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‫‪ ‐ 11446‬ﻛﻴﻒ ﺗ‪‬ﻮن ﺣﻔﻠﺔ اﻟﺰﻓﺎف إﺳﻼﻣﻴﺔ‬

‫اﻟﺴﺆال‬

‫أﺳﻠﻤﺖ ﻣﺆﺧﺮا ‪ ،‬وواﻟﺪاي ﻋﻠ‪ ‬اﻟﻨﺼﺮاﻧﻴﺔ ‪ .‬وﻫﻤﺎ ﻳﻘﺒﻼن ﺑﺎﻟﻤﺸﺎرﻛﺔ ﻓ‪ ‬ﺣﻔﻞ زواج إﺳﻼﻣ‪ . ‬ﻟ‪‬ﻦ ﻣﺎ ﻫ‪ ‬اﻟﺨﻄﻮات اﻟﻼزﻣﺔ‬

‫ﻹﺗﻤﺎم ذﻟﻚ ؟ اﻟﺤﻔﻞ ﺳﻴﻘﺎم ﻓ‪ ‬ﺑﻴﺘﻬﻤﺎ ‪ ،‬وﻗﺪ واﻓﻘﺎ ﻋﻠ‪ ‬ﻣﺘﻄﻠﺒﺎت اﻟﻄﻌﺎم واﻟﺸﺮاب اﻟﻼزﻣﺔ ﺑﺎﻟﺤﻔﻠﺔ اﻟﺘ‪ ‬ﺗﺘﺒﻊ ﻣﺮاﺳﻴﻢ اﻟﺰواج ‪.‬‬

‫وﻧﺤﻦ ﻧﺮﻳﺪ أن ﻧﻘﻴﻢ اﻟﺤﻔﻞ ﺑﻄﺮﻳﻘﺔ ﻻ ﺗﺘﺴﺒﺐ ﻓ‪ ‬ﻣﻀﺎﻳﻘﺔ أي أﺣﺪ ‪ .‬ﻟ‪‬ﻦ ﻟﻴﺲ ﻋﻨﺪي ﻋﻠﻢ ﺑﻤﺎ ﻳﺠﺐ أن ﻳﺠﺮى ﻗﺒﻞ اﻟﺤﻔﻞ ‪ ..‬وﻓ‪‬‬

‫أﺛﻨﺎﺋﻪ ‪ ..‬وﺑﻌﺪه ‪ ،‬وأرﻳﺪ أن أﺗﺄﻛﺪ ﻣﻦ أن ﻛﻞ ﺷ‪‬ء ﻗﺪ وﺿﻊ ﻓ‪ ‬ﻣ‪‬ﺎﻧﻪ اﻟﺼﺤﻴﺢ ‪ ،‬ﺣﺘ‪ ‬ﻻ أﺟﺪ ﻓ‪ ‬اﻟﻤﺴﺘﻘﺒﻞ أن زواﺟ‪ ‬ﺑﻄﻞ ﻷﻧﻨﺎ‬

‫ﻟﻢ ﻧﻘﻢ ﺑﺈﺣﺪى اﻟﺨﻄﻮات ‪ .‬ﻛﻨﺖ أﻇﻦ ﺑﺄﻧﻨﺎ ﻗﺪ ﺗﺰوﺟﻨﺎ ‪ ،‬ﻟ‪‬ﻨ‪ ‬وﺟﺪت أﻧﻨﺎ ﻟﻢ ﻧﻘﻢ ﺑﺬﻟﻚ وﻓﻘﺎ ﻟﻠﻄﺮﻳﻘﺔ اﻟﺼﺤﻴﺤﺔ ‪ .‬أﻧﺎ ﺑﺤﺎﺟﺔ ﻷن‬

