Texting Tactics

How to Amplify Sexual

Attraction through Text
Messaging

By Steve Scott
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Table of Contents

Disclaimer .................................................................. 4
Introduction ................................................................ 5
5 Rules For Texting Women .......................................... 8
Text OR Call Her? ...................................................... 14
What Should I Text .................................................... 16
12 Sample Texts You Can Send ................................... 18
Calibrating Your Texts ................................................ 21
Improving Your Text Game ......................................... 23
Mass Texting............................................................. 25
Conclusion ................................................................ 27

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Introduction
For most younger people, texting has become as
mainstream a communication tool as email or phone calls.
Even better, its something we can do on the spur of the
moment and when other forms of communication is not
possible.

Texting is therefore a quick

and effective way of letting
women know youre thinking
about them, keeping them
interested, and judging the
best moment for that all-
important 1st date (or second
meeting).

Not all text messages are the same, however, and you
should never view texting women as being the same as
texting your guy friends. Texting women is all about
building sexual tension, so your focus should be
specifically on flirting and building attraction, not merely
communicating information.

To be successful with women, you have to communicate on

their level, and in order to do that, you need to
understand what women seek. We all want to feel,
and this is particularly the case with women.

It is one of their major motivations. If a woman doesnt

feel an attraction to you, this will shut down interaction
and you wont progress any further.

So its mandatory that you create an emotional

connection with women if want to keep them
interested

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Attraction can be a somewhat ...create an emotional

uncomfortable feeling produced connection with women
by a biological response to if you want to keep
stimuli. It builds tension, such them interested.
as what you might feel before
riding a scary roller coaster.

Women are looking for guys who can provide this up and
down roller coaster in their lives. They thrive off emotional
interactions that keep them on their toes.

Attraction is absolutely vital if someone is to fall in love

with you, and the best way of building attraction is through
having them undergo an experience with you. However,
simply imagining or remembering an emotional
experience can be just as effective as actually doing it, as
both experiences are triggered by the same emotion.

This is why women love reality TV: By witnessing

someone elses life, they are able to experience the
emotional upheaval. With effective texting, you create
these same feelings.

Women LOVE text messaging, and youre going to have to

keep up with this. With practice, mastering texting can
make it easier for you to get the girl.

The key is to use it as a way of maintaining sexual

chemistry, so youll always want to send something thatll
deepen the rapport and maintain attraction.

In this day and age, texting can actually work better than a
phone call. With calling, theres a chance she wont pick
up the phone, while texts are generally always read.

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Texts can be sent both to women interested and

currently uninterested in you, showing off your fun side
and building chemistry.

I recommend that you text every girl about at least three

to four times a week.

These are quick and effective opportunities to sell yourself,

letting her know whats going on in your life and reminding
her of the attractive traits that you had when you first met.

This is a time to talk about you, offering information while

NOT asking her for anything in return

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5 Rules for Texting Women

While texting can be a powerful tool, there are right and

wrong ways for doing it.

When texting, always keep these points in mind:

Rule #1 Dont Avoid Conversations

In this digital age, people tend to hide behind texting and

emails when they are fearful of engaging in verbal
conversation. If this is your motivation, its merely putting
off the poor in-person conversation you will eventually
have.

Dont think of texting as the safe area for talking to

women.

Always consider the purpose of your text.

Are trying to set up a date, or are you working on sexual

tension?

If youre trying to set up a date, texting will lower the

chances of this happening. Leave the date planning for a
phone call.

In general, if youre trying to set up a date, you should

only text if:

She texts you first. (And makes mention of wanting to

hang out)

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You call and shes not answering the phone. (Instead of

leaving a message, send her a text)

Your purpose is getting her on the phone. (Playfully

banter and accuse her of being afraid to talk on the
phone)

Rule #2 Use Call-Back Humor

The phone numbers you collect will likely run the spectrum.
It will be obvious that some women are really into you,
while others might not even remember who you are when
you call.

Thats why its extremely important to stand apart

from other guys in everything you do.

