some cases infinitely X your results because I've seen guys who literally said hey

I've been on Tinder for about a

year I've got one match what am I doing wrong I'm like one man are you [ __ ] kid
everything you're doing everything
wrong that one match is probably a bot at this point like something's off if you
have trouble getting the messages
trouble getting the matches whatever it is you're not gonna have any more again all
I want you to do is steal all of
this verbatim take the guesswork out don't overthink this [ __ ] I'm just gonna
give you the goods you're going to use
it and you're going to dominate the online dating space I'm going to show you
everything and what we're going to cover here the profile picture that
converts into higher quality matches some people say you know what I get natural
Jared I get magic I don't have a problem yeah you don't get the [ __ ]
quality matches I know this because I'll look at guy's phones we're getting the
matches and under nicest way possible I
didn't believe trolls existed until I saw people's online dating I thought they
lived under bridges but like it's bad all right they get the matches with
trolls because that's all they see because their profiles are so bad I'm going to
show you the profile pictures they're not going to get you matches
they're going to get you matches with the top one percent of women using online
dating apps all of a sudden
you're gonna be like magic you're gonna be like oh my God there's models on a hinge
what the [ __ ] um I'm gonna show
you a bio that converts into high quality matches but and again don't overthink it
just steal my [ __ ] bios
I'm going to show you how to text attractive women that actually leads to a date
you're getting all these great
matches but we wanted to actually turn into a date I'm going to show you exactly
how to do it step by step just
follow it don't overthink it and you're guaranteed to start 10x in your dating and
I'm gonna give you some canned playful Lions because why the [ __ ] not
and I'm going to show you my messages that go from playful to flirty to the date so
I'm going to show you real world
real life examples as well sound good all right that's the energy we'd like to
see so profile pics are converting to high quality matches number one
is this simple concept that nobody teaches I I've actually no I'm going to
say one dating coach caught on other myself and he does teach it every other guy I
see that teaches tinders and hinge
and whatever they've all got it wrong the every data coach with the exception of
one all teaches the same should be
the cool guy that's always walking somewhere that's all I see they're like oh man I
redid his whole [ __ ] online
dating bios I did we did everything let me see his pictures look at him he's a cool
guy walking another cool guy
walking in a city with cool guy walking that's all he does I'm like I get it it's a
very pretty picture
how's it converting well it's converting better than it did before I'm like try
this all right I'm almost sad to give
this away and show people you know out there on YouTube but like once you
understand that online dating Works
through attractive frames it's a game changer the biggest mistake guys sing
with online dating is they want the prettiest picture or they want where they look
the best which at face value
makes sense instead I want to challenge you to rethink this and go how do I prove
to
the girl that I'm multi-dimensional to repair a picture is worth a thousand words
right
I got six pictures how do I show in six pictures six different attractive frames
about me that will get me the kind of woman that I want that changes the game it's
no longer about being a [ __ ]
model it's now about hitting attraction frames that's why I want you to do it and
you don't have to take out a guess
where I'm going to give you the [ __ ] attraction frames to use just use these
attraction frames there are others but
these are the best ones that I found through rigorous testing in 2020 during coven
when I couldn't do anything else I
literally just became obsessed with this for an entire year all right the first
picture is sexy look at that sexy guy
huh yeah boom look at that sexy guy boom the first one up is going to be the
classic one that everybody thinks is good your best picture you looking uh the most
confident you looking uh the
hottest and through rigorous testing not by me but by a site called OkCupid that
ran stats on this they found the ultimate picture which is by the way this more
than anything in in the dating
space is the most scientifically backed stuff you could ever find you I could not
find a level of research on cold
approaching and Social Circle and other stuff I teach but online dating there's so
much statistics I geeked the
[ __ ] out all through 2020 because I'm like there's so much data so every test not
by me but by online
dating scientists Okay Cupid discovered the ultimate picture for a guy on a dating
site is to just have it exactly
like this the background is irrelevant but chest up looking at the camera it's
called a squanchize and smiling here's a secret by the way in this photo I'm not
[ __ ] smiling I'm not smiling in this photo this is all edited I'm going to show
you how to
have the perfect smile in every single photo even if your teeth are dog [ __ ] or
whatever okay this freaks me the [ __ ]
out when I uncover this this photo by far did the better of all the ones they
tested when I was showing my my sexy
photo exactly I guess I'm going to show I'm going to show you the apps use all of
it
but the first photo chest up you're looking at the camera you got this
squinty squanchize or whatever it's called and you have a smile you can either edit
the smile in or just smile
okay but that is hands down again and again scientifically proven to be the most
attractive uh photo for a guy to
have number one next photo is going to be we have sexy it's gonna be your goofy
and funny photo something that shows personality something that gets here she's
probably not gonna laugh but something that's
going to get like a smile oh look at this clown hanging upside down a little
Adventure
there on a zip line you want to show that you're goofy don't take yourself too
seriously something a little funny I've experimented with like Halloween
costumes maybe back in the day as well that can also kind of work for goofy funny
just something with you playing
around all right uh thought you having fun you enjoying yourself
or laughing or whatever you want goofy funny all right picture number two
by the way the order uh does it matter except for sexy sexy has to be number one
photo you have on
your app the main one the rest the order I haven't found like it really doesn't
matter okay
next status ideally you want to present yourself
having status of some kind here you see me by the way these are these are the exact
photos I still have on my dating
apps this is this is the winning combination that I had to this day
um me on a yacht and I had to now I get everybody's like I don't have a hot tub
whatever you can do maybe that one time
you were at the table at the club or something or the one time you were either cool
event or whatever something
that can project status in some way shape or form hell right now here's me
speaking at an event talking to guys I got a picture right now this could be by the
way if I get a picture right now this could be
um a status photo all right maybe it's you at if you have nothing else here
I'll give you I'll give you a cheat code if you really have nothing to call from
you're like I'm a farmer in Idaho I got
nothing all you got to do is go to a pool with a laptop get a chair and look like
you're working with a coffee and
like a laptop like a hard at work like stop photo boom that's your status you're
just baller doing some cool
shooting computer if that's the best we can do at least it's something okay but you
do want a status photo
sexy goofy status awe other than the sexy one this is the single best photo
the off photo you either want a puppy you want or you want mom or you want Dad
or you want all [ __ ] three and put them together all right you want something
where you look good to say oh by the way in every photo you'll notice
they're clear all right they're clear photos not like a blurry [ __ ] photo we're
like who is
this guy um they're they all are a clear photo it still should be a good looking
photo of you you should be clearly in a frame
there should be no guesswork who you are but the vibe the feeling of the photo
should be one is sexy one goofy kind of
funny smiling one status oh [ __ ] it looks kind of baller and then the next one oh
that is so cute I love uh he's a
family oriented guy he's got a puppy you see how we're hitting different emotions
we're hitting different frames
just just with our photos alone this is a game changer this is I'm playing with a
girl's Carousel of
emotions as we're going through it and then a display of Excellence in this case my
play of Excellence is
I'm doing stand-up comedy so they'll look at it and be like wait you're you do
you're a comedian you've
done comedy like I have yeah that's so cool maybe it's playing the piano all right
maybe it's um basketball maybe
it's Park Quest I'm going to do in parkour whatever the case might be your good
motorcycle you're good at something
display it in one of your photos display what you're really good at because she
