40 Field-Tested

Lines To Create
Attraction

Presented by Giovanni The Coach

Social Skills Coach at
High Integrity Skills
Hey Truth Seeker,
The good stuff is on the next page.
If you’re here now you may be struggling like I was a decade ago to consistently get dates.
Especially dates with women of quality who also liked me as much as I liked them.
These 40 lines hand-plucked from my 15+ years in-field with women I've been fortunate enough
to meet on my "single" journey. I have grouped the lines into the following sections: cold
approach, online dating, and attraction and connection triggers, and high status texts/DMs. This
way, whether you are meeting her for the first time on the street or writing your first message on
a dating app, you’ll know exactly what to say.
When going after what you want in your dating life as a man, remember that your success often
depend on your ability to convey 3 things: value, congruence, and willingness to walk away.
Also, your style, voice, body language and tonality will determine your success rate.
If you want the principles behind these lines and how to customize them to your own core
personality to be even more powerful, consider checking out my First Date Formula.
In this master course, I give you the 300+ lines and first-principles I use from meet to starting an
intimate relationship with amazing women that I’ve used over the last 15 years. You’ll
understand how to develop lines that are unique to your core personality and how to build a lead
funnel using approaches, with your online dating, and your social circle. It has everything you
need to get dating handled.
-Giovanni The Coach
 Cold Approaching / First Interaction

My Default Openers

#1 You’re cute, are you also interesting?

#2 Hey. You looked interesting and I wanted to meet you

#3 Hey, how much did you pay all these guys to stand next to you? Kidding. I’m [Name]

(9 or 10, works on club girls most guys are too afraid to approach)

Opinion Opener

#4 Hey, let me get your take on something. I have to get back my friends in a minute, but while
I’m here, I was wondering if you have an opinion about what I can say to my little
sister/mom/female friend wanting to get tattoos?

Role Playing

#5 My mom told me to come to the club and find a nice girl. So. Hi.

Funny Openers

#6 Ok I'm here, what are your other 2 wishes?

#6B How much does a polar bear weigh? Enough to break the ice. Hey I’m [Name]

Sexual / Blow Out Openers (High Risk, High Reward. There are just for practicing not
caring about rejection or having fun – not high success rate for getting first dates)

#7 Hey, what are you doing later? Do you want to come home with me (HOLD)

#8 So, sex now, or after dinner? Kidding. Hey I’m [Name]

Transition / Cold Read

#9 Are you more of a tea, coffee or a smoothie person?

#10 What’s your view on salsa dancing and witty banter with cute boys?

Banter

#11 I like you, so far… but I think we should take things slow

#12 You’re kinda cool… you can be my girlfriend for the next 5 minutes

Sexual Banter (use after you have compliance and comfort)

#13 Those are really nice shoes. [Pause] they would look better on… my bedroom floor

#14 Did you know that 93% of all women masturbate in the shower? (their response) Do you
know what the other 7% do? (they say no) Oh. So you’re one of the ones…who… (nod
knowingly) – Credit: Mystery (Erik)

Qualification / Reverse The Chase

#15 You are by far the coolest girl I’ve met… in the last couple hours… who is 5’7” … and

wearing red shoes ;)

#16 You’re cute, but what do you have going for you besides your looks that would make

me want to know you better?

#17 You look sweet and innocent but something tells me you’re not.

Connection Triggers

#18 If a genie came along and you could be POOF anything you want to be… what would you
choose? And don’t say princess.
#19 What talents do you have that would surprise people? Can you cook? Can you dance? [Cool
when I grew up…. – vulnerability story]

Disqualification (only work if she’s somewhat invested)

#20 Too bad you’re not my type. So don’t even try hitting on me. (Only works on stunners 9s
and 10s)

#21 Man I would be such a horrible boyfriend. I’d probably cheat on you, never shower, your
heart would be broken. You should go for that guy over there. Let’s go talk to him right now.

Push Pull / High Value Banter / Role Reversal

#22 Hey quit looking at my chest. My eyes are up here!

#23 I swear all you girls think about is one thing…

#24 You’re getting me all emotional. I promised my friends I wouldn’t go home with anyone
tonight.

