Hurdles and Experience of A Solo Parent FINALLLLL
Hurdles and Experience of A Solo Parent FINALLLLL
Castil, Dyan B.
Demanawa, Denmark F.
Demanawa, Michelle F.
Dequilla, Jhonry M.
Lavilla, Alia C.
Marquez, Windy D.
Mendoza, Jean F.
June 2022
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Table of Contents
Pages
Title Page i
Table of Contents ii
CHAPTER I – INTRODUCTION
Research Design 17
Research locale 24
Research Participants 24
Sampling Technique 25
Data Gathering Instrument 25
Data Gathering Procedure 25
Data analysis Method 25
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Chapter 1
INTRODUCTION
In the Philippines, one of the emerging problems that the family faces today is
single parenthood. According to Barajas [4], many adults are experiencing single
parenthood and that almost 50 percent of youngsters born today live with one parent
only. This was supported by a report released in 2012 by the Trade Union Congress
of the Philippine. According to the report, there are almost 14 million single-parent
Filipino who are providing and supporting their families by themselves. These figure
ballooned over the years as revealed in a more recent article by the Federation of
individuals need to face the responsibilities of parenthood living with them .Bianchias
hard because the sole responsibility of rearing the children rest on the single-parent.
Truly, solo parent are expected to double their efforts in their parental roles. They
also need to perform dual tasks to compensate for the absence of their spouse. This
situation poses an ordeal especially to those in the academe who are burndened
with excessive workload. Teacher is indeed the most affective by this scenario. In
the news article release by the Manila Bulletin, Teacher’s organization are
limiting their “clerical task” which require additional responsibilities to teacher sush as
progress,etc[7.]
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disadvantage. In study connected by Hazell [8.] She found that one of the reason wy
teacher leave this career is due to their assignment. Teacher’s found their workload
According to the agency,” Solo Parent are considered a vulnerable sector of society
since raising children on your own is a herculean task , hence, the national and
LGUs should provide them with necessary assistance to help them cope with the
solo parent teacher are useful inputs in designing appropriate intervention that old
that would help them to better perform their jobs and in increasing their productivity
as teacher.
In Finland, about 13 percent of families are single parent families which are
one Percent more than the previous year (Statistics Finland 2019). More than 80%of
Finland. There are a lot of literature, about the effects of single parenthood on
children and the parents but is still a need to carry out a re-search in terms of
strengths and challenges of Finnish single mothers faced during their parenthood.
legal ties to each other. The definition of the family has evolved from a large
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extended family to smaller units, the nuclear family, smaller single-parent families,
Blended families, rainbow families, and families without children. The family Was
relationship between two people. (Sauvola 2001, referring to Jallinoja 2000.) Finland
is well known for its social security. Finland has one of the advanced welfare
systems in the world, built to guarantee dignity and a decent life for all living in
workers ' compensation), welfare (e.g. family support, Childcare, disability services)
and comprehensive health programs are the primary examples of the welfare
system. Child welfare is the biggest concern in Finland. (Expat Finland 2019.)
the problems faced by a single parent are similar to the problems faced by two
parent’s family, but these issues seem to be more difficult to bear and control when
there is only one person at home. The research needs to be carried out to assess
the strengths and difficulties of single mothers in the Finnish context and to find more
Through frequent life in a Solo parent household can be difficult for both the
adult and the children. The demands of caring for the children ,holding a job, and
keeping up with expenses and domestic chores may overwhelm the single parent
Following the parent’s divorce , the family’s finances and resources are usually
substantially decreased .Other families may not encounter the same pressure or
parent here. With the research that to be conduct by the research, we are hopeful
Theoretical Framework
1959.a stage of life's development Sameroff and Feil (1985) postulated four stages
of cognitive development. Parents' thoughts about their offspring, with higher levels
of thought reflecting increasing the distance between parent and child Ellen Galinsky
(1981) created a theory that Parenting is divided into six stages, each of which
years);
(4) Interpretative, or helping the youngster grasp the world (5–12 years); (3) authority
(2–5 years);(5) interdependent, when parents must rebuild their bonds (adolescent
and colorful early behavioral theorist. Though the center-piece of his theory was
focusing on actual behavior rather than introspection, which had previously been the
social learning and child rearing. He used ideas about conditioning from Ivan
the child as little more than a small conditioning machine, fueled by learning. His
to bring them up in, and I’ll guarantee to take any one at random and train him
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to become any type of specialist I might select—a doctor, lawyer, artist, merchant-
chief and yes, even into beggar-man and thief, regardless of his talents, penchants,
A few years later, Watson tempered his claim but not his views when he wrote
that “it is what happens to individuals after birth that makes one a hewer of wood and
such as the one authored by Watson’s theory was based on classical conditioning.
