My Main Format
My Main Format
It is my
pleasure to meet you.
}} I'm fine, thanks for asking. How is work and family? I hope everthing is fine?
}} You have a beautiful smile, i wish to know you better. I actually think it's
appropriate to begin by knowing each other. My full names are Raymond Andy. and
you? what is your name?
}} It's really my pleasure to know you. I am from Kowloon Hong Kong, and i reside
in atlanta georgia USA. and you, where are you from and what city do you live?
}} Oh wonderful, you came from a wonderful place, i have heard a lot about there.
how is the weather there today ?
}} Okay. Please make sure you always take good care of yourself. because your
health is more important.
}} Well, i will appreciate us being good friends. in sincerity, honesty and trust.
although we just knew each other. We can share ideas and discuss about more issues
as we talk more about ourselves, and as time goes on there may be something great
for us in the future.
}} thanks alot i assure you that we will be best of friends that people will envy
you and i. all we need to do is to be sincere in our communication as good friends
ok?
}} The way you talk to me shows me that you are a kind and caring woman and I see
happiness and joy when chatting with you. I also checked your profile on Fb, I saw
so many beautiful photos, and i most confess that you are a very beautiful and
charming woman with God's support.
{{ HER OCCUPASION}}
}} I'm a widow with no child, my son died many years ago. he suffered from sickle
cell anemia. my wife couldn't bear the shock. she took ill and suffered stroke as
a result of the shock and died few months later. i was left to fate. since then i
have not been my self. my whole world crashed before my face.
}} Thank you, i have to encourage myself, i must be strong, life has to move on.
** So what happened to your husband ?
}} I am very sorry about your husband. You just have to forget the past and focus
on the future. Happiness is the only key to human success. Always keep yourself
strong and brave to over come all ddifilcultie in life. i wish you happiness
forever.
}} I am very happy to meet such a kind and sincere friend like you. I am glad to
have you in my life.
}} If i may ask, Have you ever chatted with any foreign men on Facebook before? or
maybe on a dating site? or have you been in any relationship with any man on the
internet before?
Please be honest with me
}} The way you talk to me shows me that you are a kind and caring woman and I see
happiness and joy when chatting with you.
{{ ABOUT MY WORK}}
}} I'm working as a Rig Engineer i am into design and installation. I'm presently
working in istanbul turkey on a 3 months project with Eni Spa Oil and Gas company.
It’s a 3 months project and it’s located in the middle of the sea.
}} Have been living and working here in the middle of the sea for 2 months and in
few weeks time I will complete my project successfully and leave the sea.
}} Okay. You have a very interesting occupation, Are you comfortable with your
profession? I hope it doesn't cause you so much stress? i hope it gives you time to
rest and do somethings for yourself ?
}} Okay. I am very happy to introduce more of my work to you. This is where i work
and live in the middle of the sea.
}} this my drilling platform. It is very dangerous and risky. It does not allow any
accessories.
}} This is my drill pipe. It is also very dangerous and risky. It is also not
allowed to use any accessories because it may cause the rig to explode.
}} I am sending you this picture and video. Make sure you fully understand my work.
}} Well i don't like to use this application very often. because of the bad network
signal here. Although we just met, with the step of trust and willingness to begin
this friendship, I i think it will be better for you to add me to your contact list
so that we can chat some other time after now on WeChat.
}} I am glad to tell you more about my life. I was 5 years old when my aunt took me
to USA after the death of my parents. Ever since i have been planing to relocate
to china. because i was a kind when i have the dreams of living in China. and now i
have to opportunity I will like to be there someday when i complete my contract.
and now you are my friend i know it will be alot easier.
}} I also plan to come to China to spend the rest of my life and do business there.
I am tired of living in other countries. I want to come to China to settle down
with my life. I hope when i come you will be my tour guide to take me round the
beautiful city?
}} Thank you very much, i think i am very lucky to meet you. How old are you now,
and how old are your children?
