TORECreative Project Blog Posts
TORECreative Project Blog Posts
By Beste Töre
This blog, titled "Virtually Yours," presents a series of fifteen posts exploring the complex
relationship between social media, self-identity, and interpersonal dynamics in the context of
digital communication. The project aims to investigate and provide insights into how digital
and social media platforms shape our perceptions of self and others, and how they influence
our daily interactions and societal norms.
Drawing upon academic research and personal observations, the series addresses themes such
as the psychological impact of social media, the authenticity of online personas, digital legacy,
and the societal role of influencers. Each post is designed to be engaging and accessible,
combining theoretical discussion with practical examples and personal reflections.
The creation of this blog series represents an exercise in applying academic concepts to real-
world scenarios and personal experiences. It aims to discover a deeper understanding of the
digital world's effects on our psychology and social interactions. By exploring these themes,
the series encourages readers to critically reflect on their digital habits and to consider the
broader implications of our increasingly online lives. This series not only contributes to the
discourse on digital media and its effects but also reflects a personal journey of exploration and
understanding in the digital age.
As social media platforms have become increasingly integrated into our lives, a corresponding
rise in addiction to digital spaces has been observed. This outcome, driven by easy access and
rapid dissemination of digital content, has facilitated habitual behavior. From embracing a new
day till bedtime, we are constantly exposed to social media platforms. This interaction can be
passive such as absorbing posts by scrolling on your feed or active by uploading and sharing
online. Each time a post is created, a thoughtful process unfolds, considering various aspects of
making an impression. This algorithm runs through the brain because of the modern need for
social approval through these platforms as I delved deeper into my previous work. How much
do you know of your ideology behind constructing a fraction of your online reflection?
The impact of social media on daily life can be detrimental for individuals who have less self-
autonomy. Their pervasive nature allows them to determine daily activities' quality and flow.
Excessive use of social media also leads to a phenomenon called social media burnout. This
can be identified when a person has the constant need to check their social media, refresh pages,
and are unable to benefit from the content consumed, they are said to be experiencing social
media burnout. (Suru, n.d.) It can also cause feelings of loneliness, and fear of missing out, and
affect well-being.
The use of social media significantly impacts mental health. It can enhance connection, increase
self-esteem, and improve a sense of belonging. But it can also lead to tremendous stress,
pressure to compare oneself to others, and increased sadness and isolation. (Zsila, 2023) The
comparison may lead to experiencing envy since it can be about possessions either physical,
materialistic, or general mood and satisfaction that the others seem to have. If you feel envy, it
can be implemented that you also feel anger, hate towards others inferiority, and lower self-
esteem towards self that would lead to depression.
Although social media may improve connection, since the medium is virtual, having an
authentic relationship would be a challenge. In general, social media tends to appear in contexts
about its negative effects and so on. However, in the case of self-perception, constructing
identities that may not reflect reality has been out there forever. People are inclined to portray
a false image to maintain relationships, especially romantic ones. There is a saying that goes
around that “marriage kills love” which might be rooted in to act of enhancing oneself to not
scare away the significant other. Since we are already familiar with this concept, why it has
been a big deal doing it on social media, or why do people mention this frequently?
The first thing is, that it is relatively easier to construct an “ideal” or “better” version of self
compared to real life. There are so many tools for enhancing aesthetics to reach the standards.
Moreover, only the “highlights” gets to be posted. You would not see a person who loses a
competition and shares it unless there are other motives such as gaining sympathy by raising
awareness.
Even with a picture-perfect profile with a great number of interactions and followers, true
satisfaction can’t be achieved without authenticity. Deep down, impostor syndrome might creep
in because there is a question of whether you would maintain that interaction if you share things
that reflect your true self.
There are some strategies followed to prevent those negative emotions like being aware of the
time you spend on social media thereby having control over it. As I mentioned in this post,
keeping in mind that social media may not reflect reality stop comparing yourself to others.
From time to time, having a break from digital environments can help you to have a healthy
mindset. In addition, be mindful about the content you are being exposed to. Consider
unfollowing accounts that hurt you and follow the inspiring ones. Lastly, try to understand the
thought process and negative feelings, especially the correlation with the use of social media.
Reflect on your social media patterns: Are you presenting your true self? How do you feel after
spending time on these platforms?
There is no harm in wanting to be assured from now and then. You may want to check if you
are slaying with your outfit of the day or whether to get that haircut. It is not a problem unless
it becomes necessary for your survival. According to Ph.D. Bonnie Zucker, “Reassurance
seeking becomes a problem when it's more frequent and when a person becomes more
dependent on it.” Its prevalence on social platforms can be observed through some common
phrases such as “Please don’t forget to like and subscribe to my channel” or “Can you follow
me back?”
People can risk personal data solely to make a good impression as mentioned in the previous
post. I didn’t mind sharing a story on Instagram, a public account, that had a document revealing
important data just because I cracked a nice joke and the video was fun. But this desire for
validation extends beyond the superficial. In the digital age, the term “binge-scrolling” has
become increasingly relevant. It's not just about scrolling through social media feeds aimlessly;
it's about the constant need to seek validation through likes, comments, and shares. This
behavior is not only addictive but can also lead to a distorted sense of self-worth.