goes that's cool somebody goes oh that's
cool you want that display of excellence in your photo and the last one this is the
Wild Card all right this one I'm
gonna leave it up to you but the idea is the wild card should have some kind of
commonality with you and the girl
because again you're not just trying to get any match you're trying to get your
match you're trying to find a girl that
you like that you will mesh with for me hate to say or I like to say it my Wild
Card my thing is I am the biggest [ __ ] dork and nerd in America and the moment
you walk into my place there's a
Harry Potter ceiling with the clouds and the [ __ ] [ __ ] I'm a nerd so I find
another good nerdy photo of me boom
here's me dressed up as Iron Man or Tony Stark am I saying you should be a nerd if
you're not no if you literally are jock you know baseball have one of you playing
baseball or something right this
is meant to be you all right it's something to and again I will like this because a
girl who's like
oh my God I love your Tony Stark photo yes I got my nerd girl yes all right that's
what I want you get to pick what
you want maybe you want the entrepreneurial girl maybe you want to grow into anime
maybe you want a girl into [ __ ]
your motorcycle again whatever it is that is your thing you have my permission but
at this point
she knows you have a commonality she knows you're cool as [ __ ] you do something
awesome oh my God you're a
sweetheart too high status [ __ ] Okay this guy's a top one percent of men and he
seems kind of fun or funny and
God damn he's sexy swipe right it's done just make sure all the photos are clear
good photos of you and they hit these six frames you hit these six frames
you're gonna get matches after matches after matches you go through my phone right
now I promise you you'll see 50
plus within one week if I don't look at one week I'll have literally over 50 to 99
plus 100 something girls trying to
match me like I don't even swipe right anymore I just accept who's matching me and
who's not that just goes left or right based
on who's already liking me it will explode and you will have a source of abundance
on this by hitting these six
attractive frames now when it comes to matches your first thing you do is photo
filter testing
you're gonna get these pictures I want you to get a lot of these pictures I want
you to go out on weekend one
weekend is all it takes and go so this is a big one everybody makes the same
mistake they go and look
at these old pictures of themselves and they go uh what of my old pictures show
status or is Goofy or as sexy
that's what everybody does you're not everybody you're a modern flirting you're
going to take one weekend you're
going to stop being a lazy [ __ ] [ __ ] and you're gonna take one weekend and
you're gonna go get these six
amazing photos you're not gonna get six you're gonna get a hundred photos or 60
photos 10 amazing photos of every
category 10 sexy photos 10 off photos 10 display of Excellence photos 10 Wild Card
photos
you're gonna go and collect them I actually took a suitcase one day packed
away different clothes went to different locations change clothes got the photos
different location exchange clothes got
the photos all right we're gonna entrepreneur this [ __ ] [ __ ] we're gonna be
smart about this not all see what pieces should I
have well this old blurry photo of me back in 2010 is the best I got so I'll put
that like stop all right go make it
happen now once you have these 10 sexy photos right of your 60 you're going to test
them my entrepreneur guys anybody with ads you know a friend here um you understand
the importance of a b
split testing you have to be split testing at all times we do that with photo
feeler all
right this is the same guy before one photo he's a 4.3 of a girl's
looking at him they think he's a four this other photo he's a nine
but that's that's insane Gap that's insane if you are going a photo Feeler
and you're below a nine don't use that photo just don't use it every single one of
you if the photos
taken right yes photo feeler.com
yes you put your photos out there and they will rate you smart trustworthy we
don't give a [ __ ] attractive that's all you care the only reason we care is
attractiveness Uncle smart and
trustworthy you look attractiveness and for every frame the the all photos
display of excellent photos every single one of them you should get a nine or
higher and if you're like I don't think
I'm a nine I promise you with the right photo you're a [ __ ] night this guy's a
four that's a real life selfie I'm a
four he becomes a nine you take the right photo hint don't ever use a selfie have a
friend take the photo selfies never work have a friend take the photo all right
so you're going to Testament photo feeler then of all your nines you're going to
start boosting them
now we want to also use another app called face app remember I said that one photo
I'm not smiling when you use an app
called face app you can go in you can get rid of wrinkles you can give yourself a
tan you can have the perfect
smile yes it's cheating yes but but at the end of the day what works work yeah
you're
gonna tell me these girls aren't using [ __ ] filters and all this [ __ ] and
themselves stop all right stop
cheat you have my full permission to cheat okay it's the idea is it's not
catfishing it's not like if you're yeah and it's not like you're presenting
yourself if you're like a 500 pound man
you're not using Photoshop to give yourself a six pack and lose you know 300 pounds
I'm not saying it that far
I'm just saying hey get a bit of some wrinkles hey maybe give yourself a couple
Shades Darker of a tan hey make
your teeth a little bit wider it's okay this is your ads
this is your put you're presenting your best self possible if you're not using face
app and editing these photos and
cheating I am and I'll get that match with your girl and not you so it's it's a
doggy dog world either
you're doing everything at your disposal to win or guess what somebody else is and
they're going to beat you
no because you will know how to build attraction because you're using this course
so at that point you're going to create
emotion in her and you're going to spike her up I'll tell you I hear this all the
time but then what happens when this
what happens when that at that point doesn't matter it's too late she's gonna be
into unless it's drastic drastic for
instance I'm not wearing them now but a lot of times I go out I'll wear high shoes
I'll give shoes that give me two to four
inches of height and then you're like yeah but Jared what happens when you take
them off I'll tell you what happened when they take them off when a
girl when I take them off I realize oh you got the highest you Boba next time we go
out wear those I like I like that
I like you being taller than me it's like a push-up bra yes good what happened when
a girl takes
up a pressure bar on her tits sag a little bit you're like oh but whatever I'm into
her it's not like you were
lying there was a push-up bra the whole time no no where's an Uber I'm getting out
of here I'm leaving no you're just
like where'd that Pusher bomb we go out next time that's awesome same [ __ ] [ __ ]
okay it doesn't matter
by that point because oh you don't look as amazing as your photo nobody does
welcome to the world of online dating nobody looks as good as your photos you meet
any girl from Instagram she does
not look that good ever it's all it's online it's meant to be a little fake
everybody kind of realizes
that and if you don't do it they think you're doing it and they think your ugly
photo is you trying
that's how bad it is it's like that's it makes perfect sense that's the [ __ ] Norm
now the standard has just increased
so if you don't do it they are assuming you do it because just not even consciously
but subconsciously because
every other person is doing it so you just look drastically worse it doesn't matter
it's just that's how you play the
game these days you need to edit your [ __ ] all right
I also want you to stop being a cheap [ __ ] and I want you to boost so now that
you've done photo feeler you've got a bunch of photos that are nines and above
you're gonna pick one
and you're gonna boost it I recommend the super boost one day I'll take 20 bucks
one day you get a bunch of matches
whatever I do the Boost I get 20 matches I take out that one photo let's say the
all category of me with a puppy and I put in this other picture that I got a nine
from photo filler and I put it with
me with the parents it's still an awe photo I keep the categories the same you can
split test different categories so
the one off photo got 20 matches I take that out I put a different all photo end of
me so the dog is out the parents are
in I do the next day I do another super boost I get 35 matches
parents beat dog all right now I know and you can keep split testing with the
boosting strategy you just keep seeing which profile is better but only change one
variable
don't do a bunch of changes now you know I don't know what's doing it just change
one [ __ ] variable and I'll make that
decision off of one super boost because the entire day it's showing the algorithm
showing showing showing showing that's all you really need once
you get more than 30 you're considered uh statistics statistically significant okay
so that's all you really need
yeah