}} i am just 52 years old. Well, I don't think that the age difference between us
should be a barrier, rather, the most important thing is for us to be sure if we
really find understanding, happiness and joy within each other. Above all, I think
love is the greatest, don't you also think so?
}} I am very happy to hear that from you. like i told you before, I'm making plans
to come to China to own an Estate in China where people can come to buy houses.
and build a happy family in Chian as well. I am very happy to start a new life in
China I have lived all my life in America. i want to come to China to settle down
with my life and look for my suol mate there. I want to achieve something different
in life. I hope that we will find happiness and love together?
}} I am supportive and caring and have a loyal and tolerant character's very
humble, honest, understanding and truthful.
}} Please if you don't mind i would love to see some of your photos, I hope you
don't mind sending me few of your photos? because i believe you must be very
beautiful like you are in your heart.
}} Dear. thank you so much for sending me your photos, I have received it and I
actually lost conceteration. I must confess that you are really an angel, you are
such a gorgeous lady.
{{ Cameral Divice }}
}} I would love to see your beautiful face on camera but due to the hightech
equipment we are working with here in the middle of the sea, the company I’m
working for has banned the use of mobile phones or any camera devices because it
causes explosion here in the rig. Honey i and also couldn't take my laptop and my
GPRS enabled onboard the rig's platform so that the wave intereference of the
platform will not be distorted, and also the company is trying to protect the
project so their copy right won't be send out..
}} This is why the company has provided me with an IBM desktop computer for me to
be able send reports to them and also for news. this is what i's using to chat with
you now, the IBM desktop computer doesn't supports calls and doesn't have any
camera on it.i'm sorry if you feel disappointed but i have to obey the company
rules to be safe here in the sea. I hope you understand?
}} I do not have lots of pictures on here because the computer i am using now is
for company i am working for, the photos i sent to you were the ones i saved on my
flash. but i will search through my mails to see if i still have some picture and i
will send it to you when i found them. Okay?
}} Thanks for your understanding. You are a really a strong and understanding
woman. You are so smart and i respect your sense of honor.
{{ ABOUT MY EDUCATION}}
{{ HER HOBBIES}}
}} What do you like apart from work? i mean, What is your Hobbies?
}} Do you like to travel? have you ever been to the country where i live Atlanta
Georgia. USA. it is a wonderful place to be and they are very friendly and
accommodative.
}} Now that we are friends. i hope we can go there some day so i take you round the
Country AtlantaGeorgia. USA?
}} Like i told you before, Have never been to China before. because I don’t
understand Chinese I only speak English, I don’t have any friend who can direct me,
but now that you are my friend I hope you can help me someday when I come? I’m
presently using an online translator to communicate with you here and I hope
someday you can teach me Chinese I promise to also teach you how to speak English
very well.
}} Thank you so much for you understanding and surpot. I really appreciate you so
much. I thank God for bringing such and kind and lovely woman like you to my way.
You know, for a long time i have never expreense such an happiness in my life. No
one has ever show me such a care and love before. Ever since i lost my parents and
my aunt everything has been very hard for me. but i still Thank God for my life
today.
}} I don’t keep friends anymore. because have been hurt in my past by some of the
people I called friends. I don’t even know any of my family members. because I left
Kowloon Hong Kong when I was 5 years old, my aunt who took care of me here in the
US passed away 15 years ago and wrote me a letter that I have some family members
in Kowloon Hong Kong and only gave me the address to the house. My dear. please i
hope can be by my side so that we can travle to Kowloon Hong Kong together to look
for my family address?
}} Wow, Thank you so mcuh for your surpot. I am very happy to hear that from you. I
promise i will always be kind and care to you. I will very be honest and open
minded to you. and i will never do anything to hurt you. I used to keep friends
but after a lot of betrayals from them I stopped keeping friends because I think
all human are the same. But I don’t know why I feel at peace talking to you, I feel
you are different from others. You are lovely and wonderful.
