Chapter 15
Chapter 15
COMMUNICATION
● Employee Productivity
o Social media tools at work, if used appropriately, can make
communication by and among employees more productive.
o The key for employees, managers, and employers is to harness the
speed and reach of social media to enhance individual performance.
o Results like reduced turnover, higher performance, increased job
satisfaction, and greater creativity and collaboration are common
findings in research about the effects of social media.
o Employees who work remotely are particular beneficiaries of social
media's communications capabilities.
There is plenty of evidence that everyone should unplug from e-mail and
social media on a regular basis, if not during every evening, weekend, and
vacation
Nondefensive Communication
● Defensive communication is either aggressive, attacking, angry
communication or passive, withdrawing communication.
● Nondefensive communication is assertive, direct, and powerful.
● Defensiveness often is started by the poor choice of words we use and/or the
nonverbal posture used during interactions.
● Using absolutes like “always” or “never” is very likely to create a defensive
response.
● Table 15.9 describes antecedents of defensive and nondefensive
communication.
● Some steps to achieving nondefensive communication are: build relationships
first, frame your message into terms that acknowledge the receiver's point of
view, free yourself of prejudice and bias, practice full disclosure, and pick a
time and place conducive to communicating and listening.
Empathy
● Empathy is the ability to recognize and understand another person's feelings
and thoughts.
● Empathy is a reflective technique that fosters open communication.
● Being empathetic requires two key actions: mindfulness and incorporating
your understanding of another person's feelings and thoughts into your
communications.
● Empathy leads to more effective communication and interaction because
people feel heard, and it sends the message that we care about others.
● Studies show that everyone can learn empathy with training and practice.
Being an Effective Listener
● Active listening is the process of actively decoding and interpreting verbal
messages.
● It requires full attention and processing of information.
● Listening is a cornerstone skill of communication competence.
● Many of us think we are good listeners when evidence suggests just the
opposite, and we will not become better listeners unless we are motivated to
do so.
● There are four typical listening styles: active, involved, passive, and detached.
● These listening styles differ with respect to how invested the listener is, their
level of participation, and the type of body language they display.