me as a kid yeah I have not that's a good test play with them I have not done this
at
all it's always been me with a cute little animal or me with family but I I'm gonna
go on a on a limb and
say I wouldn't like it because yes it's all but the whole point of online dating is
they want to see you
they're still sizing you up they're like I want to see pictures of you to see if I
want to date this guy so good photos
of you again nine and up it's sexy guy you're like good photos of you but it's
also making me feel a different emotion to every photo so if it's an old photo as a
kid I'm feeling um but I'm not into
you because I'm not seeing you so I think it wouldn't be I I suspect I'm gonna do
is good
all right let's go over some things not to do if I catch you guys doing this you're
all out of the [ __ ] program kicking you out all right number one
sunglasses again thank God we have this amazing gigabytes what's bigger than Giga
Terra
terabytes terabytes of data on this and what it shows is the number so what do
you think the number one um and again this is really obvious and funny the number
one most important
aspect on uh pictures for women are no on women
men are matching women based on this kinda it's cleavage
they show the bigger the cleavage the more matches the women are getting literally
cleavage it's like simple guess what is in Reverse for for men
say it for the guys in the back eyes whip for whatever reason the prettier
the eyes and again you just squint them a little bit with a smile smiling eyes
those work the best the eyes matter more
than anything if you have glasses take off the glasses we don't want anything set
glasses sunglasses are the worst
the absolute worst thing you can do with online dating is wear sunglasses that you
will not get matches and again I
know somebody's watching it's been like well I got a couple of matches of you know
I have sunglasses suck my sunglass
dick I I will go over uh OkCupid and match.com there are terabytes of data
over your anecdotal [ __ ] any day all right it doesn't work traditionally there
are always exceptions but do what
is proven to work again and again exceptions the exceptions are only there
to prove there isn't exactly love that love that all right so no sunglasses no
selfies we talked about that stop be there's no point in being a program like this
and being group where you learn to
be social and being anti-social that's [ __ ] all right yes so 2023 I'm using
the word [ __ ] I don't give a [ __ ] it's [ __ ] I can't say it um so so so don't
use selfies have
someone take a picture of your fund do it with a friend if you don't have a friend
it's okay ask a stranger get over
your [ __ ] approach anxiety ask a stranger be a guy anybody hey can you take a
picture of me real quick doing blah blah but no you cannot use a selfie
worst case scenarios you get one of those selfie sticks with a timer and you run
and just do it fine but you can't do
this thing you can't like take a picture like that no bad lighting rule of thumb
there is
the Sun you're here you're not taking a picture this way you're definitely not
taking a
picture this way you're always facing the sun yes you're gonna it makes you squint
a little yes the lights in your
eyes yeah get over it that's the best lighting that's you're suck it up
you will always have better pictures when you're facing the light than any other
direction every photographer it's
like the number one photography rule in the world get good lighting all right so
always and it's very simple there's a
light if I want a good picture I'm facing towards a light but when a bad picture
I'm gonna do one this way with a
lot of light towards me and I get washed out make sense all right no
bingo I'm lit up right versus I'm over here in Shadow I would look bad all right
thank you you're always lit all right bad fashion think about what you're wearing
this is all she's seeing if
you're wearing don't I've seen guys wear sweatpants and like you know good you
don't have to like a nice button down and tucked in and you know like a Louis
Vuitton belt and you don't have to go
crazy like that [ __ ] all right but at the very least almost like a slob
all right don't have like worn out old legit don't wear gym clothes and put it
out as your main picture right that's that doesn't make any sense so take a look
and go does he look presentable you
don't have to be GQ all right it doesn't have to be GQ but you can't look like
pu I don't know I don't know how else to put it you got to look presentable
um pre-selection right and for approaching women pre-selection is amazing we love
pre-selection social
pre-selection incredible okay online dating it's a debt sentence
absolutely do not want any pre-selection zero women in any of your pictures
to this day I don't fully understand why because in the real world pre-selection
is a godsend it's amazing pre-selection I'll noticeably see women's attraction
from me rise when they see other girls that are into me online dating instant turn
off don't want to see it I think
because it looks like you're trying it's like braggados it's I don't know either
way very simple rule of thumb just don't
have women in your photos low resolution this is it should be a common sense one
your photos should be
high res you should be lit up fine it should be a very clear good photo of you
if it's grainy if it's blurry at all if there's a weird streak of light in it
anything like that unusable do not use it have a good clear does it
have to be 4K Ultra HD whatever the [ __ ] no but it needs to be a decent
resolution needs to be very clear photo and too far all right uh you can't have
this photo
where you're like way in the background I see guys like look at this mountain
behind me and I'm all the way in the background look you barely see me but
look how pretty the scenery is no one [ __ ] cares about the mountain all right the
girl's not like oh I can't
wait to [ __ ] that mountain like it's never in the history of a girl swiping is
that what she's thinking
all right so I swear I see these guys like I'm wearing crazy big baggy
um ski clothes and the sunglass goggles and I'm far away but there's a pretty
Mountain date me it's like it means
nothing to her she does not care she wants to see you clearly close photo not too
close not like selfie but needs to
be further than a selfie but still very visible in the frame
and again yes [ __ ] your background all right you can see you guys look this guy's
wearing high high wide socks and
sandals and short shorts and some baggy sweater by a phone booth because he's like
look at me in this phone booth
that means I'll call like I don't know I don't know what he's really thinking with
it but like sorry uraldi it's just
it just doesn't do anything social proof you don't need you and a friend pretty
backgrounds don't matter just have good
photos of you there's only one one background that has ever been proven to have any
um increase in matches and that is the beach and and it was still small it wasn't
uh
it wasn't a very noticeable difference but they did notice that when guys had the
beach in the background there was a
small higher likelihood of exchange girls swiping right on okay but other than the
beach
doesn't [ __ ] matter all right now let's talk about bios so
we all get pictures you know exactly what pictures you use you know what pictures
not to use let's start bio here is the template you want for your
bio that you can use every time uh the first thing is the bio structure so with the
bio structure there's a few key
elements number one is your headline now for my entrepreneurs my business owners
watching this this is [ __ ] copywriting that's it it's the same [ __ ] use
copywriting
use it to sell yourself so the first thing you want is a big clear catchy
headline the thanks part of your copy is you want to do a humble brag this is not
the time
list of like Ally walks on the beach I'm really into Chinese food I want a girl
that like no brag about yourself you only have you only have so much space you need
to brag about yourself you need
to show off high quality High status [ __ ] so she knows this is a guy but you have
to do it in a way that either
defuses it with some kind of humor or makes fun of yourself a little bit all right
you can't just be like I'm the
[ __ ] I'm the [ __ ] I'm the [ __ ] you should [ __ ] me I'm the [ __ ] there has
to be a little bit of like I don't take myself too seriously though so it's
called The Humble brag um you also want to show each one of two you have two
options you either want to
qualify or disqualify so you have the headline you have why you're awesome and then
what you're looking for or what
you're not looking for either work you're either like I want this in a girl because
again you're a man with standards let your bio show that or
you're saying listen if you're one of these kind of girls do not swipe left I do
not want you because again with that
signal signal to the girl you are a man with standards AKA a high status high value
man
and finally you want to call it action okay ever something to do swipe right on me
uh add me add my Instagram add me
something ideally you want to call to action this one is is optional but it doesn't
hurt
okay if you want to call the action but this is the bio template you can write it
up however you want it that makes
sense for you but every good every not good great bio will fall into this uh
