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TO BUY OR NOT TO BUY?
THAT IS THE QUESTION!
WEEK 8 BY PROF. MARIA CECILIA SAENZ MATERIAL SELF ◻ A Harvard psychologist in the late nineteenth century, William James, wrote in his book, The Principles of Psychology in 1890 that understanding the self can be examined through its different components. ◻ (1) its constituents; ◻ (2) the feelings and emotions they arouse – self –feelings; ◻ (3) the actions to which they prompt- self- seeking and self-preservation. The constituents of self are composed of: A. Material self B. Social self, C. Spiritual self D. Pure ego. MATERIAL SELF ◻ primarily is about our bodies, clothes, immediate family and home. We are deeply affected by these things because we have put much investment of our self to them. MATERIAL SELF INVESTMENT DIAGRAM
The innermost part of our material self is our body.
Intentionally, we are investigating in our body. We are directly attached to this commodity that we cannot live without. We strive hard to make sure that this body functions well and good. Any ailment or disorder directly affects us. We do have certain preferential attachment or intimate closeness to certain body parts because of its value to us. Next to our body are the clothes we use. Influenced by the “ Philosophy of Dress” by Herman Lotze, James believed that clothing is an essential part of the material self. Lotze in his book, Microcosmus, stipulates that “any time we bring an object into the surface of our body, we invest that object into the consciousness of our personal existence taking in its contours to be our own and making it part of the self.” (Watson 2014) The fabric and style of the clothes we wear bring sensations to the body to which directly affect our attitudes and behavior. Thus, clothes are placed in the second hierarchy of material self. Clothing is a form of self-expression. We choose and wear clothes that reflect our self (Watson 2014). Third in the hierarchy is our immediate family. Our parents and siblings hold another great important part of our self. What they do or become affects us. When an immediate family member dies, part of our self dies, too. When their lives are in success, we feel their victories as if we are the one holding the trophy. In their failures, we are put to shame or guilt. When they are in disadvantage situation, there is an urgent urge to help like a voluntary instinct of saving one’s self from danger. We place huge investment in our immediate family when we see them as the nearest replica of OUR SELF. The fourth component of material self is our home. Home is where our heart is. It is the earliest nest of our selfhood. Our experiences inside the home were recorded and marked on particular parts and things in our home. There was an old cliché about rooms: “if only walls can speak.” The home thus is an extension of self, because in it, we can only directly connect our self. Having investment of self to things, made us attached to those things. The more investment of self-given to the particular thing, the more we identify ourselves to it. We also tended to collect and possess properties. The collections in different degree of investment of self, becomes part of the self. As James (1890) described self: “a man‘s self is the sum total of all what he can call his.” Possessions then become a part or an extension of the self. WE ARE WHAT WE HAVE
Russel Belk (1988) posits that “… we
regard our possessions as part of ourselves. We are what we have and what we possess.” The identification of the self to things started in our infancy stage when we make a distinction among self and environment and others who may desire our possessions As we grow older, putting importance to material possession decreases. However, material possession gains higher value in our lifetime if we use material possession to find happiness, associate these things with significant events, accomplishments and people in our lives. There were even times, when material possession of a person that is closely identified to the person, gains acknowledgement with high regard even if the person already passed away. Examples of these are the chair in the dining room on which the person is always seated, the chair will be the constant reminder of the person seated there; a well-loved and kept vehicle of the person, which some of the bereaved family members have a difficulty to sell or let go of because that vehicle is very much identified with the owner who passed away; the favourite pet or book, among others that the owner placed a high value, theses favourite things are symbols of the owner.