POF MALE

How long have you been using pof? So tell me, what are your experiences with the
men you've interacted with on the pof?

I’m new to Pof, registered a few weeks ago, and so far

my experiences are terrible. I find most women are looking for sex only. No one is
looking for a Relationship. I have been single for years now and it took me so many
years to find myself and to realize what it is I'm looking for, I want a soul mate
that will take her time to know me and Love me for who I am and not what I have

Thou with your past experiences on online dating, do you still believe that you can
meet your soul mate through the Internet?
Though I have had some weird experiences with some women, I believe there's a Good
Woman out there for me, I have the courage that I will find the woman whom I which
to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have seen people
that have found theirs and live very happily with them and I have decided a while
ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate. I am here
because I know life is not all about me." That is why I decided to join that site
because I am hoping to meet someone nice enough to share life's simple pleasures
with. I hope to find someone I truly connect with. Someone who likes to laugh and
have fun, but can be serious as well. I am looking for that will be my best friend
and more. Someone who queen my best interest at heart because I will have hers. It
would be great if I could talk to her about anything.

Where originally are you from and where do you

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I'm from Ottawa Ontario, Canada.

I'm originally from Canada but I reside in Queens since 2003. It's a two-family
frame home that has lots of rooms and it is seated on 0.07 acres of land it has a
lake that runs across it but right now is building a swimming pool in there but the
work stopped since I came back to work here in U.S Gulf

What's your present marital status and do you have kids??

I am a widower, I lost my wife through polytheistic kidney disease 8 years ago. I

was emotionally devastated when my wife died but I stayed firm for my daughter.

So what is the nature of your work???

I'm a Canadian Army general currently on a peacekeeping mission assigned by the

United Nations here in Syria...

What do you think about a distance relationship ??

I think when two people are strong enough, they can make anything work out, but it
does take more understanding and patience, this is how I feel, I will swim a
thousand rivers and climb a hundred walls just to be with the person I love

What's your religion??

I am Catholic. If you are, that's great but if you are Lutheran and Anglican, that
works too! After all, I like to focus on what we have in common, not our
differences...

Are you a God-fearing woman??

I am a God-fearing man I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life, attitude
and success, however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for it. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.
What are your hobbies ?? u
When I am in town I enjoy cooking, swimming and reading, walking on the beach,
fishing, camping, scrabbling, playing checkers and seeing good comedies. I also
love the outdoors mountain biking, camping, horseback riding, outdoor photography
and also spending time with my Son...

What's your favourite colour?

My favourite colour is a white sign of purity, peace and nobility...

How often do you go out, I mean going to parties?

I do not go out often that much ever since I’ve been single because going out alone
seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with my Son and
I'll be looking forward to going out with that special lady someday.

So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters do you
have? What about your parents?
Dad died when I was just a kid, and my mom raised me as a single mom, she passed on
May 12, 2001, I'm the only child of my parents, Chloe and Oshyn are the only close
family I have got at the moment, they're my best friend, sisters and everything to
me.

do you seek for a particular age before you came into pof? How old are you?
I'm 40 years old. I do not seek a particular age, because I feel like age is just a
number, you do not know where can hit you up from. It can be someone younger or
perhaps older than you

How many relationships have you been into before you came into pof?
I had three deep relationships in my life, the first I had was when I was still a
teenager with a girl named Amber, we both attended the same school in Lancaster
Dallas, she was from Milan, then we used to see each other every day, helping one
another with our assignment, unfortunately after our final exam at high school, she
told me that her parents will be leaving Lancaster back to Milan and she was going
with them also, I felt like wooh! that means that you are going to leave me, she
said she does not know what to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that
period.
The second was with my ex-wife and was my longest relationship, we were married for
12 years, and after our divorce, I stayed a year and five months alone where I had
a very special lady named Anna, She was from Wyoming, I thought I was going to get
married to her. We stayed three months together and I later found out that she was
lying and has been cheating on me, so I had to break up with her and it hurt so
much and so bad. Since then I had been single and I decided to come into online
dating and find my soulmate.

cheating and lying make my last relationship end. I am a very comprehensive person.
When there is something wrong with my relationship, I did not fight and be
hysterical, I like to talk. Better conservation is always the best solution for
everything, but of course, with every experience, you learn more about how to deal
with it, and always there is something new for you to discover.

Whaat attracts you to a man?

Act like you have some home training, and know how to treat her man, not a male but
a man. She should know how to conduct business and handle her own business, have
good family values, help keep the house clean, and not throw cloth in the corner,
I am a clean freak, I never go to bed with dirty dishes in the kitchen.

I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and speaks for itself over time and for a
woman like you who is family oriented is an added average to me
What are your likes and dislikes ??

I like real things, honesty, truthfulness, caring and straightforward person. I

dislike drama, shouting, lies, disrespect, racism and betrayal. I want someone that
will love me, regardless of age, distance, language barriers, cultural differences
or material couples. because I do believe love knows no barriers and it conquerors
all things.

Honey what are some important things you expect from me as your partner??
Honey always be open, and honest and have a free speech about everything, share
your worries, your children and everything be that support group for me as I will
for you, plan together, play together and treat me like I mean something to you,
you don't have to sugar coat anything as adults we can handle things.
I expect you to treat me right, and be truthful and honest with me because I do
believe in gospel truth and that is what I want. A long-term relationship with
someone like you...I want to feel true love and happiness with you and share
everything with you based on love and understanding.

What are your goals or dreams in life ??

thanks for trusting me enough to tell me your dreams, I am sitting here staring all
over thinking how you got such a beautiful dream... my goal and dream in life are
to be with the woman I will love forever and live happily with her forever.

What motivates you?

I am motivated by life itself because life is what you made it. I love all that
life has to offer.

Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

I am a normal man; I do not take drugs to keep me on track. I had never smoked in
my life nor used drugs and never pretend to, because it was not for me. If I drink
alcohol; well I drink socially, if I go out with some friends and they are drinking
something light it's okay.

What is your favourite food?

My favourite food is Pasta. I love to cook great homemade meals and try new recipes
when I am in town with my son. I also love to exercise and the importance of being
healthy and eating healthy. Would like to cook with a! Special lady that would be
romantic!

What’s your favourite drink?

My favourite drink is Red Wine, but I prefer Champagne more likely.

What are your favourite movies?

Titanic is the only movie topping my list

What are your favourite TV Shows?

Rich Texan, One Trill Hill, CSI, Oprah.

What brand of music do you like?