copywriting structure so let's take a
look at it here's an example of a Tinder bile that I use to this day this is
literally my
Tinder bile headline you'll never be bored with me Wing face easy simple headline
you'll never be
bored with me why is that let's read on let's and she if she reads nothing else
sometimes people who understand
copywriting know that sometimes people just read the headline and move on so and
nothing else she now knows she'll
never be bored with me all right cool you're gonna have fun you won't be bored next
I'm the founder and CEO of my own
Consulting business close with my fam owner of an adorable puppy and love to be
active dot dot dot brag brag brag
brag I'm awesome I'm awesome I'm awesome right so of course I'm the biggest nerd
you'll ever meet when it comes to Harry
Potter and Marvel LOL there's my little dig which with me I love it because it's
not really a dick
because that's what I like anyways so I want the humble part to also attract the
kind of girl I want
I actually in this case I double dip because I want the nerdy girl I want the dorky
girl
um so that's the why I'm awesome category now into the qualified disqualify if
you're witty playful and
bubbly submissive in the bedroom which they always comment on that one they're
always submissive in their bedroom what does that mean it's it's sexual it's spicy
enough but it's not like in your
face it's it's just in there and I promise you that's submissive in the bedroom
line more than anything in my
bio they comment on that if you're witty playful and bubbly submissive in the
bedroom open to new things and prefer
real conversations over typical games then swipe right there's a call to action
then swipe right fire emoji
copywriting 101 all right now bumble
same kind of thing but you have less space to but I can't do these long ass
paragraphs so I you this file by the way
uses the max amount of characters you can use I try to use some people are like
your bio's too long no anyone who
understands copywriting and understands uh marketing knows long copy beat short
copy every single time but everybody
says the same [ __ ] that people have done training eyes say there's too much it's
long copy that's too long it's too long
no you're just [ __ ] [ __ ] okay I'm sorry it's just that it's never too long if
you're using the space correctly if you're rambling and it's bad if it's bad
copying long that's awful if it's good copying long it's amazing so let's
utilize the space again warning not like most guys headline warning it's just
silly something not like most guys I've had girls be like I I want to understand
the warning the warning was I
was worried about the warning good I want you feeling an emotion I want something
to happen if you're talking about it so obviously I did something
right because now we're we're conversing on this I grow my company you have to kind
of
talk like dum-dum yeah I talked you know like a first grader because there's only
so much space I had to cut out as much
as possible I grow my company play with my puppy and plan next trip
just get the key points don't like sushi or being dorky swipe left
all right disqualify so headline I'm awesome don't like sister being dorky
swipe left disqualifier looking for here's a qualify butterflies a girl that really
blows me away that Blake Lively to my Ryan Reynolds that line by the way gets a lot
of comments as well
um other than oh submissive in bedroom is a plus I double dipped but other than
submissive bedroom the Blake Lively to
my Ryan Reynolds they love that it's something to compare it to looking for dead
butterflies oh a girl that really
blows me away the big light of my Brian Reynolds submissive in bedroom is a plus
this you kind of like a local action is that is
that you LP ps6 foot thank God they're all six foot I'm 5 10.
but if the high shoes get a little two inches boom all of a sudden six foot now
can you say ps6 foot if you're five foot four no but if you're around there if
you're 5 10
five nine stretch and I would say five ten five eleven congratulations you're
you're six foot I think you can get away with it okay
you just became six one congratulations all right um the P it doesn't have to be
six foot though but a little PS like that also
funny cute is a good is a good structure
it's just it's just a on by it's just um biologically speaking the number one
attractive trait a woman could have is a feeling of security and protection so they
they associate height with
protection right then arbitrarily they just one they came up with the idea of six
foot
because six is different than five right like it's just arbitrarily this whole six
foot thing came about
all right it doesn't really matter as long as you're taller than a girl usually
they're cool with it right but societal just became six foot right my
man has to be six everything six feet six figures six inches yep
yeah like it came with the jokes whatever But ultimately guys at the end of the
day this PS thing could be whatever you want it to be just something that's a
little it could be another call to action but again this is a bio I still
use this converts hinge hinge is the ultimate all right
the hinge template I honestly almost never used Tinder and bumble I give you
examples for it because I wanted to cover it hinge is your best friend you I have a
separate phone just for hinge all right
that's all I use is because it's the number one it's it's number one for so many
reasons
higher quality women number one number two it allows you to be a geek in scientific
the boosting uh mechanism
that full day boost genius the fact that when they match with you it's not just a
match they match on your picture or your prompt so you know which pictures or
which prompts are better you got 30 Tinder you got 30 matches hinge I get 30
matches 10 were on this
picture and two were on this and one was on this prompt and five were on this so
the 10 on this picture I know this picture is gold one third of this is just this
picture
alone let alone all like it allows you to geek out like nothing else and you just
got more real I find women
there are more likely to meet up and not time wasters like Tinder and bumble it's
just so much better for every reason so again like I said best for testing um for
your prompts this is these are
the three key things you want your prompts to do you want it to show up that you're
socially intelligent you get
women you understand their struggles you understand their desires you understand
women you're socially intelligent it
makes them laugh there's a humor element or base them in some way to match with you
and comment it's kind of like
peacocking your prompt and for the bait one your prompt should give them a
reason to reach out to you and talk with you it's just like oh that's an easy thing
to talk on that's an easy thing to
comment on okay so without further Ado steal these prompts
I had here's what's funny I had very personalized prompts like I mentioned I'm
literally JK Rowling mentioned to me
in the seventh Harry Potter book that's an amazing prompt I can get in that story
not here but I mentioned in the
cemetery Potter book and of course Every Girl's like who in the near Harry Potter
however you mentioning this heavy-hour product what's the story that I'm like
all right I'll tell you that story in our first date oh you're good I have to know
that story where are we going on a date right but that's just a me thing so
I found my three highest converting prompts that anybody can use you can use
it watching as a home anybody can use these problems so please go ahead and steal
it
all right uh I'm gonna get to I'll get to him in a second I had all that build up
for nothing but I will give you those
prompts before that I want to go into the settings for the right settings on hinge
you want commonalities
the idea that you want coming out is so what I did is I looked at 20 30 up to a
hundred of the kind of
girls that I want I just wrote down painstakingly all the commonalities they had in
their settings yoga spirituality
dogs art music whatever the [ __ ] it was right I just run them all down and I
tallied
them when it was similar ones and the ones that got the most that were the most
from the girls that I liked those
became my new settings because that's what's going to get the matches with the
girls that you want I
looked at their settings they're coming now granted it was completely not you for
example if you are just like I've
never done yoga in my life I don't even know what yoga is and just happened during
yoga like no or you can be like
you know what [ __ ] me every girl I'm into put yoga in
her settings maybe I should take yoga classes maybe I should do the thing that
my ideal dream girl is into and learn about it and I can talk about it and make
that part of my lifestyle
like that's how I would think because if you're not used to it you're not doing and
by the way I hated yoga I hated yoga
my ex forced me to go and by the after the fourth class I'm like you're always
pretty bad out I'm getting kind of into
yoga now like I still to this day I still do yoga all right you will be surprised
what you can get into if you
just give it a chance and like explore different [ __ ] but ultimately you want to
match with the highest quality women
look at their settings and just make them commonalities
um also buy all the perks the apps will favor you if you're spending money shocker
