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My Ex Girlfriend, But She Has a Boyfriend

My Ex Girlfriend, But She Has a Boyfriend
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If your ex girlfriend is in a relationship with the first guy she hooked up with
after breaking up with you, it means that she is in what is commonly referred t
o as a rebound relationship.
According to most studies, anywhere from 60-90% of rebound relationships will fa
il within the first year, so if you love your ex girlfriend, but she has a boyfr
iend, it doesn t mean that it s the end of the road for you and her.
The question that you need to ask yourself is: What do you want to do about it?
Do you want to get her back or are you going to focus on getting yourself a new
girlfriend, or at least sleeping with some new women to help yourself get over y
our ex girlfriend.
The choice is yours and luckily, you are living in the age of the Internet where
experts like me are ready to help you get your ex back or show you how attract
and have sex or a relationship with new women.
Decide What You Really Want
What are you going to do about it? Get her back or get a new girl?
Before you can do anything, you have to know what it is that you really want and
then do what is required to make that happen. If you want your ex girlfriend to
dump her new boyfriend and come back to you, then you will need to:
Change the things that caused her to break up with you in the first place (e
.g. neediness, insecurity, lack of commitment, being unable to make her feel lik
e a real woman, etc).
Become the kind of man that she really wishes you could have been all along.
Show her that you re a better man and that no other guy (not even her new boyf
riend) can make her feel the way that you can.
Are you willing to do that? If yes, then you are ready to begin the exciting, li
fe-changing process of getting an ex girlfriend. It really is possible to get an
ex girlfriend back, even if she has moved on. Going through the process of gett
ing her back turns you into an even greater guy than you already are right now.
There are many things that you can do immediately to get her to feel differently
and there are also many things that you can do, which take a bit more effort. H
owever, one thing is clear: You CAN make your ex feel differently about you. Whe
n you make her feel differently about you and get her to see you in a new light,
she automatically begins to reconsider being with you.
Some of things that you need to do to get your ex back are easy some require a b
it of effort, but the reward of getting her back is more than worth it. It reall
y is possible to get another chance with your ex girlfriend. Watch the video bel
ow to understand how and why you can get another chance with her
Common Mistakes to Avoid When Trying to Get Her to Leave Her Boyfriend For You
It sucks to be in the position you are in. You love your ex girlfriend, but she

has a boyfriend and you may feel like you have to sit around on the sidelines wa
iting and hoping for another chance with her.
The good news is that getting her to leave him and come back to you is not as im
possible as it may seem to you right now
IF you do the right things. So, if you
want to successfully get your ex back, the first step is to avoid making any of
these mistakes:
1. Don t compete with her new boyfriend.
He s in; you re out (for the time being). Don t badmouth him. Don t try to beat him on t
he football field. Don t hang out where he does if it s not your scene. Trying to co
nvince your ex girlfriend that he s not as good looking/rich/smart/nice/athletic o
r popular as you is only going to make you look desperate, childish and immature
; qualities that women find UN-attractive in a man and you ll only convince her th
at she made the right decision by breaking up with you.
You must develop the mindset and belief that you ARE better than him. See him as
NOTHING compared to you, but don t try to convince her of it. Just let her sense
it in the way that you talk, behave, use your body language, etc. Let her see th
at you are NOT threatened by him, but don t say it to her. Let her sense it.
Women are very good at reading a guy s body language to determine whether or not h
e feels insecure. Your ex probably knows you better than any other woman in your
life, so she will be especially good at reading your body language, listening t
o how you use your tonality when you speak and assessing your vibe and behavior.
If you have the belief that you really are better than him, then you will have N
OTHING to worry about because he is nothing compared to you. He doesn t even come
close to how great of a guy you are. Believe it.
If you think that he is better than you, it will come across in your body langua
ge, conversation, vibe, etc and your ex girlfriend will pick up on it. She will
then feel more attracted to him. Why? Women are attracted to guys who believe in
themselves and don t see other guys as being more attractive than them.
2. Don t lie about being with other women if you haven t been.
What guys often do is try to make their ex jealous by pretending to be dating or
having sex with other women. In reality, if you re not really dating or having se
x with other women, don t lie about it to your ex girlfriend. If she finds out tha
t it s all a lie, she will be convinced that she made the right decision by breaki
ng up with you.
If you are actually dating and having sex with other women, then tell her that i
f she asks you, but don t proactively say it. Only tell her if she asks. You don t n
eed to brag or try to make her jealous because you know that you are ALREADY goo
d enough and you are a much better guy than her current boyfriend.
3. Don t try to get her back without changing anything about yourself.
Probably the worst mistake guys make who want to get their ex back when she has
a boyfriend, is to assume that if they say, I m so sorry baby. Please give me anoth
er chance and I promise that I ll change then she will dump her new guy and come ru
nning back. Fact: If you want your ex girlfriend to take you seriously and come
back to you, then you are going to have to take the things that caused her to br
eak up with you seriously and show her that she matters enough for you to change
.
If you aren t willing to fix any emotional issues that you have and improve the th
ings that caused her to break up with you in the first place, then she will feel
as though you are disrespecting her and the relationship. Show her that you not
only respect yourself, but you respect her and the relationship.

