Absolute Lifestyle
Absolute Lifestyle
Mistress, i freely and willingly affirm that i am Your slave, whose sole reason for existence is Your pleasure. i have no rights or privileges
other than those granted to me by You. i swear to always honor You through my obedience and service. my body and mind are Yours to
use in any way You choose.
“Mistress , i acknowledge that You are under no obligation to explain Your orders or to justify Your punishment and training, but i am
under every obligation to obey You and accept Your punishment.
“my body, mind, and soul are from this day forth the private property of my Mistress, to be used as SHE sees fit. i promise to obey Her
completely, to do whatever She tells me to do, to submit to any punishment SHE sees fit to impose on me.
“i renounce any rights that i may have to think my own thoughts, care for my own needs or comfort, or control my own destiny. From now
on, i shall wear only what SHE commands me to wear, and serve only HER.
“Since i hereby renounce any rights to a personal opinion, desire, or a need to have my own, this agreement can never be broken by me for
any reason because I desire a lifetime commitment. my obligation to the Mistress is to be whatever SHE wants me to be.
“i acknowledge that i am a slave and that i live to Worship and Obey You as my Mistress.”
The Mistress’s time is precious and HER time with the slave may be short. In no case does this fact detract from the standards of excellence
expected from the slave. Training may be harsh. This is the fastest way to train and also the method that produces the most effective
results. The slave will enthusiastically accept training. The Mistress will acknowledge when a task is performed properly and the slave will
sincerely thank the Mistress for the training. The Mistress will take as long as necessary to train the slave as long as the slave is genuinely
trying and not malingering. Once a slave has been trained, if it fails in a task, the Mistress will assume that it is being disobedient and it will
be punished.
The slave’s body becomes the Mistress’s property; as such, the slave has no right to protest any use the Mistress chooses to make of it.
Rather, it is an honor if the Mistress deigns to touch HER property in any fashion SHE desires.
It is the slave’s duty to obey any and all commands given by the Mistress, and to do this without question or hesitation.
The slave shall speak only when the Mistress gives permission. The slave will request permission to speak prior to asking any questions it
may have regarding the Mistress’s commands or specifications of the slave’s assigned duties.
In all his personal activities, the slave surrenders all decisions to the Mistress.
A series of positions will be learned by the slave regarding standing, sitting, using the toilet, presenting his body for inspection, etc., and
will be practiced according to the training provided by the Mistress.
The Mistress may choose to ignore the slave for long, extended periods. The slave will remain silent for whatever length of time the
Mistress requires.
The slave agrees to adhere to any rules or regulations that the Mistress may add at any future time, and to obey any command ever given
by Mistress, at anytime, unquestionably. The slave understands that the Mistress is the sole judge in determining whether an infraction of
this contract has occurred. The Mistress is also the sole judge in determining the degree of punishment. Punishment may include dismissal
from Her service.
• GENERAL ORDERS :
1. The slave will always show his Mistress the highest level of respect.
3. The slave will never piss standing up. A slave is subservient to his Mistress and should not be so presumptuous as to imitate a man. Men
piss standing up slaves do not. The slave will always sit on a toilet or squat down to piss. This will help serve as a reminder of who and what
he is. The slave will not use the seat of a toilet. The slave will sit on the cold porcelain when he shits or pisses. The Mistress uses the seat
and the slave’s ass is not worthy of touching what SHE has used.
4. The slave shall address the Mistress as “Ma’am”, ‘Madame’, “Mistress”, or Goddess at all times, whichever Mistress prefers, unless
given permission to do otherwise, and shall address the Mistress with respect at all times. When using formal address, the slave will refer
to the Mistress as “the Mistress” or “SHE”, and to itself as “the slave” or “it”. When using familiar address, the slave will refer to the
Mistress as “Ma’am” or “You”, and to itself as “i” or “me”. When speaking to others, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “my Mistress” ,
and to itself as “i” and “me”.
5. The slave shall, at all times, respectfully request permission to take any action not expressly directed by the Mistress. A reason must be
given for such actions at the time of the request.
6. The slave is to use the Mistress’s space with utmost respect and shall always leave any area he is permitted to use in a state of order and
cleanliness. Not withstanding, the slave shall not disturb any of Mistress’s personal belongings without express permission.
