LEGACY BIBLE INSTITUTE

NAME. RICHARD N. WAMALWA

STUDENT NUMBER.2024567

COURSE FAMILY THEOLOGY

COURSE CODE. LBIFM 605

MODE OF STUDY. DISTANCE LEARNING

PROGRAM. DIPLOMA IN THEOLOGY

TYPE OF WORK.CLASS ASSIGNMENT

LECTURER.PASTOR FRANCIS

DATE.18. JULY 2024

DAY. THUSDAY

FOR OFFICIAL USE ONLY

LECTURER’S REMARKS MARKS AWARD

FAMILY ISSUES ESSAY
Marriage is the coming together of a man and a woman for the purpose of establishing a new
home for the fulfillment of God’s eternal purpose. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother,
and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh. (Genesis. 2:24).
The fall, as narrated in Genesis, marks when sin entered the world through human existence and
relationships. This impact has now taken place in modern families where you find no peace in family
which comes in many circumstances. The fall introduced differences and separation not only physical but
in vision and plans etc, to many families around the world today, this introduced pain and struggle to the
families, as recorded in Genesis 3, profoundly disrupted the original harmony and purpose God intended
for human relationships and family life.

The three specific consequences of the fall and still evident in family today is family dynamics,
relationships, and challenges. These three has brought a lot of confusion, stagnant and growth in many
families, the consequences of the fall in modern families are Lack of trust and intimacy, this has brought
separation and alertness in marriage. Not accepting and understand the purpose of God. Trust and
intimacy issues are common in families, stemming in from the deceit and blame, it has led to insecurity,
communication breakdown and jealous, secrecy, and dishonesty can erode the foundation of trust in
marriages, leading to isolation and emotional withdrawal. Children growing up in such environments may
struggle with trust issues in their own relationships. Spiritual disconnection which shows separation from
God that occurred due to the fall has left many families spiritually disconnected, struggling to nurture a
shared faith and purpose. In many families devil has taken place to fight God’s purpose to show that there
is no peace, unity and love in their homes. Mahoney, Annette. Highlights many families find it
challenging to maintain regular spiritual practices such as prayer, Bible study, and church involvement.
This disconnection can result in a lack of spiritual guidance and unity within the family.

The fall introduced conflict and brokenness into human relationships. Today, this is seen in high
divorce rates, familial disputes, and estrangement between family members. Living in oneness but never
in one vision or plan, finding the way out of the scenario it is hard that’s why we see families scattered no
one to understand the other person, this shows broken relationship and conflict. Family conflicts often
arise from misunderstandings, unmet expectations, and selfishness, leading to emotional and relational
distance. This where now one flesh becomes two, because of not addressing the matter clearly and share
worthy word of God, to stand firm in marriage it begins with God’s word first.
Barriers to fulfilling God's design for family life has been a hindrances in all families around the world,
its happening day and night, the consequences of the fall create barriers to open and honest
communication, leading to misunderstandings and emotional distance. The original design for intimacy
and companionship in marriage (Genesis 2:24) is disrupted by these relational fractures, effective
communication is the only key and option to solve the problems in any situation,

Family Issues" by Deborah Fowler and Rodney Hill explores the challenges and dynamics that
modern families face, drawing on a combination of sociological research, psychological insights, and
biblical principles. The authors address various contemporary issues such as communication
breakdowns, generational conflicts, and the impact of societal changes on family structures. They
emphasize the importance of understanding the historical and cultural shifts that have influenced family
life and provide practical, faith-based strategies for strengthening familial relationships and overcoming
common obstacles. Through a blend of real-life examples and scriptural references, the book aims to
equip families with the tools needed to foster a healthy and harmonious home environment.

Spiritual unity is only key of guiding the families together and oneness in all circumstances, but
spiritual disunity, Spiritual disconnection prevents families from experiencing the fullness of God’s
blessings and guidance. The alienation from God seen in the fall (Genesis 3:8-10) is evident in families
that lack a unified spiritual foundation. It is now a challenge that brings hindrances and stagnation that
leads to separation. Trust issues undermine the sense of security and stability within families, the betrayal
of trust seen in the fall (Genesis 3:12-13) is mirrored in modern relationships, where deceit and infidelity
can devastate familial bond. As people pursuing holiness, living under a covenant of complete
consecration to the will of God and the Lordship of Jesus Christ, everything in life takes on a
purpose. Everything is eternally significant. Absolutely nothing is done without the fulfillment of God’s
purpose and desire being the ultimate objective. We were created for that reason—to fulfill God’s purpose
and thus glorify His name forever. That is our only reason for being here.

Proverbs 11:29 ―He that troubleth his own house shall inherit the wind: and the fool shall be
servant to the wise of heart.‖ the family is one of the greatest institutions that God has ever created. It was
designed to be a systematic social construct that provides love, peace, procreation and healthy interaction.
A healthy family dynamic reflects the nature of God and provides mutual acceptance and the compassion
for the lonely. The Bible states, ―God sets the lonely in families‖ (Psalm 68:6). Our families should be
honored, protected and cherished. There have been conflicts and challenges in the human family since the
days of Adam and Eve. The Old and New Testament Scriptures have shared numerous stories and biblical
accounts of triumph and tragedy within the family. A family that abide together consider and encourage
forgiveness and reconciliation this accepting the facts of each other as taught in (Ephesians 4:32), which
calls for kindness, compassion and forgiveness.

Building trust through honesty and integrity, It requires integrity, transparency, and a willingness
to take responsibility for your actions. Building trust takes time and effort, but it's essential if you want to
lead with authority and inspire others. You need to communicate openly and honestly to build trust with
your partner or family. The word of God is clear to all in (Proverbs 12:22), if applied as a foundation then
the families will have a strong stand of foundation, families can cultivate a culture of honesty by being
transparent and accountable to one another. Regular family meetings and accountability partners within
the family can help maintain this practice. Families can set aside time each day for joint spiritual
activities, attend church services together, and participate in family devotions. Involvement in church
ministries and small groups can also enhance spiritual growth. Strengthen spiritual unity by engaging in
shared spiritual practices such as prayer, Bible study, and worship, as encouraged in (Joshua 24:15).

In other words, the family is supposed to provide the physical, emotional, social, economic, and
spiritual needs of its members so that they can become productive and useful for God and His work in the
earth. Merely paying the bills and surviving is not God’s plan for any family. Spending all of its resources
and strength on itself is not God’s plan for any family. Maintaining a relationship merely for the sake of
having the comfort of a relationship is not God’s plan for any family. Just keeping life going is not God’s
chief plan for any family. Understanding the impact of the Fall on families has significant implications
for my approach to relationships, marriage, and parenting. Recognizing the root causes of relational
conflicts and spiritual disconnection helps me appreciate the importance of forgiveness, trust, and
spiritual unity. This knowledge encourages me to prioritize open communication, cultivate trust, and
engage in regular spiritual practices within my family. By applying these biblical principles, I can work
towards building a family that reflects God’s original design and experiences His transformative power.

BIBLIOGRAPHY
Deborah Fowler & Rodney Hill "Family Issues" Nova Science Publishers
Kelvin Chabogo, Teachers Manual
Mahoney, Annette. "Religion in families, 1999–2009: A relational spirituality framework." Journal of
Marriage and Family).