I love blues, the 80s, and 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Gospel Jams, and RocknRoll.

Do you have a favourite musician in particular?

Hmm, Don Williams is a nice artist who inspires me in terms of music for that he is
my number one musician.

What about your favourite music band?

Mine is ABBA
Are you a sports fan? And what are your favourite sports?
I have a passion for sports and my favourite sport is football I also like Sea
Fishing, kayaking, boating, and sailing are my sports of choice. I’m not afraid to
speak my mind, trust my gut, and follow my heart. Even if it gets me in
trouble...lol

Do you have any favourite sports team you support in particular?

Ottawa Fury FC that’s my team, I love their pattern of playing when I am in town I
love going to watch their match together with my daughter.

What inspires you in life?

God inspires me, with the love and mercies he shows us each passing day.

Do you believe in true love?

Yes, I do.

What turns you off?

Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarrelling and argument turns me off.

How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?
I do feel unhappy at that moment; go to a quiet place and listen to cool music that
will calm me down.

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I would change how I tend to dwell on the past because it's dragging me down
lately. Our experiences in life made us who we are. No one is free from difficult
times in life or what some may call baggage. How you've dealt with those
experiences will determine if you're damaged or resilient. I'm a prime example of
resilience and not looking to do damage control. I understand everyone has old
baggage, but I want someone who has put the old baggage up for old memories and is
ready to create new memories. Life is short and you never know about tomorrow, so
if you want to live life "like there is no tomorrow.

Who is your mentor?

My mentor is my late mom, she was a nice, caring and understanding mom who loves
and takes good care of her family, she always speaks the truth and she is a self-
disciplined woman. My mom is ready to risk everything she has for her loved ones,
but I do feel the pain because she never lived to enjoy me, she was the best mom in
the world. She always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so
for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.

So tell me; what are some of the places you have visited?
I have already lived in Italy when I was young, before moving to my country with my
parents. I have been out of Canada several times on different occasions, maybe on a
work trip or vacation trip. My work has taken me to places like; Spain, Iraq, and
England. While on vacation trip me and my daughter have been to; Switzerland,
Italy, Yugoslavia, Greece, Bermuda, Paris, Rio DE Janeiro of Brazil, and Dubai. I
would love my next vacation trip to be with that special someone because I don’t
believe I’m destined to travel this road alone; I look forward to sharing my last
journey in love, laughter & friendship. Loving a woman is no longer enough for me.
The genuine friendship that develops, enjoying each other's company, and the
ability to communicate one’s needs, desires, hopes & dreams, for me, will sustain
the relationship. I may not be perfect, but I am perfect, for someone. Looking for
my "Lover and Companion" to live a fun-loving life and "Travel" around the world.
I'm looking for a woman who is a good communicator.

So tell me when travelling do you travel alone or do you like travelling with a
Companion?
I love travelling with my daughter because she is the only family that I have now.

Describe the perfect vacation you have had.

It was back in 2005, flying to Paris with my family, and then taking a train
through France, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month
on Santorini a Greek Island together with my wife and kids. I had the time of my
life, and these are my fondest memories. I will do it again.

What is your biggest fear?

My fear is my Only Courage, I have no fear in my heart so I've got to push on
through with Life.

What has been the best decision you've ever made?

Choosing not to dwell on my past, but rather be happy because Life is too short to
be unhappy

What 3 physical features do you get compliments on most?

My eyes, smiles, skin/complexion, and sometimes my voice too. People like it for
some reason.

What is your best Moment?

My Wedding Day

Your worst moment in life?

January 23rd 2014when my Mom died of Heart Cancer

Have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the man you want to be
with in the future?
Yeah, as I said; I would swim a Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to
be with the Person I Love

What languages can you speak? Which would you like to learn?
I speak English fluently

What are the five most important things in your life?

God, Family, Love, My Daughter & living to help others without asking for anything
in return.

Tell me One thing you can't live without

My Family; They are the reason I work hard to be successful, I will give my family
the life they deserve and make them very happy for as long as I live

What would you cook for a date at home?

Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her favourite
meal...Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get instructions from good
quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to perfection the day I will
cook the meal.

What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
"Love" "Trust" & "Understanding".

How do you normally spend your leisure time?

Listening to music, cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV, cooking.

How much do you enjoy walking in the park?

I enjoy it a lot; feeling the fresh air of nature, and viewing the beautiful green
trees.
If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do?
I will have hope and never give up.

What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships?
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things.

I know this question can be out of the line... lol let us say If you could wake up
tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
Hmm, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I want to be the
one to save the day.

If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit myself, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences because I am a
God-fearing man, and I do abide by the truth.

If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes, I would help in any way, because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need and he loves a cheerful giver. I think it's important to have
compassion for others in need of help. I have a good and caring heart. I don't like
arrogance or to be selfish. It's the strangest thing, but kindness attracts
kindness, like whenever I see someone’s car got broke down, I always love to help
and assist that person, because when mine also gets broke down or I had a flat tire
someone always has come to my rescue.

In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship is one where two lovers understand each other, they're
concerned for each other and they respect one another, I don’t think that there
will be a problem with that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their
selves.

Are you a left or right-handed person?

I am a right-handed person

Do you have any tattoos and body piercings?

I don't have any tattoos, but I do have my left ear pierced and sometimes I do wear
earrings...lol

Can you drive a vehicle? Do you have a car?

I have 2 cars that I drive when I am back in town; I have a Benz G Class 2012 and a
Mitsubishi Outlander 2012, but love to get a new one for myself and you baby,
because you happen to be the apple of my eyes and that I believe I will accomplish
as soon as I finish my Contract

Are you financially stable?

Yes of course I am financially stable, I do receive a high income from my Job so
there's no need for me to be afraid of any financial situation.

What do you spend most of your money on?

Though I have not got the time to settle around in town and relax with what I have
which I'm not boasting about, when I'm in town a few times; I enjoy going shopping
and spending vacations abroad with my daughter. I have a lot of taste for fashion
and clothing lines up as Dolce and Gabanna is my favourite brand. I also enjoy
spending money on designing my home with the nicest and latest home appliances. I
already have my eyes set to have a registered company of my own that will deal with
supplying FPSO materials to offshore and onshore fabrication companies, which I
will do when I have finally settled down with a woman right beside me and I can
call my wife.

Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes...Holding her close and making her feel the warmth of my body while kissing
her.

Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

Yes of course I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart
and also lay down my life for the woman I love.

Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes, I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love
your partner very much.
How long have you been using online dating? So tell me, what are your experiences
with the men you've interacted with on the Internet?
I'm new to online dating, registered a few days ago, and so far my experiences are
terrible. I find most women are looking for sex only. No one is looking for a
Relationship. I have been single for 3 years now and it took me so many years to
find myself and to realize what it is I'm looking for, I want a soul mate that will
take her time to know me and Love me for who I am and not what I have.

With your past experiences with online dating, do you still believe that you can
meet your soul mate through the Internet?
Though I have had some weird experiences with some women, I believe there's a Good
Woman out there for me, I have the courage that I will find the woman whom I which
to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have seen people
that have found theirs and live very happily with them and I have decided a while
ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate. I am here
because I know life is not all about me." That is why I decided to join that site
because I am hoping to meet someone nice enough to share life's simple pleasures
with. I hope to find someone I truly connect with. Someone who likes to laugh and
have fun, but can be serious as well. I am looking for someone that will be my best
friend and more. Someone who has my best interest at heart because I will have
hers. It would be great if I could talk to her about anything.

Where originally are you from? And where do you live now?
I'm originally from (**CLIENT LOCATION**) but I reside in Queens, NY. I have been
living in Queens since 2003. It's a Two Family Frame Home that has lots of rooms
and is seated on 0.07 acres of land it has a lake that runs across it but right now
is building a swimming pool in there but the work stopped since I came back to work
here in U.S Gulf

What's your present Marital Status, do you have kids?

I am a widower. I lost my wife through Polycystic Kidney Disease 3 years ago. I was
emotionally devastated when my wife died, but I stay firm for my kids...

What do You think about A Distance Relationship?

I think when Two People are strong enough, they can make anything Work out, but it
does take much understanding and Patience, This is how I feel, I would swim a
Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to be with the Person I Love

Are you willing to relocate if the man you fall in love with lives away from you?
For me it depends on my soul mate; If she willingly wants me to relocate to Her
Home, its okay with me, but if she likes to relocate to my Home that will be fine
so long as we stick together as ONE, Perhaps she might want us to Buy another Home,
it fine as long as she's the happiest Woman on Earth

What's your religion?

I am a practising Catholic. If you are, that's great, but if you are Lutheran or
Anglican, that works too! After all, I like to focus on what we have in common, not
our differences.

Are you a God-fearing woman?

I am a God-fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life,
attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.

What are Your Hobbies?

I enjoy, cooking, swimming, reading, walking on the beach, fishing, camping,
scrabbling, playing checkers and seeing good comedies. I love the outdoors mountain
biking, camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor photography and also spending
some time out with my friends and also my daughters.

What’s Your Favorite colour?

My favourite colour is a white sign of purity, peace & nobility.

How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?

I do not go out often that much ever since, I lost my late wife, because going out
alone seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with my kids
and I will be looking forward to going out with that special lady someday.

So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters do you
have? What about your parents?
Dad died when I was just a kid, My Mom raised me as a single Mom, she passed on May
12, 2001. I'm the only Child of my Parents, Chloe and Oshyn are the only close
family I have got at the moment, they're my best friend, sister and everything to
me.

Do you seek a particular age before coming into Online Dating? How old are you?
I'm 50 years old. I do not seek a particular age, because I feel age is a number,
you do not know where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger than you
or perhaps older than you.

How many relationships have you been into before you came into online dating?

I had three (3) deep relationships in my life; The first I had was when I was still
a teenager with a girl named Amber, we were both attending the same school in
London, she was from Milan, then we used to see each other every day, helping one
other with our assignment, unfortunately after our final exam at high school, she
told me that her parents will be leaving London back to Milan and she was going
with them also, I felt like wooh!!!, that means that you are going to leave me, she
said she does not know what to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that
period.
The second was with my late wife and was my longest relationship, we were married
for 12 years, I met her in my home town, Lazio, Italy. After her death, I stayed a
year and 5 months alone where I had a very special lady Named Ana; she was from
Wyoming, and I thought I was going to get married to her. We stayed 3 months
together and I later found out that she was lying and has been cheating on me, so I
had to break up with her and it hurts so much and so bad. Since then I have been
single and I decided to come into online dating and find my soul mate.

Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship?

Cheating and lies made my last relationship end. I am a very comprehensive person.
When there is something wrong with my relationship, I don’t fight and be
hysterical, I like to talk. A better conversation is always the best solution for
everything, but of course, with every experience, you learn more about how to deal
with it, and always there is something new for you to discover.

What attracts you to a man?

Act like you had some home training, and know how to treat her Man not a male but a
Man. She should know how to conduct business and handle her own business, have good
family values, help keep the house clean, and not throw clothes in the corner, I'm
a clean freak, I never go to bed with dirty dishes in the kitchen

I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time for a
woman like you who is family oriented is an added advantage to me.

What are your likes and dislikes?

I like real things; I like honesty, truthfulness, caring and being an obedient
person. I dislike dramas, cheating, lies, disrespect, racism & Betrayal. I want
someone that will love me for me, regardless of age, distance, language barrier,
cultural differences or material purpose. Because I do believe love knows no
barriers and is the conqueror of all things.

Honey, what are some important things you expect from me as your partner?
honey always be open, and honest and have a free speech about anything, share your
worries, your children and everything to be that support group for me as I will for
you, plan together pray together and treat me like I mean something to you, you
don't have to sugar coat anything as adults we can handle things
I expect you to treat me right, and be truthful and honest with me because I do
believe in the Gospel truth and that's what I want. A long-term relationship with
someone like you... I want to feel true love and happiness with you and share
everything with you based on Love, Trust & Understanding.

What are your goals or dreams in life?

Thanks for trusting me enough to tell me your Dreams, I'm sitting here staring all
over thinking how you got such a Beautiful dream... My goals and dreams in life are
to be with the woman I will love forever and live happily with HER forever.

What motivates you?

I'm motivated by life itself because life is what you made it. I love all that life
has to offer.

Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

I am a normal guy; I do not take drugs to keep me on track. I had never smoked in
my life nor used drugs and never pretend to, because it was not for me. If I drink
alcohol; well I drink socially, if I go out with some friends and they are drinking
something light it's okay.

So tell me; what is your favourite food?

My favourite food is Pasta. I love to cook great homemade meals and try new recipes
when I am in town with my daughter. I also love to exercise and the importance of
being healthy and eating healthy. Would like a lady to cook with! So romantic!

What’s your favourite drink?

My favourite drink is Red Wine, but I prefer Champagne more likely.

