Midterm2 BECOMING AN INSTRUMENT OF PEACE
Midterm2 BECOMING AN INSTRUMENT OF PEACE
INSTRUMENT OF
PEACE
LEARNING OUTCOMES:
At the end of the lesson, the students
must be able to:
demonstrate awareness in the
practice of discipline (mind, physical,
behavior, speech);
develop strategies in classroom
mediation and
practice mindful living and peace of
mind.
The best and most beautiful things in the
world cannot be seen or even touched. they
must be felt with the heart.
- Helen Keller-
PEACE AS RESOLUTION OF INNER CONFLICT
What is Conflict?
Conflict arises from a difference of
opinion
A clash of wants,
A situation that arises from
disagreements
Between two persons or several
persons
A broken relationship and
A vicious competition against one
another
Why do people get conflict?
It is because of other person/s way of behaviour.
Interest may be concerned with:
Commodities at stake, e.g object, land, money
Opportunities at stake e.g. opportunity for gain,
privileges
Principles and values at stake e.g. religious beliefs,
ideologies, cultural values
Territory at stake, e.g. house, land, physical space,
road status and
Relationship at stake, e.g. trust, promise,
personality clashes
Stinger defines conflict as situation in which two or
more human beings desire goals, to which they
perceive as being obtainable by one or other but not
both.
According to the definition, a conflict is made of three
components:
Situation- where the conflicting parties view each
other as competitive interest or ants
Attitude- e.g. leading to hostility and frustration
Behavior- e.g. threatening, descriptive, egoistic,
opposing, withdrawal acts.
Can conflicts
be
constructive?
Constructive approach to conflict
resolution
Control your negative emotions
Listen actively
Speak efficiently
Deal with the other, as a person with a problem, need and
human reaction.
Face the issue directly and precisely
Separate the problem from the person and adopt a problem-
solving approach
Show understanding and be understood
Be willing to change your position in face of facts and reason
Use a sense of humor
Generate alternatives acceptable to both you and other person
Speak to the point
Use interpersonal skills
Conflicts at Home
Jealousies among brothers
and sisters by,
Comparing with each other
on what they get from
parents
Problems of equal
treatment, privileges and
personal rights
Problems arising from
carrying out their
responsibilities
Inabillity to deal with