Questions
Questions
1. What is one habit or routine you follow every day without much
thought, and what deeper need or fear does it serve?
Hint: Peterson noted that the actions you repeat daily essentially
shape your life. Does this habit add value to your day, or is it just
autopilot?
6. What activity makes you lose track of time (when you are truly
enthusiastic), and what does that reveal about your values?
Hint: Activities that absorb you often point to your true values or
purpose. Reflect on what your flow state reveals about what matters
to you.
7. What principle or value do you claim to hold, and can you recall a
time when your actions failed to match it?
Hint: Compare your ideals to past actions. If you acted against that
value, what fear or desire was influencing you?
8. When you imagine the person, you want to become, what fear or
habit feels most in conflict with that vision?
Hint: Visualize your ideal self and notice what stops you. Often a
hidden insecurity or habit is what stands in the way of growth.
9. Imagine yourself at 80 looking back on your life. What do you hope
you did not neglect, and how could that insight change what you do
now?
Hint: Asking your future self what matters can highlight current
priorities and fears. What would your older self-warn you not to
miss?
10. What dream or goal have you been postponing, and what
inner voice or belief has been stopping you?
Hint: Notice the doubts or excuses that surface when you consider
this goal. They often reveal the insecurities or limiting beliefs
holding you back.
11. What label or role do you identify with most (e.g. “student,”
“parent,” “creative person”), and is it truly your own or more what
others expect of you?
Hint: Consider whether this identity feels like a choice or an
expectation. The roles you emphasize may hide parts of yourself
you have neglected.
12. When do you feel most like yourself? Describe the situation
and your company. Conversely, when do you feel least like yourself?
Hint: Notice what is different between these moments –
environment, people, or activities. Authenticity often shows where
you feel accepted and free.
13. What do you believe about yourself that you do not often
admit, even to yourself? Why do you keep it hidden?
Hint: Think about thoughts you would never share publicly. Giving
voice to your private beliefs can reveal how honest you are with
yourself.
17. When did you last feel jealous or envious, and what was it
really that you envied? What might that reveal about what you
want?
Hint: Jealousy highlights desires or qualities you value. See these
feelings as clues to what you want in your own life.
19. What would change if you only said and did things you
honestly believed? Is there a gap between your words and actions?
Hint: Peterson asked what would happen if you only spoke beliefs
you deeply heldhighexistence.com. Notice any area where you act
out of fear of admitting the truth.
20. How could you become stronger or more capable so that you
can manage your current problems or help others in crisis? What’s
holding you back?
Hint: Peterson suggests building strength to face
criseshighexistence.com. What fears or habits would you need to
overcome to manage life’s challenges better?
21. Which daily actions bring you the most meaning and
satisfaction, and which just happen automatically without much
thought?
Hint: Peterson noted that the things adding quality to your life are
often small daily actionshighexistence.com. Identify which of your
routines truly serve you versus those you do mindlessly.
22. Where in your life are you not fully honest with others or
yourself, and what would it take to admit that truth?
Hint: Consider any white lies or omissions you use to protect
yourself. Bringing honesty into those areas can remove the masks
you have been wearing.