What are your favourite movies?

Titanic is the only movie topping my list

What are your favourite TV Shows?

Rich Texan, One Trill Hill, CSI, Oprah.

What brand of music do you like?

I love blues, the 80s, and 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Gospel Jams, and RocknRoll.
Do you have a favourite musician in particular?
Hmm, Don Williams is a nice artist who inspires me in terms of music for that he is
my number one musician.

What about your favourite music band?

Mine is ABBA

Are you a sports fan? And what are your favourite sports?
I have a passion for sports and my favourite sport is football and I also like Sea
Fishing, kayaking, boating, and sailing are my sports of choice. I’m not afraid to
speak my mind, trust my gut, and follow my heart. Even if it gets me in
trouble...lol

Do you have any favourite sport team you support in particular?

Manchester United football club that’s my team, I love their pattern of playing
when I am in town I love travelling going to watch their match together with my
daughter.

What inspires you in life?

God inspires me, with his love and mercies he shows us each passing day.

Do you believe in true love?

Yes, I do.

What turns you off?

Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argument turns me off.

How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?
I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool music
that will calm me down.

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I would change how I tend to dwell on the past, because it's really dragging me
down lately. Our experiences in life made us who we are. No one is free from
difficult times in life or what some may call baggage. How you've dealt with those
experiences will determine if you're damaged or resilient. I'm a prime example of
resilient and not looking to do damage control. I understand everyone has old
baggage, but I want someone who has put the old baggage up for old memories and is
ready to create new memories. Life is short and you never know about tomorrow, so
if you want to live life "like there is no tomorrow.

Who is your mentor?

My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in
the world. He always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so
for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.

So tell me; what are some of the places you have visited?
I have already lived in Italy when I was young, before moving to the states with my
parents. I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe
on a work trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like; Spain,
Malaysia, England.While on vacation trip me and my daughters have been to;
Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia,Greece, Bermuda, Paris, Rio DE Janeiro of Brazil,
and Dubai. I would love my next vacation trip to be with that special someone,
because I don’t believe I’m destined to travel this road alone; I look forward to
sharing my last journey in love, laughter & friendship. Loving a woman is no longer
enough for me. The genuine friendship that develops, enjoying each others company,
the ability to communicate one’s needs, desires, hopes & dreams, for me, it will
sustain the relationship. I may not be perfect, but I am perfect, for someone.
Looking for my "Lover and Companion" to live a fun loving life and "Travel" around
the would with. I'm looking for a woman who is a good communicator.

So tell me when traveling do you travel alone or you like traveling with a
Companion?
I love traveling with my daughter, because she is my only family that I have now.

Describe the perfect vacation you have had?

It was back in 2005, flying to Paris with my family, then taking a train through
France, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month on
Santorini a Greek Island together with my wife and kids. I had the time of my life,
and these are my fondest memories. I will do it again.

What is your biggest fear?

My fear is my Only Courage, I have no fear in my heart so I've got to push on
through with Life.

What has been the best decision you've ever made?

Choosing not to dwell on my past, but rather be happy because Life is too short to
be unhappy

What 3 physical features do you get compliments on most?

My eyes, smiles, skin/complexion, and sometimes my voice too. People like it for
some reason.

What is your best Moment?

My Wedding Day

Your worst moment in life?

May 12 2001 when my Mom died through Heart Cancer

Have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the man you want to be
with in the future?
Yeah, like I said; I would swim a Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to
be with the Person I Love

What languages can you speak? Which would you like to learn?
I speak English fluently

What are the five most important things in your life?

God, Family, Love, My Daughter & living to help others without asking for anything
in return.

Tell me One thing you can't live without

My Family; They are the reason I work hard to be a successful, I will give my
family the life they deserve and make them very happy for as long as I live

What would you cook for a date at home?

Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her favorite
meal...Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get instructions from good
quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to perfection the day I will
cook the meal.

What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
"Love" "Trust" & "Understanding".
How do you normally spend your leisure time?
Listening to music, cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV, cooking.

How much do you enjoy walking in the park?

I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green
trees.

If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do?
I will have hope and never to give up.

What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships?
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each
others.

I know this question can be out of the line... lol Lets say If you could wake up
tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
Hmm, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I want to be the
one to save the day.

If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I am a
God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.

If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes I would help in anyway, because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need and he loves a cheerful giver. I think it's important to have
compassion for others in need of help. I have a good and caring heart. I don't like
arrogance or to be selfish. It's the strangest thing, but kindness attracts
kindness, like whenever I see someone’s car got broke down, I always love to help
and assist that person, because when mine also gets broke down or I had a flat tire
someone always has come to my rescue.

In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I don’t think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.

Are you a left or right handed person?

I am a right handed person

Do you any tattoos and body piercings?

I don't have any tattoo, but I do have my left ear pieced and some times I do wear
earrings...lol

Can you drive a vehicle? Do you have a car?

I have 2 cars that I drive when I am back in town; I have a Benz G Class 2012 and a
Mitsubishi Outlander 2012, but love to get a new one for myself and for you baby,
because you happen to be the apple of my eyes and that I believe I will accomplish
as soon as I finish my Contract

Are you financially stable?

Yes of course I am financially stable, I do receive a high income from my Job so
there's no need for me to be afraid of any financial situation.

What do you spend most of your money on?

Though I have not got the time to settle around in town and relax with what I have
of which I'm not boasting off, but when I'm in town for the few times; I enjoy
going shopping and spending vacation abroad with my daughter. I have a lot of taste
for fashion and clothing line up as Dolce and Gabana is my favorite brand. I also
enjoy spending money on designing my home with the nicest and latest home
appliances. I already have my eyes set to have a registered company of my own that
will deal into supplying of FPSO materials to offshore and onshore fabrication
companies, that I will do when I have finally settle down with a woman right beside
me and I can call my wife.

Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes...Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing her.

Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

Yes of course I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart
and also lay down my life for the woman I love.

Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes, I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love
your partner very much.
How long have you been using online dating? So tell me, what are your experiences
with the men you've interacted with on the Internet?
I'm new to online dating, registered a few days ago, and so far my experiences are
terrible. I find most women are looking for sex only. No one is really looking for
a Relationship. I have been single for 3 years now and it took me so many years to
find myself and to realize what it is I'm looking for, I want a soul mate that will
take her time to know me and Love me for who I am and not what I have.