buy the perks be in the plus
Tinder plus hinge plus hinge premium golden diamond remember just do it all
right you will get better matches the app will take care of you because you know
the money that's what they want
all right so how do we text the attractive women that leads to a date
all right so number one let's go into the actual opener for you to use it's always
about her profile it's
always going to be about her prompts never on so if it's Tinder bile uh
Tinder or Bumble it's always gonna be about a profile that's your opening it should
be about she doesn't have one
then you have to go on pictures obviously hinge though always a prompts always a
prompts always a prompts I will
never open a girl based on her pictures on hinge I honestly again I don't use
Tinder and Bumble like I I never with
the amount of matches you're getting with the amount of like it's going to swarm
now you're gonna get you only need hinge really if you do this properly but
sure if you're using Tinder and Bumble make it about our bio um situational is
ideal I'm going to
show you how to form formulate the situation but I'm also going to give you some
canned stuff if you're completely brain dead you can't do it whatsoever I
got you I'll give you some can't stop but situational is always ideal uh
uh here's fake situational you can do it on her name so you can literally take her
name and
you can Google funny things about her name funny Tinder openers Nate Tinder
opener Rebecca Russia whatever the hell is and you can find out what other guys did
that were hysterical and just steal
it all right so here's an example in this example the girl's name is Ray
r-a-e and these are actual openings I've used by the way and I go I have a great
idea Capital Ray we should throw a rager because I've been craving a wild Night
Out I just use your name username username and I make sure it's you know
capitalized so she sees it it's situational but you get you can use
the name thing okay and you can even use on Google like I said find it out um your
pick sometimes she'll like your
pick right so let's say the pick is of you and a dog and she matches you with you
and your dog you want to go
situation on a hinge on her match she liked your picture that view and the dog
every one of your pictures by the way
you should have a canned up thing to say when a girl just matches and say anything
she just liked her picture of
you and your dog she liked her sexy picture she liked your goofy picture or
whatever just have your pre-meditative
responses in this case uh if you like me my dog don't worry we're a package deal
can hopefully have
more than one type of puppy love if you play your cards right and then you just do
the tongue out emoji
and I could just copy paste that every girl that likes the dog picture doesn't say
anything right you only need six of
these gear it up and again just like anything else with hinge we can split test we
can do a bunch of and see which ones
get the most response backs you can track data with online dating that you just
it's just almost impossible to do
with Social Circle and cold approach it's I I geek out on this chat love it
all right next up how do tax attract women continued um a situational ideal would
be her
prompt so let's say uh her prom says I'm looking for somebody with or a sense of
humor matches all right again we want to go situational on our prompt or something
about uh humor matching you can say here's hoping in the sarcasm being weird and
awkward flirting
usually this is a very common one when the prompts are like what I'm looking for
someone with a good sense of humor
something about humor you can steal this and it feels situational so this one may
be Tinder or Bumble you
get the match right mind if I just can steal this opener mind if I shamelessly
flirt and hit on you just seems more fun
than all the typical boring stuff sorry boring fluff for this one now this is more
direct
but when it hits you're golden and usually when the heads or go they'll say thank
you oh my God
I'm so sick of that yes absolutely yes I'm tired I'm sick of it too blah blah blah
all right women surprising with
online dating just want to get to the good [ __ ] they don't really want they call
it I've actually used my advantage social
intelligence they don't want pen pals that's their language in fact if a girl
doesn't want to meet
up with me or is giving me the run around I'd be like that's okay I'm I'm okay uh
having a fun pen pal I guess
that's okay if you want to just be pen pals you know or nothing wrong with being
pen pals I guess I'm using girl
language because they don't want that like no if you don't want to meet up that's
fine nothing about being pen pals
no I'm not looking for a pen pal they hate that [ __ ] all right so you can get
away with a little bit more direct here
or make things go more quickly um another can one like Tinder damn you
look exactly like my future ex-wife right to flirty canned ones uh again I
like situational I like situational I I know somebody's gonna be like I use one of
your Cannon lines and it didn't work
because when it comes online dating they can sniff the can [ __ ] amount away
typically you want situational
they just they can tell you have to use your brain a little bit but these are the
best if you really can't these are
the best can ones you can find that just get it going flirty
all right because more cam playful this is a good one too this is great on the
girls that
you could just tell they're like I'm the coolest girl ever I'm a model I am the
[ __ ] I'm awesome you just know when you
see it there's like Miami or La type girls can tell you're an alpha female from
your picks and I like that need
someone who can match my energy and they'll always say something like I'm glad you
could tell I'm out of 50 I'd
always rush into my mind I'm glad you can tell I am out of a female yes I I like
that yes that energy they're just
into that [ __ ] I can tell you're trying very hard to be the coolest girl in
America cool all right you win
uh oh this is a great this actually came from a student of mine Josh way back in
the day I love this one not gonna lie I
want to do things for you that are illegal in some countries dot dot dot like hold
hands
that's another funny one again canned one but again situational is usually always
better
uh can't tell if you're innocent or trouble and it's hurting my brain that they're
good can run that's fun and
and usually with this one always say why can't I be both I'm like now you're just
getting greedy
all right now how to text attractive women that leads to a date so you want your
messaging strategy to be playful to flirty to the date itself okay we always
start playful this is not to have a connection you're not to have real serious talk
you're not
having get to know you talk playful to flirty to let's set up this date fairly
quick if it's really good you can have you know some good back and forth but that's
the flow that it should go with
so playful the way you playful um you know um what's the word
Innovative uh impromptu improv improv playful is you're going to take the
mundane where you're from what do you do blah blah blah and just going to
exaggerate and make it silly in my example soon you're going to see case of
this I just take things that are mundane and you exaggerate it to a silly over-the-
top thing
for example I just opened this water bottle
I go what are you doing right now oh I just opened the UN the unopenable
water bottle my self-esteem is an all-time high right now I can do no wrong what
are you up to right I just took the most mundane dumb
[ __ ] and I just made it extra all right that's the kind of thing of being playful
just like being extra really
that's the art of it now flirting is basically the same thing as being playful uh
but you're gonna use certain
uh frames certain uh stuff it could be role plays and reversals role play we're
gonna go off and get married or you know I'm making my girlfriend for the next five
minutes I'm making Cinderella you're my new Tinder girlfriend whatever
the [ __ ] uh role reversals are just saying things that typically the woman would
say you're not going to get my
pants acting like that hey hey I know how you Florida girls are okay I'm not that
easy just so you know nothing's
happening tonight all right uh challenges women like look women like
sex for sure but they love a challenge so you've got to add that challenge um
element to them like nothing's
happening tonight like I said you can even combine it like the reversal and
flirting is sexually suggestive it's in
there you're hinting at it uh but you're not being that creepy weird guy who's
excited for sex it's just it's there's a sexual theme to The Conversation you'll
see it when I show you some of my examples you'll see what I mean by that guys make
this mistake a lot by the way they try to get dirty talk or sexting
the girl with it no I bet you've never even met this girl like what the [ __ ] are
we talking about so no you're not trying to have like sexy talk you just
want sometimes to be sexually suggestive and ideally what you're looking for is
looking for Clear interest from her she's clearly into you or she's being flirted
back the moment
and this is where it ends guys the moment you see she is clearly into your
[ __ ] or the moment she starts flirting with you plan the date plan the day plan
