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Chapter 10
CHILDHOOD PARENTING:
MAIN APPROACHES AND ASPECTS
ANALYZED FROM PSYCHOLOGY
ABSTRACT
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Address Correspondence to: Prof. Jael Vargas Rubilar, Ph.D. E-mail: psicojael@gmail.com.
INTRODUCTION
PARENTAL STRUCTURE
From previous studies to the most recent ones, it has been argued that
parental construction is an extremely complex process.
According to Bowlby (1969), nurturing behavior is not the result of an
invariable nurturing instinct or just a product of learning. The author asserts
that this process has powerful biologic origins that explain the strong
emotions associated with it; however, the style that this behavior adopts
largely depends on the lived experiences during childhood and adolescence
by both parents and children individually.
In turn, Bornstein (2007) also considers that the direct parental influence
on children consists of two basic factors: genetics and experience. The
From its beginnings until now, the theory of attachment has become one
of the most important theoretical approaches in the study of the bond
between parents and children.
From Sigmund Freud (1925) to many other renowned exponents of
psychoanalysis, such as Melanie Klein (1929), René Spitz (1945), James
Robertson (1952), and Donald Winnicott (1957), there have been many
important contributions regarding the relationship between the quality of
attachment and child development.
The origins of this line of research date back to the thirties and forties,
with the work of clinicians who observed the negative effects on children’s
personality development after prolonged institutional care or frequent
changes of the mother figure during children’s early years of life. Later,
many outstanding publications confirmed these results (e.g., Bender, 1947,
Bender & Yarnell, 1941, Levy, 1937, among others, cited in Bowlby, 1988).
A pioneer in the study of attachment was John Bowlby (1969), whose
ethological approach to parenting laid the foundations for many later studies
on child care. Bowlby (1969, 1973) proposed that the bond between mother
and child was the result of a partly pre-programmed set of behavioral
patterns that developed during the first few months of life and enabled the
child-caretaker attachment. For Bowlby (1988), this relationship can be
understood as a biological and relational need for the child to look for
security and comfort in a significant adult under conditions of stress.
However, in his work, he concluded that attachment behavior was not
limited only to childhood, as it may arise in the event of stress, anguish or
anxiety in adolescence and adulthood, albeit less frequently. If the previous
attachment relationship is reliable, then positive emotions, such as security,
would prevail. In turn, the type of attachment behavior that children will
develop would largely depend on their lived experiences with their family
of origin.
John Bowlby (1976, 1988) stated that the mother-child bond is based on
attachment, understood as an innate motivational system that increases the
child’s chances of survival by maintaining proximity with his main
caregiver. From this perspective, attachment would play a crucial role
throughout the life cycle by means of a progressive internalization of this
relationship as an internal working model. Thus, different experiences with
the primary bond would be reflected in different expectations about the
caregiver’s availability, the self and the view of social relationships and the
world (Bowlby, 1988).
Research that has focused on the mother-child bond emphasizes the
ability of the healthy neonate to interact socially with the mother and her
ability to be aware of the neonate’s attempt at social interaction and to
respond to the child’s needs accordingly. In this line of research, the study
of Mary Ainsworth (1969) on the Strange Situation and the studies of other
important researchers (Sander, 1977, Schaeffer, 1979, Spitz, 1969, Stern,
1977, Winiccott, 1974, cited in Bowlby, 1988) can be highlighted.
Subsequently, Main and Weston (1981) expanded Ainsworth’s work by
observing children in their relationship first with the mother and a few
months later with the father. These authors found that the patterns of
attachment to mothers and fathers were very similar. However, individual
analysis showed that each child can have a safe relationship with the mother
but not with the father and vice versa. In turn, those who had a reliable
relationship with both parents were more confident. Those who did not have
a reliable relationship with any of them were insecure, and those who had
developed attachment to one of them showed intermediate scores.
Current studies have concluded that attachment would begin to develop
during pregnancy in utero and that unborn babies would begin to store
sensory information in their implicit memories, receiving both positive and
negative stimuli from the mother (Siegel, 2007; Cyrulnik, 1988). Thus,
attachment is the result of a relational process whereby the children’s
characteristics and behavior influence their parents’ reactions and behavior
and vice versa.
Recently, authors such as Barudy & Dantagnan (2010) and Schore
(2001) continue to support the idea that the quality of attachment is the result
of a psycho-biological predisposition further influenced by genetic encoding
and experienced care. In addition, the authors suggest that these attachment
mechanisms express themselves throughout life. The development of
attachment enables children not only to distinguish their parents and
relatives from strangers but also to have the ability to recall their internal
representations of these significant figures in all circumstances as a source
of security (Barudy & Dantagnan, 2010).
