Ways To Persuade A Successful Negotiation
Ways To Persuade A Successful Negotiation
ASSIGNMENT
ON
NEGOTIATION
William Shakespeare
NEGOTIATION
Negotiation is a part of normal everyday life. Life itself is just one continuous
negotiation.
Definition of negotiation
Negotiation is any activity that influences another person. Here's how a number of
leading thinkers define the topic:
* Negotiating is the process of getting the best terms once the other side
starts to act on their interest.
* ... negotiating is... a means of achieving one's goals in every relationship
regardless of the circumstances.
b) Two friends trying to settle the amount for which one wants to sell his old car to
the other.
C) Two sisters fighting over how a box of chocolates should be divided between
them.
1. Negotiation takes place between two parties. Both parties are equally interested
in an agreed action/ result.
For e.g-when a manager deals with other managers or customers or suppliers over
whom he has no power, he tries to achieve results by agreement through
discussion, persuasion & argument. In other words he negotiates.
TYPES OF NEGOTIATIONS
There are three types of negotiations.
A] DISTRIBUTIVE NEGOTIATION
B] INTEGRATIVE NEGOTIATION
In this the bargaining centers on who will claim the most value. Some people
refer to this type of negotiation as zero sun or constant sum negotiation. The term
win loss is probably more representative of what is involved.
E.g- (a) While selling a car both parties are unknown to each other. Only money is
important. One may gain the other may lose. Relationship is not important.
(b) Wage negotiations between business owners & their union employees.The
owners know that any amount conceded to the union will come out of their own
pockets vice versa.
1] To create as much value as possible for yourself and for the other party.
For e.g-
Process of Negotiation
a. Open: Let the other side know what you want and let them tell you what
they want.
b. Argue: Back-up your case with evidence and uncover defects in their
argument.
3. Proposal:
4. Agreement:
c. Sustain: Ensure that their side, and yours, follows through with the
negotiated agreement.
In practice, these steps will not be followed exactly. You may get stuck on one
step, or go back to another. Starting off with a definite plan of attack gives the
upper hand and confidence that you would not otherwise have had.
The 6 principles of persuasion by Robert Cialdini is not rocket science at all. This
post will provide an overview of the 6 principles of persuasion which you can use
immediately in your next negotiation. These 6 principles are there to guide you and
not rules to live by. We should look at them as guidelines which can open up more
options for you when you negotiate.
1. Principle of Liking
People are easily influenced by what they like. Research have shown that there are
many things you can like someone (e.g physical attractiveness, compliments and
cooperative efforts). However, one factor really stands out. And it’s the most
powerful and easiest to implement: Similarity. The way to bring down the
influence barrier is to let the other party see that you like him. This is more
important than he liking you.
You must also be able to communicate that you are a trusted source of information.
For e.g if you are a negotiating on a particular deal, inform parties of your
experience in doing such deals. You can do this in the preliminary conversations
that you have with the other party. Mention your expertise in the subject matter of
the negotiation.
Tell them even if they already know. Do not pretend to be in a position which you
are not. You show that you are being truthful. Higher credibility, lower barriers.
3. Principle of Scarcity
How to make people want something more? Make it scarce.
When people know that they can’t have something, it’s rare and it’s scarce, they
will want it more than ever. As something or an opportunity becomes less
accessible, it becomes more desirable. The lack of availability and scarcity confer
value on things.
Before any negotiation, think about what is unique and uncommon that we have to
offer. And they can’t get it if they do not move in our direction. What is there to
lose for them if they do not say yes to us. People are generally more motivated by
the idea of losing something than gaining the very same thing. People are afraid
of the pain of losing than the contentment of gaining. Sometimes, we can be
more persuasive if we are able to present what stands to be lost than emphasizing
what stands to be gained. In negotiation, you can point out the advantages that will
be lost if the proposal is not accepted. Tell them what benefits they will lose.
People feel the need to know what they will stand to lose.
4. Principle of Consistency
People want to appear consistent and rational. They want to be consistent with
what they said and how they act previously. We can use the principle of
consistency quite effectively in negotiations by getting the other party to agree
with the standards he articulated in his prior statements. Anticipate what type of
standards the other party will adhere to and make your arguments based on their
standards. You can get them committed to a set of rules by using written
commitments. The chances of them straying off will decrease tremendously.
Take time out to do more research into parties. Spend more time with them. Figure
out what they are most committed to, most value and most want to attain. Let them
determine what is important to them and go in such a way that is reactive to what
they have pointed out.
Be aware of manipulative people out there who lay consistency traps to get you
agree to a set of standards.
5. Principle of Reciprocity
People return what others have given them. It can be of any form. If you set out to
help someone, you will be more likely to receive help from them in return. They
will feel the obligation to repay you.
In the business world today, there is a lot of room to apply the principle of
reciprocity. Find out more about the parties and see how you can help them. By
taking the first step to help them, they will feel the desire to help you out in the
future. For negotiation, we can increase the chance the other party will be
collaborative by being collaborative first. If you set out to be competitive and
uncooperative during negotiations, you will most likely receive the same treatment.
By giving concessions and sharing information first, you will encourage the other
party to do the same.
In negotiations, the situation can be ambiguous and the issues being discussed can
be very complex. When in such a situation, parties will look to experts to guide
their decision. If you reach an impasse in your negotiations, point out that how
similar negotiations have been conducted and how they are being resolved. Provide
evidence that others like them have made this choice and how they have been
benefited from their decision.
When people have witnessed what others have done before, they will be more
willing to make the same decision.
Conclusion
Negotiation plays an effective role in a work place. In fact it is a skill which
applies in almost every aspect of our life- From formal relationship to personal
relationship. Negotiation is a process, not an event. There are predictable phases -
preparation, identifying interests and making proposals, bargaining, and selecting
outcomes - that you will go through in any negotiation. Depending on the situation,
there are various negotiation approaches that can be utilized to increase the
likelihood of a successful outcome.
If the steps of negotiation are well understood and the techniques of negotiating is
well known then, a person can be a successful negotiator. When negotiation skills
increases , one will discover that negotiating is fun.
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