You need to form a special bond with each woman you

meet, which is why I like to use whats known as call-
back humor.

First, you need to create a funny, memorable routine when

you first meet the woman in question. This might be a
nickname or a funny role-playing routine you created.

This becomes an anchor, and, following the basics of

neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), references to this
anchor reminds her of all the good feelings she had
when you first met.

Thus, first she has a positive experience with you, and

then she can relive that experience through the use of
call-back humor.

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As an example, a couple weeks ago I met a girl who was

originally from Eastern Europe.

She had a funny, distinctive accent and said very nice a

few times, so naturally I nicknamed her Borat, a character
from an American comedy film a few years back of whom
she reminded me.

She said she was familiar with the movie and found my
nickname amusing, so I proceeded to ask if she wore suits
like the Borat character or if she was the #4 prostitute in
all of Kazakhstan, which references a well-known line in
the movie.

The bottom line is we spent a lot of time engaged in good-

natured teasing, and it made her laugh.

This is important because when I subsequently called and

texted her, I referenced the Borat nickname. That would
immediately remind her of how much fun we had on that
first day.

When we connected on the phone, we were able to easily

continue that fun, teasing conversation. We didnt
experience awkwardness because we already had a
connection and could easily relate.

Call-back humor can be incredibly effective in recreating

experiences and encouraging a womans attraction to you,
but it does require some work on your part.

YOU have to create a funny and unique connection

during your first meeting. Nicknames are a very effective
way of creating an easy-to-reference reminder of that
connection. Then, work that reference into your verbal
and texting conversations.

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Rule #3 Bring Value

Your texts should always provide value to women.

It might make her laugh or reveal something more about

you, but there should always be something offered in a
text message. This is where you
show her what a great guy you are,
not make demands on her.

Always remember you are

providing her with information, not
prying into her life. Avoid open-
ended questions, as they only
make you look needy.

You want to create emotion and show her your playful

personality. Getting her to laugh will build the rapport
between you. Again, you might do this through the use of
call-back humor or a nickname that brings back memories
of a previous positive encounter.

Rule #4 Dont Send Too Many Texts

Nobody likes a nag. While texting frequently (three to four

times a week) encourages attraction, constant texting can
leave her feeling you might be overly needy or even
obsessive.

While women like to know that they are in your thoughts,

they dont want to think youre constantly thinking about
them. Even if she is the only person you are dating, limit
your number of texts.

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Texting is not the same as verbal conversation. Subjects

that require long, drawn out discussions should be done
face-to-face or over the phone.

Text messages are quick reminders to her about what a

great guy you are and the fun you had on your last
encounter. Each texting session should only include one or
two messages, depending upon her response.

If she doesnt respond to a text, try again the next day or

even the day after next. Dont keep texting her on the
same day: Clearly she has a reason for not responding.

Again, one of the things youre trying to communicate

is what a great catch you are, and great catches do not
demand responses or nag.

Rule #5 Create Familiarity

Remember that the purpose of texting is to help create and

encourage familiarity, attraction, and sexual tension
between the two of you.

I try to send my first text soon after getting her number.

That way shes already thinking about me again before the
memories have had time to fade.

You can even send her a text while youre still talking to
her. Be funny, referencing the call-back humor or even
the current situation.

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For example, you might get a girls number and AS youre

talking to her, send something like: Who is the AWESOME
guy youre talking to?

This has the additional advantage of getting your contact

information into her phone, making it easier for her to
reach back to you. You can also gauge her initial interest
by seeing if she saves the contact information.

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Text OR Call Her?

Texting is definitely not always the best mode of
communication. Phone calls are more personal: she can
hear your voice, inflections and laugh, which says a lot
about a person.

You can also better control the conversation and her mood
over the phone.

On the downside, theres less than a 50% chance shell

answer your call, although this can depend on how strong
the initial rapport was.

It may be difficult to even get her to return calls at her

convenience: sometimes women feel its too forward to call
you, even in returning a call, and sometimes they simply
get cold feet as the pleasant memories start to fade.