Final Thoughts
In conclusion, while seeking reassurance is a natural human tendency, it’s crucial to be mindful
of how this behavior manifests in our digital lives. Understanding the psychological
implications of our craving for online approval can help us navigate social media more healthily
and authentically. As we continue to explore the complex dynamics of social media in our lives,
it’s important to embrace a sense of self that is not solely dependent on virtual validation but
grounded in the reality of our everyday experiences.
In our new reality where the tap of a finger can add a filter, brighten a smile, or erase a flaw,
social media has become a canvas for the art of illusion. This illusion, a meticulously composed
showcase of perfection, passes through our social feeds, often leaving us in admiration and,
sometimes, in doubt of our own lives.
Finding Balance
While it's not inherently wrong to share the best parts of our lives, finding a balance is key. It's
about embracing authenticity and remembering that it's okay not to be perfect. Encouraging
posts that show the unfiltered, less glamorous aspects of life can promote a more realistic and
healthy relationship with social media.
As we scroll through our feeds, it's important to remind ourselves that what we're seeing is often
a highlight reel, not the full story. By recognizing the illusion of perfection and valuing
authenticity, we can start to appreciate our own lives, imperfections, and all. The question then
becomes, how can we, as active social media users, contribute to a more genuine and less
filtered digital world?
The influence of social media on our opinions and worldviews cannot be underestimated. By
understanding the mechanisms of echo chambers and actively seeking diverse perspectives, we
can reduce their impact on our understanding of the world. As we take place in these digital
spaces, it's crucial to remain conscious of how they shape our perceptions and look for a more
balanced and comprehensive online experience.
The phenomenon of 'selfie' has become more than just a trend; it has integrated into our cultural
norms. But as we snap and share these personal portraits, a question arises: Are we engaging in
harmless self-expression, or are we falling into a trap of digital narcissism?
Self-Expression or Narcissism?
The debate around selfies often centers on whether they intend to reflect self-expression or an
unhealthy narcissistic trait. Psychologists have found that while taking selfies can be a form of
self-exploration and expression, an overemphasis on one's image can also lead to narcissistic
behaviors. Dr. Pamela Rutledge explains, "While selfies can be a way of asserting one's self-
confidence and identity, excessive posting may be associated with social narcissism" (Rutledge,
2014). If one tries to analyze the reasoning behind this excessive sharing habit, it implies above-
average self-admiration.
The selfie culture is a complex blend of self-expression and the potential for narcissistic
behavior, heavily influenced by the dynamics of social media. Recognizing the reasons behind
our selfie-taking and wantıng to achieve a balanced approach is crucial. As we navigate this
digital environment, the challenge lies in embracing our authentic selves without being enslaved
to digital validation.
In some popular digital platforms, hashtags have been generated from a simple tagging
mechanism to powerful tools of activism and cultural expression. They have become symbols
of collective voice and identity, shaping movements and memes that echo across the digital
space.
The Birth of a Digital Rallying Cry
Hashtags were initially designed to categorize content on social media. However, their role
expanded dramatically following the use of #OccupyWallStreet in 2011, which marked a
turning point in digital activism. This trend was further solidified with movements like
#BlackLivesMatter, demonstrating the hashtag’s power to unite people around a cause (Bonilla
& Rosa, 2015). From what I have observed in my country, Turkey, the government does not
take action unless a hashtag about the incident goes viral.
The lines between authenticity and aspiration often blur in our digital representations. Social
media provides a platform for self-expression, yet it also tempts us to create an idealized online
persona. This duality raises a fundamental question: How do we navigate our identity in the
online world?
Memes have emerged as a unique and powerful form of communication. They are more than
just internet jokes; memes represent a complex combination of humor, sarcasm, and cultural
criticism, making up what is often referred to as the 'meme economy.'
Economic Influence
The influencer economy is substantial. As per a report by Business Insider, the influencer
marketing industry is set to grow to approximately $15 billion by 2022. Influencers can
monetize their platforms through sponsored content, affiliate marketing, merchandise, and even
their product lines.
Cultural Impact
Influencers also shape cultural trends and societal norms. Their reach and ability to engage
with large audiences have made them trendsetters and cultural icons. However, this influence
can be double-edged, as influencers have the power to both positively and negatively impact
societal values and behaviors.
Ethical Considerations and Authenticity
As the influencer industry grows, so do concerns about authenticity and ethical practices. The
issue of undisclosed sponsorships or misleading content poses a challenge to the authenticity
that is at the core of influencer appeal. Regulations, such as those by the Federal Trade
Commission (FTC) in the United States, have been put in place to ensure transparency in
influencer marketing.
In the vast and interconnected realm of social media, every click, like, and share leaves a digital
footprint. These data trails are invaluable to companies but raise significant privacy concerns
for users. This post observes the complex world of data privacy and profiling in social media.
Some individuals may stand out in online media platforms by turning their online presence into
a force for good. This post celebrates those who have moved from being mere followers to
becoming leaders, using social media to drive positive change and inspire others.
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