Love
Love
WHAT IS LOVE
• Love is a set of emotions and behaviors characterized by
intimacy, passion, and commitment. It involves care,
closeness, protectiveness, attraction, affection, and trust.
Love can vary in intensity and can change over time.
• It is associated with a range of positive emotions,
including happiness, excitement, life satisfaction, and
euphoria, but it can also result in negative emotions such
as jealousy and stress
• When it comes to love, some people would say it is one of
the most important human emotions. Yet despite being
one of the most studied behaviors, it is still the least
understood. For example, researchers debate whether
love is a biological or cultural phenomenon
• Love is most likely influenced by both biology and culture.
Although hormones and biology are important, the way
we express and experience love is also influenced by our
personal conceptions of love.
Zick Rubin's Scales of Liking and Loving
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Conclusion
• In conclusion, love and positive relationships have been a central topic of
study in positive psychology, and the research has consistently shown the
many benefits of these relationships for individuals' well-being, resilience,
physical health, sense of purpose, and cognitive functioning. Positive
relationships can provide individuals with a sense of belonging, support, and
social connection, which are fundamental human needs.
• By fostering positive relationships, individuals can experience greater
happiness, life satisfaction, and overall well-being. The findings of positive
psychology research on love and positive relationships have important
implications for individuals, families, communities, and society as a whole,
highlighting the importance of nurturing positive relationships for our
collective flourishing.