Helping Families of Drug Abusers Edition
Helping Families of Drug Abusers Edition
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“a chronic, relapsing brain disease that is
characterized by compulsive drug seeking and use,
despite harmful consequences”.
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The global prevalence of drug abuse was 3.3% to 6.1%,
(UNODC, 2009). About 149 to 272 million people
between 15 to 64 years of age in all over the world
abused illicit drugs. Around 153 to 300 million people
used illicit drugs in the year of 2010, as (UNODC, 2010)
estimated.
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The use of opium was highest in India. The trend of
abusing drugs by injection got higher in Bangladesh, in
India (0.02%) and in Nepal (0.01%). In Maldives, mode
of injection was also increased. Heroin and
buprenorphine were the most preferred drugs via
injection in these countries. Other drugs, for example,
opioids or a combination of buprenorphine and
antihistamines or sedatives (mostly benzodiazepines)
have become the choice of drugs among most of the drug
abusers in this region.
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and opium use was 2.7% and 1.9% in adult population
respectively. Heroin prevalence was 1.0% for adult
population. Opium, cannabis and heroin were the most
common drugs being abused by men and young users.
Almost, 60 % drug abusers used opium in their life.
Opium, cannabis and heroin were commonly used by
young women, opium, cannabis and tranquilizers
(painkiller) used by women, whereas cannabis, opium
and heroin were being commonly used by adolescents.
Opium, cannabis and tranquilizers were used by
children. The prevalence of 11.1%, equal to 2.92 and
3.57 million, was estimated for total population. While,
the estimated national drug use rate was 7.3%, equal to
2.01 million and 2.46 million people, as mentioned in
Afghanistan Drug Report (2015).
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Khan et al. (2004) found the highest ratio of drug abuse
among people falling between the age ranges of 21 to 30
years, and married as well. Most of them were heroin
addicts. In another report, nearly 55% university students
were described as drug abusers. About 36.5% abused
cannabis, 27.5% used alcohol, 26% used all kinds of
drugs, whereas 15% abused drug at least once in life
(Khattak et al., 2012)
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Poor health, decline in income and social isolation
jeopardize the individual functioning. Only in Pakistan,
the annual estimated rate of drug abusers is equivalent to
100,000 causing psychological, social and economic
harm to 20 million abusers and their families.
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stigma and emotional withdrawal (Nace et al, 1982, as
cited in Schafer, 2011).
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society. Besides, she is supposed to be primary caregiver
for her addicted male member. Caregiving of drug
addicts is too rigorous and is the big source of physical
and emotional tensions/stress for caregivers. This
caregiving related stress seems to influence quality of
life, physical health, psychological health, better
environment and social relationship of female family
members of poly drug abusers (Rafiq & Sadiq, 2019).
Additionally, family finances, emotional support,
relationships with relatives were spoiled as the functions
of substance abuse (Ponnudurai et al., 2001). Drug-
related crimes and accidents also ruin the family
relationships (Schafer, 2011).
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Family and its Various Functions
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In the view of Nimkoff and Ogbum (1985), “family is a
socially sanctioned group of persons united by kinship,
marriage or adaptation ties that generally share a
common habitat and interact according to well-defined
roles”.
Functional Perspective (Doherty et al., 1993) deems
family as a subsystem of society because society’s
growth largely depends on family.
Islam also stressed upon the rights and duties of all its
members in order to strengthen family system (Islahi,
1998). Fulfillment of duties while mixing the taste of
sincerity, love, enthusiasm and tolerance is the sign of
functional family.
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Psychologists put reflection on those factors that may
positively or negatively affect the family environment.
The way a family operates its functions encompassing
decision making, relationship commitment, expression of
feelings/opinion, sharing and transferring information
count a lot (Silbrun et al., 2006; Zubrick, Williams,
Silbani & Vimpani, 2000, as cited in Kausar, 2014).
Parental attitude, socioeconomic factors, family
structure, process and life style are pivotal in constituting
mental and social well-being of all family members.