7. The slave will never wear underwear, except as the Mistress directs. It is an article of unnecessary clothing. If the slave works on the
outside and must wear something, it will be a jockstrap.
8. The slave will never touch its cock, balls, asshole, or tits without the Mistress’s permission. They are for HER enjoyment only, not the
slave’s.
9. The slave will have no privacy from his Mistress. There is nothing that the slave will not reveal to HER. The slave is the Mistress’s
property and, as such, SHE has the right to know everything.
10. The slave will sleep at the foot of the Mistress’s bed or in a cage as the Mistress requires. The slave will only sleep in the Mistress’s bed
when ordered to do so.
11. At home, the slave will not sit on any furniture unless instructed to do so. The slave will kneel, lay, or sit on the floor atf Her feet, or as
ordered otherwise.
12. The Mistress will train the slave and the slave will always do his best to follow instructions. The slave will learn how to serve his
Mistress’s every need and desire.
13. The slave will never embarrass his Mistress for fear of being severely punished.
14. The slave will always strive to extend his limits to new heights so the Mistress can be increasingly proud of HER property.
15. The slave will willingly accept punishment from the Mistress. It is meant to remind the slave of how he is to behave and perform his
duties to HER.
18. The slave will offer his body and mind to the Mistress at any time SHE desires to use it. The purpose of how SHE uses the slave is
immaterial; it is sufficient that SHE wants to use it.
19. The Mistress will frequently enjoy Herself in ways that may cause the slave great pain. The slave will learn to accept and rejoice in the
fact that it is able to perform that service for HER, even when it means considerable agony.
20. The slave will always wear what the Mistress determines to be the appropriate attire for any given situation. This may be as little as a
jockstrap and slave collar, even in public. The fact that this may cause the slave embarrassment is of no concern. When in the Mistress’s
home or when the Mistress is present in the slave’s home, the slave will remain naked at all times.
21. The slave will keep his genitals shaved of hair, as ordered or as removed by the Mistress. When clothing is required, as determined by
the Mistress, the Mistress will specify it.
22. All orders are subject to verbal modification at the pleasure of the Mistress and the Mistress may impose such additional orders as SHE
deems appropriate.
23. The slave shall keep its mind concentrated solely upon service to the Mistress and shall demonstrate its acceptance of his role of service
and availability at all times.
24. Whenever the Mistress or the slave enters a room in which the other is already present, the slave will immediately kneel and kiss the
Mistress’s feet, unless physically unable to or under previous orders not to. If the Mistress’s clit is free, the slave will take it into its mouth
after kissing the Mistress’s feet and keep it there until the Mistress orders otherwise.
25. The MISTRESS may give the slave “free periods” in His presence, during which the slave may express himself openly and freely. There
will be no punishment applied during “free periods.” It is understood, however, that the slave must still address the MISTRESS with respect
at all times, and that the slave may be punished for infractions of this rule.
INFRACTIONS
The slave is to be punished for all infractions of both the letter and the spirit of this Contract. The form and extent of punishment shall be at
the Mistress’s pleasure and the MISTRESS shall make it clear to the slave that he is being punished when punishment occurs. The slave shall
always thankfully accept punishment as an opportunity to expand in the service of the Mistress.
CONDUCT MODES
The slave shall behave in a manner consistent with the rules set forth in the three conduct modes outlined below. The Mistress may, from
time to time, indicate which mode the slave shall act within by stating the name of the mode to the slave; the mode may change at any
time, depending on circumstances, and the slave must always be aware and conscious of the Mistress’s wishes. The Mistress may institute
a set of silent or otherwise unobtrusive signals to notify the slave of the current mode.
Private Mode
In Private Mode, the slave is bound solely by the rules set forth in the basic Contract and no additional restrictions are imposed upon the
slave’s conduct, save those stated by the Mistress. This mode will normally (though not always) be in effect when the Mistress and the
slave are in the Mistress’s space or in the space of a knowledgeable and/or sympathetic person or persons.
Friendly Mode
Friendly Mode may be in effect in public places such as leather bars, where casual onlookers will understand the dress, demeanor, and
appearance of the Mistress and slave, and the nature of their relationship, for what they are and viewed sympathetically (or at least not
antagonistically).
The following specific rules shall apply to the slave’s conduct and demeanor while in Friendly Mode.