With texting, youll get something like a 75%

response rate or even higher. Its quick and easy for
her to respond, and youll have the opportunity to
immediately remind her of the great time she experienced
with you the first time you met.

This is precisely why I like to send a text within a few

hours of receiving a phone number. It keeps up the
sexual tension and establishes or strengthens the rapport
between you.

The exact timing has to be determined by you. It might be

only a few minutes after receiving the number, or it might
be a whole day, but do text her SOON to keep the
attraction fresh and exciting.

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None of this, however, is a reason to avoid phone

conversations. Texting is a great start, but after
exchanging a couple messages, you should definitely be
calling her, usually within two days of the original meeting.

Remember to think of your texting as a means of

prompting a phone conversation.

Texting is also great if you cant connect by phone. If

youre playing phone tag, texting can fill in the gaps and
keep the interest strong until you can finally connect
verbally.

Texts can also act as a reminder to women that youre

hoping for a return call, even if you dont explicitly state it
in the text message.

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What Should I Text?

Tone is incredibly important when texting. When texting a
woman, DO:

Keep messages short. (Save longer conversations for

the phone)

Be flirty. (That is the purpose, after all)

Keep things fun and playful.

Keep things emotional rather than logical.

Make her feel like shes missing out by not being with
you

Spice it up with wit or other charged words.

Give teasers so that shell get curious and write back

Keep up the sexual tension.

Develop your own unique style.

Use what you know about her to tease. (That makes
the interaction uniquely personal and shows you can
remember things about her)

Mix call-back humor with tension.

Create new experiences as well as refer to old ones.

On the other hand, DONT:

Answer their deep questions. (Thats for phone

conversations)

Send the same text messages to every woman

(Different goals need different approaches. For

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example, a potential long-term relationship should

certainly not be treated like booty call and vice-versa)

Avoid serious, soul-revealing topics. (It breaks the

mood and is more effective on the phone or face-to-
face)

Above all, assume familiarity.

Speak with her as if you already know her. If you do not

sound confident and comfortable, it will be much more
difficult for her to feel comfortable with you.

Also, talk to her as if shes in the room with you. Dont

stress the current distance between you.

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12 Sample Texts You Can Send

I use a TON of call-back humor in my texts. It keeps her
laughing as well as reminding her of the experiences we
have shared.

My texts often revolve around

a nickname I have created for
her which also acts as a way to
playfully tease her. In other
words, Im concerned with
maintaining sexual tension.

That said, here are a few texts

that Ive used in different
situations. (Again, most of your
text messages will be content-
specific, so these should be used
as general examples, not lines to
blindly copy.)

While these are ones that I have used, what you text will
depend on your in-person conversations.

Right After Meeting a Girl

These are a few messages Ive sent a few hours after

meeting a girl. Usually Ill reference our conversation
somewhere in the text:

I know youre thinking about me. So I thought I would

say hi!

My ears are tinglingstop talking about me!

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Wowthats weird. I think I just saw your twin. Are

you stalking me?

Lifestyle Updates

I like to send texts once every couple of days. This helps

keep me in the forefront of a womans mind.

Commenting about something currently happening gives

me an excuse to send a text and also keeps her involved in
my life. Then, when I call, shell immediately recognize my
number and be more likely to answer:

Dudemy cat just did the craziest thing

I just saw an army of Oompa Loompas. I think short

people are out breeding.

85 degrees out. Time to grab a towel and head to the

beach. Too bad you have to work!!!

Sexual Tension

I like sending these messages after Ive spoken to a

woman on the phone. These are generally used when Im
confident that she has interest but we have not yet had a
second meeting.

The goal here is to send messages that will build her

anticipation for seeing me again.

I also like to send messages that are purposefully

confusing. Some will make her think I want her in a sexual

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way. Others will focus on sending mixed signals where

shes not sure of my intention.

Miss me yet?

Tomorrow should be awesome. Just try not to

embarrass me in front of my friends.

Looking forward to seeing you. Youre like the bratty

little sister Ive always wanted.