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2.2.2. Prestige and Status:
Each member of the family is recognized
by his family name in the society. A
person is valued or devalued, in his/her
community, on the basis of his or her
family’s reputation. Therefore, family
must provide prestige and status to its
all members.
2.2.3. Education:
2.2.4. Protection:
The forth function of the family is to
gratify the need of security. Elders
are responsible to provide physical,
social and economic protection to
younger family members.
2.2.5. Religion:
A family must follow the religious values
by arranging religious gathering, religious prayer along
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with acquiring religious education through the use of
Holy books and other scriptures.
2.2.6. Recreation:
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Three Major Functions of a Family:
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2.2.4. To accommodate conflicts and maintain order
internally and externally:
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2.3.1. Reproduction of perpetuation of human race:
2.4.4. Socialization:
Family also strives to be socialized by producing socially
adaptable family members. Family makes tie with other
families in the society.
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2.4.6. Affectional and emotional security:
Family provides affection and emotional security to all
family members. Gratification of needs for love and care
are first take place in the home.
2.4.7. Education:
Making family members educated and knowledgeable to
survive in the community is another important function
of the family. Religious and other. educational
opportunities need to be provided to entire family.
2.4.8 Recreation:
Family also needs to be involved in re-creational
activities apart from striving for economical and
educational resources. Recreation contributes to healthy
growth of family.
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Impact of Drug Abuse Problems on
Family Functions
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shops to bear household expenses. Mothers, in their old
age, wives and young sisters have to go out to earn
money. Drug abuse, instead of providing economic
resources to family, himself becomes dependent on
them.
Case Study
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3.1.2. Destruction of Prestige and Status:
Drug abuse harms family’s prestige and status. A large
body of research evidences reveals the association of
drug abuse problems with criminal behavior. Robbery,
pick pocketing, stealing are drug abuse related crimes
(Sadiq, Umer & Ali, 2013). Involvement of drug abusing
family member in crimes is perilous for family’s
reputation.
According to Ogyum (1983), each member of
family is recognized by his family name in the society.
Unfortunately, family members of drug abusers develop
feelings of shame and guilt in response to perceived
stigma and rejection from society. Resultantly, they
socially restrict themselves. Even, in sub-continent,
people do not like to tie the knot with the girls belonging
to drug abusing family.
Case Study
Saima’s brother is a heroin addict. He was arrested
twice owing to being involved in drug-related crimes.
She is 24 years old and her parents want her to be
married as soon as possible. But, they have no suitable
proposal for their daughter because of their addicted
son. Even, Saima’s paternal aunt did not like to make
her daughter-in-law. She has developed feelings of
rejection and inferiority. All of her age fellow in family
and community got married. She blames her brother for
her misfortune.
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Destruction of Education:
Case Study
Ali’s father is a drug abuser and also involved in
gambling. He needs more money for gambling and
drugs. Ali had to give up his studies since his father
became drug abuser. His mother is not educated enough
to do a job. She sells vegetables but could not earn
sufficient amount to run her kitchen. Ali is 14 years old
and eldest among four siblings. He started working as a
mechanic in an auto repair shop. He works for more than
7 hours and does not find sufficient time to study. He
and her mother are working hard to be survived. Ali’s
father addiction shattered his dream of becoming
educated person.
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Destruction of Protection:
Case Study
Rukhsana’s husband is an alcoholic. She is mother of two
children. She is a school teacher in a government sector.
Although, she is not having financial problems but her
husband’s alcoholism disturbs the family environment.
Being intoxicated, he quarrels and uses abusive languages
with family members. He also beats her in front of his
children. Consequently, she and her both children
developed fears. Many times, she decided to break her
marital relation but due to some family obligations, she
did not take any step. In normal condition, Rukhsana’s
husband behaves well with her and children as if he is
very caring and loving. Every time, he justifies his
misbehavior. He brings gifts for children and wife.
Despite that Rukhsana and her both children do not feel
secured in their own home.
