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The use of humour in REBT was strongly endorsed by its creator, Albert Ellis and has been by many
other REBT practitioners. However, whilst many other aspects of REBT have been studied and re-
searched extensively and while there is much that has been said on the use of humour in psychother-
apy in general, precious little research exists on its use specifically in REBT. This article outlines a
brief history of humour and reviews some of the literature that exists on the subject. Finally, it
makes some suggestions for future research into the use of humour in REBT.
Introduction
“A man went to a psychiatrist seeking treatment for depression: ‘I cry a lot. I can’t sleep. I
am very unhappy. I don’t enjoy anything. My life is totally miserable. Can you help me?’ The
psychiatrist replies, ‘I can cure your depression, but what's the use?’”
The above is a joke offered up anecdotally by Tallmer and Richman (1993) in the therapy
room, to a client, for therapeutic end-point and to (as they claim), good effect.
REBT posits that humour is a desirable condition for therapeutic change (Dryden and
Branch, 2008). This article aims to endorse that viewpoint.
It will first offer a brief synopsis on the historical views of humour and then move on to a re-
view of research that touches on therapeutic alliance, cognitive and therapeutic change and
views of self-worth.
This will be followed by a call for research: five suggestions for future scientific investigation,
(specifically on the use of humour in REBT), that build on previous studies.
Humour is considered an important trait. Several theorists claim its use as an indicator of
good mental health; whilst several have noted the paucity of research in this area.
Many others outside of therapy also attest to its importance. As Mahatma Ghandi once fa-
mously said, “If I had no sense of humour, I would long ago have committed suicide.”
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basis in sexual and aggressive drives, while Surkis (1993) said, as a defence, humour fol-
lowed the task of guarding against the origin of pain from inner sources.
According to Richman (2002), “Freud compared humour to dreams. Both operate at more
than one level . . . both permit the expression of forbidden drives, thoughts and attitudes.
Jokes, however, perform a social function, whereas dreams do not.” (p167).
Bader (1993) said it was because jokes were seen by Freud as a disguised expression of hos-
tile and sexual impulses, that psychoanalysts today view humour with such suspicion.
However, Freud also saw the healing side of humour, as Lothane (2008a) noted, “Freud . . .
defined humour . . . as a means of obtaining pleasure in spite of the distressing affects that
interfere with it.” (p183).
He surmised that not everyone was capable of the humorous attitude and called it a rare and
precious gift.
As Birner, (1994) stated, “Freud indicated that there was a great value in humour . . . Hu-
mour is the emotionally healthy way of dealing with the problems and dilemmas of life, as
opposed to unhealthy ways such as drug addiction, depression, neurosis, and psycho-
sis.” (p81).
However, not all studies found the same affects of humor on stress. Safranek and Schrill
(1982; cited in Lemma 2000 and Gelkopf & Krietler, 1996), found that neither humour use
nor humour appreciation moderated the effects of the life events on depression, while Ander-
son and Arnoult (1989; cited in Lemma, 2000) found that it did not exert any effect on de-
pression in the face of stressful situations.
But, Thornson, Powell, Sarmany-Schuller and Hampes (1997; cited in Lemma, 2000), devel-
oped a new humour scale and found it positively correlated to optimism and self-esteem and
negatively with depression.
Rim (1988; cited in Sultanoff, 2002) found humour positively correlated with particular cop-
ing styles and Danzer, Dale and Klions (1990, cited in Gelkopf and Krietler, 1996) found that
exposure to humorous audiotapes decreased depression.
And Witztum, Briskin & Lerner (1999) found that humour, combined with drug therapy led
to positive changes in symptoms for chronic schizophrenia patients.
They developed a form of persuasion therapy, based on REBT, that used logical arguments
as its basis. They subjected patients to either this or humour therapy. While the logical argu-
ments group did not record visible improvement, the same humour therapy group did.
According to Witztum et al. “This approach appealed to them, raised self-esteem; and they
likewise gained confidence in their own ability to form judgments. The fact that humour
made an impact on the patient's cognitions demonstrated that patients with disturbed
thought processes could be influenced in ways which improved coping.” (p233).
Laugh, and the world laughs with you; weep, and you weep alone, as the saying goes. And
there may be some scientific truth to this age-old bon mot. Bonanno and Keltner (cited in
Lefcourt, 2002), found that bereaved people who smiled and laughed as they talked about
their nearest, dearest and recently departed were judged more attractive and appealing than
those who remained solemn. They found that people who laughed about difficult or dreadful
experiences became more approachable.
Meanwhile, Nezu, Nezu and Blisset (1988; cited in Lemma, 2000), Richman (1996, cited in
Sultanoff, 2002), and others, all found that a sense of humour was positively correlated both
with increased social support and being liked by others.
