TEENS and STRESS
TEENS and STRESS
Stress is a normal part of life for teenagers and can be caused by many different things.
Teenagers, like adults, may experience stress every day and can benefit from learning stress
management skills. Most teens experience more stress when they perceive a situation as
dangerous, difficult, or painful and they do not have the resources to cope.
COVID 19 pandemic
School demands and frustrations
Negative thoughts or feelings about themselves
Changes in their bodies
Problems with friends and/or peers at school
Unsafe living environment/neighborhood
Separation of parents
Chronic illness or severe problems in the family
Death of a loved one
Moving or changing schools
Taking on too many activities or having too high expectations
Family financial problems
Some teens become overloaded with stress. When this happens, it can lead to anxiety,
withdrawal, aggression, physical illness, or poor coping skills such as drug and/or alcohol use.
When we perceive a situation as difficult or painful, changes occur in our minds and bodies to
prepare us to respond to danger. This “fight, flight, or freeze” response includes faster heart
and breathing rate, increased blood to muscles of arms and legs, cold or clammy hands and
feet, upset stomach and/or a sense of dread.
The same mechanism that turns on the stress response can turn it off. As soon as we decide
that a situation is no longer dangerous, changes can occur in our minds and bodies to help us
relax and calm down. This “relaxation response” includes decreased heart and breathing rate
and a sense of well-being. Teens that develop a “relaxation response” and other stress
management skills feel less helpless and have more choices when responding to stress.
Signs of stress
Teens can decrease stress with the following behaviors and techniques:
Stress on teenagers can be harmful to your health and wellbeing if it seems as though you have
been enduring it for a long time. If you have been showing signs of stress, try our suggested
strategies regularly. However, if you have been stressed for a long period of time, or if nothing
seems to be helping, it’s a good idea to seek some outside help. Have a chat to your family,
your teacher or to our school guidance officer, school nurse and school mental health
coordinator.