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Destruction of Religious Rituals:
Case Study
Khalid belongs to a religious family. After becoming
drug abuser, he deviated from religious and social
norms. All of his attention is on drug intake. He
frequently tells a lie and cheats family members. Drug
abuse has destroyed his sense of right and wrong. His
misbehavior and drug related acts have made his wife
depressed and hopeless to the extent that she attempted
suicide twice. She seems to be cursing her fate and
prefers death over life. She is compelled to go out to
work to run her kitchen. She does not have sufficient
time to teach her children religious rituals. She and her
children also avoid social gatherings including religious
and recreational activities as well.
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Destruction of Recreational Activities:
Case Study
Usman is 15 years old school going boy. His father is a
heroin abuser. He is having two younger sisters who
also study in the same school. His mother is a factory
worker who is striving to make her children educated
despite her husband’s addiction. Whatever she earns, is
utilized within a month. Her income merely meets
household expenses and her children education. No
extra amount is available for recreational activities.
Usman’s mother goes out of her home early in the
morning and comes back in the evening. At home, she
has a lot of work to do that includes: preparing meal for
children and herself, cleaning, dusting, etc. Usman, his
mother and both sisters are leading a life as a machine.
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3.1.3. Destruction of Affection and
Procreation:
Love and affection are necessary strands of a functional
family. All family members are dependent on each other
for the gratification of their love need. Ungratified need
for love and affection will impede the process of smooth
emotional growth of an individual. Drug abusers need
drugs at any cost. Their craving for drugs does not let
them to pay attention to what their family members need
from them. Procreation does not seem to be influenced
too much but emotional growth remains at great risk
owing to drug abuse problem. Nevertheless, drug intake
during pregnancy may affect the smooth process of
procreation.
Case Study
Jamila’s husband is taking drugs for last 6 years. She is
having two children. She belongs to lower class. She
prepares meal at home and supplies to factory workers.
She earns enough money to fulfill basic needs of her
family. Due to her husband’s addiction and drug related
activities, she deliberately underwent the surgery of
removing her uterus. On inquiring, she justified that she
had to do it because of her husband. He is an addict and
could not fulfill his responsibilities. She did not want to
deliver more babies of an addicted man who is unable to
support his family.
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3.2. Psychosocial Consequences of Family
Dysfunction
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socially introvert and aggressive than adult children of
non addicts. Alcoholic problems in parents lead to
cognitive, behavioral and emotional problems in
children. They, in later life, develop maladaptive
behaviors and prone to be alcoholics (Johnson & Leff,
1999).
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At social level, families of drug abusers are rejected and
devalued. Sisters and daughters of drug abusers are
found to be complaining of not having suitable marriage
proposal because of social stigma. They are labeled as
sisters/daughters of drug abusers. Even, close relatives
do not like to accept them for their sons. At times, family
has to hide or lie about the abusing patterns of addicted
member so that they could arrange their daughter’s
marriage. The situation seems more pathetic in case of
alcoholism. Families of alcoholics are disliked at
community level associating it with religious and social
norms. Usually, neighbors and relatives do not like to
visit these families. Parents and elder brothers do not
allow their girls to make friendships with the other girls
whose family member drinks.
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Different forms of family abuse were committed at the
hands of drug abusers such as; stealing money and
things, snatching money from family members, using
abusive language, beating and quarrelling with family
members.
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Part 4
Professional Services for the Families of
Drug Abusers
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So, the family itself requires professional help besides
accessing treatment services for drug users. Family
members must feel alive, energetic and rejoice mental
harmony whether their addicted family member recovers
from drugs or not. For these reasons, a comprehensive
treatment is essential for the blossom of family health.
Comprehensive and effective treatment is the mixture of
following four types of services to heal families of drug
abusers:
1. Individual Psychotherapy
2. Group Therapy
3. Life Skill Training
4. Family support group.
Individual
Psychotherapy
Family
support
group
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4.1.1. Individual Psychotherapy:
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4.1.2. Group Therapy:
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4.1.3. Life Skills Training:
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4.1.4. Family Support Group:
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4.2. Process of Providing Services to Families
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esteem and communicative skills make them able to
handle not only their patients but also their own self.