After the 1st Date (or Second Meetup)

After meeting up for the first time, you want to keep up

the sexual tension. This is important even if youve slept
with her.

Here, Ill still do some teasing, but Ill also send nice
texts thatll deepen our connection

Had an AWESOME time. Hugs and kisses!

Fun times! I guess I can show you off to all my

friends!

Had a great time! Even if youre a little dorky

Note that none of these examples include open-ended

questions. Keep control of the conversation topic by using
fun statements flavored with directed questions needing
only a short answer, generally a yes or no.

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Calibrating Your Texts

Becoming an expert texter wont happen overnight, but
you will find that your text game evolves and improves as
you meet more women, try different approaches, and
sharpen the methods you find particularly effective.

The cardinal rule is never be boring!

No emotion or feeling comes from

being boring, and women are looking Cardinal Rule:
to experience emotion and feel Never Be Boring!
experiences.

Keep things light and fun, switch thing up, and dont ever
let things get overly serious.

Always think about creating some kind of feeling in the

text messages you write, whether that feeling is
amusement, desire, tension, thrilling, etc.

Like other aspects of your game, its important to evaluate

the reactions youre getting from different women. This is
what we call calibration: You measure her reactions and
tune your future texts accordingly.

For example, some women respond really well to sexual

comments, while others will be totally turned off. You
need to quickly determine where each woman falls in that
spectrum and write your texts accordingly.

This process is one of the reasons why humor is so

incredibly important.

Serious issues are taken seriously, but a failed comment

said in jest can be more easily brushed aside and help you

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better understand what shes looking for when you meet

again face-to-face.

There are plenty of styles to try and explore. Im a

big fan of teasing and cocky humor, but I regularly mix it
up with other approaches such as sexual innuendos; the
nice, sweet guy; being vague and mysterious; short and to
the point; and longer descriptive texts.

Be sure to try out several styles in your first few texts to

get a better feel for her going forward.

Bottom Line

The key to calibration is to mix up your texting styles

and approaches.

In addition, try a variety of responses to her texts:

sometimes you can respond immediately, but also try
delaying your reply at times.

Sometimes you can directly respond to her questions, but

other times you can try being more elusive, perhaps joking
and teasing about the question rather than directly
answering.

Short, punchy messages can be mixed up with longer,

more detailed messages.

Then you just need to be attentive to her responses. If

she is sending text after text or long narratives, then you
know whatever approach youre currently using is working.

If her responses are more lackluster, its probably time to

mix up your approach and try something new.

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Improving Your Text Game

As you develop your texting skills, you may be surprised
by the results. Personally, Ive had sex with women who
Ive only communicated with through texting.

On the other hand, Ive also

misjudged certain women
through texting, and the
resulting calibrations
completely blew my chances
with them.

It just goes to show that

you should always be
aiming to improve your
texting game, making use
of the styles you find
effective and discarding
those that you dont.

One of my tools for

pinpointing effective approaches is the use of a personal
swipe file of proven messages.

This is a list of specific text messages that have received

a notably positive response in the past, which I then may
use again in the future. My swipe file is broken down into
categories representing different goals.

For example, some lines are specifically for creating

sexual tension, establishing rapport, or creating attraction,
and each should have its own category.

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Likewise, I have messages that work great for women I

have just met but which wouldnt be appropriate for
someone Ive been speaking with for a few days.

Over time, youll find that successful text conversations

follow certain distinct patterns, so its important to be
aware of how dynamics may be changing between you and
her.

As you do so, youll also learn whens the best time to

move forward with a woman or, alternatively, when you
should slow things down to keep a woman interested and
comfortable.

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Mass Texting
Mass texting is an advanced tactic you can use when you
have enough women potentially in play that texting them
all individually might not be a productive use of your time.

This can be particularly useful in judging the quality of

recently acquired numbers as well as catching up with
women with whom youve lost touch.

The key to mass texts is to keep it short and to the point.

Personally, I like to use a random, funny little thing thats
happened to me during the day.

