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INTERACTION BASICS: QUICK CONVERSATIONS

OPENING: The opener does NOT matter. The point of it is to simply open. Say hey, what’s up,
call them by there appearance i.e. hey red coat, hey blue sweater, .etc. All you’re doing is
getting their attention and beginning a conversation.

PREMISE: Girls aren’t dumb, they know that if you’re a guy talking to them you are interested
in putting your penis in them. That is, unless you HIDE your premise; i.e. you ask for a lighter,
or ask for directions, or something like that.

This is very dishonest, girls HATE that shit, because they can sense that your doing that…
and then are WAITING for you to steer into a conversation. They see your moves coming!
Your premise from the JUMP should be that you’re interested in talking to them. PERIOD.
That’s it, no gimmick or excuse, just you being assertive.

So the first couple lines could be like; I saw you walking by and you caught my attention.
What are you up to right now? I Don’t Know You- But I Want To. Hey, you look interesting.
What’s up? This is all basic shit. Your setting the premise of a male-to-female interaction;
that you are interested in talking to THEM. Now you need to do it in a casual way, but ALSO
seductively if you can; by following the verbal & body language signals listed above.

THE EXCEPTION would be if you ask for directions, and then say just kidding I just wanted to
talk to you whatsup, or something humorous like that. But I wouldn’t recommend that to
beginners, or inexperienced people.

THE ACTUAL CONVERSATION: You took the LEAD to go over and talk to her, and you must
take the LEAD with the interaction too. You don’t want to come off as an interviewer;
bantering her with questions; but you DO need to initially talk to her and assume the burden
of carrying the conversation; while she is still processing you. She may be short with
answers, as she should be, before she just opens up to you.

A great example Todd V made, pure beauty, said it’s like starting a lawn-mower. Sometimes
you’ll have to pull the cord several times, and hear it spark but then die down. Eventually it
starts running, and then all you have to do is guide it, and it cuts the grass.

For you Canadians with your car in winter, you have to heat it up, shovel the snow off and
scrape down the ice all around it before driving it.

Once you’ve established she is giving you her time, you can begin to pace yourself, slow
down, and let HER TALK more. You’re start carrying the interaction 80/20; but you want to
transition to evening out the talking to 50/50.

At this stage you may have already exhausted basic small talk, example; like what are you up
to right now, where are you from, how often do you come here, where do you work--- basic
bullshit really. This all needs to come out before you dive deep: But she KNOWS this and
WILL play along.

The next step is, stimulating her through conversation; as in making it a memorable
interaction, instead of just exchanging pleasantries. This often times means saying
something funny, making her laugh; or being polarizing, challenging something about her… or
relating on something, or teasing her, .etc .etc… it doesn’t matter what you do, you just need
to stand out and be somewhat interesting. Be MEMORABLE.

Girls have many emotions, they NEED to be stimulated. There used to experiencing them
constantly to the point where they expect them from you, and it will INTERNALLY let them
know if there attracted to you.. or NOT. So NOW is when you need to get creative! Don’t
overthink this; just think about whatever comes to mind.

Some easy ones;

• What she’s wearing

• Types of people that wear what she does

• What she reminds you of

•Weather, music, fashion, hobbies, interests, whats going around you right now… but
RELATE IT BACK TO HER.

Once again guys, it’s not what you say its how you say it. Just stay calm, follow the
guidelines above about HOW you say everything, because SHE KNOWS its bullshit too. Just
be cool and interesting, and keep talking; while engaging her.

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