the day
plan the date you're done go for the date now the date suggests the idea and then
tell
it to send to your number shoot me your number shoot me your number to shoot me
your number it's very simple we should go to sushi sometimes
yeah we should awesome shoot me your number let's plan it out okay don't over
extend good it's literally
that easy oh oh gonna save you a lot of Heartache a lot you're gonna save you from
catfishes
this is going to and it's going to make sure that your first date there's already a
good vibe Face Time first when
you Face Time first yes like I said Sage of catfish but also you can you can save
yourself a lot of times the only thing worse than having a bad date or sorry the
only thing worse than not having a
date is having a bad date it's going to save you a lot by a five to ten minute face
time will save you
your hard-earned money your your more valuable time and just your effort and
energy because you'll feel the vibe a lot of guys are scared about this but if you
do it right first off it goes bad
thank God because if you had an awkward Face Time Imagine awkward a whole date like
[ __ ] that [ __ ]
um if you do it right though your exposure effect with that she's it's the first
date
doesn't feel like this first awkward meeting you've already met talked you've had
that energy exchange so this
tremendously UPS your results all right so let's go over some examples
this is girl David Courtney here's her uh our prompt doesn't answer call me
which by the way awesome I can use this I don't she's not
a texter I know she's not a texter I got a call I won this girl over by literally
listening to this prom when I got her number I just called this girl or I used uh
uh voice notes I just didn't text and
you're gonna see lo and behold she is exactly what she claims to be she's the
world's worst
texter you're going to see this in a second here uh other stuff uh gym Salon friend
glass
of wine blah blah blah she's basic yeah messy example oh here's me being a
Florida girl on a boat here's me being a Florida girl hanging out like she's just
basic
message examples all right so I played with this doesn't answer call me I go my
opener again situational honor prompts
what if I raise you to FaceTime she did not respond to that because why because
she is a type of texter that doesn't answer I get it all right I waited like
a week or two damn guess you called she goes laughing emoji hello
that same day in a few hours hi and then didn't get anything so a few
hours later sorry but gonna need to get through the texting phase before graduating
the calls I believe in you
though calling her out that she's a bad texter I understand you're not texting me
the next day so that was it until it was like early morning later that day
Starbucks I need
you to get to the texting phase before graduating the calls I believe in you though
the next day she didn't respond
laugh my ass off okay I'll try all right that was at 12 at 6 PM hours
go by unless you want to shoot me your number and we can try FaceTime I'm just like
let me get done with texting she's
down texting let me just get off of this um I agree you can't know someone's Vibe
on texts
didn't go with that all right way to the weekend so the next week you're killing
me Smalls hashtag Florida dating social intelligence there's a theme in
Florida that everybody sucks the guys suck at dating the women suck at dating it's
just understood in Florida everybody sucks all right women make fun
of it men make fun of it so I go you're killing me Smalls movie reference teasing
her hashtag Florida dating means
she's the problem do you see how I frame that by the way look at how much
investment
I'm doing compared to her right do you guys I hope you guys notice I'm doing so
much I'm BR this is the
exception to the rule normally you want your texting to be kind of even a little
you know right maybe she even does a
little bit more but usually not the case I'm doing a lot of investing but it's
all necessary these are all girls I dated at one point or another like she didn't
give me much to work with but I
knew if I do nothing nothing's going to happen so I'm breaking the rules here
you're killing me small before dating and then I don't know how many time went by I
just left it laugh my ass off no I
just don't go on here uh text me or add me on insta here's your Instagram or here's
your number and her Instagram and
your ride Florida dating is something else it's a social I truly believe one is
persistence guys give up way too easy number two I think is really this hashtag
Florida dating is what got her
the social intelligence that little bit of calling her out for not responding and
you bet your ass I did not text her
I didn't even add her on Instagram honestly I just called her and left voice memos
that's how I went with this girl because
again I'm calibrating I'm listening to what she's telling me to do voice notes
uh not a voicemail like a voice message audio an audio text message
I see another one all right another one did Angelica she says five eight I think
she was six
maybe because you're wearing a heel she was this girl was tall as [ __ ] she's a
nurse um this one she was playful uh this girl
is social intelligent she was fun so you're gonna see a little bit better examples
uh all right what is her
prompts here getting lost in outer space sure
she was more social this one here's her at a car okay cool
all right so I played with this prompt most rational uh fear getting lost outer
space how about just lost on Earth
right it's a big situational again really high high quality growth hot girls you're
probably not going to
respond right away sometimes you do sometimes you don't don't get my point is look
I get this too girls aren't responding don't get discouraged it
happens guys get two give up too easily I think so then I think a day went by I
literally think this is the next day I'm not sure maybe a day a week something
close all I sent after that when I
didn't get a response alien face emoji the reason I did that is because you
don't I don't want to be overly investing but what happens and Anna if you're
contest of this is attractive
women with online dating their messages get buried there's so many likes and
messages it is it is swarmed so all I'm doing here is putting myself
back to the top it's like a ping it's just a hey reminder it's just a
reminder that's all I did here in a calibrated way because it's about right she now
she gets playful do you come in
peace yes all right I go I don't want peace I want problems
I don't know if you guys know that Meme or that gift right I don't want peace I
want problems always I was hoping she got it right but here's the problem if
she doesn't know that reference I look really [ __ ] stupid so I have to calibrate
it I don't want
peace on my problems brownie points if you know that reference even if she doesn't
know the reference now she knows
it is a reference I'm not some crazy person you guys get that yeah if she does get
the reference awesome if she doesn't I'm not crazy bro and I'm doing it and where
I'm qualifying you brownie points if you
get that reference ah I don't think I do crying face thank
God I said the brown important thing because she'd have been like I don't want
peace I want problems what the [ __ ] can you imagine just reading that I'd be
like uh okay I go haha just a funny GIF and Tick-Tock
sound your gen ski your gen Z skills be lacking girl challenging her this is my
member
earlier I said you want to challenge a little bit this is playful challenging it's
a it's a Tick-Tock reel your gen Z
skills be lacking haha I'm actually new to tick tock so I challenge her
tease right what do you think I'm gonna do next without looking what do you think
we do next I'm going to balance it by
I teased her so now I complimenter back and forth report cycle
all right your zenskies your gen Z skills be lacking or ha I'm actually new to tick
tock I'm pretty sure that's
points in your favor that's good that you're new to tick tock means you're not
always in your phone and blah blah blah she hearts that
response I finally caved and made an account because my friends kept texting me
links to watch haha they make you
cave and get on hinge too social intelligence all girls say the same thing on
online
dating my friends made my account my friends made me get on this app I am my
fans made me I heard a thousand times by saying this social intelligence
she ignored it Blake Lively to your Ryan Reynolds from a member of the proms
remember the BIOS
when a girl girls will match you because of your pictures
but they will believe believe me when you search one personality they're going to
go right into your bio and they're
going to read every [ __ ] line and that's why you want that money because now it's
still selling you
believe around this huh I just heard that I love that so much they're the cutest I
think she means I just read
that oh no no she did yeah just heard it because I had a voice uh prompt which
you can use as well voice prompts they're the cutest haha I think we could give
them a run for their money
it's already playful now I'm making it flirty do you see that I started playful
I'm having fun with her some interest all right some tips some investment let's
make it flirty I know I'm
definitely very much a Blake Lively kind of girl all right she didn't really
capitalize