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Individual Psychotherapy
5.1. Individual Psychotherapy:
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5.2. Objectives of Individual Psychotherapy:
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5.2. Qualities of an Effective Psychotherapist:
Good listener
Empathic
Non-judgmental
Open-minded
Flexible
Competent
Genuineness
Caring
Supportive
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5.3. Phases of Individual Psychotherapy
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5.3.3. Phase III: Using Appropriate Interventions:
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Group Therapy
6.1. Group Therapy:
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6.2. Objectives of Group Therapy:
Objectives of group
therapy can be better understood in the light of following
factors as suggested by Ballinger and Yalon (1995):
Instilling hope
Universality
Imparting information
Altruism
Corrective recapitulation of problems
from the person’s original family
Developing social skills
Imitating others
Emotional processing and cognitive
reflection
Interpersonal learning
Group cohesiveness
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6.3. Standards of Group Therapy:
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6.4. Procedure of Group Therapy:
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Introduce the nature and purpose of selected activity to
be done
Pay attention to all participants
Create warm and supportive environment for
all
Provide chance to every participant to express
personal opinion and experiences
Provide feedback to participants when it is
essential
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Life Skills Training
7.1. Life Skill Training:
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7.2. Focused of the Training:
Stress management
Anger management
Problem solving skills
Communicative skills
Boosting self-esteem
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7. 3. Standards for Life Skill Training Program:
A good leader
Supportive
Honest
Non-judgmental
Keen observer
Firm
Goal directed
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7.5. Steps Involved in Conducting Life Skill Training
Program:
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Family Support Group
8.1. Family Support Group:
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To learn from other experiences
To understand the nature and causes of co-
dependency
To learn how to solve the problems in order to
overcome psychological anarchy
To understand the role of family in treatment
and sustaining the recovery of drug abuser
To understand the signs and symptoms of
relapse and how to work for relapse prevention
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8.4. Twelve Steps:
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8. We know to make a list of things that need to
be taken care of and have a willingness to
work at each one individually.
9. We know that, although we sometimes may
think we cannot manage on our own, there are
others who are willing to help, guide, train and
support us.
10. We understand that we may make wrong
decisions but will not let them hold us back in
achieving our mission of READINESS.
11. We seek to improve our state of readiness by
sharing our knowledge and working together
as a purple program. We will not turn a cheek
to a National Guard family that is in need of
our support and assistance.
12. We know that through our volunteer service to
other National Guard families we can carry
this message and help them be as Ready as we.
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8.5. Standards for Conducting Family Support
Group:
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8.6. Steps Involved in Conducting Family Support
Group:
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Raise your hands if you want to
share something
Try to avoid non-verbal
communication
Share only your own feelings and
experiences not the addict
Note: Explain rules in positive way (i.e, please do this, rather than
don’t do this)
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Chapter 8
Note:
The procedure and standards were extracted from already
exiting material related to family support groups.
Sentences used above in the step 3 are examples and
facilitator can change words during discussion. Try to use
neutral words so that no one gets hurt.
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Family Counseling
9.1. Family Counseling:
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9.2. Qualities of an Effective Family Counselor:
Empathic
Good listener
Flexible
Non-judgmental
Open to change
Passionate
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9.3. Procedure of Family Counseling
9.3.1. Rapport Building and Catharsis
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9.3.3. Using Counseling Techniques
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9.3.4. Providing Psychoeducation:
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9.3.6. Providing Information for the Maintenance of
Drug Free Life Style
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The essence of the present endeavor is that the families
of drug or substance abusers suffer from unlimited woes
which profoundly impair their mental health and coping
skills. Poor mental health and dysfunctional patterns
further impede their adjustment at personal and social
level. Empirical evidences have confirmed the presence
of severe emotional/behavior problems in children and
younger family members. Females, in any role, are silent
sufferers of various psychosocial issues.
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