How to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Dump Her New Boyfriend and Come Back to You
When in a relationship with a guy, a woman wants to feel:
Loved.
Valued.
Appreciated.
Attractive to you.
Taken care of.
Like she s with a man who knows what he wants in life and goes after it.
Proud of you because you are such a great guy.
If a woman doesn t feel much or any of that in a relationship, she will become unh
appy and will start looking for another guy who can give her that kind of emotio
nal experience.
To get your ex girlfriend to dump her new boyfriend and come back to you, it s ver
y important that you make her feel the emotions that she wanted to feel with you
when you were in a relationship.
Everything that you and your ex ever fought about is a direct clue about what yo
u need to change and improve to make her feel what she really wanted to feel wit
h you all along.
For example:
If she ever said to you, You never notice anything that I do for you, she was tell
ing you that she was feeling unloved and unappreciated. If she said, You spend mo
re time with your friends than with me, she was telling you that she was feeling
under-valued.
If she ever said, You re so lazy; you ll never get anywhere in life she was telling yo
u she didn t feel taken care of or like you had a plan for your future together. S
he wanted you to become a bigger and better man, instead of hiding from your tru
e potential as a man behind her and the relationship.
What you need to do
f she has currently
at to say via text,
en get her to agree
k: Super System.

is begin making serious changes and then let her see that. I
blocked you out of her life, I provide tested examples of wh
phone or Facebook to get her on a phone call with you and th
to meet up with you in person, in my program Get Your Ex Bac

How can you show you that you ve changed? If she believed that you had no plans fo
r your life, then make plans. Big plans. Find something you feel passionate abou
t and begin to pursue it. You don t have to achieve anything big or do something a
mazing right now, but you need to get started on the path.
Instead of hanging around your house moping and saying I love my ex girlfriend, b
ut she has a boyfriend my life is ruined start setting serious goals for yourself an
d then go out and BEGIN to make them real. Nothing is more attractive to a woman
than a man who knows what he wants from life and actually goes out and gets it.
If she sees you in person or speaks to you on the telephone, instead of looking
or sounding sad and telling her how terrible your life has been without her, tel
l her how her dumping you helped you to see your life in a better light and how
you re now pursuing your goals. Thank her for breaking up with you and say it was
one of the best wake up calls you ve ever had in life.
This will get her attention and may cause her want to see if you ve really changed
or if you re just putting on a act to impress her. If you can show her that the c