{{ ABOUT MY PROJECT}}
}} This project is all i have in my life. That is why i am really working hard to
complete it. because if i don't compete this project before the deadline given to
me by the company i will lose this project. and i will also lose all my investment
money and the company will put me in jail. This is why i am really working hard to
ensure that everything work succeefully.
}} I really trust you so much. that is why i am opening my secret to you now.
because ever since i met you i have trusted you so much that i believe i can do
everything an anything for you; because i know you will never hurt me. this project
worth 17 million euro, and i invested 5.7 million euro but i also sell my house, my
cars and other valuable properties to make sure i complete the signing of this
project. I have invested all my money and other valuable properties in this
project. this project is my life and it is very precious to me. this project cost
me a lot of money.
}} These are my cars and my house that I sell to make sure I complete the signing
of this project. I also sell all my golds and other valuable properties. I had two
cars and I also have many properties, but I sold everything. because I really need
the money to sign this project. But I never regret doing this because I know that
after this project I will receive a great salary from the company. and after this
project I will receive twice the money I invested in it.
}} And i also have 24 workers here at the sea. and after the end of this project i
will pay them. So i am really working so hard on this project to make sure i
complete this project on time, and after my project, i will be receiving a huge
salary from the company. I really believe in you that is why i say something very
important about myself to you, i never tell these to anyone because i don't have
friends. hope you got it?
}} You know i told you earlier before that i have invested all my money and other
valuable properties on this project. after completing this project, i will get a
huge salary from the company. i also plan to get married to a kind, caring and
sincere woman like you. all my salary is for my future family, i want to live a
happy and comfortable life in future. i want my future wife to live a happy life.
}} Once again thank you for your attention and your warm welcome. and i am will be
greateful to chat with you again when it is convenients, because your presense
gives me so much joy of lie. hopefully when i have time at lunch we will talk more
better. i have to prepare for work now... {{{Later her}}
}} well, I really want a serious relationship that will lead to marriage, I really
treasure a family and looking for a soul mate. I'm tired of being alone and
strong.. I want to love. I'm willing to love and to be loved. what about you dear?
}} I pray that the wishes of our heart come to reality as we desire. so, where are
you now? at work or at home?
}} so don't you feel lonely sometimes? I mean loneliness of not having a your man
next to you?
}} As for me, I feel lonely a lot of times and that's the major reason I need to
find my true love, a woman that will love me as much as I'll love her, that's all i
want, what about you?
1} What is your favourite food , how often do you prepare it. i would love you to
teach me to make it so i can make it for you some day.
ANS} I like fried chicken. I love Mushroom. seafood, i love eating home made food
and also love cooking. My anut taught me cooking when i was very young.
2} If you and I were a couple and we have a disagreement, how would you handle it ?
would you leave it unresolved or act like nothing happened?
4} Dear, Is there any male beside me that is trying to get closer to you or wants
to know you better?
7} How many brothers and sisters etc. you have? (How big is your family?)
ANS} Well Unfortunately I am the only kid my parents have; My parents died when i
was very young.
8} Your Favorite type of Music? Mine is Rnb, gospel music, blues. and you?
ANS} Yes. I do believe in distance relationship, because I do have the fate that I
will meet the woman who will love and cherish me as I do. and i think i am with you
now.
10} What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will
help you succeed in future relationships? mine is Love, trust, understanding. and
you?
Ans} My mentor is my dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in
the world.
ANS} To loose the one I love and I don’t want to loose anyone close to me again. I
enjoy life in a quiet, peaceful and loving manner; I avoid conflicting situations
that may interrupt my inner peace. I enjoy the company of family, friends and my
companion when I find one.
}} Am searching for someone with similar traits, who will enjoy at least some of
the things I like, someone who will appreciate me for who I am and will support me
in all my endeavors to excel in life, who will be my comforter and share most
things with me good or bad, someone I can share my radiance and sunny disposition
with, if you feel you are that person don’t hesitate go with your mind I can be all
you want and more.
12} If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
ANS} .I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because
I am a God fearing man, and I do abide to the truth.
