Authoritarian Parenting
Authoritarian Parenting
Demanding: Restrictions, punishment-heavy parents who have expectations that children follow
their directions with no explanations is an example of a demanding parent.
Non-Responsive: A parent who does not consider a child’s behavioral circumstances, feelings, or
only wants a child to be seen and not heard is an example of a non-responsive parent.
A common phrase used by authoritarian parents, “because I said so,” is a succinct example of having high
The “because I said so,” mentality is not a problem solving approach, but rather a strict focus on
obedience. This removes a child from learning how to problem-solve life’s challenges and instead teaches
Parenting
Spanking
Shouting
Believing kids should only be seen and not heard
Having a “my way or the highway” mind set
Not considering your children’s thoughts and feelings
Children
Conformist
Quit
Very obedient
Not happy
Advocates of this style feel they are well intentioned and believe that if a child can learn to handle
spankings and shouting from parents then they will have learned to deal with the harsh realities of life.
competent as parental supervision declines into their late teens to young adulthood years. This is the price
that is paid for having conforming-obedient children in their formative years. Children then lack the ability
opinions do not matter. A child’s snuffed out opinions teaches them that their voice is not important and
that they should not even try to share what they think.
Depression: The lack of self-esteem and feeling socially incompetent can lead to mental health issue.
Rebellion: A child who can develop self-confidence despite being raised by an authoritarian parent may
become angry or resentful of their authoritarian up bringing. As a result they could rebel against their
Escapist Behaviors: Examples of this are substance abuse and suicide. These behaviors are correlated
with wanting to escape from anger and resentment because of the inability to problem-solve and achieve
goals.