Stationary Position
The slave shall remain at the Mistress’s side at all times unless specifically instructed otherwise. While the Mistress and the slave are
standing in one place, the slave shall maintain a physical position to the right of and one-half step behind the Mistress.
Moving Position
If the Mistress begins to move from one place to another, the slave shall position himself to the right of and slightly behind the Mistress
and move at the same speed as the Mistress. The slave’s position shall be such that he is always within the limit of the Mistress’s peripheral
vision at all times. Under no circumstances shall the slave precede the Mistress, except to open the door or other such service as the
Mistress requires. Elevation
The slave’s eye level shall be below that of the Mistress at all times. Should the Mistress move so that HER eye level is below that of the
slave, the slave shall immediately move so as to correct this imbalance. The General Orders are hereby extended to include all furniture,
not just that in the Mistress’s space: the slave shall therefore go to its knees (or to a lower position, if need be) should the Mistress’s eye
level drop below the slave’s, rather than (for example) sit with the Mistress, unless granted specific permission or specifically ordered to do
so.
The slave shall speak to no one at any time unless first spoken to or instructed to speak by the Mistress. The slave shall treat all persons
with deference and respect, regardless of their demeanor or appearance. The Mistress may, at HER discretion, grant the slave free time. In
this mode, the slave is free to interact normally with acquaintances, but shall make frequent eye contact with the Mistress and be prepared
to go into any other mode the Mistress directs.
Public Mode
Public Mode will generally apply in contexts where the Mistress/slave relationship may not be accepted or understood by those present.
The following rules are, therefore, intended more to ensure the physical safety of the Mistress and slave, rather than to further the
relationship between them.
The following specific rules shall apply to the slave’s behavior in Public Mode. General Demeanor
The slave shall conduct itself at all times in such a manner so as not to call attention to the Mistress and slave.
1. The slave shall immediately, eagerly and without question carry out all commands and orders given to it without exception.
2. The slave shall fully and successfully carry out all such commands and orders, complying completely with both the letter and spirit of
every command.
3. The slave is strictly forbidden to make any errors whatsoever, in carrying out it’s Mistress’s orders and commands.
4. The slave must carry out all orders and commands completely within the time allotted for carrying them out.
5. The slave shall show its Mistress the utmost gratitude for the privilege of carrying out HER orders and commands, offering HER formal
thanks whenever permitted to do so.
6. The slave shall NEVER, for any reason or under any circumstance, question, complain about or refuse an order or command given to it by
its Mistress.
7. The slave shall immediately report to its Mistress upon the complete carrying out of any order or command, except when to do so would
bother or irritate Her.
8. The slave shall humbly and quietly await further orders when it has fully completed one order or command and has reported back to its
Mistress.
9. The slave shall be prepared at all times to have all completed orders, tasks and assignments fully and minutely inspected to see that
every detail has been carried out according to instruction.
10. Any failure on the part of the slave to fully, completely and perfectly carry out its assigned orders shall be considered a serious and
punishable offense.
1. The slave speaks only when spoken to and then says, “Ma’am”, Madame, or Mistress with every sentence.
2. The slave obeys all orders, no matter what. it questions nothing and is well punished if it does.
3. The slave does not sit in its Mistress’s presence. it may stand, kneel, or lay, but sit only when ordered.
4. A slave never wears underwear. it seldom wears anything above the waist outdoors other than its leather (if earned), and indoors little
below the waist other than its chains.
5. The slave may be shaved and instructed to wear its cockring permanently.
6. The slave’s toilet training begins with always obtaining permission to use the bathroom — and is seldom allowed to use it alone.
7. The slave, in its entirety, belongs to its Mistress and, therefore, the slave is not allowed to touch certain areas of itself or its Mistress for
any reason without permission.
8. All of a slave’s possessions are automatically its Mistress’s. The slave owns nothing.
9. The slave lives by a curfew; all personal habits — such as drinking, smoking, eating, sleeping, exercise, and sex — are governed
completely by its Mistress.
10. The slave will do anything that it's Misstress, says no matter what, even if the slave is required to be Her human toilet he will be
grateful for that privilege.
SIGNATURE
By his signature below, the slave acknowledges that it has read, understands, and agrees to abide by the rules of this Contract and he also
understands and accepts that he is forever bound by this contract until such time that Misstress decides to end it, if ever, at Her sole
discretion.