Follow The 3 Second Rule
Follow The 3 Second Rule
Which states that you have to do your approach within 3 seconds of seeing
the girl.
The more time you take to talk to her the worse the situation gets:
- You get stuck in approach anxiety more and more. You start rehearsing negative outcomes, that
what all can go wrong.
- The situation will get worse on its own logistically. Many times, a guy comes, her mom comes,
someone calls, etc. Approach instantly and don’t think about what to say before you’ve approached
the girl. Say hi before everything else. And then after you’ve gone in, think about where to take it
now.
It all depends on the way you say it. I prefer going in directly and telling her that I find her
cute/interesting/anything else that strikes me about her and avoiding the bullshit. I know it sounds
crazy, but when done correctly, can work wonders.
Women want you to talk to them. Every woman knows what's up when you go up to her. You’re not
helping yourself by being indirect and hiding your intentions. That being said, you can go up
indirectly to a woman, but still be direct because of your charming personality.
The magic lies in your sub communications, your non-verbal’s, voice tone, body language, eye
contact, passion, certainty, energy, facial expressions
The opening line will not get her attracted to you, So, if you’re still thinking of a magic line that will
get you the girl. STOP.
Don’t rush while saying it. Maintain strong eye contact, hold your ground and be certain. Take
adequate pauses while talking. Be calm, cool and collected. Pauses tell the girl that you’re relaxed
and confident.
Women are emotionally intelligent. They’re way more in touch with their emotions than men usually
are.
Which is why, it does not matter what you say but rather how you say it. It’s all about how you make
the girl feel.
Rather, try being free and fun. Make her comfortable. Make her have a great time. Take her through
a roller coaster of emotions.
Going direct is how I do my opens. It takes a lot of confidence to be comfortable with yourself and go
up to the girl and say that you find her cute. She’ll appreciate you for it. At the same time, it’s one of
the most congruent ways to open as you’re saying what you have on your mind.