Cuddle Party (Works really well if you have a lot of female friends)

#25 So, we’re going to have a cuddle party at my house next week. You bring all the girls; I’ll
make sure [Your Name] is there. (Credit: Braddock)

Routines

#26 Okay, here’s a sobering fact for you. How many days do you think there are in an average
human life? Don’t try to do the math or anything, just tell me the number that you think it
is. 28,000. Isn’t that sobering? It just goes to show how limited our time on this earth is. Makes
you ask what you’re doing with your life, doesn’t it? My passion is… What’s yours? – Adapted
from Mystery
#27 Questions game (5 lies for drinks)

Texting

Ping Texts (checking temperature)

#28: Us not talking for 2 months is going beyond playing hard to get. You’re going to drive me
into the arms of several other women at this rate. (Credit: Braddock)

Role Playing Texts

#29 The rent is due and the kids are hungry. Don’t worry I got it but when are you coming home
honey?

Voicemails (Yes they still work if done correctly)

#30 Hey Laura… this is Jason. People don’t use voicemails anymore these days but I said I
would call and I’m a man of my word and I never lie. Except when there are puppies involved. I
would lie to get out of work and go pet puppies. Maybe we can go do it together someone.

Online Dating Opening Messages

#31 Serious question: let’s say I’m taking you out for sushi: one reason or another I’m starving,
I haven’t eaten anything all day and you’re in the shower. How long until we’re out the door?

1. 30 minutes and you look hot, and I can’t keep my hands off you?
2. 15 minutes and you look pretty cute
3. 2 hours and I die from starvation

(This works on more serious dating apps/sites)

Flake message (if she’s MIA – high risk, high reward)

#32 Aliens are coming to abduct all the good looking people tomorrow. I’m just writing to say
goodbye. Don’t worry you’ll be fine.
She’s late / flakey

#33 Whatever. And I dedicated my life to building orphanages for puppies that cannot bark (Or,
kittens that can’t meow!) Don’t make excuses because you can’t show up on time! The puppies
can’t wait!

Related Question Text / Connection Triggers

#34 You mentioned something the other night that stuck in my mind a little, are you an only
child or are you from a really big family

#35 When you were a kid, did you [insert unique thing you did as a kid ages 5-10]

#36 You mentioned your dad passed away when you were 10. I was thinking the other day – is
that why you went to university in Paris to study business? [callback connection]

Alright Truth-seeker…
I hope you enjoy using these 33+ lines above.
If you want the principles behind these lines and how to customize them to your own core
personality to be even more powerful, consider checking out my First Date Formula.
A step by step formula that shows you what to say, and how to say it from the moment you meet
/ match with her, to your beautiful first date. In this course, I give you 1 on 1 instruction on how
you can deliver these lines and customize them for your personality to attract your perfect 10.

Remember – these lines are training wheels – HOW you say them is more important and the
intention and energy behind it is key. Always leave the girl better off, and have the intention of
making everyone’s interaction more fun, and more exciting.
 7 Texts/Messages
She Can't Resist

"Just be yourself", "don't play games", "she

will like you eventually"...

Some well-intentioned advice from people

who love you, but if you're reading this now
you know that doesn't work.

The truth is... until you know what to send

her to get to that "hook point" where you're
not just "another profile" she's swiping or a
random number...

Good messaging is the difference between

you being "that rando guy I swiped on once"
vs. "let me introduce you to my new
boyfriend"

What you write matters to women.

The following 7 texts have been field-tested

by hundreds of clients already. Some are more
aggressive than others, so choose the ones that
best resonates with your core personality, and
determine if you are going for shorter term
(higher risk) or longer term relationships.

To Finding Love,
Giovanni The Coach

Highintegrityskills.com
1 Press 1 for funny joke or 2 for character-
defining question
If she replies with "1", Google your favorite joke. If she replies with
2, you can use one of the connection building lines here:
highintegrityskills.com/36

2 Thinking about asking a cute 5'7 brunette

with a funny laugh out on a date. What
should I text her?
They key here is you describing her exactly. She'll catch on
soon with a smile on her face.

3 Your smile is the second favorite thing I

like about you
This is an open loop compliment. She'll reply bc she's
thinking about what the #1 thing is you like about her.

4 Hey, listen, sorry I haven’t called. My dog

ate my homework and um, my phone, um,
stopped, working. But I'm totally down to
hangout this week
A funny roleplay with wild excuses if she's been silent or busy
on text. It's also a "frame reversal" on the "no reply" types.

5
Meet for a drink somewhere public in
case you are nuts. P.S. No sex on the first
date so don’t even try it
This is a form of role reversal that let's her know the troubles
women go through to find the right guy.

6
I know we look like 2 completely different
people. Wouldn't it be interesting to see
if have common interests

This is good if you look different than her (race/age/culture)

7
I’m coming over and sleeping in your bed
tonight, you are welcome to join if you
want.
This is good on vacation, high risk high reward. You can always
follow-up with "jk". Do it with good intentions. Women like sex
too, you just have to respect her timeline.
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