‫أﻋﺮف‪.‬‬

‫اﻹﺟﺎﺑﺔ اﻟﻤﻔﺼﻠﺔ‬

‫اﻟﺤﻤﺪ ﻟ‪‬ﻪ‪.‬‬

‫ﻟﻤﻌﺮﻓﺔ ﺧﻄﻮات ﻋﻘﺪ اﻟﻨ‪‬ﺎح اﻟﺼﺤﻴﺢ ‪ ،‬ﻳﺮاﺟﻊ ﺳﺆال رﻗﻢ ‪. 2127‬‬

‫أﻣﺎ إﻗﺎﻣﺔ ﺣﻔﻞ اﻟﺰﻓﺎف ﻋﻠ‪ ‬ﻃﺮﻳﻘﺔ إﺳﻼﻣﻴﺔ ‪ ،‬ﻓﻴﻨﺒﻐ‪ ‬ﻓﻴﻪ اﻟﺒﻌﺪ ﻋﻦ اﻟﻤﻨﻬﻴﺎت اﻟﺸﺮﻋﻴﺔ اﻟﺘ‪ ‬ﻳﺘﺴﺎﻫﻞ ﻓﻴﻬﺎ ﻛﺜﻴﺮ ﻣﻦ اﻟﻨﺎس ﻓ‪‬‬

‫اﻷﻓﺮاح ‪ ،‬وﻣﻦ اﻟﻤﻨﻬﻴﺎت ‪:‬‬

‫ﻣﺎ ﻳﺘﻌﻠﻖ ﺑﺎﻟﻤﺮأة ﻣﺜﻞ ‪:‬‬

‫اﻟﺬﻫﺎب إﻟ‪ ‬ﻣﺰ ﻳ‪ِ‬ﻦ ﺷﻌﺮ ﻣﻦ اﻟﺮﺟﺎل اﻷﺟﺎﻧﺐ ‪ ،‬وإﺻﻼح اﻟﺸﻌﺮ ﻋﻨﺪه ‪ ،‬أو اﻣﺮأة ﺗﺰ ﻳ‪ِ‬ﻦ ﺑﻤﺤﺮ‪‬م ﻛﺘﺮﻗﻴﻖ اﻟﺤﺎﺟﺐ ﺑﻨﺘﻔﻪ وﻫﻮ اﻟﻨﻤﺺ‬

‫واﻟﻮﺷﻢ أو وﺻﻞ اﻟﺸﻌﺮ وﻏﻴﺮ ذﻟﻚ ﻣﻦ اﻟﻤﺤﺮﻣﺎت ﻷن اﻟﻨﺒ‪ ‬ﺻﻠ‪ ‬اﻟ‪‬ﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ وﺳﻠﻢ ﻟﻌﻦ اﻟﻨﺎﻣﺼﺔ واﻟﻤﺘﻨﻤﺼﺔ واﻟﻮاﺻﻠﺔ‬

‫واﻟﻤﺴﺘﻮﺻﻠﺔ ‪ .‬ﺗﻘﻠﻴﺪ اﻟ‪‬ﻔﺎر ﻓ‪ ‬ﻟﺒﺎﺳﻬﻢ ‪ ،‬وﻏﺎﻟﺒﺎً ﻣﺎ ﻳﺼﻴﺮ ﺛﻮب اﻟﺰﻓﺎف ﻓﻴﻪ إﻇﻬﺎر ﻟ‪‬ﺜﻴﺮ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻔﺎﺗﻦ اﻟﻤﺮأة وﺟﺴﻤﻬﺎ ﺑﺤﻴﺚ ﻳ‪‬ﻮن‬

