Best Dating Apps of 2019 - CNET
Best Dating Apps of 2019 - CNET
2 Bumble
Bumble is basically Tinder for women... and on a timer. Bumble requires women to message
first and if the guy doesn't message back within 24 hours, he loses the potential match.
Because that's the one thing my love life was really missing... arbitrary time limits.
The timer is designed to encourage contact, and some people really do appreciate that
feature. But if you're someone who procrastinates, Bumble may not be for you. Also because
women must message first, Bumble tends to weed out the slightly more insecure males.
However the rate of overly confident males tends to be higher than I've seen on other apps.
Bumble also has a BFF feature, but that's really not the focus of a dating app gallery, so I'll
save it for another time.
3 Tinder
Whether you're looking for a hookup or an LTR (long-term relationship), Tinder has you
covered. It's basically the first stop for those entering the dating world. If you want to play the
odds when it comes to online dating, you probably need to be swiping where everyone's
swiping.
On the upside the profiles are brief, which allows you to make decisions quickly. The
downside is that short profiles make it harder to figure out what people are looking for.
Knowing very little about a person can also make initial messaging more challenging. You'll
need to wade through a sea of profiles, which makes it easy to pass over people you might
have given a chance under different circumstances.
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4 OkCupid
OkCupid, how you confuse me. I have friends who've met spouses through OkCupid. My last
serious relationship came from OkCupid. In fact, I've been on OkCupid, on and off, for roughly
the last 11 years. Profiles are much more in-depth than most dating sites, and if you answer a
seemingly endless series of questions, they will spit out a reasonable Match/Enemy
percentage ratio on profiles to help you gauge compatibility.
Changes in the last year have made OkCupid a bit more like Tinder, focusing more on swiping
and eliminating the ability to message a user without matching with them first. You can still
send a message, it just won't show up in the recipient's inbox unless you match. Because who
doesn't love sending a thoughtful message to someone who might never see it? However,
OkCupid has pointed out that these changes did help lower the number of offensive
messages users received, which might not be the worst thing.
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5 Hinge
Hinge focuses on common connections that you and a potential partner share on Facebook.
Which is great if you trust the judgment of your friends and family. Of course, some of us are
trying to meet new people, far removed from our everyday lives. (Hinge may have gotten the
hint, since you no longer need Facebook to sign up.) The app also asks questions to help you
match with better connections, which can be a plus for serious relationship seekers.
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7 Happn
Happn matches you with people who are nearby physically. It's a cool concept and helpful for
people who want to meet someone in a more organic manner. That said, I've never met a
single person who actually uses the app.
Within the first three hours of signing up, Happn welcomed me with 68 users it said I had
crossed paths with, even though I hadn't left my apartment all day. It might be helpful if you're
looking to date your immediate neighbors (or Uber drivers), but I struggle to see why this is
much of a draw when competitors like Tinder already show the distance between you and
other users. Frankly, if I saw a cute guy in a coffee shop, I'd rather just approach him than
check if he's on Happn. The app seems designed for people who don't want to use online
dating but who also don't want to approach people in real life. Pick a lane.
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8 The League
The League is an "elite dating app" that requires you to apply to get access. Your job title and
the college you attended are factors The League considers when you apply, which is why you
have to provide your Linkedin account. Big cities tend to have long waiting lists, so you might
find yourself twiddling your thumbs as your application goes through the process. (Of course,
you can pay to hurry up the review.) The exclusivity can be a draw for some and a turnoff for
others. Let me demystify the app for you: I've seen most of the profiles I come across on The
League on other dating apps. So at the end of the day, you'll probably see the same faces on
Tinder, if you aren't deemed elite enough for The League.
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9 Her
Most dating apps are fairly LGBTQ inclusive. Still, it's nice to have an app to call your own. Her
is tailored to lesbian, bisexual and queer women. The app serves a valuable purpose, but
generally has some bugs and glitches that made it frustrating for me to use. Most of my queer
female friends have told me they found the app to be just OK, but they usually end up back on
Tinder or Bumble. Still I checked it regularly for some time and had a few pleasant
conversations with actual human beings. And isn't that all we're really looking for in a dating
app?
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10 Clover
Clover tried to be the on-demand version of online dating: you can basically order a date like
you would a pizza. It also has match percentages based on compatibility, though it isn't
entirely clear how those numbers are calculated.
I was on Clover for quite some time but had forgotten it even existed until I started to throw
this list together. I felt like it was a less successful hybrid of OkCupid and Tinder, and I also felt
like the user base was pretty small, even though I live in an urban area with plenty of people
who use a wide variety of dating apps. Clover says it has nearly 6 million users, 85 percent of
whom are between the ages of 18 and 30.
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11 Plenty of Fish
Plenty of Fish launched in 2003 and it shows. The problem I come across over and over again
is that POF is filled with bots and scams, even though it may have the most users of any dating
app. POF's issues don't mean you won't be able to find love on it, but the odds might be
stacked against you. Unless you're into dating bots.
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12 Match
Match has a free version, but the general consensus is that you need a paid subscription to
have any luck on it. That's a hangover from the early days of online dating, when paying for
membership to a site meant you were serious about settling down. But my friends and I have
long since come to the conclusion that you might be a little too eager to find a significant
other if you're paying to get dates, particularly given the abundance of free dating apps. There
are definitely paid features on some dating apps that are worth the price, but I've yet to be
able to justify shelling out cash for love.
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