hanges are real she will become more interested in finding out what else you ve ch
anged.
Getting What You Really Want
Even though your ex girlfriend has a boyfriend, a new boyfriend still needs to pr
ove himself to her. On the other hand she already knows what she likes about you.
She knows all of your good points. Yes, she also knows the bad points, but she
can and will begin to feel differently about you when show her that the things t
hat caused her to break up with you have now dramatically changed.
You can do this.
Stop saying, I love my ex girlfriend but she has a boyfriend and start sating, I lo
ve my ex girlfriend and I am going to get her back this month. You can get her ba
ck into your life if you really want to and I know this because I ve heard back fr
om so many guys who have used my system to get an ex girlfriend, fianc or wife ba
ck.
Don t spend another minute blaming yourself for what happened in the past, or comp
aring yourself to another guy. If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, I wel
come you to watch my video program called, Get Your Ex Back: Super System and pu
t it into action today.
You can make her see you in a new light. You can make her begin to see her curre
nt boyfriend as less attractive and appealing compared to you. Are you willing t
o give it a shot? If so, try my system today.Get Your Ex Back: Super System
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About Author
Dan Bacon
My name is Dan Bacon and I'm a dating and relationship expert. If you have a pro
blem with women, I have the perfect solution for you. I've already helped thousa
nds of guys to achieve instant success with women and I would love to help you t
oo. View customer success stories, browse my products or watch this mind-blowing
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4 Comments
Jesse F
Dan, I m in stuck with trying to figure out what I should do to get on the pho
ne with my ex. She recently got into a new relationship only 2 months after we s
plit. We were together for a good 3 years. I know the things I did that caused t
he relationship to end and I am improving myself constantly, but I just don t know
what to say to her or how, to get her on the phone so I can show my confidence.
Any advice you can offer? I feel her current relationship is a rebound, but the
y have only been together for about a week so far.
Dan Bacon
Hey Jesse
Thanks for your question.
All of that advice is provided in my program. There are too many variabl
es to try to help you in a comment reply. In my program, I explain:
What to
s on a phone call
What to
e last time (don
meet up).
What to

text her if she isn t answering the phone that will ensure she get
with you.
say on the phone to ensure that she agrees to meet up with you on
t worry, it won t be the last because you will re-attract her at the
say and do at the meet up to get her to feel attraction and resp

ect for you and open her heart back up to loving you.
I mean, I could sit here and type it all out in a comment, but really
th
at is what my structured program is for. I spent a year and a half of my life he
lping phone coaching clients to get their ex back so I could develop this system
. It s all ready and packaged up for you to learn from right now. All the text mes
sage and phone call examples have been thoroughly tested and are proven to work.
I welcome you to try my program. Use the examples provided and she will
get on a phone call with you. If she refuses to meet up, I provide examples of w
hat to say on the next phone call to ensure she at least meets up for a quick ch
at.
Check it out here:
http://store.themodernman.com/get_your_ex_back_super_system.html
Cheers
Dan
Brandon
What s going on Dan? I need your advice. Well me and ex been on and off for 5
years. We been through a lot in them years and I m only 23 she says she can t trust
me because of me talking to other girls in the past and I didn t give her time and
at night she felt lonely at times.
Well I can admit we would go some days with out talking well today we went o
ut to eat and she wanted to talk. On the way home she told me she thought about
giving another guy a chance and I got a little angry for the fact all we been th
rough even though I can admit I was wrong on my part in the past leading girls o
n and talkig to them while we was together I didn t care about any of the other gi
rls but i know i can change.
I told her I don t care about it or her and that I wouldn t call or text her pho
ne. Which she texted me saying I love you but its been feeling like we free apar
t. And I told her basically all I wanted was to her and to make it work but obvi
ously if she telling me she is thinking about giving a chance she likes him so I
told her F*** her and I don t care about her anymore. She replied saying I m rude a
nd she love me and didn t want to end it on bad terms.
I d say about ten mins later she called me twice and I didn t pick up. I know I m
not ready to talk to her yet because it will turn into a argument.
I would like your advice Dan. I m thinking sending her a apology text for me a
cting out like that and that Iearned a lot from our previous relationship. I nee
d your help she is really my first love since high school.
Dan Bacon
Hi Brandon
Thanks for your question.
I m just catching up on all the comment across the site now (438 waiting).
I see that you ve purchased my Get Your Ex Back: Super System program in the mean
time, which is good to see because now you will have a plan to follow.
Some additional advice for you: Don t worry about any small mistakes you m
ake along the way. While it wasn t the perfect thing to do to send her that text,
it doesn t mean that you ve ruined everything for life. From now on, just focus on u
sing the techniques and methods from my system to make her feel respect, attract
ion and desire for you again.
If she is going to hook up with that ex from her past, I would recommend
that you immediately put Step 3 of the system into action. You will need to do
that for your own emotional protection if she does hook up with him and as a way

to get her to want to meet up with you in person.

Cheers
Dan
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My name is Dan Bacon and I'm a dating and relationship expert.
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If you are serious about wanting to get your ex back, I welcome you to try my te
sted, proven to work system for getting a woman back.
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