‫اﻟﺜﻮب ﺷﺒﻪ ﻋﺎرٍ ‪ ،‬واﻟﻌﻴﺎذ ﺑﺎﻟ‪‬ﻪ ﺑﺎﻹﺿﺎﻓﺔ ﻟﻤﺎ ﻓ‪ ‬ذﻟﻚ ﻣﻦ إﺿﺎﻋﺔ اﻟﻤﺎل ‪.‬‬

‫وﻣﻦ اﻟﻤﺤﺮﻣﺎت ﻣﺎ ﻳﺘﻌﻠﻖ ﺑﺎﻟﺮﺟﺎل ﻣﺜﻞ ‪:‬‬

‫ﺣﻠﻖ اﻟﻠﺤﻴﺔ ﻟﻴﻠﺔ اﻟﺰﻓﺎف ‪ ،‬وﻓﻌﻞ ذﻟﻚ ﺑﺤﺠ‪‬ﺔ أنّ ﻓﻴﻪ ﺗَﺠ‪‬ﻤ‪‬ﻼ‪ ، ‬وﻫﻮ أﻣﺮ ﻣ‪‬ﺤ‪‬ﺮ‪‬م ﺷﺮﻋﺎً ‪ ،‬واﻹﺳﺒﺎل ﻓ‪ ‬اﻟﺜﻴﺎب ‪.‬‬

‫وﻫﺬا ﺗﻠﺨﻴﺺ ﻟﺒﻌﺾ ﻣﺎ ﻳﺠﺐ اﺟﺘﻨﺎﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ اﻟﻤﺤﺮﻣﺎت ﻟﻠﺮﺟﺎل واﻟﻨﺴﺎء ﻓ‪ ‬ﺣﻔﻠﺔ اﻟﺰﻓﺎف ‪:‬‬

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‫‪ -1‬اﺧﺘﻼط اﻟﺮﺟﺎل ﺑﺎﻟﻨﺴﺎء وﻣﺎ ﻳﺤﺪث ﻓﻴﻪ ﻣﻦ اﻟﺴﻼم ‪ ،‬واﻟﻤﺼﺎﻓﺤﺔ ‪ ،‬واﻟﺮﻗﺺ ﺑﻴﻦ اﻟﺮﺟﺎل واﻟﻨﺴﺎء ‪ ،‬ﻷن ﻛﻞ ذﻟﻚ ﻣﺤﺮم ‪،‬‬

‫وﺧﻄﺮه ﻋﻈﻴﻢ ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -2‬اﺟﺘﻨﺎب اﻟﺘﺼﻮﻳﺮ ﺳﻮاء ﻛﺎن ﺑﻴﻦ اﻟﺮﺟﺎل وﺑﻌﻀﻬﻢ أو ﺑﻴﻦ اﻟﻨﺴﺎء ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -3‬ﺷﺮب اﻟﺨﻤﻮر ‪ ،‬وأﻛﻞ ﻟﺤﻢ اﻟﺨﻨﺰﻳﺮ ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -4‬دﺧﻮل اﻟﺰوج ﻋﻠ‪ ‬اﻟﻨﺴﺎء ﻷﺧﺬ اﻟﺰوﺟﺔ ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -5‬ﻟﺒﺲ اﻟﻨﺴﺎء ﻓﻴﻤﺎ ﺑﻴﻨﻬﻦ اﻟﻌﺎري واﻟﻀﻴﻖ واﻟﻘﺼﻴﺮ ﻓﻬﻮ ﻣﺤﺮم ‪ ،‬ﻓ‪‬ﻴﻒ ﺑﻠﺒﺲ ذﻟﻚ أﻣﺎم اﻟﺮﺟﺎل ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -6‬اﻟﺒﻌﺪ ﻋﻦ اﻟﺘ‪‬ﻠﻒ واﻹﺳﺮاف وﻣﻈﺎﻫﺮ اﻟﺘﺮف واﻟﻔﺴﻖ ﻓ‪ ‬ﺣﻔﻠﺔ اﻟﺰﻓﺎف ‪ ،‬ﺣﻴﺚ أن ذﻟﻚ ﻳﻤﺤﻖ اﻟﺒﺮﻛﺔ ‪.‬‬