The approach developed by Kerns and Richardson (2005) has analyzed
attachment to mothers during intermediate childhood (from approximately
8 to 12 years of age). These authors claim that in order to define the basis
for the assessment of attachment in childhood, it becomes necessary to
delineate more specifically how attachment is developed during this stage.
The present study suggests that measurement should focus on the assessment
The study of parenting styles has been another major area of analysis
within the parenting scope. This perspective has served to describe
caregivers’ behaviors and attitudes and how they relate to children’s
psychosocial development.
Parenting style is understood as the combination of attitudes, practices,
values and verbal and non-verbal expressions that characterize the nature of
the interactions between parents and children in a variety of daily situations
(Darling & Steinberg, 1993).
Parenting styles depend on variations in the areas of parental dimensions
of sensitivity (warmth, affection and acceptance), parental demand (parental
control) and autonomy granting. These all relate to children’s development
and well-being (Richaud, Lemos, & Vargas, 2013).
Within the study of these parental dimensions, two theoretical
perspectives can be distinguished: (a) categorical approach and (b)
dimensional approach.
Categorical Approach
Influenced by previous studies, particularly those of Lewin (1931) and
Baldwin (1955), Diana Baumrind (1966) laid the foundations for
fundamental changes in both research and practice in the field of child
nurturing. The author, who became a pioneer in this field, proposed a basic
parental typology that could synthetically describe a broad set of parenting
behaviors and goals.
Similar to Lewin, Baumrind recognized the deficits of authoritarian
control. However, the author argued that the democratic style, as
conceptualized in the Lewinian group dynamics organization, closely
resembled permissiveness. Thus, she considered an alternative style that was
able to combine the positive aspects of strong leadership with those of a
democratic atmosphere (Gracia Fuster & Musitu Ochoa, 2000).
At first, the author proposed three primary parenting styles:
authoritarian, permissive and authoritative. The results obtained when
comparing the different parenting styles confirmed the author’s hypothesis;
distinction, the practices are situational in nature, and the styles are not
necessarily related to a particular disciplinary result. These authors state that
parents’ values and the goals towards which they intend to socialize their
children are strong determinants of parental behavior. Although these goals
and values have a direct effect on parental behavior, it is only through this
behavior that these goals and values manage to influence the child’s
development. Parenting styles moderate this relationship in at least two
ways: (a) by transforming the nature of parent-child interactions and (b) by
influencing the child’s personality. Other authors, such as Carlo, Mcginley,
Hayes, Batenhorst and Wilkinson (2007), extend this stance, suggesting that
parenting practices can better predict behavioral outcomes, since the large
dimensions of parenting styles may not adequately capture the complexity
of child development.
However, Darling and Steinberg (1993) argue that parenting styles
should not be taken as a simple distal variable mediated by a more proximal
variable of parenting practices. Thus, parenting styles differ from practices
in that they describe interactions between parents and children by means of
a wide range of situations; in turn, practices are specific to the domain or
dimension (e.g., offering verbal praise in order to strengthen children’s self-
esteem). Both the styles and practices result from objectives and parental
values; however, each parent’s attributes influence the child’s development
through different processes. In short, parenting styles can be considered a
contextual variable that moderates the influence on the child’s outcomes by
means of specific practices.
As previously described, socializing behavior, such as discipline and
support, and other interactive behaviors between parents and children vary
according a specific context or situation, and the choice of such behaviors
depends on the personal variables of both parents and children.
Dimensional Approach
Although the study on the influence that parents exert on child
development emerged primarily from the context of parenting styles and that
much of the literature has emphasized the importance of this classification,
there exists some limitations of this model (Carlo et al., 2007). As an
Both scales have good psychometric properties that can be used with the
Argentine population. These studies will allow us to analyze these parental
qualities and their relation to socio-emotional development from both
perspectives in the Argentine population.
Although less studied, other factors that are considered key elements
within parenting are parents’ beliefs about children’s nurturing.
“The term beliefs has been used in nurturing studies as an analog of
parents’ attitudes, ideas and perceptions” (Solíz-Cámara Reséndiz & Diaz
Romero, 2007, p.177). Experts in this area seem to agree that this concept
refers to what parents think about their children’s education (Pons-Salvador,
Cerezo, & Bernabé, 2005, Solíz-Cámara Reséndiz & Diaz Romero, 2007).
