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Get Laid or Get Lost Mindset

 Thursday, 08 December 2011  Chris  Fundamentals
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Get Laid or Get Lost.

If you're trying to meet girls and get laid - I have a mantra that I suggest
that you follow, "Get Laid or Get Lost."

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It will also screen out or get you "rejected" by nonsexual, boring or

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 Matt PERMALINK

Will you re post the audios? What happened to them

about 5 months ago 0 Share Reply

Ken PERMALINK

Hey Chris what happened to the video? could you please

repost.. I remembered watching it and it was great stuff.

about 1 year ago 0 Share Reply

Paul PERMALINK

The HIGH RISK, HIGH REWARD approach is what gets pussy.

I have always done low risk of rejection, low reward bullshit
for way too long and have always felt that It was not quite
right and just letting myself down. Once I turned up the heat
and left my ego at the door things really started to turn
around. My interactions became more fun and at times very
unpredictable. I soon worked out that many girls actually
want guys like this and its so refreshing to meet a man like
this for them. Some cant handle it and thats fine since
previously I would find myself chating all fucking night to a
girl like this and it was never going anywhere from the start.
No matter what your past is or how good looking you are, if
you are not adopting this get laid or get lost attitude and
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 you are not adopting this get laid or get lost attitude and
letting the girl know you are a sexy guy who wants to get
physical as quickly as possible then you will never get laid
often and when you do it will come at a price where the girl
will categorize you as a boyfriend and try to get you to invest
emotionally. Better get told to fuck off and move on than stay
and waste precious energy and time. This is a no brainer and
im getting more and more confident and comfortable doing
this now. This is what all guys do who get laid often. You have
to! - Your articles are awesome Chris, thanks a lot!

about 2 years ago 0 Share Reply

Matej PERMALINK

awesome stuff!

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Matheus PERMALINK

Greeat post! Thanks for sharing this! Let me see if I got it:
The mentality that you suggest is: get laid or get lost.
You stop playing for NOT TO LOOSE and play tottally confident
of what you want and deserve: get laid. right! You grab your
balls and say: I want to have sex with you, this shit chating is
just the means for something much more valuable. whicih is
sex and makeouts. Right! I used to identify myself with the
guy that plays to not loose. Now I am in the process of being
the guy that know that the goal of a night club interaction is
t "fi d th th i l h th lit fh
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 to "find wether the girl has the personality, sense of humor
and sexual freedom that I am looking for. I like this mentality,
it seems to make me get laid much more.
Thanks!

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James PERMALINK

I think strength is a more accurate word for the required

characteristic that draws women. Example: most or all jerks
have an element of strength / rebellion which attract women.
But good men who demonstrate strength, and stand for
something / stand up for themselves also pull women.

Bottom line, don't be a supplicating wimp!

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Matthew PERMALINK

Hey it's Matt, if it's one thing I have learned from being on
this website for the past couple of days it is the simple
formula he tells you SCREEN + BE AGGRESSIVE! I cant urge
that enough, when you first talk to a girl sure you wanna talk
to her, be funny, and get her NUMBER, but BEYOND that the
most important thing IMO is that you SCREEN HER to see if
she is SEXUAL because if you don't and you do everything
EXCEPT screen her, you are setting yourself for failure, and
she will think of you as a friend, or make you play her game

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 and work for it, instead test her to see if she is sexual and like
the shit you are telling her, let her know shes cute, if all goes
smooth, u have a chick that wants to fuck. She knows why
you hit on her, why do you wanna HIDE it? You also get right
up front if she has a boyfriend or if she is not interested, if
she is not interested SO FUCKIN WHAT! Excuse my language
but there are PLENTY of bitches out there that wannna get
fucked, and a few rejections here and there is apart of the
GAME! Hope this helped!

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Good Looking Loser PERMALINK

Thanx Danny

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daniel PERMALINK

dude ur fucking awesome..my idol....thank you soooo

muchhhh

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Good Looking Loser PERMALINK

THere's tens of millions of girls so it's unlikely that a guy will

get No girls if they can't get women with my approach they
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 get No girls. if they can t get women with my approach, they
can't get women with any other approach... simply because--
the approach style doesn't matter.

check this out-

http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/07/05/getting-girls-
is-a-numbers-game/

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Suz PERMALINK

hey chris, thx for this stuff man, I have a question since I am
new to this stuff, how do you know someone won't have no
girls passing the screen test? surely not everyone are as tall
and as muscular as you?

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Suz PERMALINK

Good to see what you are posting Chris, they sound amazing
but I am new to all these shit, I don't know how many girls
left would be 'screened through', is it possible if someone can
hardly get any girls pass the test, surely not everyone has the
kind of height and muscles you have from your video?

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Good Looking Loser PERMALINK

Thanks mangg!

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great shit right here. get juiced, get hung, get laid.

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Thanks men, your advice did great things on me.

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