Lemma (2000) noted that interpersonal support is critical in recovery from depression, while
Sultanoff (2002) stated: “As individuals experience humour, they feel emotionally lifted and
connect well with others.” (p117).
Thorson, Powell, Sarmany-Schuller and Hampes (1997; cited in Sultanoff, 2002) found that
people who experience distress tend to withdraw and disengage from relationships and op-
portunities, whilst individuals who experience humour become more energized and attentive
and pursue connections with others, thus changing their behaviour.
Humour can also have an impact on views of self-worth and self-efficacy.
According to Overholser (1992; cited in Gelkopf & Krietler, 1996), high scorers on the coding
humour scale have higher self-esteem and Martin, Kuiper, Olinger and Dance (1993; cited in
Gelkopf & Krietler, 1996) noted that higher levels of humour, “are related to a more positive
self-concept, assessed by actual-ideal discrepancies, self-esteem and standards of self-worth
evaluation.” (p242).
Darmstadter (1964; cited in Banmen, 1982) and Goldsmith (1973, cited in Banmen, 1982),
both found positive correlations between humour ratings and psychiatric patients ego-
strength levels.
Kavanagh & Bauer (1985; cited in Lemma, 2001) and Salovey (1987; cited in Gelkopf &
Krietler, 1996) found that humour contributed towards increased feelings of self-esteem, a
sense of self-efficacy and more enjoyment of events and activities. And Schiffenbauer (1974;
cited in Gelkopf & Krietler, 1996) found humour strengthened the enjoyment and pleasant-
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groups of REBT (one with a humorous slant, the other without), a group given humorous
films to watch in lieu of therapy and a waiting list as a control.
The participants would be given the SHQA and CHS, as well as questionnaires detailing
RECBT-specific belief statements dealing with depression, and asked to fill them out before
the therapy/humour and again after the therapy/humour (at which point they would also re-
receive the BDI). The prediction is that REBT delivered with humour will have had a signifi-
cantly greater impact on altering the client’s unhealthy beliefs about depression.
The final study proposed by this article focuses specifically on self-worth. Can REBT deliv-
ered with humour have a greater effect on specific unhealthy beliefs centred around self-
damning (as in “I am useless”, or “a failure”, or “totally without worth” and so on) and help
affect a shift to their healthy counterparts (as in, “I am not totally worthless or useless, I am
a worthwhile but fallible human being.”)
This would build upon the work of Overholser (1992; cited in Gelkopf & Krietler, 1996), Gold-
smith (1973, cited in Banmen, 1982) and others, who all found positive correlations between
humour, a sense of self-worth and feelings of self-efficacy.
This experiment would sample 100 subjects (50 male, 50 female, from various backgrounds,
of various ages), who have all reported feelings of inadequacy and low-self worth and ran-
domly allocate them to one of three groups: REBT with humour, REBT without humour, and
a waiting list as a control.
Again, the participants would be given a series of questionnaires/self-report measures, cen-
tred around notions of self-damning and self-acceptance, given six sessions of therapy, with
the measures being filled out before and after. The predicted result being that humour-led
REBT would have a greater impact on statements of unconditional self-acceptance than
REBT without humour.
Conclusion
The aim of this article was to discuss the research that exists on the use of humour in psy-
chotherapy and to suggest future research into its use in REBT.
The research that exists, though sparse, appears to support the notion that, as long as its use
has a therapeutic end-point, humour is both an effective and desirable quality in psychother-
apy generally and REBT specifically.
Like Ellis (1977), Sultanoff (2002) argues that, “humour in psychotherapy can be particularly
powerful because it has the potential to activate changes in all four of the core aspects of the
human experience (emotional, behavioural, cognitive, and physiological) that are targeted by
the major theoretical approaches.” (p140).
Albert Ellis often said that people disturb themselves, not just by taking themselves seri-
ously, but by taking themselves too seriously and stated (1977) that, “if neurotics take them-
selves, others and world conditions to solemnly, why not poke the blokes with jolly jokes? Or
split their shit with wit? (p2).
It can be argued that REBT is crying out for some shit-splitting scientific research.
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Correspondence
Email: info@danielfryer.com
Web: www.danielfryer.com
Biography
An REBT practitioner and clinical hypnotherapist, Daniel Fryer, runs private practices in
Central and South West London, and holds clinics at the Royal Brompton Hospital (where he
specializes in the treatment of Cardiac Syndrome X, angina and their associated psychologi-
cal symptoms) and in the occupational health division of Medicentre (where he specialises in
work-related stress management).
He has written articles for Lighter Life and other magazines and has been interviewed in ar-
ticles for Diva, Body Matters and the Metro newspaper.
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