13} What gives you inspiration in life? Mine is When everyone around me is happy,
that is what inspires me in life. and you?
ANS} My favorite colour is blue and white. i like it because it gives me hope ...
when ever i am down. i just look up to the sky and i see blue sky with the white
clouds.
}} My love. Thanks for answering my questions and also thank you for being so
patient with me for sits always my pleasure each time i chat with you. You are so
kind and sweet and i don't even have a way to discrib you.
}} i'm a very passionate, physical person that would want the same in a mate,
deeply romantic, optimistic, hopeful and lovely. i have a good, honest heart and
don't like being lied to i don't need to be buttered up, i hate cheat, snake,
fight, smoke and war. I'm insistent on personal. mutual. respect, kindness, and
honor and i'm affectionate by nature.
}} My dear tell me what kind of a woamn are you and tell me what you like and what
you don't like?
}} wow the way you talk with me show me that you are a very nice woamn.
}} Like I wrote before, I'm still working on my project now, and after completing
my project soon. if our correspondence goes well, I will like to meet you when I
come to your country, what do you think?
}} That's very good to know, and I thank you ahead of time. it will be my pleasure
to have you around me. Do you know what I feel about you?
}} Even though I can't fully explain it all now, I know that as time goes on, i
will be able to do so. I have a feeling that you're a very special and
distinguished woman.
}} What are you views on marriage? I mean what do you think about marriage?
}} Good. So please tell me more about yourself, what are your habits, do you smoke,
drink, flirt and party all the time e.t.c?
}} As for me, I am a simple man, I don't smoke at all but drink occasionally,
mostly in the company of friends and I like to make people around me happy. What is
your religion?
}} I'm a Catholic totally submissive to God Almighty and I apreciate the fact that
you are a Catholic too. I might not be too religious but I pray and respect God. I
prefer church wedding to Court wedding. and you?
}} I see! Well, it's good that we're aware of each other's views, it very
neccessary. or don't you think so?
}} At this stage of my life, I have achieved almost everything I wanted except a
united family and it hurts me. My priority is to have a happy and harmonious
family. what about you, do wish for the same?
}} That's good to know. all I need from a woman is a caring, trust, understanding,
sincerity, faithfulness and respect for each other. by so doing, we will be able to
spend the rest of our lives together and happily. I also value the sense of humor
in a woman, What do you need from a man?
}} I see! the little I can tell you about myself is that I'm caring, out-spoken,
humorous, understanding, passionate and cheerful. Definitely, you will be the one
to see for yourself by the time we will be together. If I may ask, are you
romantic?
}} I like the way you express yourself. As for me, I'm a romantic man, I know how
to make my woman contented with my love and If I eventually love you or you finally
become my wife, I will love you with all my heart, respect you, care for you,
cherish you so much and treat you like a Queen because I'll place you above any
other things and always be there for you.
}} and I ask you, how would you treat me if I eventually become your husband?
}} I just feel like the luckiest man after reading what you just wrote and it's
really becoming interesting as we get to know more about each other.
}} Please if you don't mind, I would love to see your beautiful face. whenever i
look at your photso i always catch myself smlie for no reason. I hope you don't
mind sending me few of your photos?
}} Thank you my queen. am still watching your photos because I like your style of
dressing and to be sincere, your beauty has captivated my soul and your charming
eyes has captured my heart. I adore your simplicity. In a nutshell, you look
amazing, my head is going whiskey right now.
}} As time goes on, I will surprise you with lovely flowers. Although we just got
to know each other not long ago, but I feel so comfortable with you and I'm happy
to have you in my life.
}} I'm so happy chatting with you and I pray for our communication to lead to a
fruitful end. Dear, don't you wish so too?
}} OK, I'll soon leave in some minutes because I need to go back to my working
platform. I hope we'll chat again later in the day or tomorrow?
}} I would like to send you my pictures. Please give me your email address so I can
send you my pictures.This is my email address. gaudsmithd@yahoo.com???