With your past experiences on online dating, do you still believe that you can meet
your soul mate through the Internet?
Though I have some weird experiences with some woman, but I believe there's a Good
Woman out there for me, I have the courage that I will find the woman whom I which
to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have seen people
that have found theirs and live very happily with them and I have decided a while
ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate. I am here
because I know life is not all about me." That is why I decided to join that site,
because I am hoping to meet someone nice enough to share life's simple pleasures
with. I hope to find someone I truly connect with. Someone who likes to laugh and
have fun, but can be serious as well. I am looking for someone that will be my best
friend and more. Someone who has my best interest at heart because I will have
hers. It would be great if I could talk to her about anything.

Where originally are you from? And where do you live now?
I'm originally from (**CLIENT LOCATION**) but I reside in Queens, NY. I have been
living in Queens since 2003. It's a Two Family Frame Home that has lots of rooms
and it is seated in an 0.07 acres of land it has a lake that runs across it but
right now am building a swimming pool in there but the work stopped since i came
back to work here in U.S Gulf

What's your present Marital Status, do you have kids?

I am a widower. I lost my wife through Polycystic Kidney Disease 3 years ago. I was
emotionally devastated when my wife died, but I stay firm and strong for kids...

What do You think about A Distance Relationship?

I think when Two People are strong enough, they can make anything Work out, but it
does take much understanding and Patience, This is how I feel, I would swim a
Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to be with the Person I Love

Are you willing to relocate if the man you fall in love with lives away from you?
For me it depends on my soul mate; If she willingly wants me relocate to Her Home,
its okay with me, but if she likes to relocate to my Home that will be fine so long
as we stick together as ONE, Perhaps she might want us to Buy another Home, it fine
as long as she's the happiest Woman on Earth

What's your religion?

I am a practicing Catholic. If you are, that's great, but if you are Lutheran or
Anglican, that works too! After all, I like to focus on what we have in common, not
our differences.

Are you a God fearing woman?

I am a God fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life,
attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.

What are Your Hobbies?

I enjoy, cooking, swimming, and reading, walking on the beach, fishing, camping,
scrabbling, playing checkers and seeing good comedies. I love the outdoors mountain
biking, camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor photography and also spending
some time out with my friends and also my daughters.

What’s Your Favorite color?

My favorite colors is white sign of purity, peace & nobility.

How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?

I do not go out often that much ever since, I lost my late wife, because going out
alone seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with my kids
and I will be looking forward to going out with that special lady someday.

So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents?
Dad died when I was just a kid, My Mom raised me up as a single Mom, she passed on
May 12, 2001. I'm the only Child of my Parents, Chloe and Oshyn are the only close
family I have got at the moment, they're my best friend, sister and everything to
me.

Do you seek for a particular age before coming into online Dating? How old are you?
I'm 50 years old. I do not seek for a particular age, because I feel age is
numbers, you do not know where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger
than you or perhaps older than you.

How many relationships have you been into before you came into online dating?

I had three (3) deep relationships in my life; The first I had was when I was still
a teenager with a girl named Amber, we were both attending the same school in
London, she was from Milan, then we used to see each other everyday, helping one
other with our assignment, unfortunately after our final exam at high school, she
told me that her parents will be leaving London back to Milan and she was going
with them also, I felt like wooh!!!, that means that you are going to leave me, she
said she does not know what to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that
period.
The second was with my late wife and was my longest relationship, we were married
for 12 years, I met her at my home town, Lazio, Italy. After her death I stayed a
year and 5 months alone were I had a very special lady Named Ana; she was from
Wyoming, I thought I was going to get married to her. We stayed 3 months together
and I later found at that she was lieing and has been cheating on me, so I had to
brake up with her and it hurts so much and so bad. Since then I have been single
and I decided to come into online dating and find my soul mate.
Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship?
Cheating and lies made my last relationship ended. I am a very comprehensive
person. When there is something wrong with my relationship, I don’t fight, and be
hysterical, I like to talk. A better conversation is always the best solution for
everything, but of course with every experience you learn more how to deal, and
always there is something new for you to discover.

What attracts you to a man?

Act like you had some home training, know how to treat her Man not a male but a
Man. She should know how to conduct business and handle her own business, good
family values, help keep the house clean, and no throwing clothes in the corner,
i'm a clean freak, i never go to bed with dirty dishes in the kitchen

I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time and for a
woman like you who is family oriented is an added advantage to me.

What are your likes and dislikes?

I like real things; I like honesty, truthful, caring and obedient person. I dislike
dramas, cheating, lies, disrespect, racist & Betrayal. I want someone that will
love me for me, regardless of age, distance, language barrier, cultural differences
or material purpose. Because I do believe love knows no barriers and is the
conqueror all things.

Honey what are some important things you expect from me as your partner?
honey to always be open, honest and have free speach about anything, share your
worries, your children and everything to be that support group for me as i will for
you, plan together pray together and treat me like i mean something to you, you
dont have to sugar coat anything as adults we can handle things
I expect you to treat me right, be truthful and honest with me, because I do
believe in the Gospel truth and that's what I want. A long term relationship with
someone like you... I want to feel true love and happiness with you and share
everything with you based on Love, Trust & Understanding.

What are your goals or dreams in life?

Thanks for trusting me enough to tell me your Dreams, I'm sitting here starring all
over thinking how you got such a Beautiful dream... My goals and dreams in life is
to be with the woman I will love forever and live happily with HER forever.

What motivates you?

I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made it. I love all that
life has to offer.

Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

I am a normal guy; I do not take drugs to keep me on track. I had never smoked in
my life neither used drugs and never pretend too, because it's not for me. If I
drink alcohol; well I drink socially, if I go out with some friends and they are
drinking something light its okay.

So tell me; what is your favorite food?

My favorite food is Pasta. I love to cook great home made meals and try new recipes
when I am in town with my daughter. I also love to exercise and the importance of
being healthy and eating healthy. Would like a lady to cook with! So romantic!

What’s your favorite drink?

My favorite drinks Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne more likely.

What are your favorite movies?

Titanic is the only movie topping my list
What are your favorite TV Shows?
Rich Texan, One Trill Hill, CSI, Oprah.

What brand of music do you like?

I love blues, 80s, and 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Gospel Jams, and RocknRoll.

Do you have a favorite musician in particular?

Hmm, Don Williams is a nice artist who inspires me in terms of music for that he is
my number one musician.

What about your favorite music band?