in children and curing such common problems as shyness. He also warned parents
of the dangers of coddling (giving too much affection to) infants, because he was
behavioral theorist who was colorful despite the fact that the center Watson's theory
introspection has been the domain of Watson also founded the field of psychological
research. There is a clear connection between social learning and child parenting.
Ivan Pavlov's conditioning ideas were applied by him and Edward Thorndike to
express his thoughts on how children grow up Watson advocated for severe
child/children.
The study will focuses on the challenges and happiness of a Solo Parent in
raising a child it also cover the aspirations and motivation of a solo parent in raising a
child\ children .There is one Solo parent in Telafas , Columbio, Sultan Kudarat as
Significance of Study
This study will aim to have an in depth understanding on the Challenges and
including bullying.
Researchers will benefited from this study because their will know the Hurdles
and Experience of Solo parent and they will be aware from the situation
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Definition of Terms
The following terms were defined according to how they are being used in study:
Solo Parent- As defined in RA 8972, a solo parent is an individual who falls under
Parent left solo or alone with the responsibility of parenthood due to death
or spouse;
Family- shall refer to the solo parent and his/her child/ children. It also includes any
relative by consanguinity up to the fourth civil degree. These persons shall include,
but not to limited to any uncle, aunt, grandfather, grandmother, niece, nephew or
cousin.
Children- shall refer to those living with and dependent upon the solo parent for
support who are unmarried, unemployed and below 18 years of age, or even 18
years and above but are incapable of self-support and/or are mentally and/or
physically challenged.
Parental Responsibility- with respect to their minor children shall refer to rights
Chapter II
This chapter presents a review of related literature and studies for further
The hardest part of being a single mother is to allocate time and focus on self-
care. Many single working mothers feel tired trying to hold jobs and see that their
children attend extra-curricular activities. One of the challenges most of the single
parent face is loneliness. There is no one to share their difficulties and their joys as
well. If the parent is single because of spouse’s death or any tragedy, it can be even
Single mothers may feel loneliness, traumatic and depression and may feel
difficult to handle the responsibility of childcare and to establish a routine for her
children. (Kotwal & Prabhakar 2009) Both single parents, as well as children, face
gay or lesbian, as well as kids who are adopted, effect on the perception of child
adaptation in various family systems. (Abela & Walker 2013.) There may be a sense
of loss, poverty and continuous exposure to parental arguments. While the parent's
sense of loss is due to the missing spouse. It could be tougher for children at a
young age. The change in parenting status is a difficult change for children to accept.
well-being. (Abela &Walker 2013.) It is even harder to balance work and parenting
for single working mothers. A single mother should care for the kids and provide for
them all on her own. To be able to provide for the children she often has no choice
but has to put in extra working hours. The burden of domestic work is a challenging
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aspect of family life for both single parents and their children. The responsibility for
domestic and child-rearing duties lies with one adult rather than two adults in single-
parent households. They may miss some necessary things. (Abela & Walker 2013.)
disadvantages have been identified (ABS, 2007; Crosier et al., 2007). Similar to
health was generally poorer than other women (Caimey, Boyle, Offord, & Racine,
2003; Crosier et al., 2007; Loxton etal., 2006). A study using cross-sectional data
of 354 single mothers and 1,689 partnered mothers, found nearly twice as many (28.
managed mothers (Crosier et al., 2007). Another study found that since the
psychological loath was poorer for sole mothers in their late 40s to early 50s as
compared to single mothers in their 20s, it may be the factors of age or duration of
single motherhood associated with poorer psychological health (Loxton et al., 2006).