on that flirting so let's keep going she didn't really capitalize with it but we're
gold we're good she's just not
being flirty back yet so we keep going that's my celebrity crush and hall pass if I
ever cheat on you though still
flirting with her if I cheat on you and it's my hall pass laugh my ass off I guess
that's fair enough she says Ryan
Reynolds I mean not Blake I want to get with Ryan Reynolds I'm gonna talk about
Blake Lively again
humor fun this is a classic humor pattern by the way called set up punch
she had someone to expect one thing and then do a sharp left turn it's always funny
just set it up something set up an
expectation and then change expectation that's called setup punch style of humor
it's a predictable pattern
and she predictably will laugh oh my God laughing but before you read everything
else that's all I had if you just uncover all the bottom part all I had was oh my
God laugh laugh
great response but what the [ __ ] do I respond back to that I go you're welcome
like what can I do
so I just mirror it and this is again there's a ballsy move many guys don't do this
but I'm not I know she's into me I
know I have interest she's not going to just let me fizzle out so I just mirror
laugh laugh laugh she did laugh laugh I
do laugh laugh which means balls back in your court I'm
forcing you to invest you got to do something she goes I'm cracking up at work
God bless her she doesn't know what to do but she's trying all right she's just
she's like I'm cracking up at work I go
no way to know but I'm guessing you have a pretty laugh oh I'm being sweet just I'm
trying to find let me talk with now
so what hospital do I need to fake being sick at to see you she's a nurse by the
way
all right so what hospital do I need to fake being sick at to see you being playful
she then sends me a 22 second
voice prompt by the way genius if you have a long thing to say something that's
going to take up more than two
lines don't type it just do a voice note you can get away with so much 22 seconds
can you imagine how long that would have been a giant aspect but she's smart she's
a calibrated woman she realized
don't do a long ass paragraph let me just do a voice prompt and it was something
what don't right if you have something money you want to say but you know it's
going
to take up more than two lines just do a voice prompt and because the telegraphs is
just one line of text
it's genius it's easy um it was something about how she's laughing her friends are
looking at her
um uh something something positive I forget exactly what you said I work at
Memorial
but I don't want you to be one of my patients I go can't hear you breaking my arm
right now be right back again
remember what I said about um flirting role-playing okay and here you breaking my
arm I'll be right back blah blah
and boo the shitty dates not on my watch all right now she didn't say did this
remember okay on her voice thing she's
going I was having a shitty day but this cheered me up and made me laugh it was
something along those lines I'm
having a shitty day misinterpretation is another style of humor is another pattern
I didn't I heard that I know she
said day but I'm going to purposely misinterpret it say dates Buddhist shitty dates
not on my watch what a
night now so now I'm by the way she's not flirting super flirting but massive
interest sending me a 22 second voice thing saying I was having a shitty day you've
made my day
she's into me it's clear as day so when a night and this is by the way great way to
ask her on on text so steal
this would a night of drinks dancing and laughter with a cute bearded guy help only
do if you're bearded if you're not
big with a cute Asian guy help or you know whatever the [ __ ] right whatever you
want to do but what a night of drinks dancing and laughter with a cute
insert something about yourself here guy help easy way to get a date a shitty day
not a date I'm here at work
and it's been so hectic non-stop most likely yes that would help perfect meant
day LOL if tomorrow works shoot me your number if it doesn't then send it anyways
I got that from Sherlock from the show Sherlock Holmes be like
um please come if what do you say it was like um if convenient please come right
away if not convenient please come anyways I was like that's pretty funny
right so if tomorrow works shoot me your number if it doesn't then send it anyway
right
um she hardened it laugh my ass if I love that send me the number again just steal
this way of asking for the number you're gonna you or you could just say
shoot me your number it still works this is just another like fun clever way of
going about it that I've never seen anyone else use and because it's not in
the dating world I got it from Sherlock Holmes the show all right who wants more
messaging
examples I know I do all right Kayla this was a girl I used to do took her on
the The Yacht stuff we went on the boat ship I'm looking for consistency a good
flirt to roast ratio I love that
so I could that's me I'm like I look basically you just described a poor cycling
love that
okay what else about this girl okay a lot emojis hate that oh look here's me doing
a split awesome good for you Kayla okay I'm looking for all I cared about
was a good flirt to roast ratio someone who doesn't entertain everyone and anyone I
go so much for my stand-up days
dot dot dot shocker doesn't respond now not saying all the girls are going to
respond to good openers good
situation openers but the higher what the really like they usually don't you got to
be show some persistent some
persistence that's just how it is so July
fourth a week later again you don't want to be texting every day either men think
in terms of days days to us is a long
time women think in terms of weeks all right you got to give it you know how guys
like that wait a day with a girl on
like wait a week all right give it some time I promise you it won't be forgotten
all right
uh I go can I just be awkward for my flirting and then roast you dot dot dot also
awkwardly LOL
so too awkwardly again self-deprecation can be funny making fun of myself in a non-
serious way haha only if I'm allowed
to Dish it back all right so now she's telling me a little about herself she's
telling me she likes to Banter there's a
banter girl so all right let's [ __ ] bring it let's go but as she texts you
you should get a sense and a Vibe of what kind of girl you're dealing with in the
beginning you only have a prompt the more she's messaging you the more you're
kind of like calibrating and zero in on what kind of girl she is all right oh it's
cute you think you
could that's the spirit though keep your chin up little guy all right teasing it
LOL is that supposed to be your roast face palm nice she's roasting back she's
like oh that's what you're trying to do oh is that you trying to tease [ __ ] that
sucks that's good on her I'm like all
right let's some guys might be like oh [ __ ] did I [ __ ] up no you no come on man
she's playing back if a girl is teasing you it's like it's like kindergarten rules
it means she
likes you she's having fun with you so I go [ __ ] do I need to explain them all to
you too I don't know this is
gonna work then that's gonna be rough kiss face so again I'm misinterpreting it as
that's supposed to be your roast oh God
do I need to explain it to you all right I know she gets it but I'm pretending she
doesn't misinterpretation
she goes we're going to have to work on what you define as flirtatious roasting LOL
I think you missed a mark a bit
laughing face again she's roasting me she's telling me you suck at flirting most
guys I could see this clue again
this will grow every one of these are girls I dated I Can See Clearly some guy
being like Oh I'm [ __ ] up she doesn't like my
roasting she said it's not it's [ __ ] serious ly there that's exactly what I was
saying but that's why you feel even without the laughing emoji you should still
think she's not serious the guys
who are the best with women are remember God mode they always thank god mode they
always think they can do no wrong so it's crazy the best natural seducers on this
planet whatever the girl says or
does they will interpret it somehow in their mind as interest she's into them she
wants me she does
like me sometimes to an unhealthy way sometimes it's like yo bro like she's not
interested like just just move on
man nah she wants it bro she want knows she doesn't she's clear like they're
delusional all right but it but that's part of why they get success is because
that delusional confidence it shows you've got to take it though like in this case
like I'm saying that she's
into me she's roasting me we're having fun but the Emoji does help for sure
haha listen I'm on a hinge I missed a mark years ago so no worries there laughing
face
social intelligence showcase social intelligence it is a
massive attraction trigger specifically for I mean always but specifically for
online dating I'm on hinge at Mr Mark
years ago hint stocks she goes hahaha touche okay not much to work with by the way
I'm just gonna play off what I did all right I'm gonna play off what I did if she
doesn't give you anything go off
your own leads in my defense I did say awkward roasting at least it's not tender
though where
guys lead with a dick pic I'm doubling down social intelligence
all right and one extra positive about this kind of Message is I'm making fun of my