Beliefs refer to knowledge and ideas about how a child should be
educated and how the child’s behavior is properly guided (Izzed in Bouquet
and Pachajoa Londoño, 2009. Such beliefs and behaviors are learned from
parents in the family of origin (Barudy & Dantagnan, 2005). It is important
to note that beliefs about nurturing and parenting practices do not always
coincide, for beliefs are pre-established patterns whereas practices describe
the specific attitudes and behaviors that parents have during their children’s
process of socialization. In a more picturesque way, the beliefs would
represent a guide about what is important to teach to children, and the
In the study of parenting, infancy has been the most analyzed age group,
followed by childhood and adolescence. In this way, this research has
documented an important number of theoretical and empirical works that
highlight the important role of parenting in psychosocial adjustment in
infancy, childhood and adolescence (e.g., Baumrind, 1971, 1972, Richaud
de Minzi, 2005, Richaud by Minzi & Sacchi, 1997)
Particularly, the authoritative parenting style has been positively
correlated with children’s adequate development and well-being in different
psychosocial areas: academic achievements (Burchinal, Peisner-Feinberg,
Pianta, & Howes, 2002), creativity (Lim & Smith, 2008; Krumm, Vargas
Rubilar & Gullón, 2013), self-esteem (Gonzalez Arratia & Gil La Cruz,
2006), coping, social adjustment (Richaud de Minzi, 2005, Richaud de
Minzi & Sacchi, 1997), and low scores in child psychopathology (Richaud
de Minzi, 2005). By contrast, authoritarian and permissive styles have been
associated with low positive development and higher levels of child
psychopathology (Richaud de Minzi, 2005).
In Argentina, studies carried out by Richaud should be highlighted, as
they analyze parenting styles from the cognitive perspective based on the
Schaeffer model (1965). For example, in a study with Argentine children
aged 6, 8 and 12 years (Richaud de Minzi, 1991), it was found that the
greatest source of threat during childhood came from the perception of a lack
of support from parents. Subsequent studies demonstrated that when
children feel accepted by their parents, they are best suited to new situations,
whereas when they perceive inappropriate relationships, they experience
feelings of loneliness and depression (Richaud de Minzi & Sacchi, 1997).
Likewise, the influence of the perception of parenting styles on children’s
coping with stress was analyzed. It was found that the authoritative style
favored a coping strategy based on assessment and focused on the problem,
while the authoritarian style inhibited successful coping. In turn, the
negligent style led to a lack of emotional control (Richaud, 2005). We also
studied how parental styles influenced personality development (Mesurado
& Richaud, 2013 a and b), prosocial behavior (Richaud, Lemos and
Mesurado, 2011), optimal experience (flow) (Mesurado, Richaud, 2012),
self-criticism, vulnerability, anxiety and children’s competence (Mesurado
& Richaud, 2011). In addition, through joint analysis of parenting styles,
parenting practices, parental expectations and parental modeling on
prosociality, it has been found that modeling becomes the most influential
variable (Richaud, 2009, Richaud, Mesurado & Lemos, 2013). Finally, we
have studied how culture modifies parental styles according to each one’s
patterns and beliefs (Richaud, Mesurado & Lemos, 2013, Mesurado,
Richaud, et. al., 2014).
Although the exploration and study of this issue has shown notable
growth, there exists a major limitation for its study in Latin American
countries due to the limited number of constructed and adapted
psychometric instruments that assess perceived parenthood, both from
children’s and parents’ perspectives.
In Argentina, the instrument we have adapted to operationalize
parenting enables the analysis of parenting styles (Richaud de Minzi, 2002,
2005, 2007a; Vargas Rubilar and Richaud de Minzi, unpublished) and
attachment (Richaud de Minzi, 2006). As previously mentioned, instrument
adaptations have been recently carried out in order to assess parental
competencies by means of good psychometric properties. Likewise, a test to
measure parental expectations about children’s prosocial behavior (Vargas
Rubilar & Lemos, unpublished) and another test to analyze the types of
attachment in children from 9 to 12 years of age (Richaud, Lemos & Vargas
Rubilar, Bei & Maier, 2017) are being validated.
Future research lines could focus on analyzing the influence of less-
studied aspects of parenting (i.e., competencies, modeling, beliefs,
expectations, parents’ empathy) on children’s emotional, social and
cognitive development. Another pending task is to analyze which of these
features are better predictors of children’s positive psychological
development. Although it has been noted that the influence of parents
remains throughout the life cycle, another topic rarely analyzed is the
parental role in subsequent stages to childhood and adolescence (mainly
youths and adults).
Finally, it becomes important to emphasize the impact it might have on
the design, implementation and evaluation of parental strengthening
programs, considering they have already revealed encouraging results in
various application contexts as already highlighted in our latest research
(Vargas Rubilar, Lemos & Richaud, 2017, Vargas Rubilar, Oros & Richaud,
unpublished).
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