prevalence of moderate to severe levels of mental disability together with high levels
showing young single mothers (18-23 years) twice as likely and middle-aged single
mothers (45-50 years) four times more likely to experience financial stress, even
after relevant controls, as compared to other women (Crosier et al., 2007; Loxton,
“Feminization of poverty” was used to describe the tendency for women and their
there was widespread single motherhood, together with an inadequate social welfare
policy and an unfair labor market for women (Goldberg & Kremen, 1990b). Issues
such as the continued battle for equal pay for women and the lower education level
reported that being in the two lowest equalized household disposable income
quintiles was another factor strongly associated with significantly higher levels of
mothers (Crosier et al., 2007). Further, low levels of perceived social support were
Single mothers reported less perceived social support, lower levels of social
involvement and less contact with friends than manied mothers (Caimey et al.,
2003). Caimey et al. (2003) found that social stressors were identified as the most
important factor associated between single mothers and depression. However, the
role of social suppmi for single mothers has shown to be complex (Mednick, 1987).
There are certain aspects of social support associated with achieving more positive
Dukes, and Lasley (1988) reported it was quality of the social support rather than
hindrance than support. Another example was a study that investigated the
Social support in a group of 83 single mothers (mean age 34 years), in the United
States of America (USA) with a 78% employment rate (D'Ercole, 1988). Social
support came from a few friends or co-workers that contributed to their well-being by
however, assistance from family was often accompanied by conflict, where in some
instances, it was given with a spirit of, "if you had managed better, my help would not
be necessary" (D'Ercole, 1988, p. 50). Another finding was that although support
from the former husband was not related to significant strain towards the single
mothers, it was not a positive influence with some reporting instances where the ex-
husband used the child to hurt the single mother (D'Ercole, 1988). Tension for these
overload (D'Ercole, 1988). Role overload in single motherhood may result from the
being the sole provider, often experienced as excessive (Heath & Orthner, 1999).
With these competing demands, single mothers are required to reconcile the
competing demands in relation to time, energy, and resources (Heath & Orthner,
common due to demands on time for household and child duties, economic
demands for household and child care costs often related to a decreased level of
well-being (Bird,1997 Voydanoff & n'onnelly, 1998). Single mothers are required to
fulfill these competing demands on their own, potentially fulfilling the role of two
parents. Thus, it is not surprising that research suggests that where a single mother
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was the sole household adult, role overload existed being a significant predictor of
strain and stress (D'Ercole, 1988). With the many roles that single motherhood
brings, it is reasonable that the issue of adaptation during the transition into single
motherhood may cause distress (Mednick, 1987). Single motherhood may result
from various circumstances including the end of manage, the death of a spouse or a
child born out of wedlock. In relation to divorce, one factor in adaptation was time,
with research demonstrating mixed results in adapting to divorce (Booth & Amato,
1991; McLanahan, 1983). Previous research has suggested that some people
distress (i.e. two years), with a return to a similar level of functioning shortly
(Amato,2000). Research relating to adaptation after major life events suggested that
adaptation was not an inevitable outcome (Lucas, 2005; 2007). With adaptation into
single motherhood, the issue of stigmatization may arise with the title of single
mother
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Chapter III
Methodology
Research Design
The study uses a phenomenology research design that seeks to have an in-
Telafas, Columbio, Sultan Kudarat. This affects the social, economic and political
aspects of our country. But the big problem is the case of solo parent is kept on
increasing, that affects their children in terms of emotional, social and psychological
aspects.
Research Locale
Research Participant
The respondents of the study are the solo parents in Baranggay. Telafas,
children. The respondents are asked to participants on the interview that would be
conducted.
Sampling Technique
Purposive sampling is used in the study where the researcher would interview
a total twelve (12) respondents that follows the criteria set by the researchers. It
a sample of 13 was deemed sufficient for the qualitative analysis and scale of this
study. The respondents will be taken from the Brgy. Telafas, Columbio, Sultan
individual.
Research Instrument
The study will make of an interview as one of the tools in data gathering that
would discuss the Hurdles and Experiences of a Solo Parent. Furthermore the
analyzed. The questionnaires would measure one that had experience of solo
parent. The survey questionnaire measures the Hurdles and Experience of Solo
Parent by the respondents during the interview and answering the questionnaire.
The interview questionnaires will be the guide and a way to know what are the
Hurdles and Experiences of the Solo Parent in Brgy. Telafas, Columbio, Sultan
Kudarat, the locale of the study. Then, the researcher will schedule a day for the
data gathering that would help the research in conducting the study.
The research would analyze and interpret the data through sorting data based by
the summarization of their answers. The researchers would also make use of
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