Mine is ABBA

Are you a sports fan? And what are your favorite sports?
I have a passion for sports and my favorite sport is football and I also like Sea
Fishing, kayaking, boating, sailing are my sports of choice. I’m not afraid to
speak my mind, trust my gut, and follow my heart. Even if it gets me in
trouble...lol

Do you have any favorite sport team you support in particular?

Manchester United football club that’s my team, I love their pattern of playing
when I am in town I love travelling going to watch their match together with my
daughter.

What inspires you in life?

God inspires me, with his love and mercies he shows us each passing day.

Do you believe in true love?

Yes, I do.

What turns you off?

Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argument turns me off.

How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?
I do feel unhappy for that moment; go to quite place and listening to a cool music
that will calm me down.

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I would change how I tend to dwell on the past, because it's really dragging me
down lately. Our experiences in life made us who we are. No one is free from
difficult times in life or what some may call baggage. How you've dealt with those
experiences will determine if you're damaged or resilient. I'm a prime example of
resilient and not looking to do damage control. I understand everyone has old
baggage, but I want someone who has put the old baggage up for old memories and is
ready to create new memories. Life is short and you never know about tomorrow, so
if you want to live life "like there is no tomorrow.

Who is your mentor?

My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in
the world. He always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so
for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.

So tell me; what are some of the places you have visited?
I have already lived in Italy when I was young, before moving to the states with my
parents. I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe
on a work trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like; Spain,
Malaysia, England.While on vacation trip me and my daughters have been to;
Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia,Greece, Bermuda, Paris, Rio DE Janeiro of Brazil,
and Dubai. I would love my next vacation trip to be with that special someone,
because I don’t believe I’m destined to travel this road alone; I look forward to
sharing my last journey in love, laughter & friendship. Loving a woman is no longer
enough for me. The genuine friendship that develops, enjoying each others company,
the ability to communicate one’s needs, desires, hopes & dreams, for me, it will
sustain the relationship. I may not be perfect, but I am perfect, for someone.
Looking for my "Lover and Companion" to live a fun loving life and "Travel" around
the would with. I'm looking for a woman who is a good communicator.

So tell me when travelling do you travel alone or you like travelling with a
Companion?
I love travelling with my daughter, because she is my only family that I have now.

Describe the perfect vacation you have had?

It was back in 2005, flying to Paris with my family, then taking a train through
France, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month on
Santorini a Greek Island together with my wife and kids. I had the time of my life,
and these are my fondest memories. I will do it again.

What is your biggest fear?

My fear is my Only Courage, I have no fear in my heart so I've got to push on
through with Life.

What has been the best decision you've ever made?

Choosing not to dwell on my past, but rather be happy because Life is too short to
be unhappy

What 3 physical features do you get compliments on most?

My eyes, smiles, skin/complexion, and sometimes my voice too. People like it for
some reason.

What is your best Moment?

My Wedding Day

Your worst moment in life?

May 12 2001 when my Mom died through Heart Cancer

Have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the man you want to be
with in the future?
Yeah, like I said; I would swim a Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to
be with the Person I Love

What languages can you speak? Which would you like to learn?
I speak English fluently

What are the five most important things in your life?

God, Family, Love, My Daughter & living to help others without asking for anything
in return.

Tell me One thing you can't live without

My Family; They are the reason I work hard to be a successful, I will give my
family the life they deserve and make them very happy for as long as I live

What would you cook for a date at home?

Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her favorite
meal...Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get instructions from good
quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to perfection the day I will
cook the meal.

What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships?
"Love" "Trust" & "Understanding".

How do you normally spend your leisure time?

Listening to music, cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV, cooking.

How much do you enjoy walking in the park?

I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green
trees.

If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do?
I will have hope and never to give up.

What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships?
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each
others.

I know this question can be out of the line... lol Lets say If you could wake up
tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
Hmm, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I want to be the
one to save the day.

If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I am a
God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.

If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes I would help in anyway, because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need and he loves a cheerful giver. I think it's important to have
compassion for others in need of help. I have a good and caring heart. I don't like
arrogance or to be selfish. It's the strangest thing, but kindness attracts
kindness, like whenever I see someone’s car got broke down, I always love to help
and assist that person, because when mine also gets broke down or I had a flat tire
someone always has come to my rescue.

In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I don’t think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.

Are you a left or right handed person?

I am a right handed person

Do you any tattoos and body piercings?

I don't have any tattoo, but I do have my left ear pieced and some times I do wear
earrings...lol

Can you drive a vehicle? Do you have a car?

I have 2 cars that I drive when I am back in town; I have a Benz G Class 2012 and a
Mitsubishi Outlander 2012, but love to get a new one for myself and for you baby,
because you happen to be the apple of my eyes and that I believe I will accomplish
as soon as I finish my Contract
Are you financially stable?
Yes of course I am financially stable, I do receive a high income from my Job so
there's no need for me to be afraid of any financial situation.

What do you spend most of your money on?

Though I have not got the time to settle around in town and relax with what I have
of which I'm not boasting off, but when I'm in town for the few times; I enjoy
going shopping and spending vacation abroad with my daughter. I have a lot of taste
for fashion and clothing line up as Dolce and Gabana is my favorite brand. I also
enjoy spending money on designing my home with the nicest and latest home
appliances. I already have my eyes set to have a registered company of my own that
will deal into supplying of FPSO materials to offshore and onshore fabrication
companies, that I will do when I have finally settle down with a woman right beside
me and I can call my wife.

Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes...Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing her.

Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

Yes of course I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart
and also lay down my life for the woman I love.

Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes, I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love
your partner very much.
How long have you been using online dating? So tell me, what are your experiences
with the men you've interacted with on the Internet?
I'm new to online dating, registered a few days ago, and so far my experiences are
terrible. I find most women are looking for sex only. No one is really looking for
a Relationship. I have been single for 3 years now and it took me so many years to
find myself and to realize what it is I'm looking for, I want a soul mate that will
take her time to know me and Love me for who I am and not what I have.

With your past experiences on online dating, do you still believe that you can meet
your soul mate through the Internet?
Though I have some weird experiences with some woman, but I believe there's a Good
Woman out there for me, I have the courage that I will find the woman whom I which
to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have seen people
that have found theirs and live very happily with them and I have decided a while
ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate. I am here
because I know life is not all about me." That is why I decided to join that site,
because I am hoping to meet someone nice enough to share life's simple pleasures
with. I hope to find someone I truly connect with. Someone who likes to laugh and
have fun, but can be serious as well. I am looking for someone that will be my best
friend and more. Someone who has my best interest at heart because I will have
hers. It would be great if I could talk to her about anything.

