Influencing Without Authority
Influencing Without Authority
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• Taking into account the budget and cost of the project is not PM’s
responsibility
Needs-Desires Emotions
Motivation Choice of words
Goals Body Language
Beliefs Voice tone
Empathy Mapping
I have never worked Did not take any extra efforts
on it before
No follow-up of the project
How is that possible?
Minimum Contribution in
I am already loaded!
the meetings
I need to complete
my work first
TEAM 1
TEAM 2
TEAM 3
TEAM 4
• How was this activity like making deposits and
withdrawals from Emotional Bank Accounts
(EBAs)?
• When you believe you’ve given more to a
relationship than the other person, how does
this affect your feelings about the relationship?
• When you believe you’ve given less to a
relationship than the other person, how does
Debrief this affect your feelings about the relationship?
• How did the other team’s history of giving
Questions impact your level of giving? Does this relate
to real relationships in any way?
• If this had not been a competitive activity, what
would have changed about your strategy?
• Was there anything about the “Give a Big Hug”
option that was similar to real life?
• What additional lessons can you take away from
this activity?
Examples
• Withdrawal • Deposits
Understanding Attend to the
the individual little things
6 Ways to
Keeping Clarifying
make commitments expectations
Deposits
Showing
Apologizing
personal
genuinely
integrity
Knowing your “Circle of Influence”
Circle of Influence and Concern {Draw}
Identify | Circle of Concern (C) & Influence (I)
My performance at workplace
Motivate cross department team to highlight the concern and risk on time
SPONSORS
STEERING COMMITTEES
PMO’s
PROJECT TEAM
RESOURCE MANAGERS
CROSS FUNCTIONAL
TEAM
P
PROGRAM
MANAGER
Upset stomach
What actions will you take to expand Influence in each Zone
SUPPLIERS
STAKEHOLDERS
CUSTOMERS
END-USERS
SPONSORS
STEERING COMMITTEES
PMO’s
PROJECT TEAM
RESOURCE MANAGERS
CROSS FUNCTIONAL
TEAM
P
PROGRAM
MANAGER
Upset stomach
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