.

You can go as simple or as wild for your "be prepared"

request of her, depending on her comfort level. You
can have her masturbate almost to orgasm a specific
number of times during the day before your date.

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You can have her wear a butt plug or a remote control
vibrator. You can ask her to call you or send you emails
or texts with fantasies she has, or to report on her self-
pleasure. This is vitally important, so don't skip it!

The plan is a template to boost your confidence. Work

with it, but don't let it stress you out. Use it to learn
how to work dominance into your play, then try your
hand at something a bit more spontaneous.

Exercise: By The
Seat Of Her Pants
(Sexy On The Fly)
Playing on the fly is all about practice. Spontaneity only
works when you know what you're doing, so plan and
plan somemore. Do that until you get it so right that
you can't imagine it getting any better.

Then try something different and see just how much

better it can get!

When it comes to being spontaneous, it works exactly

the same as having a plan, but you have the pleasure
of working with what you love in the moment. Use
your intuition, work with the things you know she
enjoys, and play with it!

You have two options when you begin. You can make a
date to play and then pick and choose in the moment
what kind of sexy stuff you want to do, using your

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intuition to decide what she needs most from you.
Or, you can work with your lover to put together a
plan, like above, then surprise her with the ‘when’ and
‘where’ of it all.

And when you really have it pat down, when you

can have amazing sex in both of these situations,
you can finally go all the way and enjoy a completely
spontaneous sexual escapade with all the kinky play
you can handle.

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Conclusion
There you have it! Everything you need to know to take
your lover from zero to screaming-in-pleasure orgasms
with a basket full of tips, tricks and techniques for
maximizing her arousal.

By now you should be well on your way to mastery of

these techniques, but even if you are only still getting
started in the learning process, you have a solid
foundation of skills to work with in the material we've
covered in this course.

Everything you need to rachet up the intensity of

desire in your relationship is contained within these
pages. Keep working through these exercises and
there's no telling how hot things can get for you in the
bedroom - and out of it!

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