Avoid asking questions or appearing to seek approval from

them. Youre simply sending out a reminder that you exist,
youre fun to be around, and youre still interested in them.

Those who reply quickly separate themselves from the rest

of the pack. Clearly they still reciprocate the attraction
and should then be the ones on which you focus your
attention.

Ive also found that mass texting works best when you
write something that seems relatively personal.

Again, triggering the emotional side of her mind is an

important component in keeping womens attention.
However, emotional doesnt necessarily mean romantic
or soul revealing. It just needs to trigger her emotional
side.

As an example, I recently sent a text message that said,

This character on True Blood totally reminds me of you.

I dont know why, but women love this show. They

have an emotional connection with it. In that one
sentence text, I have communicated that I also have an
interest in this show, Im thinking specifically of her, and
Im connecting her with a sensual character.

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From this ONE text, I received 8 replies all from women

that I lost touch with. Consequently, I was able to create
sexual attraction AND set up a few dates during the week.

Its kind of sneaky technique, but it also shows youre

thinking of a girl without seeming needy or desperate.

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Conclusion
In todays digital age, texting has become a critical part of
being successful with women.

We all live busy lives and often dont have time for lengthy
phone conversations, yet life is so quick-paced that a
woman is likely to move on to greener pastures if she isnt
regularly receiving reinforcement of her attraction.

Texting shows spontaneity, while at the same time it

avoids the threat of obsession.

Communication on an emotional level is absolutely

paramount when connecting with women. Without an
emotional connection, there will be no sexual
tension, no attraction, and no interest.

Women love feeling emotions, so always structure your

messages in a way that encourages her to feel something
from you or remind her of a previous experience.

All of the techniques here lead back to creating that

emotional bond. If you can master that, youll find texting
to be an incredibly successful part of your interactions with
women.

Youll know that a woman is sexually attracted to you

before you even meet her for a second time.

Now before I leave you, I want to briefly talk about ONE

more thing

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IntroducingFlirt Mastery
There is a lot more to learn about flirting with women
besides text messaging. In the full version of the Flirt
Mastery system, I cover
pages of quality information
about creating sexual tension
and attracting women.

Ive specially designed this

course to take you through
every type of conversation
obstacle that youll face with
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thats always important for
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To give you an idea of whats included, here is brief list

of what I cover:

19 qualities that women find most attractive in a

guy. (Do 3-5 of these and youll stand out from other
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10 things you should never, ever do in a

conversation if youre attracted to a certain woman.
Pages 115-123

Plus...

9 mandatory rules that guarantee instant Flirting

Success Pages 124-131

13 crucial elements for creating that perfect tale

thatll captivate her imagination (and her heart!) Pages
169-178

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Plus...

The 4 Cs for telling a story thatll make her hang on

your every word. Pages 179-181

The secret behind building an Instant

Connection with every woman you meet. (Get
this right and shell feel like shes known you forever)
Pages 261-264

3 silent signals from her eyes that show when shes

interested in what youre saying. Pages 94-95

7 behaviors a woman will show when shes trying

to decide about what type of man you are. (Fail
to recognize these tests and youll automatically end up
in the The Friends Zone) Pages 200-201

Break ANY of these five rules for touching women

and youll be sleeping alone tonight. Pages 97-98

11 flirty games you can play thatll get her laughing,

having fun and feeling very excited in your presence.
Pages 232- 239

The #1 skill I use to make women feel like Im

practically reading their minds. Plus, 11 shocking
statements to say thatll leave them wondering if you
have ESP. Pages 227-230

9 signals that show shes absolutely, positively

ready for a sexual encounter. Pages 250-255

Try these 3 ADVANCED techniques thatll have her

practically begging to go home with you. Pages 216-220

Well thats it for this book! If youre serious about

improving your conversation skills and developing the flirty,
sexually attractive side of your personality, then I
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Now, you CAN learn this stuff all by yourself the way Steve Scott
did and the way I did... by suffering through thousands upon
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to have some success.

(And if that's the route you choose, then good luck to you, because
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Thanks again for checking out this book and I hope

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See you soon

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