Where originally are you from? And where do you live now?
I'm originally from (**CLIENT LOCATION**) but I reside in Queens, NY. I have been
living in Queens since 2003. It's a Two Family Frame Home that has lots of rooms
and it is seated in an 0.07 acres of land it has a lake that runs across it but
right now am building a swimming pool in there but the work stopped since i came
back to work here in U.S Gulf

What's your present Marital Status, do you have kids?

I am a widower. I lost my wife through Polycystic Kidney Disease 3 years ago. I was
emotionally devastated when my wife died, but I stay firm and strong for kids...
What do You think about A Distance Relationship?
I think when Two People are strong enough, they can make anything Work out, but it
does take much understanding and Patience, This is how I feel, I would swim a
Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to be with the Person I Love

Are you willing to relocate if the man you fall in love with lives away from you?
For me it depends on my soul mate; If she willingly wants me relocate to Her Home,
its okay with me, but if she likes to relocate to my Home that will be fine so long
as we stick together as ONE, Perhaps she might want us to Buy another Home, it fine
as long as she's the happiest Woman on Earth

What's your religion?

I am a practicing Catholic. If you are, that's great, but if you are Lutheran or
Anglican, that works too! After all, I like to focus on what we have in common, not
our differences.

Are you a God fearing woman?

I am a God fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life,
attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.

What are Your Hobbies?

I enjoy, cooking, swimming, and reading, walking on the beach, fishing, camping,
scrabbling, playing checkers and seeing good comedies. I love the outdoors mountain
biking, camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor photography and also spending
some time out with my friends and also my daughters.

What’s Your Favorite color?

My favorite colors is white sign of purity, peace & nobility.

How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?

I do not go out often that much ever since, I lost my late wife, because going out
alone seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with my kids
and I will be looking forward to go out with that special lady someday.

So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents?
Dad died when I was just a kid, My Mom raised me up as a single Mom, she passed on
May 12, 2001. I'm the only Child of my Parents, Chloe and Oshyn are the only close
family I have got at the moment, they're my best friend, sister and everything to
me.

Do you seek for a particular age before coming into online Dating? How old are you?
I'm 50 years old. I do not seek for a particular age, because I feel age is
numbers, you do not know where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger
than you or perhaps older than you.

How many relationships have you been into before you came into online dating?

I had three (3) deep relationships in my life; The first I had was when I was still
a teenager with a girl named Amber, we were both attending the same school in
London, she was from Milan, then we used to see each other everyday, helping one
other with our assignment, unfortunately after our final exam at high school, she
told me that her parents will be leaving London back to Milan and she was going
with them also, I felt like wooh!!!, that means that you are going to leave me, she
said she does not know what to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that
period.
The second was with my late wife and was my longest relationship, we were married
for 12 years, I met her at my home town, Lazio, Italy. After her death I stayed a
year and 5 months alone were I had a very special lady Named Ana; she was from
Wyoming, I thought I was going to get married to her. We stayed 3 months together
and I later found at that she was lieing and has been cheating on me, so I had to
brake up with her and it hurts so much and so bad. Since then I have been single
and I decided to come into online dating and find my soul mate.

Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship?

Cheating and lies made my last relationship ended. I am a very comprehensive
person. When there is something wrong with my relationship, I don’t fight, and be
hysterical, I like to talk. A better conversation is always the best solution for
everything, but of course with every experience you learn more how to deal, and
always there is something new for you to discover.

What attracts you to a man?

Act like you had some home training, know how to treat her Man not a male but a
Man. She should know how to conduct business and handle her own business, good
family values, help keep the house clean, and no throwing clothes in the corner,
i'm a clean freak, i never go to bed with dirty dishes in the kitchen

I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time for a
woman like you who is family oriented is an added advantage to me.

What are your likes and dislikes?

I like real things; I like honesty, truthfulness, caring and being obedient person.
I dislike dramas, cheating, lies, disrespect, racism & Betrayal. I want someone
that will love me for me, regardless of age, distance, language barrier, cultural
differences or material purpose. Because I do believe love knows no barriers and is
the conqueror of all things.

Honey, what are some important things you expect from me as your partner?
honey to always be open, and honest and have a free speech about anything, share
your worries, your children and everything to be that support group for me as I
will for you, plan together pray together and treat me like I mean something to
you, you don't have to sugar coat anything as adults we can handle things
I expect you to treat me right, and be truthful and honest with me because I do
believe in the Gospel truth and that's what I want. A long-term relationship with
someone like you... I want to feel true love and happiness with you and share
everything with you based on Love, Trust & Understanding.

What are your goals or dreams in life?

Thanks for trusting me enough to tell me your Dreams, I'm sitting here staring all
over thinking how you got such a Beautiful dream... My goals and dreams in life are
to be with the woman I will love forever and live happily with HER forever.

What motivates you?

I'm motivated by life itself because life is what you made it. I love all that life
has to offer.

Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

I am a normal guy; I do not take drugs to keep me on track. I had never smoked in
my life nor used drugs and never pretend to, because it was not for me. If I drink
alcohol; well I drink socially, if I go out with some friends and they are drinking
something light it's okay.

So tell me; what is your favourite food?

My favourite food is Pasta. I love to cook great homemade meals and try new recipes
when I am in town with my daughter. I also love to exercise and the importance of
being healthy and eating healthy. Would like a lady to cook with! So romantic!
What’s your favourite drink?
My favourite drink is Red Wine, but I prefer Champagne more likely.

What are your favourite movies?

Titanic is the only movie topping my list

What are your favourite TV Shows?

Rich Texan, One Trill Hill, CSI, Oprah.

What brand of music do you like?

I love blues, the 80s, and 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Gospel Jams, and RocknRoll.

Do you have a favourite musician in particular?

Hmm, Don Williams is a nice artist who inspires me in terms of music for that he is
my number one musician.

What about your favourite music band?

Mine is ABBA

Are you a sports fan? And what are your favourite sports?
I have a passion for sports and my favourite sport is football I also like Sea
Fishing, kayaking, boating, and sailing are my sports of choice. I’m not afraid to
speak my mind, trust my gut, and follow my heart. Even if it gets me in
trouble...lol

Do you have any favourite sports team you support in particular?

Manchester United football club that’s my team, I love their pattern of playing
when I am in town I love travelling and going to watch their match together with my
daughter.

What inspires you in life?

God inspires me, with the love and mercies he shows us each passing day.

Do you believe in true love?

Yes, I do.

What turns you off?

Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarrelling and argument turns me off.

How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?
I do feel unhappy at that moment; go to quiet a place and listen to cool music that
will calm me down.

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I would change how I tend to dwell on the past because it's dragging me down
lately. Our experiences in life made us who we are. No one is free from difficult
times in life or what some may call baggage. How you've dealt with those
experiences will determine if you're damaged or resilient. I'm a prime example of
resilience and not looking to do damage control. I understand everyone has old
baggage, but I want someone who has put the old baggage up for old memories and is
ready to create new memories. Life is short and you never know about tomorrow, so
if you want to live life "like there is no tomorrow.

Who is your mentor?

My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self-
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was the best dad in the
world. He always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so for
you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.

So tell me; what are some of the places you have visited?
I have already lived in Italy when I was young, before moving to the states with my
parents. I have been out of the States several times on different occasions, maybe
on a work trip or vacation trip. My work has taken me to places like; Spain,
Malaysia, and England. While on vacation trip me and my daughters have been to;
Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, Greece, Bermuda, Paris, Rio DE Janeiro of Brazil,
and Dubai. I would love my next vacation trip to be with that special someone
because I don’t believe I’m destined to travel this road alone; I look forward to
sharing my last journey in love, laughter & friendship. Loving a woman is no longer
enough for me. The genuine friendship that develops, enjoying each other's company,
and the ability to communicate one’s needs, desires, hopes & dreams, for me, will
sustain the relationship. I may not be perfect, but I am perfect, for someone.
Looking for my "Lover and Companion" to live a fun-loving life and "Travel" around
the world. I'm looking for a woman who is a good communicator.

So tell me when travelling do you travel alone or do you like travelling with a
Companion?
I love travelling with my daughter because she is the only family that I have now.

Describe the perfect vacation you have had.

It was back in 2005, flying to Paris with my family, and then taking a train
through France, Switzerland, Italy, Yugoslavia, and Greece. Then spending 1 month
on Santorini a Greek Island together with my wife and kids. I had the time of my
life, and these are my fondest memories. I will do it again.

What is your biggest fear?

My fear is my Only Courage, I have no fear in my heart so I've got to push on
through with Life.

What has been the best decision you've ever made?

Choosing not to dwell on my past, but rather be happy because Life is too short to
be unhappy

What 3 physical features do you get compliments on most?

My eyes, smiles, skin/complexion, and sometimes my voice too. People like it for
some reason.

What is your best Moment?

My Wedding Day

Your worst moment in life?

On May 12, 2001, when my Mom died of Heart Cancer

Have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the man you want to be
with in the future?
Yeah, as I said; I would swim a Thousand Rivers and Climb a Hundred Walls just to
be with the Person I Love

What languages can you speak? Which would you like to learn?
I speak English fluently

What are the five most important things in your life?

God, Family, Love, My Daughter & living to help others without asking for anything
in return.

Tell me One thing you can't live without

My Family; They are the reason I work hard to be successful, I will give my family
the life they deserve and make them very happy for as long as I live

What would you cook for a date at home?

Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her favourite
meal...Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get instructions from good
quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to perfection the day I will
cook the meal. What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships
that will help you succeed in future relationships?
"Love" "Trust" & "Understanding".

How do you normally spend your leisure time?

Listening to music, cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV, cooking.

How much do you enjoy walking in the park?

I enjoy it a lot; feeling the fresh air of nature, and viewing the beautiful green
trees.

If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do?
I will have hope and never give up.

What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships?
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things.

I know this question can be out of the line... lol let's say If you could wake up
tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
Hmm, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I want to be the
one to save the day.

If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit myself, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences because I am a
God-fearing man, and I do abide by the truth.

If you see somebody you don't know who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes, I would help in any way because God in heaven says it is good to help those
that are in need and he loves a cheerful giver. I think it's important to have
compassion for others in need of help. I have a good and caring heart. I don't like
arrogance or to be selfish. It's the strangest thing, but kindness attracts
kindness, like whenever I see someone’s car got broke down, I always love to help
and assist that person, because when mine also gets broke down or I had a flat tire
someone always has come to my rescue.

In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man?
A good relationship is one where two lovers understand each other, they're
concerned for each other and they respect one another, I don’t think that there
will be a problem with that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their
selves.

Are you a left or right-handed person?

I am a right-handed person

Do you have any tattoos and body piercings?

I don't have any tattoos, but I do have my left ear pierced and sometimes I do wear
earrings...lol

Can you drive a vehicle? Do you have a car?

I have 2 cars that I drive when I am back in town; I have a Benz G Class 2012 and a
Mitsubishi Outlander 2012, but love to get a new one for myself and you baby,
because you happen to be the apple of my eyes and that I believe I will accomplish
as soon as I finish my Contract

Are you financially stable?

Yes of course I am financially stable, I do receive a high income from my Job so
there's no need for me to be afraid of any financial situation.

What do you spend most of your money on?

Though I have not got the time to settle around in town and relax with what I have
which I'm not boasting about, when I'm in town a few times; I enjoy going shopping
and spending vacations abroad with my daughter. I have a lot of taste for fashion
and clothing lines up as Dolce and Gabbana is my favourite brand. I also enjoy
spending money on designing my home with the nicest and latest home appliances. I
already have my eyes set to have a registered company of my own that will deal with
supplying FPSO materials to offshore and onshore fabrication companies, which I
will do when I have finally settled down with a woman right beside me and I can
call my wife.

Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner?
Yes...Holding her close and making her feel the warmth of my body while kissing
her.

Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

Yes of course I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart
and also lay down my life for the woman I love.

Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle?
Yes, I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love
your partner very much.
How long have you been using online dating? So tell me, what are your experiences
with the men you've interacted with on the Internet?
I'm new to online dating, registered a few days ago, and so far my experiences are
terrible. I find most women are looking for sex only. No one is looking for a
Relationship. I have been single for 3 years now and it took me so many years to
find myself and to realize what it is I'm looking for, I want a soul mate that will
take her time to know me and Love me for who I am and not what I have.

With your past experiences with online dating, do you still believe that you can
meet your soul mate through the Internet?
Though I have some weird experiences with some women, I believe there's a Good
Woman

I agree with what you said but those long-distance relationship examples are based
on couples that have already built a relationship together. I have been through
hell and working my way back. Long distance is not something to start a
relationship on and the sexual play through text is only beneficial when a
relationship has already reached that sense of stability and security in person.

I have no problem chatting with you as a friend but I expect nothing more.

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