competition I'm reminding her remember just so you just so you remember everyone
else on here sucks that's not
me you know most guys are sending dick pics and they are awful she goes okay okay
I'll give you that one and yes thank you for not leading with that lol she's
warming up all right we're
planning for we get we we got the roasting out of the way now we can get a little
bit more into liking each other I
mean yeah after the first 10 girls giggled and had me Google micropenis I kind of
learned my lesson self self
roasting self-deprecation all right it's okay if it's actually funny and if it's
not serious if you're
self-deprecating about your height and you're actually short they're going to see
through that if you're a little bit heavier guy and you're self-deprecating
about being fat it looks insecure you can't self-deprecate on something that could
be real
me talking about having micro penis hopefully she knows clearly that's not a
really the case for me right in fact I'm joking about it chances mean it's probably
big too so I'm playing with
that idea as well she goes oh no laughing face tragic not the best texter but
whatever
okay hurry you're shooting yourself tragic I wouldn't know never tried Tinder but
at least you learned
something LOL all right she's giving me a little bit of work with just hinge and
seeking arrangements for you huh again
misinterpretation I didn't do Tinder ah just seeking Arrangements because that's
where like escorts go and you know
whatever the [ __ ] or sugar babies and whatnot and hey you said you wanted lessons
I learned and my spiritual
journey in your pro I learned that out and hey you said you wanted lessons I
learned and my spiritual journey your
prompts I got you right somebody wants a spiritual journey wants to listen she
Hearts it a hinge every year or hinge
every once in a while I honestly don't use it much they never do LOL and here you
thought this wouldn't
work out smug face well dot dot dot well that the dog jury's still out tongue
face back to roasting because again what does she want that good flirt to roast
ratio all right it's not all I'm teasing you it's not all I like you back and
forth back and forth so right when she's like it's thought to Twitter work out see
see you're liking me eh am I haha
right again playing with her and puts me as the prized position right
well jury's still out I am still deciding if I like you or not great for him to be
in she goes you're right
learning not to send dick pics is setting the bar pretty low for emotional
intelligence I'm like that's good so
you're right learning not to send dick pictures setting the bar pretty low for
motion intelligence so I guess we'll see what else you got so I put her in the
frame of I'm not sure about you and she swept it she swept it back and now put
it on me I'm not sure about you this is awesome it's sparring it's good this is a
good thing though we're into each
other [ __ ] I need more usually the beard and puppy is enough
what the hell you are you not entertained she goes not even close bud
the irony is she is the irony is we're having a good back and forth we're
[ __ ] around with each other I know it she knows it but this is fun this is
flirting hmm well what are you looking for Cutie
this kind of switches up a little bit so for number one Cutie try and make it
flirtatious number two let's draw
something out of her that's not just [ __ ] with each other let's get her opening
up normally by the way there's
an exception normally I don't get into qualification like this I save it for the
first date I save it for face time
for talking but I wanted to change the vibe of just back and forth back and forth
back and
forth complement you know T's floor T's she was a genuine person in connection
someone with depth and personality
don't we all I go I'm so deep with how genuine I am you won't be able to surface
okay texting is not where to go deep that I would have a very different
response if this was in person qualifying texting is for playful and flirty and
setting up a date that's it
don't get caught up in trying to have a real connection over texting she goes dot
dot I'm sensing you most
likely have the personality part covered LOL so yeah the whole time she's just
saying
I don't know you got a lot of work to do you got a lot of work to do I'm
unimpressed you're not allowed to the whole time she's telling me that I'm not
this guy whatever and then here it is I'm sensing you most likely have the
personality part covered LOL
I'm telling you it's the sub Communications I heart that to reward it she goes
hahaha to be determined I go
but I genuinely mean that laughing face she goes oh God face upon Facebook um again
we're having fun with each other
again I go no I get it you want a good person who's caring because you've been hurt
and [ __ ] over in the past this is
an advancing thing by the way I'm doing something like real code read of just like
I get you
um no I get it you want a good person who's caring because you've been hurt and
[ __ ] over in the past tired of the
Florida superficiality Social intelligence and would like a guy who can see you
like really see you for who
you are not just a blonde hair and amazing green eyes I'm making a very specific
kind of deep
cultivating again just a little bit Advanced this is more of the exception not the
rule but let's see how it turns
out um not just a green eyes and as for connection that takes time but here's
hoping your weirdness matches mine that's a great line by the way I hope your
weirdness matches mine that's
something all Every Girl online every girl anywhere wants it's a classic cliche
thing I want I hope his weird
match is my weird I want my weird to match your just still that line shows LOL
something like that I suppose
give or take well so much for depth I you know I roll LOL
I was trying to go deep she didn't go for it [ __ ] me like what like what do you
want at this point like
I I was gave the flirt the flirt roaster ratio I gave you deep you didn't want to
like what do you want she goes everyone's a little weird just takes the right
amount of comfortability for it to
come out haha well you kind of had all the marks on that one already trauma isn't
usually something I prefer to lead with LOL
AKA a lot of investment by the way AKA you're right I just don't want to get go
into that on text and [ __ ] which is what I'm telling you they you I just wanted
to show like I see you but this is not
the medium to have that kind of deep talk she's just kind of like explaining that
and I get it
uh I think it makes a test whatever non-positive healing and having amazing humor
due to their oh oh I know where we
missed [ __ ] we messed up the whatever um trying to do something I prefer to
lead with I go that's a shame because my type is the kind of girl I forget this
it's
like my type is the kind of girl that's now in the process or had went through a
lot of trauma but now in the process of
healing and have amazing humor due to their underlying anxiety is kind of my type
I'm basically making a joke that my type
is girls who have a lot of trauma and are [ __ ] up but they're now going through
the process of healing and
that's where the humor comes from Ah that's my kind of girl all right
historically speaking but anyway they're making a joke out of it she goes like you
eat peanut butter on your spaghetti
weird or you stay up until 2AM every night rereading Harry Potter books weird I go
if it's those two options the
latter LOL because I don't know why I'm having peanut butter and spaghetti [ __ ]
that
and then she's that kind of weird and yeah I'm glad we're stopping this right now
so those two options a ladder LOL oh
my God can we just have a phone call I'm sick of typing so fast shoot me your
number we're going back and forth back and
forth back and forth at this point we're talking there's momentum her interest is
primarily based on the quick back and forth shoot me your number ha I'm having a
hard time determining if that being
your type is a red or green flag at the moment laughing face and then boom and
then I think what happened was by the way she said this and I didn't respond
because all of the previous stuff
backwards it was very quick back to it back for it back for it which is great by
the way you want that sometimes
you know you can mirror her where it's like I picked you know she took a few hours
you take a few hours to respond
but ideally you want momentum with your texting you want it to be very quick
backward
backward back forth that means you're doing incredibly well keep going keep going
don't be like I'm gonna be cool now wait to five hours no you want
momentum so I just called it out can we have a phone call I'm sick of typing so
fast shoot me your number she did that I
hearted it I didn't respond back my response was a heart
the reason is because I already gave her a call to action shoot me your number by
stopping the chain of quick back and forth texting she realized that was the only
response she gets
within a few minutes she then sent me your number she listened to call out some
guys might have kept going No I gave her compliance test
hey I've proven my personality I've done it at this point send me your number I'm
doubling down what I said
all right and then freeze it all right with that you will be amazing with your
online dating all right just steal this
verbatim make sense awesome cool cool [Applause]