‫‪ -7‬ﻟﺒﺲ ﻛﻞ ﻣﻦ اﻟﺰوج واﻟﺰوﺟﺔ ﻣﺎ ﻳﺴﻤ‪ ‬ﺑﺎﻟﺪﺑﻠﺔ ‪ ،‬ﺗﺸﺒﻬﺎً ﻓﻴﻪ ﺑﺎﻟ‪‬ﻔﺎر ‪ ،‬اﻋﺘﻘﺎداً أن ذﻟﻚ ﻳﺰﻳﺪ ﻣﻦ ﺣﺐ اﻟﺰوج ﻟﺰوﺟﺘﻪ ‪ ،‬وﺣﺐ‬
‫اﻟﺰوﺟﺔ ﻟﺰوﺟﻬﺎ ‪.‬‬

‫وأﺧﻴﺮاً ‪ :‬ﻳﻨﺒﻐ‪ ‬أن ﻳﻌﻠﻢ اﻟﺰوﺟﺎن أﻧﻪ ﺑﻘﺪر ﻣﺎ ﻳﺤﺼﻞ ﻓ‪ ‬ﺣﻔﻠﺔ اﻟﺰﻓﺎف ﻣﻦ اﺗﺒﺎع ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻴﻢ اﻹﺳﻼم ﻓﻴﻪ ﺑﻘﺪر ﻣﺎ ﻳﺤﺼﻞ ﻓﻴﻪ ﻣﻦ اﻟﺒﺮﻛﺔ‬

‫واﻷﻟﻔﺔ وﻗﻠﺔ اﻟﻤﺸ‪‬ﻼت ﻓ‪ ‬اﻟﺤﻴﺎة اﻟﺰوﺟﻴﺔ ‪ ،‬ﻓﺈذا ﻛﺎﻧﺖ اﻟﺤﻴﺎة اﻟﺰوﺟﻴﺔ ﻗﺎﻣﺖ ﻓ‪ ‬أوﻟﻬﺎ ﻋﻠ‪ ‬اﻟﻤﻨ‪‬ﺮات وﻣﺨﺎﻟﻔﺔ أﻣﺮ اﻟ‪‬ﻪ ﻋﺰ‬

‫وﺟﻞ ‪ ،‬ﻓﻼ ﻳﻨﺘﻈﺮ اﻟﺘﻮﻓﻴﻖ ﻓﻴﻬﺎ ﺑﻌﺪ ذﻟﻚ ‪ ،‬وﻛﺜﻴﺮ ﻫ‪ ‬ﺣﺎﻻت اﻟﺰواج اﻟﺘ‪ ‬ﺣﺼﻞ ﻓﻴﻬﺎ ﻣﻦ ﻣﺨﺎﻟﻔﺔ أﻣﺮ اﻟ‪‬ﻪ ﻋﺰ وﺟﻞ ‪ ،‬وﻟﻢ ﺗﺴﺘﻤﺮ‪.‬‬

‫ﻓﺎﺗﻘﻮا اﻟ‪‬ﻪ ﻓ‪ ‬ﻫﺬه اﻟﺤﻔﻠﺔ واﺟﻌﻠﻮﻫﺎ ﺑﻌﻴﺪة ﻋﻦ اﻟﻤﺤﻈﻮرات اﻟﺸﺮﻋﻴﺔ ﻳﺒﺎرك اﻟ‪‬ﻪ ﻟ‪‬ﻢ ﻓﻴﻬﺎ ‪ .‬ﻧﺴﺄل اﻟ‪‬ﻪ اﻟﺘﻮﻓﻴﻖ ﻟﻚِ ﻣﻊ زوﺟﻚِ ‪،‬‬

‫وﺻﻠ‪ ‬اﻟ‪‬ﻪ ﻋﻠ‪ ‬ﻧﺒﻴﻨﺎ ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ‪ ،‬واﻟ‪‬ﻪ أﻋﻠﻢ ‪.‬‬

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